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My fellow Christians, your Goliath has died on the cross of Calvary. Jesus said it is finished. What are you Fighting for again? Our fight is the fight of faith. Believing we have those things that the bible says are ours. Choose what you want in life, believe it (faith it), and work towards it, and you will see results. Expect the best. Stop thinking there are witches, neighbors, enemies,etc out to get you. Your life is what you make of it.

Some of us wonder why dangote or our friends and neighbors and terrible sinners are richer than them the true christians, it's because Life is guided by laws and principles. They have found how to make money and make money work for them. The fact that you are born again and I am a sinner will not stop you from falling to the ground if we both jump off a mountain, the law of gravity will apply to both of us.

Stop going to night vigils to pray against enemies, pray for your eyes to be open to know what step to take next. Whatsoever are true, whatsoever are pure, whatsoever are just, whatsoever are of good report, if there by virtue, think on these things not the horrible past or enemies.

I don't believe that last paragraph. When he escaped, they looked for someone who looked like him, did a little plastic surgery, and killed the imposter. Pablo is frolicking round the world. That is my theory. We have heard that even Tupac is still alive. That Corona is man made. We better start second guessing these stories before it will be revealed in 2050 that there is also a second earth.

Everyone will tell you to leave, but leaving someone you love is not easy. You have to kill that love first. Look for something you really dislike, for example, his cheating. Start to tell yourself that you hate a cheating man. Remind yourself that the last time you left because he cheated, you went back to him but the cheating didn't stop. Tell yourself that this is how you will keep going back till you are old and wrinkled, except you stop it now. Trick your subconscious to see him as a bad guy, and your emotions will follow. And don't call him to tell him it's over, just stop calling, texting, etc. Block him on every social media platform and everywhere else.


And if you are reading this and I did this to you, sorry, life na brain brain.

read somewhere that only your wife knows who you truly are, because she sees you at your best and worst. The side chicks sees only what you want her to. This story just buttresses that statement.

WalkerMichael:
Oh wow. Second time I'm seeing this come from a lady. The first was from a female friend here and nairaland now. I guess it's true then.

It happens when you don't like a guy and he keeps disturbing you, it's like punishment. But if a girl likes you, she can never try that, the way op's girl didn't allow it. I have had cousins and friends complain about girls they asked out and the first thing they asked for was rent, school fees, phones, etc, sometimes ladies do it to drive men away,but if you pay up, they will collect the money ooo.

Tonto is just making people love and respect this man more.

no be only una get bro code. Try taking her to a salon she has never gone to and watch the bill triple. What you stated is rare but let's admit it, it happens but is most likely a marketing strategy

So you upgraded from a bi to a trans. Keep up the good work

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After wearing facemask, hope you wore hand gloves or washed your hands when you opened your door this morning, opened your gate, shook your neighbors and colleagues, counted money, pressed that button on the bank door, touched that item your bought, opened your shop, drove your car,.......

God is our help.

This is too much na. Undies again. I can't even wash my own mother's undies except she is really sick. To the unmarried, As you guys get married, once you buy a gas cooker and fridge, the next thing should be a washing machine. Una go dey drive motor upandan, dey use iphone, dey on Gen every evening, then con bend down for two hours dey wash cloth, that one na real suffer head.

Fiyinfoluwa20:
Those starting from the scratch with no generational wealth, OBOs too can use some of this

1. No one owes you anything

2. Anything you find yourself doing, do it with all your might and strength, in fact die on the line and commit it to God(if you believe)

3. Put yourself first, you are not selfish, people would choose themselves to live over you when it comes to life and death and LIFE DEFINING opportunities. Learnt this from my senior in uni, he said “The first Law of nature is self-preservation” . Fight for yourself and life .

4. Look around you, there are certain people you like because of certain qualities, pick those traits and emulate. Conversely, there are people you do not admire like that? What are those traits you do not like, avoid it like a plaque.

