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Itohan22:
And what's wrong with following Hilda as a show of support?

Buhari will explain better, i rest my case.

Itohan22:
Guys, could you believe, I couldn't get this perfume in US, I just posted on my story and my followers shared some handles and out of 4 I asked, only this Business had it. It was delivered same day and I authenticated it with the barcode on it and it is confirmed genuine. I followed them already o, as sharp edo babe, I no wan dey find some kind special perfumes to gift again. smiley

For the sake of others like me, link to their page: https://www.instagram.com/scents_orbit/ Check out the sexy perf I got (pictured)

I can see that Hilda is your roll model; lazy Nigerian youth

pocohantas:
Women and men are going through shege in Nigerian marriages, but the difference is, men are brazen about the shege they dish out. Women are hardly ever that brazen because they know the odds are not in their favour. I can't say the same for the sons of Nebuchadnezzar.

When a man sees shege, he is encouraged to get a divorce or side-chick for balance and he would most likely do that. With or without shege.

When a woman sees shege, she is encouraged to wear red pant and pray. This has never been a proven way to let out steam, so they become toxic and depressed with receding hairlines. Waiting for their kids to grow, then they go there to disturb the future daughter inlaw and the son who has failed to ask his mother why she is running from her own husband, would indulge her. Or maybe he knows why she is running. After all he saw it happen.

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I am not moved by all the divorce topics in the UK or wherever. The problem is not the UK. The problem is the foundation of Nigerian marriages. We are a dangerous people. Home and abroad we are the same. Any country we enter en masse must start looking for how to close her borders. That is how dangerous we are. But we would hardly ever reflect and change. Instead we blame feminism, blame NATO, blame a Youtuber and blame Tinubu. Very anyhow people...

So in other word, you mean men are the problem in marriage?

Keyamo is a vagabond

If Nigerian leaders did the right thing 60yrs ago, by now; Every country in Africa would have submitted to Nigeria, including SouthAftica, just the way United States controls some part of the world.

Because we have the resources and man power for that; rather we are more concerned about our tribesman being in control.

faceLAGOS:
Sir,

only foolish men gets married to this current crop of Nigerian girls.

These girls are nothing to write home about.

Good morning.

No man will intentionally marry a wayward girl, besides you that is complaining, do you know what your wife did, or the type of life she led before you met her?

Moh247:




Those girls are very stupid

They can never reach Abike's career level in Journalism and Politics

I was disgusted by the silly accusations of Abike on their AsleepTV


*Both Abike's Parents are Ikorodu chief and Lagos ruling class

*Abike has Msc in Journalism

*Abike became a female Federal Lawmaker

*Abike had 15 years career at NTA Sunday night newsline exposing many evil done to girls and women

*Abike was the author and the sponsor of Freedom of information Act... This same law now use by this silly journalist for investigation

*Abike Sponsored the bill for the creation of Nigerian Diaspora Commision that takes care of all Diasporas when they have issues abroad

*She became chairman Nigerian Diaspora Commision and had saved many trafficked people from Libya, Saudi, Asian countries




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So where is the lie you told about Abike?

faceLAGOS:
Probably laughing at their foolishness & what is in store for them.

What foolishness are you talking about?

I can't believe this is coming from an adult like yourself.

dustmalik:
To be honest with you, when I see men getting married these days, I just laugh. Go to any White-collar environment and see what married women are doing.

You are laughing for what reason, so they shouldn't get married again?

CuriousMind2022:
It's a known fact that most Nigerian girls marry who they consider ready for marriage and not necessarily who they love. I am exactly in that dilemma and the question I am asking myself is whether I should continue in this loveless marriage or slowly drift and walk away.

My marriage is barely 2 years and a few months, but it has been a rough journey for me. Things I never envisaged I would experience in my marriage, I have suffered, from utmost disrespect to verbal abuse.

I came to the conclusion that she doesn't love or care about me based on what happened yesterday. I was recently transferred from my base to a new location and because of that, I would only be able to visit weekends or twice a month. Prior to that, we barely had sex once a week.

We had already had sex the normal once we usually had it (Saturday morning), but I wanted more because I will only be coming back after two weeks. I initiated a move on Sunday morning, she declined because she was thinking of preparing food for our baby before we leave for church. We went to church and came back, and as usual, my wife was in her undies (just panties and bra) in the sitting room (This was what she wore throughout that Sunday).

