MajorOvakporaye: You spent 4 years working in a place where the experience is not even relevant to a worthy career. How can you be comfortable with 40k for 4 years? Skills, you no learn.
Stamina777: Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.
So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.
Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time
Please what should I do
Apart from sex, what else do you have to offer her?
Stamina777: Hello nairalanders, please I need your advice on this. I work in a bank as a cleaner and I go on errands for bankers in the bank. Am 24 year old and I only have my school start with me. I have an ambition to further my education though.
So their is this lady banker I like so much. I do go on errands for her. She is in her youthful age too but might be a little older than I do. I love her but I don't know how to tell her. I fear she might cast me if I tell her my intentions or I might lose my self respect.
Moreover, I always feel lonely because I rarely socialize. I go on errands because of the tips I make from it. Nobody gives me money for not doing anything. I feel less cared for but I care more about my loved ones even though I only give to them. I feel lonely all the time
Please what should I do
Guy can't you see that you both aren't on the same level, for crying out loud, you are a cleaner
Jewessgratitud3: Most people borrow to japa and if they use the money to establish here the may run into debt. So better to japa with the money where you can recover it and pay back
Get my drift?
Your excuse is not excusing...
With N7m i can introduce one into export business where you make N10m every month.
I guess when he got there and saw the pile of bills staring him in the face he had no choice but to grab the next available job.
If you are gainfully employed in naija, you don't need to japa. Japa is for someone who has no hope of ever getting a job in Nigeria. He'll appreciate any kind of job he finds there.
So if you don't have hopes of getting a job, why not use the millions spent on japa to establish here?
My dad is from a nuclear family of eight. Seven boys and a girl. Their parents are late. My dad owned 8 rooms apartment in his village. He singlehandedly bought the land and raised the building. We reside in Lagos in a rented apartment. Obviously that was the only building owned by my dad. We hardly visit the village, but I've been there twice, likewise my other siblings. My mum and dad are the only ones that frequent there back then, and they're well known. My dad and the sixth child of their parents are the only ones that owned a house. The rest of them live in a rented apartment and had no house to their namew.
The house at the village wasn't occupied by anyone nor let out. Recently, one of the family members from their mother side at the village suggested to allow someone occupied the house. He brought in some people who i learnt were church people. Someone gave my dad info that they want to sell the house. My dad was surprised. We later got info that my dad elder brother claimed he owned the house.
My dad called his elder brother immediately he got the info to confirm what he heard. The so called brother asserted, and he was ruthlessly lashed by my dad. He was surprised by my dad's reaction. Two of my dad other siblings came around to apologise on behalf of their eldest brother outburst. I was around then, i overheard one of them saying it's a family's house. I was like, why are they fighting their eldest brother then?He claimed he owned the house while some claimed it's a family's house.
Apparently, my dad discussed this with two of his friends and they both advised he sell off the house and get a piece of land in Lagos or Ogun State and put up a small building on it. They told him if he didn't sell it, the family will take over the house when he kick the bucket, and his children and wife will be thoroughly dealt with if they attempt to be in loggerhead with them. He called one of his friend that reside at Ibadan, he said the same thing as suggested by his two other friends. He also added, if he can get a developer to take over the building because only 4 rooms had been roofed. By doing that, the developer will complete the building and write a will when to recoup their resources and the building taken back from them by we the children.
My mum suggested he sell it and start up a business, considering the fact that things aren't going well financially with him. My immediate younger brother may likely drop out of school due to finances. According to my dad he has really helped his siblings when things were going well for him. He financed his elder brother's wedding, sent his two siblings to school, put some in trade as mechanic and electrician. Sponsored two of his younger siblings wedding ceremony. He linked one of his younger brother's to my mum's brother who happened to be a staff at Mobil. By the grace of God, he got a job at Mobil. That my mum brother is late, he died 2016. After all the favour my dad has rendered to his siblings, the best way they could say thank you was to inherit his only house. None of them has ever given even our last born #100. I graduated from school and still in search of job, none of them had shown interest. Glory be to God, we've never had the course to call them that we're hungry. I wasn't surprised regarding the recent development from my dad's siblings. I was envisaging taking it to a radio station, but i got to realised I'd have to spend some money towards that. I was discussing with my brother and he suggested i put it up for wider view
Please what steps would you suggest my dad take inorder not to lose his property to his siblings.
Thank you.
You can imagine, your father is still alive and they are claiming the property, so imagine if he dies tomorrow, the type of prosecution you guys will receive from him brothers.
My dad is from a nuclear family of eight. Seven boys and a girl. Their parents are late. My dad owned 8 rooms apartment in his village. He singlehandedly bought the land and raised the building. We reside in Lagos in a rented apartment. Obviously that was the only building owned by my dad. We hardly visit the village, but I've been there twice, likewise my other siblings. My mum and dad are the only ones that frequent there back then, and they're well known. My dad and the sixth child of their parents are the only ones that owned a house. The rest of them live in a rented apartment and had no house to their namew.
The house at the village wasn't occupied by anyone nor let out. Recently, one of the family members from their mother side at the village suggested to allow someone occupied the house. He brought in some people who i learnt were church people. Someone gave my dad info that they want to sell the house. My dad was surprised. We later got info that my dad elder brother claimed he owned the house.
My dad called his elder brother immediately he got the info to confirm what he heard. The so called brother asserted, and he was ruthlessly lashed by my dad. He was surprised by my dad's reaction. Two of my dad other siblings came around to apologise on behalf of their eldest brother outburst. I was around then, i overheard one of them saying it's a family's house. I was like, why are they fighting their eldest brother then?He claimed he owned the house while some claimed it's a family's house.
