₦airaland Forum

Mysteriousworld:
A younger brother of mine saw a message on his finances phone.
She sent a message to a guy on instagram, telling him she likes his lips, so tempting.
Now shes claiming its not a big deal, that she doesn't even know the guy, that hes just an instagram model...(its true she doesnt know him,and have never met him).
But my brother doesnt feel good about it, he asked for my advice, and i decided to put it here for him to see himself.

Pls is this a red flag... Or not much of a big deal. The wedding is in February.

She sent it?... Chaaaiii, she is more than willing to get laid by the model

sleek214:
IPOB / Obidients destroying their land and killing their own. Nigeria govt Will Not give you any solder, police Or DSS to protect you. Go, let your people kill you.
You can not find peace again in your land and you insult people that give you peace, they allow you to live and do business but you insult them by saying you develop their land......

Oga, from calculation, that is N1.480m every 24hrs.

And guess what?.... Those 3 security organisation will be more than willing to deploy their personnel to him.

Do you know how much security organisation make from guiding V.I.Ps?

PaChukwudi44:
The man is not serious.Why did he not ask the entire military force in the SE to be deployed to him

And you think it is for free?

1 mobile police personnel is 20k for 24hrs
1 soldier personnel is 30k for 24hrs
1 Dss personnel 50k for 24hrs

That is N1.480m every single day.

So na him money, not yours to worry about.

ecolime:
Problem with kids seeing money for the first time. You are suffering from poverty of the mind.

Guy rest, you don't know him.

Only in Nigeria, poor man is advising a rich man.

People that pay as much as N70m on rent in Banana Island & Maitama aren't fools.

80 chances of you climbing the social ladder comes from the help of money, while the remaining 20% got it by chance/luck.

To join ikoyi club, their form is somewhere around N10m, the money is not the issue, but those that will sign a guarantee form, because to join, you need the recommendation of 3 existing members.

BloomingDale:
When is it going to dawn on people that it should be one woman, multiple men. What we are practicing, i.e, one man multiple women is an anomaly. Women were created to be in their own space, and not being forced into one space with each other. The men are supposed to be the help meet, but the misogynist Bible and Quaran changed things around. Look at the Queen bee and her workers for an example.

Lead by example ma'am

egobetter4me:
I know a lot of you will blame me after reading this and even want to curse me, but this is my sad story and I just want to put it out there for people to learn. Don't ever let your parents decide your partner for you. Even if you have to run away, do it.

I recently got married to an ugly, short, black, smelly, village girl. At first my uncle took me to see her, then we spoke and she came visiting. All these happened in the village.

When I went back to the city, I told my mom I wasn't interested in her any more, but she insisted I must marry her. My mom would always take my joy by telling me about the girl anytime she sees me happy. There was no breathing space. We live together and I pay the rent. I loved her so much that I could do anything for her. She once sold her wrappers/materials and jewelleries, to send me money for school fees.

Anytime she tries to talk to me about the girl, I will beg her and let her understand that young people like to marry who they truly love. I don't want her, I don't love her and I don't think I will ever will.
After all said and done, she still insisted, so I called my elder bro to come talk to her. He came in from another state and spoke with my mom for hours. She did as if she would allow me marry my choice, just for my brother to go. Immediately my brother left, she started again.

My mom has BP. She stopped using her medication and was ailing. she threatened that if she dies, that I killed her. I thought to myself, that if she truly dies, I might live with the regrets for the rest of my life. I really tried but I was defeated. I succumbed. But before marrying the girl, I spoke to her(the girl) that I don't love her and that I'm marrying her against my wish, but I guess she was desperate. She said I shouldn't worry, that the love would grow in the marriage.

We got married. She lives with me and my mom. Even my neighbours were disappointed in me, when they saw her. Church members and friends were all disappointed. I can't start narrating to them how I got here.

We are over a year gone now and she still irritates me. I so much hate to look at her. We've had sex only about 5 times or so and I have to get high to do this. I only kissed her once(at the alter and I cringed)

I cry everyday.....both at home and while hustling. I never envisaged my life to be like this. I had hoped to meet a beautiful, clean and well mannered graduate from the city. Someone I would truly love and she would love me too. I'd hoped that I would meet her, approach her and we start as friends, then lovers, then I would propose and all. I never planned for it to be like this.

I am so sad with my life. Right now, I'm thinking of applying for masters abroad and probably use the means to Japa and never come back again.

My life is so miserable!

Learn from me. Don't ever let your parents blackmail you into marrying someone you don't love. Pls don't. Just run away for months or few years and they will leave you alone.

Guy you are a comedian

Sprishua:
I'm interested. Please how can I mail you?

shooterme4lawzy@yahoo.com

Officialfrank69:
I'm interested

DM me if interested

Nice2023:
I remembered when they both toiled to see me through this difficult world,especially my dad who made sure me and my two brothers attended University and graduated.

Today,I decided to build this house for them and to make their remaining years on earth a fulfilled one.

Below are the pictures.

Trust me, they don't need a tiled house, because it will be slippery and cold for their health.

mariahAngel:
Your boy might've responded due to some of the (aromatic) spices used in making the soup.
Spices are natural stimulant that promote blood flow, and are medicinal as well.

