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Get sense bro, the Jenifer you want to bang, will collect money nah,









quote author=slawormiir post=102783820]Damnnn niggarrrr
Lot of good things

You can smoke your weed in peace...drink your bottles
You can bang and bang enough pussy ...there is no limit to the number of pussy you will be banging

You can bang Jennifer today, tomorrow sandra...next tomorrow Ngonzi.....Nobody is going to delay your banging because they are on their menstrual period.
Anybody comes up with that shit ....you move on to the one not on her period

Nobody will be manipulating you to give them transport fare, subscriptions money....[/quote]

Including your mother and sisters .all of them are useless , you are right bro, with your useless mother also.
















quote author=mosdii post=102775346]Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them[/quote]

If it is a woman that neglects her husband to marry a rich man, nairaland will be on fire, you will start reading different insults but now they are celebrating this stupid idiot, and gold digger, anyway he will go back to his wife after sucking mumu toyin dry.


























mauote author=naijapage post=102751031]“I take care of my kids” – Toyin Lawani’s new husband, Segun Wealth debunks claims of abandoning his kids



See the exchange below,

Source: https://www.instagram.com/deeeunknown/[/quote]

It has statistic backing, I work with a non Governement organisation with branches in all states of the federation, most cases of child abuse, and domestic violence cones from the Eastern part.
Your brothers and women know what we are saying period.
















.quotee author=Vision101 post=102767794]@EndRape2
You are among the 1petcent scare Igbo men. Period, this is not generalization it is statistic and research,. Just go to ministry of Justice and tell them you want to take counts of women killed in abusive marriages,. You will see that 99percent if the women killed are married to Igbo men. Their mothers never allow their sons have peaceful homes

It is a sad truth most Igbo men are domineering and abusive.


@me
Hahahaha... which ministry of Justice? Federal? Does federal ministry of Justice keep records of cases in States?

States? How many states did you research and get your data?

Over 80℅ of domestic violence like other private issues in Nigeria do not get to the courts nor even the police because of illiteracy and poverty.

I will like to learn. Please if you have any data from stratified sampling I will be willing to forward my email address so that you can send it.

Maybe you or someone you know had a bad experience with an Ibo man. That will not be enough reasons for your statement.

Mind you I'm not defending tribe here. I have lived all my life in the city. I'm a cosmopolitan and detribalised person. Even if you make the same statement concerning any other tribe I'll still counter it because it has no statistical backing.

We are friends. We are not fighting.[/quote]

You are among the 1petcent scare Igbo men. Period, this is not generalization it is statistic and research,. Just go to ministry of Justice and tell them you want to take counts of women killed in abusive marriages,. You will see that 99percent if the women killed are married to Igbo men. Their mothers never allow their sons have peaceful homes

It is a sad truth most Igbo men are domineering and abusive.

Vision101:
@EndRape2
He looks handsome and good looking, I am sure he will be a very gentle man, and easy going, they are beast and lack self control, I keep saying it, Igbo men are abusive , they all need help , 99 percent of women that died in abusive marriages are killed by an Igbo men.
















They are blam pushers , do not be surprise when he starts blaming the woman, instead of him to seek for help to manage his mental illness.




@me
I'm an Ibo man. I have lived with my wife for 28 years I have not raised my hand once on her. I have lived in Lagos since 1977. I don't want to tell you my observation with other tribes.

Stop this nonsense generalisation.

Alpha male them.

Show your wife care and love, so that the two of you can enjoy each other ,they will not, they prefer to go outside and carry ashawo, to hurt the woman at home,
Now who die. Nah the mumu man die.







quite author=dre11 post=102714985]

https://pmexpressng.com/how-married-man-lady-died-in-hotel-during-sex-romp/[/quote]

He looks handsome and good looking, I am sure he will be a very gentle man, and easy going, they are beast and lack self control, I keep saying it, Igbo men are abusive , they all need help , 99 percent of women that die in abusive marriage are killed by an Igbo man.

They are blam pushers , do not be surprise when he starts blaming the woman, instead of him to seek for help to manage his mental illness.


Dear men if you hit your wife ,you have mental health sickeness seek help fast

Dear women if you hit your husband you have mental health illness


Do you beat your Co workers at work when you people exchange words of cos no, so why do you feel ,you should beat a woman, if you are normal, you are mad.












quote author=sapphiere post=102695986]Pastor Called Out Over The Death Of His Pregnant Wife

An Abuja based pastor has been called out over the death of his pregnant wife who allegedly suffered domestic violence, WonderTV Media reports.

