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6. Move out when you have disgrace your family as a stupid man, date girls on the street, beat your wife, Everytime openly, fooling your self with u derage girls, fetish house where people die always .


















quote author=mykwaba post=102062377]Moving out from one apartment to another is more than an overnight decision. When you just settled into an apartment, it can be hard to even imagine that you'll want to move somewhere else one day but whether you’ve lived in your apartment for 12 months or 12 years, it’s likely that one morning you’ll wake up and decide it’s time to move out.

We all have many reasons for moving, ranging from financial to social. Also, although sometimes there's a clear, urgent need to move, it's important to recognize that the desire to move is often a feeling that grows stronger over time.

Now if you're on the fence about moving out, here are tip off factors to consider in taking your decision.

1. Rent Hike
With the rate in which landlords, especially in Lagos tends to increase their rents over time, you might end up paying 500k for an apartment you moved into for 300k two years ago. When rent increases don’t match cost-of-living salary increases, it’s a strong indicator it’s time to find a better apartment and take a lot of financial stress off your shoulders.

2. You've Outgrown your place
If you had been living in a single room, you might prefer a two bedroom apartment probably because you have accumulated more things and want more space to store, display or use them all. Also, other life related moves such as marriage can prompt this feeling, you might feel you need a bigger apartment to accommodate you and your partner or family.

3. Bad Neighbours
Neighbours can change over time and you might find the new ones uncomfortable. If you start feeling like an outsider and find those living around you cold and distant, it’s probably time to seek out a community that feels more like family.

4. Bad commute
As life keeps moving from one phase to another, people finish schools and start a new job or switch jobs over time. Whenever this happens, there's a big chance your new traveling route might become expensive, tiring and uncomfortable. If your job is secure and enjoyable, moving closer to work might be a great idea.

5. You can now afford a more luxurious apartment
If you just acquired wealth (just arrived) or your salary has significantly increased since the time of the lease of your current apartment, you might decide its time to upgrade and apply more of your money toward living expenses. This often prompts relocation.

All been said, even if you're able to spend more on rent than the last time around, it's still important to identify and separate wants from needs to help ensure your next apartment is the right one for you.[/quote]

Most Nigerian guys, lack dignity , and value for women, they are getting what they desire from the girls, most of the girls behaviing like animals, were heart broken by guys, you remember that innocent girl, you broke her heart use and dump, she is the one dating your father now, and sleeping with your friends and cousins, because you made her a beast.








quote author=Telstar post=102124693]The ones you befriended, did you die for them? Stop talking nonsense.

Most Nigerian girls lack dignity.[/quote]

You think is every woman that want money, or old men, stop fooling yourself, some women have dignity and self worth, they can not standd any man Maltreating them,


Any day any time, I will go for a young guy, that values and respect me, and treat me like an angel, what can ffk give that I do not have, I have my car, I have a good job, I can travel if I wish, for one seconds I can not stand men that cheats, I can not stand men that talk down on women, I can not stand men that feels women are trash and sex object, I will die for any man that respect and treat women well .


I can not even date a divource man, I can not share any man, God forbid.





quotee author=Telstar post=102115121]Forget about that. If FK asks you out, would you turn him down? That's the big question for you.

I'm pretty sure you won't.[/quote]

He was dating this one behind his wife, it will end in premium tears again, when a man is mentally sick, he is mentally sick, they are all coming to eat from his money, none love him, the only woman that trully love a man is , his first wife that married him, or dated him when he has nothing, once he has money, all the women want is just the money, , once the money stop love stop,
most of this lady will kill him sef. Fear ladies that are after married men, fear ladies that knows you have a wife and they are claiming to love you, most of them are demonic and posses.










uotee author=EcoBrick post=102112191]

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2021/5/lib-exclusive-femi-fani-kayode-finds-love-again-meet-his-new-boo-nerita-photos.html[/quote]

God bless you, leave this one to be talking anyhow, Nigerian women like money , yes because the economy is harsh, foreign ladies have jobs, government do pay them,
How will they ask for money or depend on any man, take your Nigeria babe abroad and see if she will not change and stop asking you for money.












nuote author=Bigredmachine post=101983019]

If your dad avoided your mum you would not exist today...[/quote]

You are a curse thing, you want to sleep with your mother inlaw, reason why some of you men, never succeed in life.



