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Its like its the men that change after marriage these days while the women show their true colour during courtship. God help nairalanders.

last last Linda go marry wizzy

If she doesn't work, so she doesn't meet men, what about neighbours, taxi drivers, security men, men in markets, banks, school teachers, men coming to pick their kids from same school, men in filling stations, the gas dealer, male hairdressers, phone repairers, mechanics, vulcanizers, pastors, family friends, childhood friends......

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Nigerian Man who was stopped by a pastor from proposing to his girlfriend inside a church, speaks ⋆ HiTNG Online
hitng.info Dec 18, 2019 12:30 AM

Final week, a video of a Nigerian man who was stopped from proposing to his lover throughout a marriage service, after he already knelt all the way down to suggest, went viral.

Within the video, the pastor of the church could possibly be seen stopping the person from proposing to the girl, saying he wasn’t conscious of their relationship and due to this fact, couldn’t give his consent for the engagement.

The person in the course of the drama, Emokpae Ehis, has lastly opened up on personal aspect of the story.

In accordance with him, he has been going out together with his girlfriend, Gloria for over 7 months, and he determined to suggest to her at her elder sister’s wedding ceremony which held at Souls Harvester at Udu street in Delta state.


In his phrases;

“I’m the man that received engaged and this came about in Soul Harvesters church. My title is Ehis Emokpae. I didn’t remorse and can by no means remorse any of my act.

I’m so glad I engaged her within the presence of God and her organic dad and mom was proper there and the pastor is only a religious father. I’m the man and the household know me very properly..
She accepted the ring that’s what issues to me. The bride is the elder sister to the woman I engaged.

The pastor stated it was the church doctrine not to try this. I’ve been quiet for days about this challenge as a result of i dont wish to decide a person of God to the general public… However the case is out anywaY.

The final prayer for that service was going down already. The consent of a pastors shouldn’t be wanted earlier than proposing to his member. She wants to just accept getting married to you earlier than reaching out to their varied pastors,,, i see no knowledge in such act… Partaking your woman within the presence of God is the perfect factor as a Christian..

I dont imagine that was the church doctrine. It was the pastors doctrine… And one other factor, i wasn’t stealing another person’s present. The pastor to the groom’s church wasn’t glad about what the brides pastor did in that service.

Proper within the service individuals the place congratulating the each of us. Please no physique ought to insult the pastor or the church Souls Harvester… I simply need individuals to get the clear image of what occurred”.

You are plan B, plan A is not ready yet or she hasn't found him. Note, you can be the only guy in her life and still be plan B.

Dating is not sexing. Meet him, know him and decide. Pressure can make wole Soyinka type like this. Relationship no be English. No carry your certificate for head. Na this type dey love pass.

Just another story to show us Christians say, no one holy pass. The fact that you go to all night every week and another can barely stand 3 hours church service doesn't mean you are a true Christian.

every thing in life is dangerous, even the water you drink.

Derrinclay:
Hello womb watchers wunna no go ask for a second child.

Jesu I was just going to type 'womb watchers, how many kids does she have now'

This is also similar to 'every disappointment is a blessing in disguise', 'if you say you can, you are right, if you say you cant, you are also right' and 'think outside the box'. When you meet challenges, try to find how it can work for better. I always tell my staff, there is always a way out or a substitute, find it and don't keep minor problems waiting for me.

iReport:
Can a think like this ever happen in Nigeria by year 2051?

fixed

13 years later, no improvement

This is how dangote will still export his fuel

They will not tell you that the initial deposit was a loan from the banks and the other payment was spread over ten years. audio purchase mtcheeeeew

When you think you have a story, then open this thread and find that your story is just a single sentence.

I experienced a miracle this year, was in shock for a few days, because it was beyond my expectation.

superior1:
What if she has asked “is that the carpenter” nko?

people dey try appease person, you wan con spoil the whole matter

be like you just land Nigeria from Dubai, better forget the things you saw there and focus, buhari is still president in case you have forgotten

Dollarheist:
Poverty ate nothing out of him, you just quoted poverty personified

Please take note, the suffix 'personified' should not be used as an appendage of any negative word. Only positive and inspiring words can be used in the same sentence as it. Thank you.

