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Mama mad

The child night be yours ,and might not be yours, it is possible she is confused of who the real father is, and she does not want to pin it on you, reason she refused marriage, wait till the baby is born, then go for Dna











uote author=Princecanada post=105747597]Hi Nairalanders,

This issue has been bothering for a while now. I am not the promiscuous type. I was a virgin all through my university until I started working in one of the states. She was my first and has been the only one. I have been having relationship problems in the sense that I it's just so difficult for me to get emotionally attached to a lady. I am straight so don't think the other way round. I tried to see if I could work this out with her, but along the line, I lost interest again. So just before my relocation, she said she wants to see me one last time before I travel, I tried to lie to her that I am unavailable,but then she made it seemed like I didn't want to see her, I felt sorry and said no problem that she can come around. I have only had sex with her once but with protection, on this her second visit, she said she wouldn't want protection anymore as she doesn't enjoy sex with condom, and that she wants to enjoy sex before I leave. I told her I am not comfortable with the idea as I don't want her to get pregnant as she is still a student in one of the universities. She said she can only get pregnant if she wants to, and that as a student, she doesn't want that yet. When she came over, the did happened but even then I still used a condom, condom broke on 3 occasions, then I decided to raw, and when I felt I was about to release, I pulled out. Even though I pulled out, I was uncomfortable because I have heard that precum can also get a lady pregnant. I was scared about any possibility of infection too. Took her to the hospital the next day, did HIV and other STD tests which came out negative. We went together to see the doctor for post pills, but she declined taking any that since I didn't release in her, she will be fine. And that she has pills she can take too. I was furious at her, but had to respect her decision as it is her body.

Three weeks after, she called that she thinks she's pregnant, that she missed her period which is very unusual. I was so mad at her and told her, I didn't want to hear any of that as I made it clear to her from the beginning. She started crying and got emotional, that got to me and I told her not to worry, that I will pay her bride price and marry her. I earn about half a million monthly, so I believe I can take care of her and the kid. She paused and said she needs to think about it. Regarding abortion, I already told her, my tradition forbids me from giving any form of material and financial assistance to her to do that, if at all she wants to do it, it has to be her sole decision. I made it clear to her that I won't be involved in the decision to abort the pregnancy. She called back after a couple of minutes that she is not comfortable with my decision to marry her, that I want to do that because of the pregnancy. She asked if there was no pregnancy,would I have chosen to marry her, I told her, I don't know. She said then that she is going to abort it, I pleaded with her not to abort seeing the possibility of me becoming a dad soon, she said she will go ahead to abort, that her friend have gotten her some meds already. She called few days later that she just got the drugs, and have taken them, and that she is experiencing blood flow and stomach ache, that I shouldn't abandon her in this difficult time. I said no problem, so I kept calling to check on her very often. After a week, I stopped calling as usual, and that became a problem. I wanted her to move on with her life.

I kept in touch with her and supported her financially when the need arose. When I told her, I am back to the same city with her, she said she wanted to see me that it's very important, I said what's so important that we can't discuss over the phone, she said when I see her I will know. Well, when the day came for her to see me, I told her I was unavailable, then she coded I was avoiding her. We chatted, and she told me the pregnancy is still there. I told her to stop messing with me as I am currently trying to move on and build a new relationship. She insisted, then I said well, if you are, deliver the child, I will take responsibility. She said is that all I have to say, that I want to make her my Baby Mama? I then asked her, what more does she want? I offered marriage before, but now, that's no longer on the table. When the baby is borne I will take responsibility. Well, long story short, at the end of our chat, she said, she was never pregnant, and that she will only get pregnant if she wants to. I then told her, I am not going to forgive her in a hurry.

Since then, we stopped communicating. Recently,I saw her WhatsApp status with her visibly pregnant in the picture. I have been seeing most of her status update on Facebook and WhatsApp, I feel so sorry for her most of the time. She has done nothing wrong but love me. The problem is me, I can't seem to be able to really love back the way I ought to. Feelings die after few weeks and months. This happened to all the 6 ladies I have dated.