5. Nothing is promised, but let it be that you gave it your all to avoid ifs and buts.

6. Love is never enough. My mentor(CEO of one of the leading banks in Naija) told me that when he was choosing his wife, it was not a totally emotional decision, he looked for certain qualities after those boxes were ticked, he then asked himself if he likes the person enough to want to spend the rest of his life with her.

7. Keep working and keep believing(no matter your faith ) with the right set of skill, lucky stroke and time, your chance may come.

Me

26 y/o Male, have siblings that he loves and think they love him too as much. Couple of niece and nephews. Started from the bottom, God is working wonders in his life and pray the he continues. Ended a long term relationship. And seen life a little.

really working on number 4, but it is very hard. Especially cursing back at other drivers while driving.

but ember months make sense die, some will be angry they never thought of it

He should also sue mtn. What fuckery

bloggers bloggers bloggers how many times did I call you

cuppy just wants to be known other than otedolas daughter, struggling hard to belong, baby, you are in a class of your own.

And footballers and musicians will be buying houses for their parents abroad, ordinary 5k or 10k you want to spend for yours you are crying all over social media. If you have money, you will even buy a house for that poor man or woman you have being seeing on the street all your life, na poorverty dey cause all these kind talk. But you will spend all your money on your girlfriend or wife and feel it is an accomplishment. Someone that is not your relation according to nairaland.

next time start this kind of rant with: To all almarjiris, you owe your parents nothing.

how can ait write in it's report, 'before they could say jack Robinson'?

If no face mask, tell your tailor to sew one for you with an elastic material, no difference.

We all woke up to the news about Corona in Lagos yesterday. As at 8am this morning, sanitizers were sold out at all the supermarkets and mission road market in Benin. My kids school have already written notes to parents for every kid to come with a sanitizer on Monday. I finally got 3 to buy at N1,500 each (previously sold at N550 pre Lagos Corona announcement).

A good substitute might be baby wipes socked with spirits.

Lalasticlala why you con change the op topic for front page? Nor be every thread una go take drive traffic na.

J111333:
Biko mods, don't push this to front page before Shekau see am.
The NA with their utterances are good at putting lives of people at risk.


#pray4Gombe.

shekau na nairalander?

DropsMic:
So if she hadn't been posted there this community would have remained water(less)

Smh

And the community has a local government. Blacks truly came to this world to suffer. First it was the whites treating our fore fathers like shit and working them like donkeys.. Now it's the turn of our extremely greedy rulers.


Black on black wickedness.

You just reminded me of George Orwell's Animal farm.

Mockery to glory indeed

Wetin concern the children here? This is how you will make them hate their father till he is on his death bed with cancer, then they will go see him for the first time in thirty years and everyone will be crying with regrets. He cheated on you not the kids.

fineboynl:
I have only run it for lesser than 5 hours 30 mins. and have lost half tank already. I bout fuel N1600 10 litres.

I only power my small fridge and ceiling fan.

it's not economically viable as I will spend like 1k everyday alone just to power it from 6-7 o'clock to 11-12 o'clock.

Did you open the fuel tank half way or all the way down? Is the load on the Gen too much?

very funny, people equate a woman's respect to the money a man provides. There is more to respecting a man than what he provides. If he makes the right decisions, protects his family, loves them, etc., carrying a plate won't be an issue, she will also give him water to wash his hand because she appreciates the effort, not necessarily with results, he made that day.

But with the economic situation now where both parties work, having each other's back makes your home heaven.

China has taken over but world power will not let me hear word. Where can I learn mandarin abeg!

I have being eating Nigerian rice( bull king and mama pride) since December and I haven't come across a single stone or sand, even when I scrape the 'bottom pot'. Ask your neighbours, friends or colleagues to recommend a brand and if possible, where to buy from, before going to the market.

op if you are planning on stealing your boss' money to invest and think you can do all these in ten years, you never serious for life

Joke amongst the guys in my former office office then was for a guy to have three shirts and two trousers before he gets married. That once he gets married, he should forget about himself. They jokingly used to ask themselves how many they have purchased when someone presents their wedding IV.