₦airaland Forum

Jennyclay:
Whether husband or boyfriend, Biko you men should take good care of your wife and girlfriend. It’s your duty to provide for your wife and girlfriend. Don’t be stingy!! Don’t run away from your responsibilities!!

Even the Bible says any man that can’t take good of his wife/girlfriend is more worse than an infidel.

It is never the duty of any man to take care of his girlfriend. It's a choice. It is my duty to take care of my wife.

I have no faith in Tinubu's Administration, but I hope he succeeds for Nigeria's sake. How he handles security, economy, infrastructure and national unity will be what I'll judge his administration. He can't fight corruption, because of how he got to office and I don't expect him to. I actually don't care about corruption anymore because it can't be fought by just the executive arm of government and too many administrations have tried and failed. So no need. If he can succeed in the economy, security, infrastructure and national unity, he has done more than any other president.

I just hope she's fine

Yar'Adua remains the best president we never had... I loved that man to death

There's a lot of cause to this. We're you sexually active before marriage or you married a virgin? If a virgin, then your body will need time to adjust to sex.

Secondly, do you engage frequently in porn and masturbation? It will ruin your sexual desire/libido.

Also, know that you can't always have sex for five rounds every time. Sometimes, it's just one round and that round is enough. Don't go with what you see in porn or what people say here. Porn stars are actors and you have never seen anyone here in bed. People will always feed you lies to boost their ego.

Reduce alcohol and drugs. It will ruin you.

If you are still battling with other women (lust), desire for your wife will die. You may be complaining that you don't rise again after a round but I'm sure if another woman comes in, your brain will begin to want more, especially if it's that person you have been lusting about. This is also the effect of too much fixation on porn.

Now, sex is a two way thing. It is not just continuous hump, hump, hump, knack, knack, knack. Your wife is not a porn star. Explore her body. Kiss her more. Touch her breasts and squeeze her nipples. Her response will give you more libido. Use your fingers too. Then when you fall, which always does happen, don't feel discouraged. Explore her more. Let her also help in stroking you while you use your fingers to do her. You will naturally get that erection.

Also, anxiety is the killer of libido. Don't be too fixated about impressing. Calm down. When stroking and you feel like ejaculating, withdraw and explore her breasts and nipple. Finger Bleep and continue with your penis after 30 secs. That will reduce anxiety and make you more relaxed.

Finally, take more water melon and cucumber with yoghurt. You will thank me later.

koladata:
Men were never designed to sleep with one woman for the rest of their lives. That's why there's a virginity seal on women at birth while there's no seal on men. Even in basic biology, men's sexual anatomy is completely different , the hormones and desires are referent. most of us have only come to accept this one man one woman thing because someone wrote it in the bible which i'm sure God didn't write that thing, he's not an author of confusion because that would have contradict his designs.

This is a lie from the pit of hell. The fallen man, the natural man finds it difficult to keep to one woman because it's not in his nature, but from the beginning it was not so. Matt 19:1-5 makes it clear when Jesus spoke. He that made them made them male ND female. If God wanted more women for man, he would have made Eve and Evelyn for Adam. But He mad only Eve. When man fell, the fallen sinful nature kicked in and made it worse for man. As long as you remain in that fallen state, keeping to one woman will be difficult, but you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you. Christ came so that the fallen nature in man might be abolished on the cross through his death. It makes it overly possible for one man, one wife to live and enjoy each other for life. God is not an author of confusion and his blessings adds no sorrow. No man who has more wives has ever known peace. No man.

Your husband needs therapy and you both need to see a counsellor. You both should also repent and turn to Jesus

This is more about speakership of the House of Rep. Tinubu needs the house and APC doesn't have the majority when compared with all the other parties put together. With NNPP, it's easy. He can't go to LP because they are still trying to upturn the elections and he will never go to PDP as they are sworn enemies. He has worked with RMK before so that's his best and safest choice.

With porn, you are never satisfied. You go for more and more. You get satisfaction with right sex. With porn, the guilt and shame is more and more

If you don't know how to design and construct flat slabs, then don't use it. Use the normal conventional construction

Marriage is enjoyable when you and your spouse are friends. I don't see friendship between you and your wife. If you can build friendship with her, you would have solved more thann 50% of your marital issues

Sanwo Olu, I have nothing against you. Tinubu and Lagos Agbero must fall. You are only a puppet and collateral damage. You didn't and haven't isolated yourself enough from the rot in Lagos. I may not know GRV, but I hate dictators. I hate people who play God and your master thinks he is God in Lagos. We just want him to fall. He can have the presidency but he'll lose his prized possession...Lagos.

PlayerMeji:
In fact, what the ObidienDs are bringing into Nigerian politics is very dangerous and must be rejected by all.

Now the only thing needed to win any election in Nigeria is to claim that you are fighting for the Youth and the masses. No ideology!

