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[Damaged soul, always think all souls are damaged.






quote author=womenareapess post=104787239] and so his foolishness begins

You dey believe the words of vagina people

I pity your poor soul Mr simp[/quote]

Is not true, most of them will not call you mumu, the truth is most ladies like good guys, they want to play, but they still prefer to end up with a good guy, in a relationship where you have not married her, you do not need to spend big money that will affect you, you might spend token like paying for a movie, or going to beach, just little to spice up your relationship, that should not make you demand sex, and if she give sex, you do not need discuss that with friends ,



quote author=Sluacoast post=104786948]
Lol, but if you failed to bleep her. Most of them will call you mumu that they ate your money. Mumu no see pant lol[/quote]

When you were sick, your husband took you to the best hospital , and stood by you, some women , are married to demon and wicked men, once they are sick, the man dumps them and bring a side chic home, or visit a side chic in the house they purchase for her, madam stop talking about marriage because you are married to a pastor that has submitted to God and treats you well,
many women are going through hell in the hands of selfish and greredy men, that do not even care about their wellbeing, and you expect such women to obey all such men says ,

Be careful mama.





quotee author=CatANDratTHEORY post=104753337]Wife to the General Overseer and President of Living Faith Church Worldwide, Faith Oyedepo has flayed feminist groups in a fresh social media post.

The woman of God in her post said any woman or women’s organization which attempts to question the position of the man in the family should be regarded as being under the influence of demons.

Oyedepo’s wife said this in a post on her verified Facebook page.

The renowned pastor’s wife said women should be in subjection to their husbands in everything.

Her post read:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4179202585460507&id=448014781912658[/quote]

Anyway the message is not for women that are married to demonic and wicked men,
If your husband is taking you to shrine do not question him ooo, just follow him so he can kill you, because one mummy Go, said so. Apart from following her husband up and down what is her vision and what has she done for humanity.






uote author=CatANDratTHEORY post=104753337]Wife to the General Overseer and President of Living Faith Church Worldwide, Faith Oyedepo has flayed feminist groups in a fresh social media post.

The woman of God in her post said any woman or women’s organization which attempts to question the position of the man in the family should be regarded as being under the influence of demons.

Oyedepo’s wife said this in a post on her verified Facebook page.

The renowned pastor’s wife said women should be in subjection to their husbands in everything.

Her post read:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=4179202585460507&id=448014781912658[/quote]

The truth is Nigeria ladies are still 1million times better than Nigeria men, 90, percent of Nigeria men are mistakes , because all they know once they approach you is sex, even if you give them because you want a relationship with them, the next thing they start forming busy, and telling friends how they have eaten you, they do not have sense,

Reason feminism is paining them, because feminist are helping the you get generation to focus on their career and be wise.










uote author=Aliencraft post=104775070]Hello guys.

I remembered a young lady I met when I was still working in the bank, her name was Rita. She was an I.T student and was doing her industrial training in my bank.

The bad thing about the male colleagues in my workplace is that they can sleep with anything as long as it in skirt.
Most of them seem get there ways with the female colleagues, and they even go as far as passing them down to other male colleagues. Which was very bad, as they saw it as a game.

One day while in the cafeteria eating, Rita came in the microwave her food. She asked if she could sit close to me, I agreed and we started talking. It was then she asked me the question that made me burst into laughter. "Why is it that all the men here cannot think of anything other than asking me out?"... It was so bad that not only did the head of operations ask her out but also the branch manager who promised to retain her even when she finishes with her school.

Not only did she decline everyone of them, but even when I asked her to try to play along with them in other to eat their money, she also refused. I was so impressed with her that we became so close to the extent that my colleagues started calling me her boyfriend, and were even asking if I could give them the charm I used in getting her.