Damaged soul you need help and deliverance.



















quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=101960793]




I'd never understand how some men are unable to manage their mother-in-laws'.

It's only natural that you may have an overly domineering mother-in-law that will not only interfere in your marriage but also incite her daughter; your wife.

The frustation of not having a young male's lotion water their rusty canal is enough to turn an average mother-in-law into a witch.

I have and will always advice men with such cases to do everything in their power to bed such a mother-in-law, and to bed her real well.
That is the only secret to converting an interfering mother-in-law into an ally.

It works and will always work.[/quote]

Dear men do not marry if you feel you want to continue flexing , the truth is husband must be faithful to his wife, and wife must be faithful to her husband, if the marriage must grow and prosper, stay single if you are not ready to commit and be faithful, marriage has killed lot of men and women ,because we refused to obey God's manuel of marriage ,













quote author=ogbiwa post=101941382]
https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/world-news/singer-fell-death-trying-hide-24155472

LAST PIC is the model he was caught cheating with.[/quote]

Damaged soul, go get help from a psychologist, or psychiatrist, and stop spoiling the institution marriage, lot of guys are enjoying their homes, if you are frustrated go get help, and see for help please .








quote author=Escabado post=101098824]A guy should. But unfortunately marriage doesn't benefit men . Is better u do baby mama things . Nigerian girls of today are so un-productive and very u.suuless. Marrying them is a waste of money because you will regret it at last . She will cheat on u and bring other men children for you to raise . So young men should be careful.[/quote]

[Stop coming here to form mumu hard guy that you are not, deceiving people reading your post it is poeple like you, that will even weep to beg a lady to marry you.








quote author=parzdor post=101918056]As a real niggarrrr nothing worry me with kneeling....
My method na if babe come house I tell her babe Ring dey ontop sink for kitchen if u go marry me carry wear if you no go marry leave am there and getout b4 I comeback home ma go drink orijin come[/quote]

See mad and Damaged man, and what is wrong if the wife ask him to assist, is the wife supposed to ask, a sensible man that loves his wife, even if he is a bank manager, ought to assist his wife once he noticed she needs help, quote author=Ninejaywon post=101922920]The man supposed to have given her quadruple slaps. 2 hot slaps on both cheeks. Had it been that man end up washing the dishes, the next one will be to sweep the floor and clear the table. Pure bullshit.[/quote]

It is not bad telling him, since he does not know what to do, the truth is immediately he walked into the shop, and discovered there are many customers, he ought to assist the wife, even if he has a job. Assisting your wife in domestic chores does not make you less of a man, it should be that way,both of you are partners and both of you should learn to assist each other when one is stressful. Or need help.

Nigeria men especially Igbo men are disgusting I swear, who told them a man should not do domestic chores .










should uote author=Hardgun post=101915845]That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate[/quote]

Having sex with random girls, comes with lot of backwardness and problem for a man, it destroy your destiny, no man with a destiny does that, these girls exchange body with different men, thereby carrying curses from different people and giving it out to different people.

If you are single the best is to stay without sex or get married.
If you can not stay without sex, get a good girl, two of you can go for deliverance, then show her love and care, and two of you should be faithful to yourself.






uote author=AmancalledGod post=101888940] I swear bro na the fastest way to bang no time for long talk, and heart break[/quote]

It is better not to talk than to talk, this one no get sense , he talk come spoil everything , which mercy is he talking about. Baba go and keep quite , as you have been keeping quite ooo






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quote author=drinoayo post=101881227]President of the Association of Nigeria Theatre Practitioners (ANTP), Adewale Elesho has finally made a statement concerning Baba Ijesha's case of sexual assault and molestation, Igbere TV reports.

In a video posted on social media, the veteran actor thanked everyone who had lent their voices to the case and then proceeded to air his opinion.

Elesho used the opportunity to beg Princes to temper justice with mercy as the case was already getting out of hand considering Baba Ijesha's state of health.

He continued by saying that she should remember the great friendship she had with Baba Ijesha.