I watched her walk around the house in that and that even turned me on the more. I am a practicing Christian, and I try not to look after other women lustfully, but common this is my wife, even God sanctions that. After being turned on throughout the day, I went to my wife in the night, (note she slept in the sitting room with our baby leaving me alone in the room) to enjoy my conjugal rights with her, but she gave me excuses that she is upset and not in the mood.

I left and went back, seriously konjified, I managed to sleep. The next morning, I woke up with my urges and went to the sitting room to have my morning devotion, but I could barely concentrate because I was still very Hot. I explained to her that so really wants me to go to my new station like this knowing fully well I will not be coming back until 2 weeks time. This woman did not care!

I took my bath, prepared myself, and set out for my office. I was not happy with her but I kept my cool and left for work. She had demanded that I dropped some money for her before leaving and despite the fact that I was not happy with her, I dropped the money in a conspicuous place where I know she will see it before leaving. This was my own way of saying I am not happy with what you did, but I still cared.

I try to do things I usually do for my wife even when I am angry with her. This is my own way of saying I may be angry with you, but I still cared about you and I am open to a resolution. On the other hand, my wife doesn't care what happens to me when she is upset. She immediately stops cooking for me ad any other thing she does for me when she is upset. It is obvious to me now that to my wife I don't really matter in the grand scheme of things. She is only caring and concerned, when she is not angry (when we are good and we don't have any issues). I believe that when you love somebody, you treat them right and show genuine love and care for them even when you're upset with them. This is what I have constantly shown to my wife in our 2+ years of marriage.

Back to my story of what happened weekend/Monday. My wife never bothered to call me to check if I arrived safely since I left the house yesterday. I even called her once (primarily to check on my daughter), but she didn't pick up and she didn't call back, and up till now, we have not spoken.

She obviously does not care whether I arrived safely in my station or not. In this country of insecurities, a family member of yours will travel and you do not care whether he/she arrived safely, that is the height for me, and in the actual sense, I should be the one upset here because she left me high and dry, despite knowing fully well I am very Hot.

I am a family-oriented person, I have always dreamt of having a peaceful, loving, and Godly home but unfortunately, the reverse is the case for my wife. I began to understand why family background is very important in a person's life, after getting married. My wife is from a family where they place little or no value on marriage. Her mother had children with 2 men, and my wife is obviously working very hard to follow that same path. She shows little or no enthusiasm in making our marriage work. I am always the one to initiate moves to resolve issues when we quarrel, whether I am right or wrong, I do not care, my focus is just on making my marriage work and my home peaceful.

This last episode shook me very hard, and I have been asking myself whether I want to continue in this loveless marriage or opt out. Working and living in a different city will even make it easier for me.

I needed to let my thoughts out and thanks to Nairaland, I have done so.

Guy you dey try, you saw that her family tree has k-leg and you still put head...

Let me tell you this; There was a girl i was supposed to get married to, when i saw that the mother controls the father like remote control, i ran for my dear life.

I don't understand what he is saying, couldn't they have communicated in English?

GorgeousAF:
And he's not even fine

Probably he gat money

LeoDeKing:
I agree with Asari Dokubo 100%

Have you been to Onitsha before?

Some people past life 🤣🤣🤣

HacheNoire:
What monopoly business! Y’all keep shouting monopoly like Dangote handcuffed other competitors. Rise to the stage of you can compete and stop screaming “MONOPOLY”

Even several companies were issues license to build refineries, only Dangote did, and you still will accuse him of monopoly.

The very few still investing massively in the country, while others are stashing cash in safe havens.

If you understand Nigeria deeply, you won't be saying this.

Even if they issue you the licence, the government will still frustrate you.

Why do you think DSTV is the only existing paid cable network in Nigeria.

I have so many things to reveal to you, but i don't know where to start from.

Basic123:
Where did he get the money to start importing?


Where has he ever worked before in his life?

Lol, did you ask where he got the money to start importing? 🤣🤣🤣

Peter Obi has been a fucking humble and silent billionaire before you were born.

As of late 80s he has started importing, besides he came from a rich home.

He used to be the number 1 importer of wine in Nigeria, before Bishop Emma Okonkwo took over.

Since he became a politician, nobody has ever sponsor his political career, he has no godfather and not answerable to anyone.

Or11:
There's something called a warning which is what you could have told her. Try this stunt in a developed world and watch her sue you.

A big fat lie brooooooo!!!

How can you be useless, and sue the company for not accepting your uselessness?

EmekaStanley:
I hired a lady last week Monday and fired her on Friday same week. I concluded she was not ready yet.

