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Honestly

Whazar:
Go to her Kotun whatever and ask for your son since you said they are popular like that
Just carry femi falana along

Make ur son no go be my high school mate sha Bolaji Kotun

Falana does not come cheap

One of the most interesting stories i read way back in primary school

Exprofressor:
I will try to be brief as I can. Pls read on

I was born in a broken home from two different tribes in the country.
My late mom was a lecturer in one of the state polytechnics though she resigned her job when she couldn't cope with her mental illness. Me and my siblings were only in primary school then

My dad showed no concern for her health and came back to his hometown engaging himself in politics that have benefitted him nothing.

Me and my elder bro grew up with our dad while my two little sisters stayed with my mom, though we lost our last born the year 2005

I grew up with asthma and lacked mother's care. My dad and extended family even my grannies disliked me because they taught I was slow and couldn't cope with my mates

The truth is that my asthma was severe. I couldn't move an itch without my inhaler. The abuse got worse when in my early youth I couldn't do basic work to earn like my mates by working on building sites.

I was called lazy and the day I tried to prove I wasn't lazy, I nearly died of cement dust

My mom died last year April
She died poor and in pains due to liver disease.

I didn't remember giving my mom anything substantial before her demise, though i didn't have, but I feel I wasted my early youth by not making use of the best opportunity that presented itself after I left secondary which would have bettered me

Few years before her death she pleaded I move to stay with her. I couldn't because she lives in Northern Nigeria and there's no job in the area. I am in deep pains!

My mum mental health resulted to her adding hypo in her food and water claiming it's a cure for BP.(she also have BP)
I feel I am responsible for her death and hate myself for not reaching for my mom when she needs me. If I was around she wouldn't have drank hypo occasionally thereby destroying her liver


Now I feel I am becoming a demon. I hate helping people, infact when I see people in need I withhold any kind of help because God didn't give me chance to offer help to the woman I love most. I think because I couldn't do for my late mom no one is worth it.

My lack of empathy is growing by the day.
My girlfriend left, saying she couldn't cope, she says I have to start forgiving myself.
Do you believe I refused rendering help to my dad when he had accident? This was even before my mom died

I have taught about suicide but I can't just imagine how my bro will feel. Despite causing him pains too, he have always tolerated me and I know the damage my death will cause him. I wish I was never his brother


Pls I am tired of being angry and depressed
Is there a remedy for me? Sometime I think I behave abnormal, I really don't know if I am mentally insufficient too

If all hope are lost, instead of committing suicide,why not donate yourself to God and enter into ministration...You will never regret it,God just ministered to me to tell you this.

Note;I barely go to church and i am not yet a born again.

olorunthobby:
Macbook Pro when I told him I wanted to learn a professional programming course at in Lagos.. He got so many accessories for me and he didn't take them back when we broke. I still miss him but can't have him again because I fkked up

You cheated?

PlayMaker14:
Just like the devil who gives you Cap and collect your Head....



Avoid dating Nigeria girls for now.

Stop deceiving yourself,as if you still wouldn't get married

Tracka:
Most of these beggars are informants for kidnappers, that money is too huge

Oga calm down,an average begger in Lagos makes 3k-10k daily depending...

Olunmercy56:
only few materials things are original in Nigeria, there are many fake people too.

And you are one of them

The officer that prevented him from gaining access might be angry over the hatred the governor has for Fulani herds men

Chai

The VC is a bad boy

tutudesz:
Which kind church name be this
All Saints Development Church of Christ

It will get to a time that any name you come up with for CAC to register you,would have been taken

So now IBB is realising that the country is sinking,as if he wasn't a major contributor to where we are today.

Only NNPC and Dangote brings in petroleum products....I hate the way this government is monopolizing the economy in favour of one man.

The issue of banditry,terrorism,secession,unknown gunmen,ritualist,yahoo yahoo & hook-up/runz all have a driving force....

If the government had really addressed the issue of employment,right from inception,we wouldn't have been where we are today...For instance,in 2015 the administration of Muhammadu Buhari made a promise to create 3 million jobs yearly,but instead reverse was the case,we saw companies retrenching her staffs by 35% and those into business of importation were really affected by the rise of dollar against the naira.

We can use a country with the lowest crime rate Canada as a case study;A country that has over 300,000 vacant jobs begging to be filled,why do you think there is peace and harmony over there?...

If i start explaining the real problem of Nigeria,i think i will write more than a 100 paragraph....Please my fellow Nigerians,the power belongs to the people,we can either change our lives and that of the future,else we are doomed for life,if we all fold our hands with the i-don't-care attitude...I want Nigerians to know that every consequence has a repercussion and if we fail to address it,you and i cannot survive it till 2031.

Lets not be sentimental or tribalistic in the appointment of a new leader come 2023,because whom ever enters Aso Rock,will be there till 2031...Am from Anambra state,but i careless over whom we hand over the mantle of leadership to,he or she could come from any tribe,provided they will do the right thing.

Back in the days,a father would have rejected the gift until the young man proves to him that he made his money legitimately....Naija don cast

The number of people venturing into skirt making is alarming,the most annoying part is that 90% of them are trying to be funny...This shows that there is no job in the country

Anxiety2022:
I want to know how costly the drugs are. I am not yet on a permanent work. I fear I might not be able to afford the drugs

Oga government give the drugs for free,so calm down

Anxiety2022:
I just got diagnosed of been HIV+. I don't even know what to do or where to start at this phase in life. Dream looks shambles. I had that HIV positive patient must take it's drugs everyday in other to survive. I really do not know where to start. I feel like taking my life away. Who can give me a concrete advise on how to survive this. The trauma is much on me. I really do not know who to ask for favor. I am looking forward for your advice.