The president said that he had to intervene after someone pointed out to him that Baba Ijesha is an actor it is a good reason why he should not be left in his trouble all by himself.

He appealed to the actors behind Princess to think very well about their involvement in the case because no one knows tomorrow.

Elesho also begged the Lagos state commissioner of police to do a thorough investigation and the governor of the state to have mercy as well.

He further made a passionate appeal to everyone concerned in the case to have mercy on Ijesha and Nollywood as a whole.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYRowXcslbw

https://www.instagram.com/tv/CPFimqzJUoo/?utm_medium=copy_link[/quote]

Good men exist, thank God you are single.

1. Marry from your tribe, except his mother is not a tribal person, before you can consider him .

2. Check his family history, is he from a God fearing home, where the mother fear God, and brought all her children
up in the fear of God,

3. Check his past relationships, is he a guy that can keep a woman, how many relationship has he had in the past, if many avoid him.

4. Test him, you can pretend to be sick, go to hospital and see if he will come.
check if he is the caring type, or the type that will not care about you.

5. Run if he is a mummy boys, my mummy say, my mummy say, My mummy say , please run run run run


6. Check if he is a the type of men that sees women as partners and not slave. Check how he talk if he loves and respect women.






uotee author=phodoraz post=101846695]Why are some people hell bent on making marriage look so bad? Just negodu these two morons... Now the baby paid the ultimate price. I hope they are happy now? They failed and should paid..

No matter what I won't be discouraged. Good men still exist and marriage is not all rosy but it is still worth it...[/quote]

Yes ooo, including your mother, she deserve slap to have sense, hope your dad is slaping her, your mum is a bleeding Gender she deserves slap to have sense, may your dad keep slapping and beating her, including your sisters, may their husbands keep slapping them so they will have sense

Damaged , useless untrained , idiots that has been used and dumped by many girls, they will keep breaking your heart and dumping you, because you lack sense..

Eeya, them Don break this one heart reason he thinks every girl wants to eat his money , is this your mum's advice meaning is same thing your mum did to your dad, reason she keep telling you all women wants to eat you and run
Mothers do not want other women to do to their sons what they did to their husband, not knowing their husband is some one else's son, and they will do same to their son, Las last karma nah bitch, no matter how they protect their children =, their children will keep having heart break and dissapointment , because what they are teaching the children is all lies.





uote author=escapefromusa post=101819456]

Manipulations of a she devil:
Mummy boy
Real man
Man enough
Aren't you a man
You are a man

They hate the so called mummys boy becuase they are hard to manipulate.

Just like OP was about spend twice for what he could for half. And Mommy came with insight... boom manipulation busted.

Always listen to your mothers. Even when they give unsound advice the objective is always for your best. These witches are looking for men to drain one way or the other. So they can get body enhancements... travel to UAE and sleep with 15 yr old Arab princes.

OP your future wife is no different. Because las las na one fine boy with body odour, six packs and N630 in his bank account will kpansh your girl like $2 tramp for camp.

In Nigeria once a girl .. that has bore you no children or never sacrifice something for your benefit challenges you ... wahala dey. And your not even married and she telling what to do, not asking what should we do.[/quote]

Your comment shows how damaged you are, and need help, you really need a paychatrist to help you out before it is late, it is very obvious your own mum has brain washed you, and before you know it, you will become a 50years old man, with regreats all over, write it down.

Common sense , your mum does not want you to spend on your wife and family not because she likes you, but because she wants you to spend it on her, that is greed and selfishness from her,

If you are a mummy's boy you so not need to get Marry, stay with your mother let her use you for ever,

You do not need to marry because others are marrying or you need children, stay with your mum and old with her,

Mumu you better go for deliverance , or you will be frustrated under your mother's slavery till you old and die.



Since you are single and not married , please Marry your mother, since he is the one that loves and will tell you the truth.

Mumu mummy boy s

quote author=escapefromusa post=101819456]

Manipulations of a she devil:
Mummy boy
Real man
Man enough
Aren't you a man
You are a man

They hate the so called mummys boy becuase they are hard to manipulate.