A post made by one Mrs. Chizoba Jude-duru on Facebook reads;


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2297777370356558&id=100003729510693[/quote]

Please your friend should not make mistake of marrying him ooo, please she will regreat and suffer, a woman just die during childbirth because the stingy husband refused to bring out money to buy bloood, even money friends sent the idiot pocket the money, and he has a car ooo, selfishness is like a curse, and a demonic spirit people with that Spirit needs deliverance, and help. They always want to collect and can never give, even when their partner is dying.


Tell your friend to run run run.


Forget all these useless men saying women like money, every woman needs a man that is selfless .where a man heart is, that is where is treasure is, a man that loves you will spend for you, men are happy when they spend on a woman they love.




uote author=Rozcol post=102626971]Please help my friend suggest very good flimsy escuses to dump her hardcore stingy but very good boyfriend.

He's very good on all other aspects but his stinginess is beyond human comprehension and my friend don't want to appear as been materialistic.

The last straw that broke the camel's back was when she demanded if he could get her pads and some few stuff on his way to her place and when he eventually bought and brought the items to her, he calculated everything he bought and was waiting to be paid which she eventually did and imagine he got the nerves to collect the money from my friend (Just some few thousands), he's very rich so brokenness is out of it.

We've exhausted all the escuses we thought would work out to dump him but he somehow have ways around them (very annoying) and my friend wants to be diplomatic. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed. Thanks[/quote]

Ned is a very caring man, very caring and generous, and the writer said so,
what most young guys can not do. Ned will do 100 times.





author=fourboys post=102612855]Ned Nwoko doesn't have these qualities, gues what?? extreme beautiful ladies loves him.. just make money and forget this nonsense write-up. when u make money love go dey. Actresses, models even pastors's wife go dey rush u, don't mind d mumu op [/quote]

You need Jesus , he loves you, accept him as your Lord and personal saviour,


uote author=Braintrain post=102618332]Tapping on her pvssy like I’m trying to kill a mother fvkin insect[/quote]

She did that when she was single, you should only be bothered if she did it
in marriege .

Also I will advice her not to marry you, poeple with unforgiving spirit and heart should not go into Marriage, Marriage is two forgivers living together.


You are an unforgiving soul, no woman should come close to you.


Go and look for a virgin to marry, still another man might sleep with her in marriage, she can even be raped sef.









uotee author=kenoyad post=102548876]I learned wifey had slept with a guy that's married and far older than her, I got the impression when we met and started dating and asked her if there was anything between them, she denied.

I got to know from her after three years and she was not even remorseful, claiming she had dated him before we met and that's her choice cause she can date Whoever she want at the time cause she's single.

I always felt bad cause I got suspicious and asked her about it. I always think about it every day and it makes me feel so bad.

Her mother had apologised on her behalf that I should please get it over my mind and count it as when she don't know what she was doing.

We have got a kid and i don't want the kid raised outside a home though we were both not married officially.

I want to get the ordeal out of my mind cause that's the only issue i have with her.

How can I get it over my mind? I think about it every day.[/quote]

You are a foolish peodophile.
U will riot in jail, if you abuse an innocent girl below 18years.










uote author=Kebbiprince post=102398521]Nonsense, give them cerverix and Gardasil vaccines and stop this nonsense yan about early intercourse

You should be talking about preventive medicine here[/quote]

Why are you frustrated. Is she the first person to have a break up? You mum's heart was broken by men before your dad, married her, your sisters were used and dumped also, before marriage, if at all they are married. I am sure men are using them, and will keep using them.






...yourquote author=pepperdemzombie post=102377256]Your rotten watermelon and surgery yansh can never bring Davido back.
You are a past tense, live with that![/quote]

Kk expecting.













quote author=sapphiere post=102383671]Wow! Are you for real? Would send a DM[/quote]

I do not mind to have your number to add you to my organistion, or please give your Instagram handles will add you.

sapphiere:
Yes I can buy. But I won't buy.
I'd rather use my money to push for women's rights

You are sick, you think every body is a scammer, reason you are frustrated and still in Nigeria, smelling, and with this mindset you will smell and die here,