My worry right now is, could she be carrying my child? I didn't release in her, but there could be a possibility of precum. One of her friends once called me that she noticed she is pregnant, and I am the only one she has known to be dating her. She claimed to have called me without her knowledge and consent and ask if she told me she was pregnant.

I was a good boy and should have remained a virgin till marriage if I had known. Now look how complicated my life just got. I never wanted to have kids with different women. I haven't really been myself since. If you are a young single guy, please learn from my experience.

For the mature minds in the house, what do you advise I do about my present predicament?[/quote]

He told you his mind, why not kill the feelings and move on, you can not force a man to love you, it will lead to problem, move on.









ote author=empress101 post=105717656]HI everyone..
I have been talking to a guy recently..We have known for years but lost contact and reconnected again 3months ago and I honestly do like him alot(I think he likes me too)....
When I asked him what he really wanted, he said "I dont want a relationship, I like you and just want you around"..
To me,its selfish and seems like torture to my emotions going with the facts that I'm beginning to have catch feelings..
I'm so confused now, what do I do??
I'm planning of stopping communications and erasing all memory of him...[/quote]

Him many simps do you know, stay here and be using social media to judge, all the guys you are calling simps, are 100times better than you, most decent and good guys are know, ended up with good and decent wife,

Continue receiving your self on social media, that good girls like bad guys.

The girl you will marry with your mumu mindset, is a girl that has useless her self, then enter church pretending to be virgin, nah u go marry.


Mumu social media hard guy.



quote author=BigYash post=105725094]How many SIMPs have you seen ending up with decent girls? We are talking reality ,you're talking karma. Karma fire ... Shift comot here jare... Una never see anything.. Na who even marry una I blame.. Bitter and confused beings![/quote]

She has remove the her wedding ring

Wow!


I will not blame her because her husband cheated first, women can over do, when they want to retailiate.


















uote author=benjackugo post=105742609]Tega Dominic Gets Her First Endorsement Deal After Her Eviction From Big Brother Naija Show (Video)

Ex-housemate of the Big Brother Naija season 6, Tega Dominic gets her first advertisement deal after her eviction from the show, IgbereTV reports.

See video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k1mpvu-DYgc[/quote]

This burna boy mum's will not allow the boy marry or have good relationship,

Some mumu will come on this page with emotional blackmail, about mothers now.


There is an age, a man gets to, he must leave to start his life, not mother following him up and down.












uote author=Sophiebabe85 post=105728908]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaroVIEgzNI


Burna Boy and Mom watching and celebrating Manchester United match with customized jersey in the stadium[/quote]

Is not true, the fact you are useless does not mean all human are useless, there are girls and boys that at age 30, are still virgin.























quote author=franchasng post=105721827]The response on this thread is filled with lies as normal with Nigerians' response to topics like this.





An average Nigerian guy must have dated at least 10 girls and fvcked at least 50 girls by the time he clocks 30yrs while an average Nigerian girl must have dated at least 5 guys and fvcked by at least 100 guys by the time she clocks 30.




But if you ask any Nigerian girl, she will tell you between 2 to 5 at most.


Dont expect honest answer from Nigerians in topics like this[/quote]

Simps will end up with good girls, why you end up with a deep hole claiming virgin, karma is real you can not excape it.









quote author=BigYash post=105721365]Girls go lie here now en.. An average niaja girls body count be like exchange rate for bitcoin now. Any girl wen qoute me go catch fire..