Ladykiss:
Am not going to support the man because he caused all these by sleeping with her while still dating me but the truth of the whole incident was that wife was a desperate lady. I checked the man Facebook messenger conversation with this so called wife from A to Z when he came to Nigeria last month, she forced her self on him even while the man told her about me and she told the man she will just be a friend only to tie him down with pregnancy and still have the gut to send me message. Well what has happened has happened, i caused it all and have to bear the pain alone. I pray God lead me out of this.

The girl is not the problem, the man is. She didn't rape him to get pregnant and she didn't hold a gun to his head to pay her bride price. HE made those choices. Stop hating her and focus on yourself, there are better men out there. Please just forgive her and let go, not for her sake, but for your own peace of mind. I know it's not easy to let go of someone you love no matter what they have done, but are you ready to keep fighting over him with his wife and other women for the rest of your life?

DenreleDave:
Don't be a mumu na... If I lie say I dey Waka go nko, u go bliv me... Na just frnd... Just came back from school n she wan say hy

devil has carried your matter to God, assuming na your girlfriend, maybe na on top bed for luth you for dey type this story

toke don't mind them, go to Dominican republic and they will give you this same treatment, no vex

Ladykiss:
Bethyz my mom was my dad first and only wife, i don't have experience of what two wives look like because all my sisters are their husband only wife as well. Seriously am in pain. To me accepting to be a second wife is accepting to share my happiness and joy with another woman which i don't think i can stand.

Sis i can't control the tears daily, even at work i can't concentrate. Everybody are blaming me that why did i take long to think about marriage, a friend at work told me if she happened to be the one she would have settle down with him under a year and get papers to leave Nigeria. She called me a fool for staying long without thinking of the marriage, she said the wife is smarter than me, simply because she knows the man has a 6years relationship and sharply got pregnant for him just to set in, to crown it all, she advice i just let it go and move on if i don't want to be a second wife or marry him and be a second wife. Am lost, everybody should stop blaming me. I have parent to take care for sending me to school before bringing up my own family, this man has children with his first wife reason am not rushing because he's not suffering of children. Why blaming me? Am i wrong to want to work and stable to avoid being a liability in a man house? Don't blame me pls? Please don't blame me, please. My coming here was to relieve myself from pain not to receive insult.

I am a bit confused here. Is this man the only man in Nigeria? I don't understand. Are you ready to throw your life away because of a text message? Are you not supposed to be an ex like she stated? How is what she said an insult? And to show you what a cheat and liar he is, he has told his wife he has broken up with you, that is why she called you an ex, not knowing you guys spent a month together. Just imagine all the lies he is feeding you too. Guy man doesn't want to be jumping from Anne to Bose when he visits Nigeria, so he wants to tie your destiny down to accommodate his needs when he is in town.

How can you be the heiress to a throne but keep trying to belong? does cuppy have inferiority complex?

make money crew, oya advice your member

op thanks, I have being wondering why Ghana hasn't gone to war with us over this border issue

juman:
Why do we have just one functioning port in nigeria?

A country of two hundred million people o.

This is one major reason goods come from Benin. The ports charge too much, takes time, you have to bribe our officials, etc., this is why Nigerians prefer to import through Benin. Forget that substandard talk, the same substandard stuff are coming through Nigerian ports.

The border closure is affecting my business positively, but there is so much the government has to do apart from just closing the borders.

All of a sudden, I am now older than all these celebrities. how come?

if you want to survive by making your own money, you can do that. if you want to survive by living off others, it is also possible. the choice is ours to make.

Adopt and don't pretend you gave birth to the child. The lagoon is still open to anyone who doesn't like it. As long as it's legal and the baby is fine, the only thing you should worry about is when and how to tell the child.

user283:
I've been jumping a lagoon for a woman who can't jump a gutter for me

What a phrase!!! Respect.

didn't you break the brother code by not letting the guy know she was two timing?