When she finally finished her I.T, I congratulated her for being so chaste all through and told her that her man will be very lucky to have her.[/quote]

[You are mad na, everybody is not mad like you, you have mental health issues








..quote author=Cokahot post=104770752]Me that I am complaining of a gal that I dated and funked for close to 2 and half years. Dont do what u will regret later fool. So soon. Nawa o. Big SIMP[/quote]

Let nothing make you drop out of school, finish it, I repeat finish it, if you are the first let the second work and support others, when you are done, you can take the responsibilities.

I repeat do not drop school for any reason, let them bear till you finish.

blessedemeritus:
Hello Nairalanders,
Having read many comments, and response to persons who share their story here on Nairaland and received several advice and positive opinions, I now have the courage and confidence to divulge on you for your guidance and recommendations.

Am a Law student in one of the state University, currently in my sophomore year, I'm in state dilemma as to what step to take next in life, because of my present situation in life, I'm the first child in the family of 4 and taking responsibility of my younger ones'. Because of the burden and responsibilities on me, my school fees, my needs and that of my kid ones' considering how things are tough for me, i think it will be difficult for me to continue my studies at this time.
I'm considering dropping out of school to huzzle or learn handwork to meet my kid ones' need and make life easy for us, because things are really difficult for us now. But will appreciate your candid advice on what to do, drop out to learn handwork? Which handwork will you suggest for me?
YOUR OPINIONS,
ADVISE,
RECOMMENDATION
SUGGESTIONS, will be appreciated.
NO INSULT PLEASE.


Current CGPA 4.70

You just spilled rubbish, you ask how did feminism fight for her right, shows you lack understanding of feminism movement,
Please use your phone and goggle feminism , every woman fighting for women freedom and liberation is a feminist, during your mother's days can a woman wear trousers or even stand on the pulpit to preach, people that made that possible are women fighting , that women should be allowed to go to school, work, carry out their passions , instead of sitting at home and taking care of children , if they had not fought for that, she will not be on the alter, she will be stoned .


Please go and read more about feminism movement before comming here to argue















quote author=pansophist post=104764583]

How exactly did feminism fight for her right to wear trousers in Nigeria? where? when?

And if a man does not allow his woman to preach or wear trousers, is it an individual problem or a men problem? Still on that, if a woman kills her husband, is it an individual or women problem?

Kobojunkie can you help your friend?[/quote]

Mumu woman, I thought she is educated, and you are wearing trousers and preaching on the alter, feminism made that possible for you, because they fought for your right to do what African says only men should do,

Commo sense you no get.


Some women their husbands will not allow them preach or wear trouser, but yours allow you, it shows you are married to a good man, feminism are fighting for women going through cultural and traditional pains,

Madam get out.









quote author=Omooba77 post=104741681]Feminism in Marriage is Rubbish – Pastor Mildred.

Pastor Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo has stated that feminism in marriage is rubbish and not God's word.

According to the cleric, a woman can be doing feminism in the office and demanding equal pay when they work so hard, but in marriage there’s only one head.

Pastor Mildred averred that women have the first right of choice in any relationship and should chose right to avoid drinking medicine after death.

She added that the word of God said women should obey and submit to their husbands, and they should obey this.

Pastor Mildred is married to lead pastor of David Christian Centre, Kingsley Okonkwo.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q2VYH-rzTjc

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/08/feminism-in-marriage-is-rubbish-pastor-mildred/amp/[/quote]

Same way many men are damaged goods, then you have to choose right, when you want to marry, ensure she is a good person, and when you marry her show her love and care ,she will submit.

djon78:
You said

When a man genuinely love his woman she will submit is extreme fallacy

Many men that so called loved there wives how did it end?

I have berated redpillers
But they have the best idiologies in dealing with women

A man will love his so called woman and she will give him all the hell out there

Very many women are damaged goods

The only thing you can offer a woman is sex, if it were to be a lady that said ,she will appreciate with sex, you will all open gutter mouth to spill rubbish.










uote author=2special post=104708430]Nah to eat and appreciate her by giving her early morning doggy[/quote]

You do not need to insult them, feminist are not against women submitting in marriage , the Bible said husband's love your wife, then he said women submit, but what we have today, men wants to cheat,they do not want to contribute to upkeep, and they want their wife to submit, when a man genuinely love his wife, submission becomes normal









they tell you it is normal, llquote author=Adaorababy post=104735194]Mumu women. There can't be two captains in a ship. If you're not willing to submit then don't marry. It's very simple. From time immemorial, men are always men and women women. No matter how we continue to talk about this equality, we can't do the lots men do. Although, some of us are very brave and illustrious, this doesn't still equate us to be same level with men.There's no need talking about unproductivity of some of his employees. I believe also this unproductivity led to them being counselled out of the job.