Me never even start .. Still counting.... Na girl wen no spoil ,we go las las marry.. Let the SIMPs settle for all those we dumped.. I no fit shout[/quote]

I think you are the one with the problem, the ones that are real with their character you said they are forming, the one displaying her real character you said ,she is disgusting



No be mumu you be so.







quote author=Cokahot post=102832394]Well for 5 years I dated myself. All the bastards I dated had ego problems,peer pressure problems. Shyness.
Imagine my ex couldn't carry a poly bag in public cos she had bragged abt her imaginary status. She can't can't go to market. I have only met 1 real gal who did every,but I felt she was disguising. Ubknw hw naija women do it. Disguise ti u marry them and gbam they become a pain I marriage. All the girls I have dated till tmrw have not married. They are lazy,proud,arrogant,wasteful,boastful. It's a miracle I could actually pinch my money these days,unlike when I was dating myself. Naija girls are useless. I had chat with some today and they felt I would request for their number
Na na na not under buhari regime. The poor have no class, the middle class still have no class.its only the wealthy. I'm not poor I'm not rich. So when I see ghetto kids and girls forming class and posh I just laugh cos if u go to their abode,it's a stinky and dirty sight to tolerate.[/quote]

Including your mother and sisters yes they are very useless.

Frustrated fool go and hang yourself and die.





quote author=mosdii post=102805531]None cos Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them[/quote]

visit human right organisation











author=munstaqq post=105711286]Dear Nairalanders,

With a sad and heavy heart, I'm writing to seek your advice and/or recommendations.

My mum is late. She died 2 years ago and since her demise, everything has turned left for us - her children. We were deserted and left to fend for ourselves by our uncles, aunties, and other relatives that we thought were with us when my mum was alive. My dad is still alive but he only pretends to care about us. I can't even remember the last time he has done something good for any of us. Our school fees, food, everything, were taken care of by my mum.

There is a 50-year-old man who we were later told is our distant relative. His house is a stone's throw away from our house. When I was at home, I used to run errands for him, like going to the market to buy things for him. So it was normal. He used this same method on my sister. He took advantage of my sister's naivety and impregnated her. She's barely 16 and I swear to God, she has not known any man until this bastard did this to her. He even ran away from home and plan to come back when tensions are low.

Note: we left her in the village with my dad and my brother. We, the elderly ones left the village to hustle in the city. We have not settled and we couldn't afford to take them with us.

Please I need your advice. What should be our next line of action? He's 50 and won't marry my sister. There is also a high tendency that he won't even take care of her and the baby.

Please what should we do? We are all we've got and nobody to turn to to help us fight this battle. What should we do?

Thank you.[/quote]

You said she is a good woman,

Do you take care of her needs, are you caring and romantic, like give her money for shopping, buy her gifts, show interest in her vision or health, hope you are not aggressive, and akwaya shouting hope you are not bossy

All this things can kill a woman sexual feelings :


Now check your romance during sex, hope u are not the type of man that just penetrate without good romance

Finally try MouthAction, use of touque and her G sport

She will always come back for more



author=Gobdddd post=105660528]Strickly for the married

Good evening tweeps, my marriage is jerking. Needs a quick solution.

We married 9years ago.
She was a virgin in my Church. I am a pastor too.
Though we were not in the same state.
She was the first woman I had sex with after our marriage.
But I noticed that she has no interest in anything called sex.
She will not deny me sex, but I do not enjoy it because she's not enthused to it.

I have tried all I could to make her love sex, but all to no avail.
If you do not demand for sex, she'll not show any interest, even if you stay one year without talking about it.
And I am 100% sure that she's not seeing any man anywhere.

I took my time to educate her from the little research I made, but she wouldn't pay any serious attention.

I querried myself as to wether I do not satisfy her, on another point, sometimes, I'd last for 10-15 mins which, according to research is not bad.

Last night, I got angry at her attitude towards it. To me, she just try to open legs for me to satisfy myself and get down.

This has affected my psyche towards her.
But apart from her low libido, she is a very wonderful and good woman to be with.

So, last night, I opened up to her once again and told her she's making me to think twice and that am not happy at her actions.

Since today, our relationship has dwindled.

Alot of things have been going through my mind.

I don't know what to do. Am confused.
I can't go to another woman and leave such a good woman that have given me 4 kids.

Pls is there any known solution?

I need help.[/quote]

Is not true, not all single mothers still allow the father of the child access to their private part .