Just like OP was about spend twice for what he could for half. And Mommy came with insight... boom manipulation busted.

Always listen to your mothers. Even when they give unsound advice the objective is always for your best. These witches are looking for men to drain one way or the other. So they can get body enhancements... travel to UAE and sleep with 15 yr old Arab princes.

OP your future wife is no different. Because las las na one fine boy with body odour, six packs and N630 in his bank account will kpansh your girl like $2 tramp for camp.

In Nigeria once a girl .. that has bore you no children or never sacrifice something for your benefit challenges you ... wahala dey. And your not even married and she telling what to do, not asking what should we do.[/quote]

Mumu you are not God

Get out, women are marrying at 50, some will marry a widower and be happy.


some will even marry a younger guy so get out.



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I love men that can cook sha.


uote author=dwisedgreat post=101755478]Went to the market today....and made oha soup[/quote]

As hard as it is, Nairaland men and Boys are street boys that will destroy marriage anytime anyday, it is not the best place to seek marriage advice, bro what most of them will tell you, they do otherwise, they are just here trying to form hard guys.


My advice go sees advice from an elderly God fearing man you respect so much, note the word God fearing God.

On your case the two of you are at fault here . Your mum told you something, you do not need to tell your girl that your mum said. Let me tell you the gospel truth here , marriage preparation is for women, she has money or not, women always want to be in charge of their marriage, it is a one life thing, and the only opportunity they have to organise things.


You case is simple, tell her this is all you want to spend for the wedding, let the two of you sit and plan, on the money, you can give your family their own money for cooking ,give your mum money to cover her own part

Let everybody be happy.



Yes there are one million women out there , yes I agree, but all comes with their problems, even bigger onces.

Women leave their parents house because they want a home of their own but most men so.not get this ,most men will still try to bring them under the control of their mother and siblings


And this has been destroying marriages since .


Seek advice outside from professionals and experience aged people.




uote author=Annoms post=101811407]I'll try to make this short.

Yesterday I was having a conversation with my fiancée about my mum's suggestion about how to go about our wedding which is scheduled to take place Jan next year. My mum suggested that we do both trad and white wedding on the same day to cut cost. She opined that we do the white wedding in the morning and hold the traditional marriage as a reception in the afternoon. I pretty much see reasons from her perspective considering the harsh economic condition in Nigeria.

I was relating this to my fiancée yesterday in a phone call, when she flared up and said I should have consulted her to seek her opinion on this marriage arrangement before going to my family to seek theirs because I said my mum's advise seems okay.

What I deduce from her plight was that she wants the trad marriage at the village (south-east) while the white at the town where we base (South-West). That was what I initially wanted but due to high inflation in the land, I'm actually tilting towards my mum advise because I can't go bankruptcy just because I want to satisfy her. Why not use a stone to kill two birds?

She wants a cream-de-la-cream kind of wedding but she's not ready to assist financially to make that happen. (she's an awaiting corper)

I told her that the cost of transportation and lodging people from the village (hers and mine) to the city for our white marriage alone is gulping about 500/600k. That's transportation & lodging alone ooo.. I'll now spend if not x2 of what I spent on trad for white.. Why not just do everything in the village and move on with our lives? We can actually have it in the village and it will still be all nice and glamourous.

She said she wants to have a say in how her marriage will look like. Her imput is welcomed. But if she still insist on having the white wedding and not putting finances into consideration. I'm thinking that she want the white wedding on the city because of her friends who will attend which is not enough reason to go bankruptcy for.

It was a heated argument yesterday. We both went to bed angrily and not in talking terms till now

Pls advice accordingly. Thanks[/quote]

My brother do not let all these immature mummy's boy deceive you here, you are the one that is not mature and in considerate.

You keep quite when you do not have sense to contribute to a post, he is wrong, to consult his mum on how to plan his own wedding, yes his mum can advice but his mum says can not be final, because it is not her wedding, you were not there on how it happened ,how the guy put it and said it, to her, just drawing conclusion from social media.


Every girl wants to have full control of her wedding , on her wedding day, even if he wants the traditional and white wedding together he does not need to tell the fiences that is mummy said so, he should have inform the fienace, that two of them should do it like this. Not saying mummy said

Yes please early marriage is good, very good, you can have your first child them wait , before having more , at least the first child will be growing.