That soup, as simple as it is, is one the most nutritious and healthiest there is.

I don't think Nsala is a simple soup, unlike Egusi, Ogbono & Okra, you don't need practical learning before one can cook it.

But Nsala needs practical learning.

LocalFARMERS:
A 3 years old Fish

The fish will end up dying for nothing, if he doesn't use it to make white soup and pounded yam.

doggedfighter:
You seem to know about fishes.

You have a pond ?

If you've been following Ahnie, you go know say she likes eating catfish.

Don jazzy is the most successful record label owner in Nigeria.

He has the wealth of Davido & Wizkid put together.

2aces:
It will shock you that your serious babe you are making long term plans with is a hookup girl on code.
Majority of these Saturday weedings are littered with overused and damaged goods.

It is better you don't know, than having at the back of your mind that your woman was used by the public.

Blacklion3:
Bad move... Crypto currency is a scam.
Its the same pyramid scheme similar to MMM but even more devilish.
Crypto is like trading tin air. What nonsense coin are you buy and selling? These are simple financial questions

It can cripple a company's economy

It is called digital asset.

The so called physical money you use, is it not just a coloured paper?

AntiTerrorist:
White women are worse.

You hardly would see a white woman dress indecently.

You don't mean it.

Dikastan:
I will not do money ritual in Jesus name amen, una no go fit put son of man into temptation

After suffering on earth, you still end up in hellfire suffering.

Why not enjoy on earth before you depart?

slimjohn2k5:
What location
What is the market demand for what u want to plant
Can u plant 6 acres without the help of workers?
What plan do u hv to preserve excess harvest.
Don't end up like my friend that reared chicken and after maturity had no one to sell to and he sold out the poultry at give away price.

Your friend didn't do his feasibility study before going into the business.

When Nigeria consumes over 1 billion chicken annually.

kilisi:
Good day friends and trust we are coping with the current state of things

I plan to resign from my current job by the end of February 2024 so that I can go into full time agriculture. That's my discipline from school anyway.

I've been able to raise just 1 million naira within a year and 2 months and the plan is to plant cassava and maize on a 12 acre farmland I'm about to secure.

6k per acre of land

I also plan to use about an acre for planting pepper and tomatoes.

I hope I'm not making a hasty decision by resigning from my job soon.

Why go into a single and profitable farm produce, like Sesame?

Coldspice:
Nigerian visa is one of the hardest to get.
Do you know Nigeria once denied Bill Gates visa?

That is why the biggest punishment you can give to these Lebanese, Indians and Asians misbehaving in Nigeria is to threaten to report them to Immigration. They will start begging immediately.

If na play, stop am

BabaCommander:
Old layer for Christmas?

No nah, God make I no Eva come that low no matter what...

Bro buy something bigger for New Year, please.

Old layer taste better than any agric fowl.

I can't buy broiler with my money, only water full their body.

Vinnie2000:
This Ini Edo case shows that Life get as e be and cannot be predicted.


Mercy Johnson that used to Flaunt her Big BREASTS and Yanch, Kiss/Fucck in her most of her films doz days
is Happily married with kids while Ini Edo and Oge Okoye can't see Husband marry.

Oge is married

The major reason they terminated her employment, was because, those luxury items are now more exposed and can be stolen, through her.

Blacklion3:
Blord is a reaper

He rips people of both giftcards and bitcoin

If he was a reaper, by now, those he offended would have come for him.

princeade86:
Is renew hope.

My advice to seun is, any tribalism insult, it should remove it before it even get to front page so that what happened to nairaland won't happen again. Tribalism can't take us to anywhere in this country, it will rather be taking us backwards. Say no to tribalism, say Yes to one Nigeria. One love.
I dedicate this FTC to patriots Nigerians. The ones that don't defend bad government or leaders with sentiment or selfishness.

Who told you that Nigeria is one, why are you deceiving yourself?

JohnNgene:
Fellow Nigerians, I used to buy this sugar N50 (fifty naira) but when I went to buy it today, the woman selling it told me that it is now N100 (one hundred naira).

E shock me o! That is why I said let me come to Nairaland and ask all of you if the price has changed in your area too.

What is really happening in Nigeria biko?

Stop taking sugar, not good for your health

Bliss51:
This is natural watermelon

Before dem get artificial watermelon?

EmperorCaesar:
Not an All-time stat but just for 2023

Thats fine

When u check it out on the graph, you'd see that this flunctuates across all states in diff years

Was "all time" written on the report? 🎤

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

Na you go dey find wetin no loss.

Seek & you shall find. 🤧

Why ask her, when you cannot digest it.

Zonefree:
Must be skit.

No African mother will reject a successful son unless she's a witch.

The joy of every mother is to see her sons progress.


So, a 22 year old 200 level student should be broke and poor in Nigeria?
I bought my first land in 300 level.

This is the problem with Nigerians. The reason police profile a young boy driving a car as yahoo boy.

Young boys are making money without yahoo. Yahoo is not the only means of making money online.

As a student, learn a skill while studying. Don't always depend on your parents.

I don't blame you...

How did you, or how were you able to buy a car at 300L?

His wish came through, wahala jam network.

The picture below, depicts Aiyedatiwa's recent reaction.