If ObidienDs get into power, another group will come up with the same plan, telling the electorate that they are fighting for the masses...

Now there would be no clear cut ideologies that would form the base of any party... Unlike in saner climes, where they have two or max three political parties with very clear and known ideals. Democrats and Republicans come to mind in the US...

So what is APC' s Ideology? Corruption? Rigging? Thuggery? Hardship? Economic woes? Tribalism? Terrorism? Kidnapping? Religious bigotry? Please enlighten me.

Go after POS operators now! Especially the devils that charge N1000 for N5000

You can't make an estimate until an Architect gives you a design. Tell the architect to design it this way... 14 rooms below for the hotel, reception included, A bar and a Kitchen, all Deluxe rooms, then 6 rooms up with the Event centre.

Now, you will need more than a Plot if you will build this way because a standard room is 12ft by 12ft, that's 3.6m by 3.6m. 7 on each side means you will be needing more than least 676 square meters of land which is more than a plot.

Do you have that? If it is Lagos State, it won't be approved unless you have close to 3 plots or at least 2 and half plots. So, the safer is to make it more than a storey building if you don't have the land but your location also matters. So, Don't let anyone fool you that N60 million will be enough because you don't even have a plan yet sir and your location isn't known. That will determine the overall cost sir.

If you need a plan, you can contact me on Facebook (Elevation Structures Ltd). I can help you with consultancy, design and approval if need be. We construct too, but that will be your decision after we have helped in making sure you have all you need for your project sir.

Is just because of overfeeding. I'm sure if they have not belleful, they can't think this nonsense. I miss those days of Stoning in the Old testament. God is just too merciful these days. If only they can just stone these people, not to death o, but for tasting, I'm sure their head will correct. Nonsense.

Behold your next Governor O Lagos State

I think you overreacted. The problem isn't your mum. She wants to have a say which isn't bad but a say is a say. It doesn't mean it will be done. She can have her say, you and your wife will decide whether to carry it out. I recently had a son and my wife is a nurse. I have watched my mum give birth to our last born and nurse him so I trust her judgement when it comes to raising children as she has raised six. This is our first child. My mum wanted my wife to buy some normal drugs for children which she would give our son everyday. Her mum also wanted that but my wife, being a nurse, didn't think it was necessary. As a professional, she said breastfeeding was enough... In private, I tried to talk to her to see their point but she convinced me and said it's best for our son. Our son is 5 months and he is the most healthy boy you have ever seen. So fresh and full of life, as opposed to other kids. Now our mothers know best and keep asking questions. Marriage is for you and your wife to be one. I backed her in front of my mother and hers and her decision was also my decision. It wasn't her own alone.

Because you are always out, you haven't taken time to build this oneness with your wife. It's not about your mum or any outsider, it's about you and your wife. You cautioned your wife but you made an enemy of your mum and she has been doing quite a great job in keeping your wife company. If she leaves, and your wife is alone, you will be ready for wolves to come in. Swallow your pride, call your mum, let her feel welcome in your home cause you need her, apologize. Tell her you appreciate her input and always welcome it, but make her understand that it still has to be an agreement between you and your wife.

God bless you.

One bedroom

Liar... The global landing price for petrol is N320-350. Don't scare us. Subsidy (organised crime) must go

Obviously staged... Look at the position of the man on the woman... They don't align perfectly for sex

Tinubu, 66 years... Chai, I am dead

Remember they were not paid... We no dey give shishi

This is why Traffic Cam is really needed

I have one question. Did the Pigeon fly?

Go to God's house of Refuge in Uyo, a 8, Ikot Ebido Street. They will arrange an accommodation for you, then look for Sen. Edodi and report the matter. I can link you up with them if you take these steps but if you're in Uyo, you should know GHOR. Save yourself and that girl.

This is why ex players should run football administration in a country. Not politicians. Nigeria should take a cue.

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Don't be deluded. Your wife can't grow in that job with SSCE. I think you are very possessive and not interested in her growth and that's what's giving you insecurities.

She's not your property... She's human being like you with dreams and aspirations. If you had been more encouraging and supportive, some issues would not have arose. Do you ask about her job? Do you try to encourage her to further her education so she can actually grow? Or you want everything to be about you. We men can be very funny at ties in marriage because we believe the woman belongs to is and she's a our slave. No. Please, treat her like a human being. Be her friend and confidant. If she were your daughter, how would you want her husband to treat her? Do same and know peace and love that passes understanding.

Don't commit to her if she won't commit to you. Stop paying her daughters fees. Stop all you're doing for her. Take her out on occasion, buy gifts for her, but don't do too much because she's not your wife. I feel she's using you. But you'll only know if she's still committed to you when you stop all these.

El Rufai, here this from me. Blood is on your hands and you will pay dearly for those innocent blood you spilled. Mark my words.

A Queen can never do this. Only a Harlot can

Make Buhari no mess for there o... Make him no fall Naija or Africa hands