Nwamaikpe and Slawomirr, what do you think about this?[/quote]

Damaged soul, you need help
Please ignore this advice from this mental human.

If she is fickle minded, just move on, get a girl friend that will love you and you will love

Do not follow the advice above and bring curses upon your self, smartness has destroy many guys, they are paying for their sins

Be wise and ignore this advice.









quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=104544554]



She's smart.

That's a tactics based on partner acceptance to trap you into rationalizing any potential changes in her because that vaginarian is keeping her options open.
She'd go cold on you when there's a healthier preek and be back like a stray dog when she's been dumped.

And SIMPle you will be like, 'oh... that's just her being fickle-minded'.

I blame you for making her fickle-minded, a lady visited you THRICE and you think she just came to watch Telemundo and gist?
The poor girl may have borrowed money to buy a shaving razor to mow her lawn yet you chose to kiss.

She's concluded you are a limp horse and wouldn't want you clinging on since you still won't give her the good dicking she's needing.

Since you wanna be with her then there's only one solution, but it will only work if you are very good in bed.
Let her be fickle-minded, you be fvck-minded.

Do everything in your power to win her back,
Fvck her first then watch her fickleness fizzle away and once she starts yearning for you, become fickle-fvck-minded and treat her like a sorry sex option.

If she complains, tell her it's her fault. She sexually transmitted that stupidity to you.

But the above won't work so well if she's a ho.
In that case, alaye just forget kpekus and go make money.

Your heart really does not need such emotional parasite.
She's best a bed friend.[/quote]

Why did he kill the woman, so her family are grieving, let his own family grife also.









quote author=Maxi4you post=104541207]wetin be the gain if dem kill the man now[/quote]

He is dying for lack of self control not poverty, even with all his money ,the law says if you kill ,you will be killed

saladinnoir:
This man is dying for one reason, POVERTY.

Mumu, your cassava is your only achivement in life

TarOrfeeek:
If I vex, I go come collect that girl for your hand.

Use my Cassava to destroy her womb.

Mad man, God ordained marriage.






quote author=hopefulLandlord post=104301575]Fake pastor, its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who we Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy. He didn't even marry

Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex and marriage, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike[/quote]

Yes They are useless because the sperm ( men( that fathered) them are useless.

A useless sperm will always produce useless children , just the way your own useless sperm will produce another Nigeria useless girl.

He goat




uote author=Spider20 post=104230455]Op pls come out clean next time
Am vividly sure you're the person
I repeat
Nigerian girls are useless all of them.............[/quote]

Why did the man give a toxic woman Belle? Knowing fully well that a toxic woman will be the child of his baby, and it will not be good for the baby?

.men always have all sort of excuses, after sleeping with a woman. Rubbish
So he did not know she was toxic, before sleeping with her.













uote author=thoollz post=104230521]Na wetin we dey talk be this. U get Belle for man, because he see say u too toxic, my guy Japa go meet another woman. U con dey blame d boy for the mistake wey u use your hand cause, na d boy talk say Mk u spread leg?

Na women dey always beat maid wey be pikin, kill their rival children or step kids and yet them go talk say men are scum of the earth...men dey try sha.[/quote]

Where is the mumu man that said he can not marry a woman older than him because she will look very old, come and see ooo, some women at 35, will look older than this and sick, come and see 80years ,heathy and young.