Most will not.









quote author=TheGidRedpiller post=105661747]I verify this comment.[/quote]

[Most sell because they need money, same way I want to sell my matrix car.














quote author=nosiebaba post=105043122]My own advise is if you don't know that person personally and you haven't witnessed how he handles his car, RUN OOH 98% of Nigerians only sell their cars when the problem don tire them[/quote]

She is a mumu, let her give other men, chance, maybe when you see other men finding her attractive ,you sense will come back ,


She is begging for sex, some women no get sense, why will you beg your partner for sex, ask him for sex, if he refused ,ignore him
Simple.







Other men uote author=isaacology3000 post=105664757]I and my wife met through her senior sister who happens to be my friend and also my toaster.

I ended up falling in love with my wife through her sister who claims we can't date because we're of age bracket.

We courts for 6 years before getting married to her and blessed with a beautiful daughter.

Lately I don't find her attractive to me anymore. She's the one begging for sex before I consider her once or twice in a month.
Please nairalanders, I need advice what could cause it and what should I do because I don't want to loose my marriage.[/quote]

[Lie lie story, you people will just formulate story, anyhow.
















quote author=Breeze111 post=105664039]Jess even me this matter over me, papa ijeoma won run mad. I they even pity am.

I go just give una the story how my client give me..

My name is papa ijeoma, I have three kids. A daughter and two son, the girl is the first. I Am just a road side mechanic managing life with my family though am normally busy so I do come back in the night.

For twelve years of marriage I have never had issue with my wife nor-suspected any mistrust or cheat. We have live very happy not until on Tuesday(2days back) when I came back from work very early and it was because she is hosting their women wing ex-co meeting in the house that day.

So when I came back she was in the kitchen as God would have it her fone was on the center table in parlour, the phone rang, it was on silence(but on vibration) so I was on call with one of my boys in the shop could not tell her to come and pick her call.

As soon as I drop my call I say to myself (this children have put their mother phone on silent again) not knowing she was the one that put it. I pick the phone to remove it from silent, I saw the miss call emma(I trust the wife wai I get for house die, so I no send) not up to 5second a message enter from this same emma via sms(you know android phone na them go pop up the sms untop for your screen).

I saw 'my world' sharply I open the sms and it was (my world you have been avoiding me why!! Have miss you lying beside me on my bed) immediately my eyes started turning me, my head began to hot like fire.

Sharply I enter watsap of which have never done before(though in my house we don't put security lock on phone my rules) I saw that same Emma again on WhatsApp message, I screw up-up and began to see message like hope you are taking care of my child Emma, because that is the name of my suppose last child.

So she name him after her ex-guy. I ran to her in the kitchen to confront her immediately she just knelt down and started crying uncontrollable and confessing that the last child is for her ex who came back from outside the country few years ago and started disturbing her. Have called her parent and my parent they say they we be coming by weekend.

She use advantage of me because she knew am a very quite person in nature.

Right now I just feel like dying don't know if I should divorce her quietly or forgive her, but she is claiming to be really sorry. (but Las-Las I love this woman die just don't know why she betray me like this).[/quote]

Women tolerate more shit than this , so what are you talking about








.quote author=Crossroad1 post=105593546]Let me use my uncle as an example here...

This is a very hardworking man who doesn't drink, doesn't smoke, doesn't watch football and doesn't womanize.
An extreme introvert who doesn't even keep friends but he got married to a very temperamental woman but it wasn't so initially.
Shade (not real name) was very loving when they first met, it was love at first sight..
Though she was the outgoing, party starter type, but she was a good cook, and like egbon said, she can allow him have sex with her anywhere and anytime.

Her promiscuous side wasn't in the open all these while.
How she manage to keep it a secret is still a mystery though egbon is someone who is always busy at work and the wife though a graduate choose to learn hairdressing to keep herself busy.

Shade is a very pretty woman. When I mean pretty, I mean extremely pretty.. If you are seeing her for the first time, you will believe she is an half caste.
But she get angry for no reason, small argument or admonishing, she can just get angry, get out of the house and egbon will looking for her..
Maybe it was because of the beauty or the good food, or the not denying of sex, I don't know (egbon always believe with time, he can tame her) but she had a great influence over egbon..