1. I am still in Nigeria, very well in Nigeria,
Some people travel when they want and come back when they want.

2. Conference , you pay your conference fee on line, they only send invitation to you, and you take to embassy to apply.

3. Using education you pay to the school direct

4. Direct Visa which will cause you a million plus, are done by internal staff.

You lack knowledge on things reason you get scam, and because they scam you for your lack of knowledge, illetrates like you, you think everybody is a scammer,
stack illetrate

You can get USA visa for 1.2, but the problem right now, is no date in Lagos for appointment yet , but Abuja is till September. Lagos till next year, but your visa is sure, please do not stay in Nigeria and let no idiot advice you to stay please .
Will you like to use conference , if yes send an email , we can help you apply for conferences in countries of your choice . And school in Cyprus and turkey.













quote author=Aaaaarghmed post=102200113]Pls guys, I need recommendations on any country I can travel to with 1.5 m to hustle more. I was considering turkey or cyprus. Pls advise me and also you can tell me about any other countries too. Am a graduate and am also a hustler who can adapt.

Thanks[/quote]

You are a mumu, how many Nigeria men have money to give women, millions of women married men and are living with them in a room, a room self contain, managing and building their life with them. You are talking trash. Can your mother do half of what your wife will do for you.




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.quote author=ENGINEERG post=102362841]MOTHER DESERVE OUR WEALTH THE MOST, COS THEY MADE US, AND THEY LOVE US BEFORE WEALTH..
BUT OTHER WOMEN IN OUR LIVES , LIKE OUR WIVES LOVE US AFTER WEALTH.[/quote]

It is better than going outside









quote author=Chukwute post=102290679]Offshore Worker Returns To Find Cucumber In Girlfriend’s Cupboard, Landlady Post Video On Social Media

A Nigerian offshore worker returned to find a huge cucumber hidden in his girlfriend’s cupboard after spending two weeks at work.

The landlady of the apartment that the lovers live in made good her threat by sharing the video of the incident on social media.

According to the distraught boyfriend, he came back from work to discover the huge cucumber wrapped inside a cond*m.

He told the landlady that he had caught the lady with a vibrator before but she denied doing anything with it.

He wondered if that was how she wants to be satisfying herself while always complaining that he does not.

She kept insisting that she doesn’t use the cucumber for anything despite the glaring evidence of cond*m on it.

Watch the video on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CPnNIBwHmdq/?utm_medium=copy_link[/quote]

Honestly I pity those following their stupid advice and words , they just want to form hard guy here, but in reality they cry daily and prostrate on the ground for a lady they love , I pity the mumu innocent men that bring their marriage here for advice.






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uote author=sapphiere post=102238963]Are you minding these online alpha males? Should I show you my DM to see that they are all hypocrites and don't practise what they preach? I pity their stuppid followers.[/quote]

My sister run for your life now, another man will come, no man that cares abiut you will off his phone for long without reaching out to you, he is a married man, or has a serious fiences, run now, or plan your route of escape, this is not a relationship, and two years is nothing, compare to everlasting tourture and pains in marriage, marriage needs emotional support. Love and care..







quote author=maxwelltony post=102149348]Hi guys

Please i really need your sincere advice concerning my relationship, we have been dating for the past two years, but honestly speaking i am not enjoying the relationship, i dont know what is wrong with my man, at times, he would travel for three month without giving me any notice, and throughout that time, his number will be switch off, for the past two years that we have started dating, he has done that for over 5times, and i am getting confuse if i am not in the wrong hand, he wouldnt give me any good excuse and i am getting fed up with him, i dont want to break up with him all because we have gone a long way, but with his attitude, i dont think i can cope again, time is going...

Please i want the whole house to advice me because i dont know how to cope again, he has gone again and dont knw when he will be coming back.[/quote]

Rapist spotted. Why are you pained, in every wrong two people are always at fault, so two of them need Sense talked into them.








quote author=mmadu4 post=102150218]


may you be raped soon since you dont want to shut up[/quote]

You are concluding from what a man said, calm down and hear from the woman

The man is not honest, a man that refused to reveal his salary to his wife, a man that forced his wife family to rent shop for the wife, and you think such a man will come here and tell the truth, he is a greedy man, even if he dumps this lady and marry 100, he will have issues with them all if he refused to change, he need to see his wife asone with him, nothing hidden and nothing behind.