Secondly is the drugs affordable?

How did you get it?

MASTAkiLLAh:
is he staying in Lagos or Bayelsa ? He sent a message before close of work that day to her not to bother sending those goods unfortunately she didn't read her messages before leaving office. Maybe he should have called instead of chatting through WhatsApp as they had been doing but even she is talking about the linoleum she cut, why are you people acting as if he stole her goods. The sooner Nigerian youths register and get into business, the better because it's then you'll know there are risks involved and your business is to cut those risks to the barest minimum. Ok, what do you want him to do now ? Should he pay for materials he doesn't need so you guys can be happy ?

Oga go and read her part and find out who was going from iyana paja to jibowu....Let him pay for inconvenience and cost of conveying the goods

StarchAndBanga:
What did I make her loose please?

The items were not waybilled, the items are still with her.

I agree I fvcked up as I am yet to buy and I wasted her time and also stressed her out, but that was never my intention. If u read through everything I posted u would see my intention towards how it all went down.

This is very different from ur case

Oga iyana paja to jibowu is far apart

SMH...Nigeria has no value and no national would want our citizenship for free,the country is rotten,all thanks to all those that have led us since 1960 till date.

Candidlady:
This ugly guy

Are you sure you won't accept him if he comes to toast you?

I have never been in support of jungle justice,but i say no to this,let the young man also be given the same treatment he gave to the girl

In Nigeria there is no price regulation on commodities,if by 2023 we hand power over to the same Northerns,then by 2030 the least bread will be sold for N500 and the least self contain you can get in lagos,might have jacked up to N400k.
Funny enough,most graduate will still be earning N20k or thereabout,then yahoo yahoo/ritual will increase and the level of prostitution/runz will skyrocket and by 2040 every runz girl will get married to a ritualist (non negotiable)

Nigeria sinks at every cockcrow

Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .

Best you quite the relationship

Wike is indirectly telling the North if South doesn't win come 2023,the country will be ungovernable....Period

gazeup1:
I created this new handle to hide my identity.

I got married 11 years ago. We both started working before we got married, but my salary was way above my wife's own. I was earning 195k while she was on 108k when we got married, after my MSC, I was promoted and started to earn 350k, this got to me and I started to misbehave, I was doing all sorts and would insult the hell outa her. As the cry cry girl, she would cry, and thereafter I would hear her praying. At times she would say she will one day be greater than me. That to me was an impossibility.

I can't even remember ever giving her money for home keep but we never lacked food at home (we delayed before having kids, so I don't see the need for me to give her monthly money and she never asked). I started giving her after we had kids. She agreed when I told her her money was for the home and mine for investment, but I never included her name in my properties. she knows this as well.

After our kids, it became very demanding, coupled with her office not increasing her pay, she resigned, and that was when I felt the impact of her income. Meanwhile, her pay was reduced to about 80k and mine was increased to like 600k as at when she resigned. In one month I started asking her to return back to her work as to me I was not ready to foot her bills, she never even asked for money, she would even say what I gave her is left 5k or more self at the end of the month.

Now her new journey - When I started disturbing about going back to her former office or getting a new job, she said never and asked me to stop giving her money but go to market to buy food myself. In less than 4 months to her resignation she started talking about online job here and there, I thought it was a scam so I warned her. One day, I was in the office when she said she needs me to help her wit the best laptop to buy, I tried to talk her down on buying one but she ended the call on me.

I got home to see her with a new laptop. fast forward, she paid for a training on how work from home without my knowledge, got her first job of about $200, I also washed her down on going that low for such an amount but she said it was better than her former 80k job, before I knew it, she started talking about $1,000, now it's $3,000, to $4,000 monthly. I earn lower than #1M, my wife gets over #2M monthly working from home. She helped me finished my house project, very transparent and would not hide any $ she earns.

I have not been able to forgive myself of all the things I did to her, the insults, talking down on her but in a way I think I pushed her to become who she is now. I remembered when she asked back then to open a joint account with her, I laughed her to scorn, like how would the ratio be. she saved over 6M and credited my account with everything, just for us to complete our home. I can't even produce 1M.

She doesn't seem hurt, but sometimes she reminds me of those words, I have never officially told her sorry neither have I really changed because I am just like that, I don't mean evil. I wanted her to braze up and never stay low.

Married, men, please how do I ask for her forgiveness? I don't think we have up to 2% of her type out there.

What type of online job is that sir?

Black man is supposed to be left inside the bush

Zeal0000007:
Pals just don't know what to think, here is it, my fiancee's sex libido increased rapidly than before, I work at sea returning back from work , the way my woman has been spinning during sex is disturbing.
I know she must have missed me but she is not a very sexy driven person. This time around during sex, she can raised her legs up to her head, and its shocking, the way she moans its unbelievable, this time around she loves doggy style, like say tomorrow no dey, she wants to come up top me and alot more.

My imagination is trying to tell that she might be having it with someone that is very good in bed while I was away, pals this is giving me a lot of concern. Soon I will be going back in matter of days, from my observations since I came back I have not seen strange number calling her.

Do not settle down with that type of job,e get why,because all the people i know that works in the sea end up with their wives cheating on them or their children being useless or worst.

The question remains;how many people imports or export in ondo state?