Even when the family was beginning to notice her bad attitude, egbon choose her over the family cos he really love her, he loved her pass love self...

Egbon wasn't well to do when they met, he was living in a face me I slap you house wherr they share toilet with everyone..

While they live together, it is sometimes 1-0-1 or 0-1-1 or 0-0-1 but she stood by him all through that time..
So they got married despite almost everyone was against it.

The real problem started when she started giving birth.
She threw caution to the wind and became abusive. She was very strict to family members, manipulative and self centered...
She came from a broken home anyways, she was raised by her mother but in all fairness, her mother was a good woman who doesn't love trouble and she often wonder where her daughter got her own skuchy from..
Omo, shade get serious craze o..

After 3 kids, egbon couldn't tolerate her again.. She keep late nights and she doesn't even come home most times.
Egbon endured her for 12years before he let her go leaving the kids behind..

She was free to do whatever she wanted.
Let me just fast forward to years later when egbon has sent his kids abroad, he didn't remarry but kept a girlfriend after years of begging him to do so..

While egbon suffered the torture and torment of his wife, he didn't bring the matter to the family, though they know what he was going through..

Many years later, aunty came back using her kids as excuse.

The flower tattoo she drew on her shoulder was already looking like an ugwu leave during harmattan.
Because she was beautiful, her thoughts everyday was maybe someone like dangote or otedola will just wife her..
She is the lazy type that wants to live the lifestyle of alakija.

This is not a fiction.. How come I know so much?

I started living with egbon when I was 14yrs old. My own eyes too see pepper and shege..

Why egbon endured it all was because of the kids.
Most times, egbon said he wished he can run away but the kids keep holding him down cos even on her kids, she no dey get mercy..
My own wife too na dangbana choko and immediately she gave birth to the second child, I catapult am go abroad. The only diff be say, my own wife can die for her kids..

So let's have it. Why do married men keep quiet and tolerate nonsense in their matrimony?

What prompt me to write this story?
He just called me now from the USA and we talked and laughed about so many things he went through. Even him self now dey claim hard guy and redpill.[/quote]

What is likeness if not to stand by your partner, encourage her to do 7days fasting, take her to Mfm camp, let her pray, then everything will be settled.
























QUOTE author=tgmservice post=103807858]Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?[/quote]

Olodo, 17, years is a minor, in Nigeria law.













quote author=judetov2 post=105441621](1) 17 years old is no longer a minor
(2) it was not a rape case, business gone wrong.
(3) 72 year old man can not rape a 17 year old gal.[/quote]

Them don break your heart tire ,you come turn motivation Nonsense, it is this mindset that made all your ex leave you, nobody will take another serious that is not showing commitment,

If you, meet a girl, she loves her friends more than you, will you take her serious? fine ,in relationship your family should come first before a boyfriend or girlfriend , , but in marraige your partner comes first,

If a girl prefer her friends more than you, prefer to hang out with her friends , communicate with her friends than you, will you take her serious, definitely nope

In marriage your partner come first , your wife or husband come first
before friends and family , even sometimes your wife or husband should come first before your self.
carry your broken and damaged heart, out of here, people like you are reason we have many broken homes , mumu adviser.

















authorr=BadRadio post=105158820]No matter how much u love someone or feel committed about a relationship, give it less attention than u do for urself, friends and ur family.

There is a reason why this is important. It is important because you are more important than any relationship... your intellectual, physical, psychological, mental, financial, and spiritual wellbeing is more important than the person u are dating... ur family is more important than any relationship. Your social circle is as well more important.

If a relationship threatens the interests, unity or peace in ur family or social circle, cut it off !!!

Relationships has the capacity to leave you broken, empty and battered if you pay better attention to it than you do with other more important aspects of your life...

A relationship can drain you from all your energies and time especially if you are not well schooled on how to handle one.

There are not much first love stories with a happily ever after endings... meaning there is usually a snag of heartbreaks in about 99.9% of first relationships around the world... this also means that every one has got at least one Ex to cry about at some point.