.uote author=envoymedia post=104196446]Below is a video clip of her birthday party.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M3F5QxEEZtc[/quote]

you do not love her, you divorce her because of the weak womb, nothing more nothing less,

You are stupid, she should go and thank God you left her, because in marriage we need people that truly love us, and willing to go an extra mile for us , you can not put live aside in marriage , love is the only thing that can make you see strength in your partner's weekends,

It is the weak womb, and abortion that made you see other weaknesses,

A weak womb does not mean she can not give birth, ivf is there , surrogacy is there
As long as there is no domestic violence , both partners can sit and resolve issues that comes with marriage, you think divource is a thing to celebrate , you are a mumu ,people praising you here have their own marital challenge , and they are solving it gradually.



Let her dust her self and be happy, that you left, because every woman needs a man that genuinely love her because at old age she will need care and love, not a man that will dump her at old age and follow young girls .


Give me her number let me celebrate with her.[/quote]

U are a stupid man, you do not live her, you divource her because of the weak womb, nothing more nothing less,

You are stupid, she should go and thank God you left her, because in marriage we need people that truly love us, and willing to go an extra mile for us , you can not put live aside in marriage , love is the only thing that can make you see strength in your partner's weekends,

It is the weak womb, and abortion that made you see other weaknesses,

A weak womb does not mean she can not give birth, ivf is there , surrogacy is there
As long as there is no domestic violence , both partners can sit and resolve issues that comes with marriage, you think divource is a thing to celebrate , you are a mumu ,people praising you here have their own marital challenge , and they are solving it gradually.



Let her dust her self and be happy, that you left, because every woman needs a man that genuinely love her because at old age she will need care and love, not a man that will dump her at old age and follow young girls .


Give me her number let me celebrate with her.

Pecoleee345:
Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/6653469/another-marriage-crash

So over last weekend.... I called family meeting my mum, elder brother and I went to my wife parents house... her family members were present.

They wanted to resolve things between us but no one gave a Bleep about me....they asked her to speak and she said alot of things both truth and lies.

I was lambasted from both sides and I let them finished properly before dropping the bomb......I looked into her eyes straight up and told her am divorcing you.

They were all stunned.... they were now interested in my side of the story.

I decided not to say anything.....am not the type that bad mouth people to score points or look good (my ex-wife is very good at that)....I just told her family to demand the truth from her.

My advice to young men.

1. Make sure u know the background of the lady u wanna get involved with....the way of life etc.

The mistake I made was not evaluating her background...... We came from completely different backgrounds....eg where she comes from people talking crazy and shouting at one another isn't a big deal but me it was a Taboo infact in my parents' house u can't talk with high tones for normal discussions.

2. See forget love and looks...... Make sure you know the main reason she wants to marry you.

I know she loves me but she had another motive which is am meant to give her everything she wants in Life.... She had that mind set of her responsibilities is totally dependent on me.

She told me she can only spare or borrow me money towards doing anything in the house but it is my duty to provide anything she wants even the riddicules ones.

3. For your peace of mind stay away from most ladies raised by single mothers because most her poison to hate men right from teens by their mother.

They are mostly insecure....they believe all men cheat and can never trust.
Comes with mad jealousy

They mostly have anger issue.... they will tell you I don't take shit... trying to show they are strong and can't take what their mother took despite you not doing any shit.....they want to have say in everything just to show you are equal.

They are always quick to be on the defensive
Just to mention a few

I once told my wife am not like your father when I couldn't take the policing, sneaking and threat anymore.

See as a man no one gives a shit about you..... people are sympathetic towards the female and expect you to take whatever she throws at you but you need your peace of mind.
The society has made it possible for women to get away with lot of things.

If you found a woman you want to marry please put love aside and get to really know her background well......cohabit with her for 6month......lastly even if you don't have money, please borrow and go for comprehensive medical check up with her.... (check your sperm count and the state of her womb) please.

Mumu post.

don't you have better thing to do or post

























quote author=WhiteRuler post=104150188]Even till when clock will stop ticking, not all relationships will last long or lead to marriage and of course even if it leads to marriage, there's no guarantee there won't be a divorce. In other words, having an ex or exes will continue to abound.