Apparently, my dad discussed this with two of his friends and they both advised he sell off the house and get a piece of land in Lagos or Ogun State and put up a small building on it. They told him if he didn't sell it, the family will take over the house when he kick the bucket, and his children and wife will be thoroughly dealt with if they attempt to be in loggerhead with them. He called one of his friend that reside at Ibadan, he said the same thing as suggested by his two other friends. He also added, if he can get a developer to take over the building because only 4 rooms had been roofed. By doing that, the developer will complete the building and write a will when to recoup their resources and the building taken back from them by we the children.
My mum suggested he sell it and start up a business, considering the fact that things aren't going well financially with him. My immediate younger brother may likely drop out of school due to finances. According to my dad he has really helped his siblings when things were going well for him. He financed his elder brother's wedding, sent his two siblings to school, put some in trade as mechanic and electrician. Sponsored two of his younger siblings wedding ceremony. He linked one of his younger brother's to my mum's brother who happened to be a staff at Mobil. By the grace of God, he got a job at Mobil. That my mum brother is late, he died 2016. After all the favour my dad has rendered to his siblings, the best way they could say thank you was to inherit his only house. None of them has ever given even our last born #100. I graduated from school and still in search of job, none of them had shown interest. Glory be to God, we've never had the course to call them that we're hungry. I wasn't surprised regarding the recent development from my dad's siblings. I was envisaging taking it to a radio station, but i got to realised I'd have to spend some money towards that. I was discussing with my brother and he suggested i put it up for wider view
Please what steps would you suggest my dad take inorder not to lose his property to his siblings.
Thank you.
After what happened with my late father and his brother towards us, i swore never to do things together as family, not even with my biological brother.
In as much as i and my brother are in good terms, i still remember vividly when he suggested we contribute money together and buy a land in Abuja, i laughed and told him it is not possible.
I can't do business with my biological brother, because if i die, he will inherit or claim 100% ownership.
Life teaches us important lesson, from other people's mistakes.
Queendiamond398: My husband prefers been busy on his phone with his numerous exes, divorcee and single ladies than gisting with me if we are together, i have always want him to have peace of mind but it seems he doesnt think of that about me
Am begining to find peace gisting with his friend anytime he comes to visit, some persons may say i saw the handwriting on the wall before i married him,Hell NO! .He succeded in making me chase all my friend both male and female away but now have numerous to chat with and laugh and please himself.
He thinks his smart but i pity him, is just my home training that is limiting me to do some kind of evil things ,we will go for party or club he will leave me and go and be sitting in midst of other ladies, while some men will come and sit with me and making advances at me and he doesnt know. Some of his friends that are as useless as him and come with their wives or Fiance doesnt know young and energetic men do have quickie with their wives at the rest room
My religion and the way i value my body can't make me to stooop so low to do all those things but why will a man choose to neglect the wive to be dieing of boredom .
Because of lack of attention my Male Colleagues always try to take advantage of that and be chatting with me till midnight without him even seeing it.
We lived in a separate room that this his attitude can make someone to be cheating without him knowing but i dont want to do that Please someone should help me out Please am dieing slowly i have confronted him so many times but he will tell me i dont have the right to tell him what to do
20yrs from now, if you abandon the man on his sick bed, he would look back and regret his actions.
jeromestarks: See this one talking as if you're doing the man a favor by not cheating on him. Aunty, go ahead and fvck another diick. You think the man gives a fvck? Is it not your body that will be humiliated? It's your body that will suffer and become laughing stock among the energetic men who gave you quickies. Nonsense!
Both you and those that liked your post are suffering from juvenile delinquency.
pandax: Approximately 240sqm of stone coated steptiles (240 * 4200 = N1.008m) with kingpost height of between 20 - 23 feet. Wood will cost around 700k , roughly 74m of ridge caps at N1700 per m(700*1700=N125.8k), 3pkts of treated nails at 30k and 1 bag each of 3 & 2 inches nails. Workmanship like 75k for step tikes installation and 130k for wood skeleton
Budget 2.2m
Advice, get about 3 reputable company to measure your SQM and give the job to the company that quoted least quantity
WorldRichest: History will always repeat itself as long as human being refused to learn from history.
In Ambode's period, all the 57 LG and LCDA Chairman pledged allegiance to the party, All the Commissioners too pledged allegiance to the part, even Ambode's deputy openly said it was the party that appointed her. That was how he was stripped nakked at the market square.
Sim Fubara is going same way. Even his wife will soon leave him for Wike's camp.
Political side lookers on Nairaland are standing behind Fubara, but the real politicians playing the game in Rivers are leaving him one by one. Day go soon break for Rivers state
Are you a drunken master?
1.... Ambode was removed because he had no backing.
2.... The supreme court in Rivers state has declared those 27 seat inconsequential and null and avoid.
There is huge returns in agriculture, but insecurity is driving people away.
Some part of the North, farmers are forced to pay levies on their farm produce by unknown gunmen, in some cases, they suffer attacks from herders or kidnappers.
pocohantas: I think you and your kind just choose to be si**y. If I ask you to bring one comment where I trivialised marriage, you would retract as usual. Pocohantas won't like what? Have I ever told any woman not to marry or cook for her man?
Keep my username out of your fingers. It is 2024, I don't have time for your nonsense. Na report and ban go end am.
Young lady, please don't insult me, this is the first time i jokingly called you out, but you took it to heart.
Politics › Re: Lucky Aiyedatiwa Sworn-In As Governor Of Ondo State by Dshocker(m): 8:04pm On Dec 27, 2023