The fact that people start relationships and finally end up as an Ex is enough reason to channel your energies into something that is everlasting, Like self-development, investing, making money, and solving problem through ideas, inventions and innovations.

Add urs

#BadRadio has spoken[/quote]

Go and adopt , two kids are enough....



Go and adopt if you need more

quote author=expertman post=105137847]Sandi baby baby Congratulations.

Joy of motherhood .

May God that did us favour me as well and do mine on time .

I need more kids is been over 6years since my second child.

May heavens smile and favour I and my wife and all the expecting women around the world.[/quote]

Middle born are the best in marriage and relationship, first born is ok if they are very very wealthy, but last borns both from rich and poor homes , are nothing to write home about, you need to teach them alot.





uote author=DankemzI post=105016630]Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.[/quote]

He has put his person there, he only used you guys as formality to show the comapny he is doing his job.


I experienced same thing, I had to send the HR a mail, telling her my mind.

I passed all stages the last stage she gave me a wrong time for Interview, when I logged him to the zoom, was told meeting was over, I checked my mail again to be sure I logged in on time, I discovered she gave me 11am as time, and I logged in by 10:30, fully prepare, was told they did the interview with the MD by 10, she gave the three people that came through her the right time,

She saw me as threat, because if the MD should interview me, he must pick me.











uote author=Mode4 post=104997067]Please I need a candid explanation for this, if you have any.

I will try to be brief as much as possible.

So last two months I was invited for an interview in a new school that is about to begin by septamber, apparently a branch of one of the top missionary secondary schools in Nigeria. We were 22 in number that appeared for interview on that fateful day. The interview was for TWO subject teacher positions. I was interviewed for one of the subjects.

We all wrote a written test for one hour. At the end, according to them; Six persons emerged highest scorers. I was among the six persons. I.e, Three persons for EACH of the two subjects.

We were then subjected to an oral interview and micro teaching which lasted for about 20mins for each person. Well, I was the first. answered most of the questions that were thrown at me. I left feeling very satisfied. Just like you would write an exam and leave the hall feeling very good because you know you wrote well, that was how I felt that day.

Well, after the interview we exchanged contacts and I and the other guys have been communicating ever since. Till now no news from the HR team that interviewed us. And it's 2months already.

Well, the HR number was in the mail he sent to me for interview, So today I decided to call the HR. I was shocked to hear that the position we were interviewed for has been filled.

I am wondering? What really happened? Why didn't they pick from amongst the six of us Just why? I'm just being curious![/quote]

You are talking rubbish, even if you avoid her and marry another girl, how will you know if it is in their lineage, only prayer can safe you and your offspring from generational curses .







uote author=saasala post=105023503]This is something very delicate that one should be careful of revealing to the world. Schizo is highly hereditary which means that her brother got it from the family tree.

Any man with sense should avoid raising offspring from the womb of Maria to avoid having mad children. It might sound like a harsh statement but it is true.[/quote]

Nah Churchill and he mumu new wife do that shit, so to kick totoh ,

Churchill shame on you, Mr one munute











quote author=Updating9JA post=104981947]Tonto Dikeh’s lover, Prince Kpokpogri debunks leaked audio where he allegedly admitted to cheating on the actress

Actress, Tonto Dikeh’s ‘husband’, Prince Kpokpogri, has dismissed claims that he was the one speaking in the audio recording making rounds on social media.

Earlier today, an Instagram blogger released a call recording purportedly between Prince and a yet-to-be identified woman. In the clip, he admitted to cheating on the actress and enjoying the ‘pusssy’ of the said lady. [color=#d7e0c9]Daily Prayers[/color]

He also revealed that he and the actress has been quarrelling over her refusal to stop smoking and drinking, which he finds irritating. He spoke ill about the actress while the woman he was on call with mocked her.

The audio clip has since stirred mixed reactions from social media users as they anticipate a reaction from either Tonto Dikeh or her man.


Well, Prince has come out to debunk the audio recording, saying it is a ‘fake clone audio’ and people should disregard it. He added that he will do an Instagram Live so people can hear his real voice and compare it with that of the voice recording.