Truth is, as we grow in life, we get exposed and tend to meet different people at various points. While we may be glad for meeting some or a particular person, conversely, others can be filled with regret.

The question is, how does one totally forget about the person after a break up? Well, it's established that one of the easy ways to get someone off mind is by stop seeing the person. This is why some people prefer to get rid of the person's images either by burning the hard copy photographs or deleting completely the soft copies from their devices and as well as blocking on all social media platforms.

In all of these, the following are 5 types of exes (those you have dated before) which you may not find it easy to totally forget about. In no particular order, let's check it out.

Church member
Dating a church member is fun as you both tend to flow well together spiritually and romantically. In fact, dating a fellow church member gives one peace of mind. This is because you feel comfortable around the person having known a lot about him/her via the church way even before dating.

In general, you feel at home with the person since you both are in same religious belief and see nothing to worry about. While the going may be sweet, it could be difficult breaking up.

However, even if you are able to break up, deleting or forgetting totally about the person may be a herculean. It is simple. Each time you are in church, or may be the next church activity crosses your mind, what follows immediately is your ex. Consequently, so many other thoughts come in too such as if he/she will also be in church, what if you both happens to sit next to each other and the pastor says "turn to your neighbour, shake and smile at him/her", what are the church members even saying about you guys since the break up?

All these add up and get you worried making it difficult to totally forget about the person. In reality, some people can't even stand the heat and the best option to them is to quit the church or parish/branch.

First love
Let me quickly ask you a question. How did your first love go? Except it wasn't genuine, I'm sure till today he or she still crosses your mind.

Now although not only attributed to women, but women tend to attach so much love and emotion to the first man they ever dated. This is why they count so much on the man having been the one who deflowered them. They can't love the man less and even when there's a break up, they don't easily get over it and move on. Men on the other hand equally don't find it easy to forget about the first woman they dated. They attach so much feelings to the woman and even after break up, the memories stay back.

Dating a neighbour
So many benefits come with dating a neighbour. For the guys, in a country like Nigeria where girls bill guys so much on transportation fare, dating a neighbour would automatically save you the stress of keeping transport money on every visit. She can easily stroll in and stroll back to her place (if she so wishes) at no cost. But apart from the transport aspect, so many other benefits come with it such as easy accessibility, close monitoring and observation of his/her lifestyle, possible assistance when in need e.g. if he or she has information that NEPA people are in the street, he or she can quickly run down to your place to help you change over from the "bypass". Just so many benefits.

However, this kind of love is mostly sweet when the two are genuinely in love with each other as it comes with a lot of drama. Conversely, if it's not genuine, it's advisable not to even start in the first place. At break up, it's usually very difficult to forget him or her. Why? You tend to bump into him/her on daily basis. Whether you stroll out to fetch/buy water, you bump into him/her. You rush out to get pepper from the nearby shop, you bump into him/her. You are taking fresh air in front of your compound, you see him/her passing. And unlike before, when NEPA people are in the street, he/she would be the one leading them to your place to show the bypass so they can disconnect your light. This kind of lifestyle may continue unending and until one of you relocates from the area. In submission, it's usually difficult to forget about a neighbour you were once dating.

Colleague at work
Office romance is usually discouraged and frowned at mostly because of its negative implications but colleagues in different offices have continued to go into it regardless. While it has its merits and demerits in terms of work productivity and even beyond, it's always difficult when break up begins to surface. Imagine breaking up with a colleague whom you'll come back to the office tomorrow and every other day to see again? It could be difficult to think less of the person and also traumatizing psychologically. Consequently, some people find it difficult to manage the situation and they either resign or apply for transfer (if possible) so they can stop seeing that face, hence possible to get him/her off their their mind.

Another negative part is that after the break up, the colleague may be bringing in his/her new partner to the office to play romance such as deep hugging and kissing right in front of you. Take it or not, seeing them in such mood can never guarantee you peace of mind. Therefore, it's better you quit the job or apply for transfer.