Most selfish men will have issues and problem with their marriage.
















quote author=maasoap post=102152084]

It started before he met her because that's who she is.
She is making money now, she still wants the husband to pay her shop rent, the same husband she couldn't use her money to joke with? Remember her first rent was paid for by her family.
She doesn't contribute in the house, was that the husband's fault too?[/quote]

Let me ask you some questions
1. How much do you drop for monthly food allowance
2. Do you give her personal upkeep, like money for her, cloths asoebi, perfumes , money to give her parents, or she does all these things from the shop.if I can get genuine answers about the above questions, then I will conclude if your wife is selfish or wicked and advice you best ..

Besides you shouted and she fainted that is a lie bro. How can shout make sombody faint.








then uote author=igwebest23 post=102149003]

End rape or what ever is ur name. Ur really jumping to conclusions. I never told u I give my wife 1k for food. D 1k is for her transport. Which is more than enough. Infact because my wife is so busy in her shop, she do beg me to go to market for her many times once am back from work. I normally give her money monthly to buy foodstuffs. Infact any time she spent her money on cooking, I pay her back[/quote]

They need talk sense into the head of the man and the woman also, the two of them need help not only the woman.

You are an illetrate ooo, according to the law the house belongs to the woman and the kids, you are the one to leave the house for her,

Let her go to office of public defender, or take the mumu man to court, illetrates are very many here.
if you send her away the court will tell you to provide accomodation for her. Las las you will lose.








uote author=Ghast12 post=102148687]Women and girls of nowadays want everything without giving nothing

Do not stress yourself because of a women . Send her packing and live in peace. When you go broke they won’t stay with you in the first place[/quote]

After you have beaten.her, you are here lying you shouted at her only, bring your wife here let us ask get questions. Oga, go and meet your church pastor to advice you, most men here are frustrated and damaged they will give you wrong advice.







uote author=SAD007 post=102148826]Send her away, they will never listen, okay okay is all they will be saying, a dry wood can never change.. as long has she has not given birth for you, better make way now becus a woman can do 2thinhg to a man, 1make him wealthy by been productive to the Union or 2 make a church rat by been unproductive to the Union.. imagine u had no job, she will leave u and go away..[/quote]

ask him how much he drop for food, ,maybe is the woman that cook all food with her money sef, yen yen yen yen, alpha male oshi.









with quote author=Jman06 post=102148784] This one cannot even read. The 1k is not for food but transport to her workshop![/quote]

Must women are doing what you men did to them, a man that did not show her his salary , is busy doing I want to know all about the woman, when in the first place you started it.








author=Thegoodone13 post=102148522] let her go before children come in. I'm passing through the same things but we have three children already. She has more than five of what your wife have in account but I borrowed ordinary 20k last week to settle bill[/quote]

YOU ARE A DISGRACE YOU JUST OPEN YOUR MOUTH WIDE AND ADVICE LIKE MUMU,

He should lock shop the woman is using to take care of her self, can you provide or take care of a woman need, s man that said he drops 1k for food, can one k , coook, he should keep an adult at home, an adult with needs, because you marry her,
you are a mumu, please do not ever talk on marriage matter, I am sure you do not have a wife, no woman can stay with you.

His the man going to take care of her parents,if he stop her from working .




uote author=queenfav post=102148469] wow![/quote]

What if the man is the first to always
Insult the woman, like calling her useless stupid, will the woman warn the man also, or what will a woman with such a man do?

Secondly, there is nothing wrong, if a woman ask for the pay of a man, infact it is a must a lady knows what the person she wants to marry earn, same way a man can ask, nothing is wrong in asking how much your partner earn or what job your partner does.


























uote author=Godada post=102134138]




This matter has not gotten to the point of sending her away. Do you have a marriage sponsor? It's time to get them involved. Also you need to call a meeting among the elders to iron out house keeping and management. It is usually a male ego thing as well as a societal responsibility forced on men but at this age, it's not out of place for a woman to contribute to the needs of the family.

It's imperative that she contributes to the family welfare or at least she takes care of herself alone this should include her clothing, needs and paying for her shop. If she cant afford to pay for herself it spells she doesn't know what she doing and the shop should be closed.

About her insulting you, she should be warned in the strictest manner possible that a repeat cannot be tolerated.

On a final note, It's obvious you didn't know what you were getting into. Her asking about your salary and demanding for a shop should have raised red flags. But I can guess you got carried away.