This lady came almost 2 hours late for interview without communicating her reason. If she was going to be late, she should inform the interviewer. Red flag.

I ignored that and decided to proceed with the interview. I decided not to conclude on her based on the interview outcome. I love giving people chances.

I offered her the job, she was excited. She was sent an offer letter which she accepted. On resumption date, this lady came late for work. First day at work. I was like 'Is this 24 year old lady innocently naïve or what?".

On Friday last week, this lady came to work by 10.55am. He work time is 8.00am, and she is an office admin. I was on my seat and sighted her walking in, I had to call her and told her to go back home, and that was it.

By the way, she lives like 15 minutes away from the office, and her route is always against traffic.

I wouldn't know when she resumed from Tuesday to Thursday because I came quite late on those days due to field engagements. When I resumed, I met her sleeping twice. After that, she abandoned her work and stepped out to answer a phone call for almost 1 hour.

My experience with this lady made me understand that a lot of people looking for work are not ready for/to work.

ES

🤣🤣🤣 This one no follow at all, e reach to sack am.

Modifire:
Fact
If you don't visit Nairaland daily then you're not exposed

Matured and advanced people don't have time for Nairaland.

Most people believes nairaland peddles fake and old news.

I think what has kept nairaland going is the sexual content and tribal bigotry amongst ourselves.

Agbadocassava:
Time to be a lawyer, Atiku has money to hire even 500 SANs only OBI I pity.

So to you Peter Obi is a poor man?

Before he became governor, he used to be one of the biggest importer in Nigeria.

Major shareholder in 2 banks.

nairalander2020:
She is now a verified millionaire so she deserve it.

What do you mean she is now a millionaire?

She drives a Mercedes Benz G-wagon before the show, besides nobody paid her for the world record.

uvie66:
All these advantages is still undermined with the fact that it is the no 1 car attractive to thieves, because it can easily disposable.

U made reference to what baffles you to the upsurge of Toyota Corolla, and i listed them to you.

LeoDeKing:
That's why the case is in court.

But hope the judges won't suddenly become illiterates again when their interpretations don't suit your understanding.

We've had professors of law admitting to it.

Even Mike Ozekhome and Femi Falana, whom are amongst the top lawyers in Nigeria have admitted to it, so what are you saying?

You neither read law, nor journalism to argue blindly.

I rest my case.

LeoDeKing:
The same constitution says FCT should be treated as a state for the purpose of election.

Failure to understand this provision is the real meaning of illiteracy.

I don't know how far you've read, but i think you need a professional interpretation and understanding of the constitution.

The Judges are there to help you break it down to a layman's understanding.

LeoDeKing:
So kadaria Ahmed is the inec chairman?

She is not the INEC chairman, she only quoted the constitution.

And mind you; The 1999 constitution is supreme, and supersedes both the INEC constitution, or any other constitution

What guides us is the constitution, and the constitution has said that you MUST get 25% in FCT to become president elect.

Lets not talk like illiterates, or myopic like a tribal bigot, we should follow the constitution.

Maize247:
So other states results are not important, why not just conduct election in only FCT. Mumu talk

I believe you are learned to understand that what governs a nation is its constitution.

Without a constitution, you can't have a country.

If the 1999 constitution stipulates that without 25% in FCT you can't become president; then that is what it should be.

I can categorically and confidently tell you that the list wasn't the bone of contention.

asobo1:
Dey play. In Borno north east alone, there are over 20 people who earn N5m a month @International NGO.

Thank God you said international NGO.

How many companies in Nigeria can afford to pay mere staff N5m?

ytdivine:
Very true at Nigerian's disadvantage. We must reverse the trend.
Please, youths get prepared and take over your jobs

How do you intend to do that?

mariahAngel:
Would you think I was forming if I had stated I didn't like rice?

Own your swallows, abeg! 🙄
I no like am be say I no like am.



Na by force to like swallows? 🙄

Are you related to the minister of information, Lai Mohammed?

mariahAngel:
We don't all like swallows, please! 🙄😷

U dey whine yourself 🙄

Samantha124:
One nairalander asked that I post about South African foods and I thought since I now have all the time to myself, let me do it now before something comes up.

mariahAngel, food is ready...


1. Samp and beans. You can either choose to eat it as it is, or you can add some lamb or beef stew on the side, even chicken stew... Personally I prefer beef stew because I don't eat lamb.

Having not tasted these foods before, they all look yummy.