₦airaland Forum

Mizwisdom:
Did your husband carry any of your kids for nine month, give birth after labour and nurse that kid with breast milk, what about the pounding everyday in the name of seexx? Oga is just riding you and your equal contribution beliefs. A man should be the bread winner, if both of you are contributing equally to family upkeep you're being cheated especially if you live here in Nigeria. The only time things should be totally equal in terms of financial contributions is when he can help you incubate a kid in his tummy and bear the pain of childbirth and discomfort of nursing. Hope he also does his house chores equally and dutifully. Good luck

Mariangeles:


Forget all this jibbyjabba!

I believe in how God intended it to be.
A man has to be responsible for his family.
That is how to earn the respect of a wife.
Now, it is a different matter if the wife is greedy and never satisfied.

Mariangeles:


A weak man spotted!

You want total respect and submission of a wife, but not responsibilities that come with it!
Talk about weakness and confusion put together!
Truth is, most men of nowadays are weak men that are afraid of responsibilities required of a man who wants a family of his own.
You have no right to ask your wife equally share in your responsibilities. That is major weakness.
Your wife is meant to be your helper.

crackkhaus:
Lmao...

LewsTherin:
Hang on.

Isn't it interesting that it is the mother, sisters and aunties of the man that "administer" these tests?

Isn't it interesting that is usually the mother, sisters and aunties of the man that "require" the woman wife to spend days with the mother-in-law?

Isn't it interesting that is usually the mother, sisters and aunties of the man that expect the wife to drop her job and business to attend to the in-laws when they come visiting?

Isn't it interesting that is usually the mother, sisters and aunties of the man that judge and many times condemn the wife's cooking and house keeping skills?

Just commenting, you know

Mariangeles:
Rather, gone are the days of strong men who are not afraid to take responsibility for their family.

Kaamisha:
Her envy and vile is the worst kind. It's masked. I prefer people who openly express their hostility. Cowards like her have different masks for their multifaceted forms of malice. Irony, sarcasm, cutting side remarks, even humor. You know these women who will laugh to your face and then do something behind your back to get to you. That's her kind. The worst. At the end of the day they will say how they are innocent hiding behind their Bible like we don't see her pathetic meanness. To get back to the topic, no fulfilled person acts like that, none.

merahki:
I consider you boring shaa, very. However that is not a crime. The crime is meanness. Which is what makes you dance madly as you crucify women.
What are their crimes? Marrying “bad” exciting men, smokers, hunks, rich, good lovers etc. Whenever these men stray and there is a problem as we see in threads, you swoop in (with discernible glee all over your posts), questioning the poster and their choices. Why you even opened a thread asking women to choose your super-boring type! Basically that’s what your thread was all about- inviting people to misery. When you don’t beef those women, you extend it to the single ones I mentioned last night.

I tell women to live first because they tend to put their all in marriages. Not a bad thing I guess, however the marriage should happen as late as possible in life in my books. If it happens early, then the lady had better be a total woman who owns her life and choices.
Imagine getting married at 23 with no personhood of your own, no autonomy, no life, no real knowledge, no money. And then going on to have 50- 60 years of that kind of mind-numbing, soul-sapping, joy-killing “marital bliss”? Especially when all around you woman are owning their lives? At the thought of that horror, why won’t one run mad and start hating her fellow women and opening very banal threads on Nairaland to lash out?
You are not even a complicated case to discern...

This is still not personal, just my observations about you.
Why on earth would you think I would wanna get personal with you? I saw the other post. Don’t do that. It is tacky and untrue and you know it too which makes it all even tackier. I don’t want to know anything about you offline. I am telling you what I noticed online.

I don’t have a need to be heard/understood and lazily can’t argue, so manage this one for today.
Lastly, people have loads of sex, fornicate silly without being married. They do this either for the healthy pleasure of living, for highs or for money. Every day. Many do this without guilt too.
People get married even when they cannot or don’t want children. Not everyone raises or will raise “godly” children. Not everyone wants children too. Find a way to deal with this truth that makes you want to throw things .
I forget the third absurd thing in that your quote or I would add a response to it.

God to me is accepting and good and loving. You make your own God so unappealing.
Chai!

bukatyne:
@bold:

I reject it in Jesus name.

No bad, negative or demonic energy around me or anything that concerns me by God's grace.

Please don't quote me with nonsense next time and keep your bad energy to yourself.

Thank you.

bukatyne:
Women are always the enemy of themselves?

You sound too intelligent to throw clichés that do not fit scenarios around.

Goodluck on your search and update us when you find the one.

Ceeci6:
hello my Darling sister, I didn't open 3 thread within a day, I actually opened them at a time , its my choice to post where ever I feel its appropriate, thank you for ur observation, secondly, you don't know me, and cannot conclude anything about me, why not learn to read and pass next time, if a matter doesn't concern you, instead of giving unsolicited advice women are always the enemy of themselves.. Have a blessed weekend fellow woman like me.... Advicer general

intruder15:
Tragic. Nigeria. I hail thee. OP, pls share the source. Make e no be say na u publish fake story.

promisedwealth:
Please Help provide for my baby

Vickiyxx:
Ok noted. Thanks

debompga:
I Agree with what your saying , this whole living together has made me so unhappy cos my husband doesn’t defend me cos he is scared of his mother and he just wants me to stay with his mum he doesnt really want us to move out . He doesnt understand me, i dont even know if my marriage will survive thats my main concern now.