It's not wise to spend so lavishly on a wedding when you could have had her choose between wedding and a shop.
Your wife is a selfish woman.

I hope the elders from both family can resolve this matter. Your marriage is too young for such misunderstanding[/quote]

I will tell you the truth, you are at fault from the beggining, in marriage the two of you become one, you have no reason to hind your salary from her, you have no reason to hind anything from her, it is the hand you brought she is following, you started it first, why are you now focusing on her income, or number of staff she has, why are you complaining when from the beggining you were not open or honest with her, even the shop you did not rent it for her, you told her people to rent it for her, this is a girl you know you will marry she has agreed and you have paid her brideprice, Oga my advice take your eyes off her business her income , and play your role as the man, pay your house rent, give money for food, and pay school fees, tell her to use her money for her self, maybe her needs cloths perfume, roll on and other things, take your eyes off her money and business,
I am sure you can not assit her in keeping the house claen

This is the arrangement, you pay for house rent, she clean the house and keep it clean, if you are to pay a maid 40k per month to keep your house clean that will be 400k in a year, meaning that woman is supporting you with 400k in a year for washing the toilets and keeping your house clean, secondly you bring money for food , she will go to market manage the money, and cook , if you want to pay a cook, that will be like 50k per month, which is 500k per year,

And you think your wife is not doing anything or she is selfish, oga if you are the type that can not keep the house clean or assist in domestic work, and you can not assist her to cook,

Then do not ever ,I repeat ever ask a woman to support financially, if she support financially then you must be ready to support with domestic work .



In conclusion, you said you use to drop 1k daily , you are a stupid and selfish man, a very wicked and useless man, only a kilo of fish is 1k. And I am sure you expect her to give you food when you come back, with that 1k that can not buy only fish,. Maybe you should go to market your self oponu, you will get the kind of advice you want, damaged souls , and damaged men here will give you advise you want, some advicing you to leave your wife are with the fifth woman, they are already frustrated. If you can not declare your money open, or do a joint account, then take your eyes off her business.


Go to market with your 1k you use to drop and buy ingredient yourself.


1k finish you there. Each day you drop 1k that woman must add nothing less than 1500, to ensure you people eat in that eyes. She is asking you shop money because you have finish her business, you drop 1k for feeding daily, how wicked are you, you have run her business down, shop you did not open for her

Play your role, complete , take your eyes off her business and money. ,
2500, is manageable for food for a day, do that and see if there will not be peace in your home.



















willhete. she or how much she is earning aquote author=igwebest23 post=102134047]This is too much for me. I have had enough. I got married to my wife last year October 2020. I did both traditional wedding and white wedding, spent a million plus. I work with ministry of health.

My wife has been insisting that I disclose my salary to her from day 1 but I never, I just told her that am earning 100+. Before I met my wife, she already learn Fashion designing. Then while was rushing around, preparing for wedding, she was pestering me to open shop for her. I specifically told her that d money I have now is Solly for wedding and traditional rite, which cost me fortune.

Then after much pressure, her people contributed money and paid for d shop (Remember I have paid her bride price then). I have swallowed red pill. How can I open shop for a girl I have not finished marrying. Then when she opened d shop, I equally supporting her with other things like buying protector and chairs. Every day she is going to shop, I drop pocket of 1k. Some times she asks me money to buy tailor materials which I give.

Now within a space of 7 months my wife now has 14 apprentices. She collected like 30k from them. Then all the money she made in her shop, she put all in her account, she doesn't contribute anything at home. Infact decided not to apply for ATM card. Some time, I may go to. ATM to get money and d tell me no network, if I come to my wife to ask her for ordinary 1k, she will say she doesn't have it. I never asked her to help in our home finances before, and I don't really care about her money.

But now found out through her Facebook chat that she sent her male school friends 7k. She hid it from me, she said d guy needed d money to treat her father in d hospital. I was shock. Cos my wife always complained she does not have money. Now she is complaining that I don't support her in her shop. That she can do whatever she wants with her money.

This morning, she was raising her voice to the hearing our flat neighbors, that am a useless husband, I feel insulted. Am embarrased. That I don't support her. She said her shop rent has expired that I should give her d money but she have enough money in her account to pay it. While is asking me. Am d one that pays for house rent, I buy food stuff, I give her transport every day.

I have had enough. I will call her mum to come over and carry her daughter. I can never beat her. The last night I shouted at her she fainted not to talk of beating.[/quote]