Taking to Instagram, he wrote,



See his post below,

Source; https://www.instagram.com/p/CSvriexsZJJ/[/quote]

I am happy she is the one filling for divorce, this is to teach all nairaland boys that not all women are Crazy about money, fame positions and, handsomeness, not all ladies you can traet anyhow, because you think you have money, responsible girls still value men that , treat women well, not men that are proud and arrongant , men that are chronic cheats.

We heard he is proud and arrogant, and talk to his wife anyhow, even slept with their maid.

e choke am say the babe don use am dump am.















Jan quote author=EBMedia post=104989708]Paul Okoye's Wife, Anita Okoye Files For Divorce After 7 Years Of Marriage (Photo)



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That was after feminist started the fight,please in the days of old, how many girls went to school in your entire village? feminsim is not today's movement ,it started in the 60's, where most women that started the movement are now late,
they have been agitating for the girl child since the 80's, because of feminsim, early marriage has been aborted in many states, because if feminism, there is a law now that says the girl child in the Eastern part can inherit property,

Feminsim is not a war against the male gender, but a fight for women liberation , from all forms of traditions and cultures militating against their rights.


Every sensible man with sisters and daughters must be a feminist.



Girls are enjoying for now, what our heroes ( past feminist). Fought for, and the struggle must continue , until it becomes a norm.







uotee author=Kondomatic post=104911421] Girls go to school more than boys in Nigeria.


Discrimination based on sex and gender when it comes to employment is something Nigeria feminists believe has to happen even though they can't tell you where and when.


Girls get education more than boys. Women get employed as much as men so what exactly are Nigeria feminist on about? [/quote]

What is insane to you is same to others,
feminism movement fights for education for the girl child, employment for the girl child, it is a movement every sensible man should support , because you will have daughters one day .





uotee author=Kondomatic post=104887022] Any movement that produces more insane women than sane ones needs to be abolished [/quote]

Mumu man see he small head, Fisher man, with two disgusting women. Run from any woman that agree to stay with another woman, the two of them have mission, is either one is already thinking how to kill one, or another thinking how to poison one, finally they will kill the man,

No two female adults can stay together, name one peaceful polygamous home

Most useless children on the street are from polygamous home. Most robbers, most prostitute most useless boys, most children that are insane on the street are from polygamist homes

Children from that home are always useless, because the wives will be fighting the children with juju, your child must not be better then mine,

Only a mad man that does not like his life and future will dare two wives.


The wives will destroy the future of your children at old age you will not have one child that his / her head is correct to take care of you.








quote author=jaybenugo post=104845536]A 34-year-old fish farmer, Ekpe Akpove from Igbide in Isoko South Local Government Area of Delta State married two wives on Saturday, August 14.

The traditional ceremonies took place at the respective homes of the brides. A wedding reception is held at the groom's father’s compound.

Below is a video of the wedding ceremony.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NlASk1Az4H4

Speaking to the Punch Akpove said he met his first wife, Okoro Oghenekomeno in 2008, the second one, Maro in 2010 and has been dating them since then.

Read below.



https://punchng.com/im-happy-to-marry-two-wives-same-day-34-year-old-delta-farmer/[/quote]

[My brother, same thing women are going through in marriage, because they have no money they stay and tolerate all nonsense, my advice dress well, look good, learn how to cook, maybe your food is not sweet, wear sexy boxer, above all pray and fast, so she will love you.










arequote author=ORLAHOLUWA post=104610678]A man took to Twitter to narrate how he caught his girlfriend
on him but he's scared of confronting her.


The man identified as Glory further asked if getting her pregnant will make her love for him stronger and hence, abstain her from cheating.

He wrote;

"I caught my girlfriend cheating but rim scared to confront her about it because she might kick me out of her apartment°

Maybe if I get her pregnant she would love me more"


In other news, relationship therapist Blessing Okoro has disclosed that she's in love with the new housemate, Micheal.

Okoro took to her Instagram page to make a funny video of herself as she says she will be dumping all of her boyfriends for the sake of Micheal.[/quote]