Course mate in school
Generally dating while in university is fun and is seen as part of social life on campus but imagine falling in love with a course mate from first year in the university. Except such lasts for the whole period (4, 5 or 6 years as the case may be), it could be challenging moving on if it ends prematurely. This is why this can be likened to dating a colleague in office. Breaking up with a course mate in school means you'd still come back tomorrow and every other day throughout the time being to see the same face which makes it difficult to get him/her off your mind. In some occasions based on lecturer's arrangement, you both may happen to sit next to each other in lecture or exam hall. What's going to happen?

Conclusion
It's important to look before you leap. Put in perspective the merits and demerits of what the relationship is going to bring before going into it. Some might be very difficult breaking up even when it's necessary to.[/quote]

You are a mumu and the most stupid person, on this nairaland. Age has nothing to do with looking old, or sick, there are young girls that look like 50 years women, there are 50years women that look young, also there are young people that fall sick always, there are old people that hardly fall sick.


So stop being follish, your wife can be very sick from 60, why another womañ very strong from 90 .









hotel author=englishmart post=100606026] There's no amount of love that will permit me to marry a woman that is 2-hours older than me. Women naturally grow older and weaker at a higher pace than men. Marrying someone older, as time goes on she might be mistaken for your mother. My future wife must be at least 10 years younger so that when I'll be 90, she'll be at most 70
Except for green card.
#bantilosha [/quote]

Take her for anger management course if she is ready to learn, but if she is not ready, cut her off, tell her you can not cope.















quote author=mario22 post=103966694]My fianceé anger issue is worrisome to me. ones she has a bad day, I will get my own share at home. I have begged her all i need in this marriage is togetherness, peace (she jokingly calling me Mr. peace of mind).

She just graduated and we are staying together for 2months now. She can be very sweet and hardworking, caring, can clean, arrange the house. I don't expect her to be this all good cos NOBODY is perfect, but her anger issue a big turn off.

When her Project supervisor was purposely frustrating her, and told her he will not accept her work and she will not defend (it was sorted out later) . I tried to talk and advise her she angrily walked out of my car in the middle of the road.

That night she wasn't talking to me and i started a call n went to the parlor, she came and was asking whom i was talking to and i said my guy, she queried but why did i go to the parlor, she flung our engagement ring away without knowing whom i was talking to (not cheating or calling any girl) she makes rash decisions when angry. like She can scatter our 2weeks plans cos of a small provocation.

I Love her but the anger issues is killing.[/quote]

Fake story









quote author=don4real18 post=103998057]Some months ago, I was supposed to get married to a lovely lady (Alias-Celia) whom I thought the universe made just for me. I find it unfortunate that this beautiful story was just never meant to be. This write-up is my story.
______________________________________________
Five years ago, while we both stared at the moon sitting in my compound and telling tales of our childhood, I studied her profile. She had a perfect-shaped jaw with rounded edges, full lips, and her ability to smile with so much ease. Her skin glowed against the moonlight, and her aura filled with so much innocence. It was no surprise when I finally popped the question asking her to be my girlfriend.

Four days later, I got a yes as her reply, and it became a beautiful relationship. Our companionship was a show of true love, or so I thought. She taught me to be a better kisser, and I made her be a better lover. We did almost everything together, and when challenges came, we solved them even though she was stubborn; A bit more than me.

Many moons down the line of love and sometimes distrust, she was to relocate to the FCT, the state where her family resides. I knew I was going to miss her, and it wasn't easy letting her go.

We did part ways at the airport, and ever since then, we were always on calls. I did notice later that I did most of the calling, and as time went on as it must, the regular calls became once in a while, and soon, it became longer.

I did play a little with other girls and tried getting into a relationship with others, but it just didn't work out. Perhaps, I wanted the kind of love that they could not give in return. It was no surprise when years later, my calls with Celia became regular and, I didn't mind doing most of the calling.