Thank you God bless you, the girl is sick, how does bill gates story add up with what she said,
The idiot said men do not marry hungry women reason bill gates marriage failed was bill gates wife a poor woman, she is looking for husband , after her failed Marriage , reason for trying to advertise her self, so men will come after her, poverty idiot ,thinking she is rich.

Let me be blunt with you, if this story is real you are a foolish and weak man.

It is Just three months your wife died, you are talking about another woman, you should know that the woman is a demon just trying to come into your family to destroy things, how are we sure she is not the one that killed your wife spiritually, how are we sure the party is not just to set you up, now you are weak to send the Jezebel away, please tell that woman to go, you have a maid in the house, to care for the kids, so what do you want again? chase that woman away, her husband is not abroad anything, that is always their lies, there are single mothers everywhere looking for good family to destroy , some will even kill the wife at home just to pack in
Let that woman get out.

See you need to be careful, lot of Jezebel will want to come into your life, but they will use the kids, trying to show love, some will take them out, buy gifts and the kids will be blinder and love them, they will even tell you to marry the woman showing them love it is normal they are kids, you are the adult that must see above those emotional blackmail from Jezebel ladies and guild the kids accordingly, letting them know that with time and with prayers you will give them another mum . If you trully live those kids,you will pray and fast before choosing another mother for them.
Or wait till they are adult and out of the house before picking another wife.













author=family6644 post=101528453]I need serious advise from experienced nairalanders, please forgive my lengthy message because it requires detailed explanations.

I lost my wife exactly 3 months ago, 4 years of relationship and 13 years of marriage with her before she passed on, she left behind 3kids, 13yr old girl 7yr and 3yr old boys. I understand marriages are full of their challenges but we have been through the journey and we came out victorious having a loving and happy home, a union other partners appreciates

Mumu, nothing compares to female child , child nah child.


quote author=Zanzibar1 post=101663092]Nothing compares to a male child[/quote]

See your senseless comparison, 2face and Annie came from grass to grace , other women were Intruders
Rmd and Jumobi , Rmd did not hurt jumobis friend to steal Jumobi, it was pure relatiobship.

Assuming 2face did not marry annie after years of suffering with him, that is well you can say 2face left Annie and marry another woman nothing happen.

So your comparison no make sense.
2face and Rmd, are wise, not fry pan head Churchill. Sleeping with his wife friend hurting the wife,calling the friend cousin, now married to the friend,
Hurt his ex wife when she was with him, now hurting her openly, don't you have sense to see the difference.

They are just starting, two years from now we will hear another story, the law of karma will sure work, nothing wrong for a man to remarry, but remarrying your wife's friend ,even when it was the friend that cause the breakup , and made your wife , get hurt s, karma is coming ,
The truth is when sombody is talking too much on media he is going through frustration , the guy is frustrated already, very soon we will hear the truth, they are just starting, love can be sweet in the beggining .


You hurt your wife by sleeping with her friend , and you are talking trash,

Let us wait for the end of the thing, nah old age judgement they affect most men.

Maybe he will beg to see Toto dikey son's when the time comes Maybe Rosy son will be a bone in his neck

The two of them sure pay for it

Women will ask you out to destroy you, yes money can make a man lose guild, and allowed many women into his life , that will destroy him.








uote author=Sysdatek post=101545035]men are scarce

keep one or get him snatched

simps should learn

if you be guy here, and you get good job or business. Women suppose ask you out, we are rare commodity [/quote]

You have finally dig your grave with your mouth.

What is your health issues
Try Dubai or USA.





quote author=ppeessuu post=101518347]Nigerian hospitals and doctors have failed us .
I have been to the following hospitals for my health issues but non could help me out . I have accepted my faith and which is death. Imagine a younger man of 43yrs .

R jolard hospital
Eko hospital
Lagoon hospital
Reddington hospital
Isalu hospital
Marigold hospital

And non of these hospitals could help me out and
I have a functioning HMO.
Anyway I have accepted my faith and Iook on to God My maker.[/quote]