Soon, I traveled to Abuja, and she didn't seem enthusiastic about seeing me, even though my love clawed at my heart with a renewed burst of energy. This time, I decided that I wouldn't let go. I stayed in FCT for a while, I met her family, and I guess her feelings returned.

I returned to Lagos to continue working, and some months down the line, I was in Abuja again to see the one that I loved. We agreed that she would have to come to Lagos, and some months after I left Abuja, she arrived in the rowdy Lagos.

She met my family, and I popped the question, "will you marry me?" in a romantic atmosphere, and she was so happy that she was going to spend the rest of her life with me.

We made plans until the event of Corona took place, and it greatly affected my business. I became broke, but that didn't stop me from traveling to 3 different states to meet her family members and her pastor in FCT.

We did agree that we were going to have a small wedding, and the day of the introduction came, and I traveled with my family, spent a lot of money on hotel bills, etc. It did go well, and that was when it started.

She reneged on our agreement on the size of the wedding. She told me that she wanted to have her dream wedding although she had no money. I could not bring myself to spend so much on a wedding only to end up eating hand to mouth in my marriage. It became a back and forth argument. Her dad wanted it small, but her siblings wanted it big. My mum did try to advise her, but she felt my mum shouldn't have a say in her wedding being a supposed generation Z.

I did have to look for ways she would be happy without spending too much. Then the counseling issue came, and I was informed to come back to Abuja by her pastor. It was inconvenient, so I told her to recommend virtual counseling because I'm not ready to go and spend a lot staying there. She was mad at my response, saying that it was disrespectful, suggesting such to a supposed man of God, making it disrespectful to God.

I did try to let her know that we could use the money to do something else, but she was adamant. After some time, I did succumb to her demand, but she felt that it should not have led to an argument in the first place and decided to call the wedding off. I tried calming her down and even suggested that we postpone it, but she wouldn't budge with a reason so petty. It hurt at first. It made me lose focus for a while, but I guess I've pretty patched up now hence my decision to share with you all.

God bless us all.[/quote]

Biko hi us connection nah








uote author=beautyfunke post=103970710]My name is already out in supeb...the registration of a thing is just camouflage...the main names is already out...you just need connection[/quote]

Go and sleep jor, just say you are tired of her, after you have eaten her finish, once she is married two of you can move far, from her siblings , beside she can be working to take care of her brothers , let her finish and get a job, she will sure take care of her brothers,she is not in support of her brothers so why saying you want to leave her . Abeg go jor.













quote author=Liballo post=103835068]You are not Emotionality, Psychologically and Financially ready for marriage.
Do you think marriage is a child's play ?
And, to the issue of her siblings always demanding is a Red flag....... You can always choose to ignore it. But don't come here to disturb us about how your Wife's siblings are trying to run you dry. Like a thread a man made sometimes ago complaining about how his Wife's relatives eat like gluttons.[/quote]

It is not true, your stupid okafor law does not work for all, some women will rather die than open legs for a stupid Ex.













quote author=FalseProphet1 post=103838361]Churchill is still screwing this woman, as long as they both had that cute child together, all he needs is to keep up communication with her and tease her a bit and she will open her legs wide to him thereby activating okafor's law. I pity her new husband.

This I have seen.[/quote]

You forced sombody to do abortion and her uterus got damaged, why she is weeping daily, you are here using her condition to tell story,
You are mad.










.uote author=NwaAmaikpe post=103731552]





If you've never been at the receiving end of the consequences of these fake doctors, you won't appreciate this arrest.

Sadly, majority of the ones we see today in our clinics and pharmacies in Nigeria are mostly quacks, unprofessional or outright fakes.
Small health complaint from a female and they've already asked her to undresss.

One recommended only Ibuprofen when my nephew had gonnorhea. If not for God, that boy would have lost his preek.

The other one who helped me and my girlfriend perform a D&C is now a Chief Medical Director but till today, that lady has been unable to get pregnant because he damaged her uterus.

I don't know if it was God who saved me or I was just lucky that she was not the one I ended up marrying.[/quote]