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tobillionaire:
Waiting for Don jazzy's pre wedding photos

na till after your own children marry before you go see that one own o!...

ignis:
The man should have escalated for assault with evidence.

since there was no penetration she cant prove anything as well. same way he cant prove anything. its his word against hers.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Just look at this boy tho..
You did not want anything but you was fingering and caressing her..well you either give in to her blackmail and nonsense or you stand for yourself and let her do what she wants to..you shouldn't have done that in the first place.. without her consent..

Chances are very good you will be dragged through the depths of agony and back..you sure can go to jail for this.. sexual assault..
Just hope you don't get slammed with rape charges cos I see no way you are gonna escape this..

do you guys read at all?!!!

she first of all sat on his lap caressing his di*k with her ass while rubbing his face with her boobs, isn't that sexual harassment as well?.

ignis:
Oga, you sounded like an unapologetic rapist in your post.

Rape involve any form of forceful penetration, if you like use finger or cassava.
You don't know that stripping and fingering a girl without her consent is rape?

Secondly because a lady comes to your house and sits on your lap does not mean she wants sex.

Learn how to control your John Thomas.

are you ok?...you dint see where she was using her boobs to rub his face and using her ass to rub his di*k while sitting on his lap abi?.

She assaulted him first.

praaaaaaaaiiiiiiiiiseeeeeeeeeeee the Lord!!!!........................

ezenwaez:
Npower Batch C Volunteers should start expecting their payments soon as the payment and payroll status on Npower NASIMS dashboard have started changing to pending, although some Npower Batch C Volunteers have not noticed any changes on their Npower NASIMS dashboard, if you are yet to notice any changes on your payment status on the Npower NASIMS dashboard please exercise patience as the changes just commenced few hours ago.
In the coming weeks Npower Batch C Volunteers should start receiving credit for all outstanding payments, please if you are having the failed payment issues, you will be paid as backlog, their are specific periods for backlog payments, once your name falls into that backlog payment period you will definitely be credited with your stipend.
Npower volunteers under the Non graduate category that have commenced their training should also expect payment, please take note, if you have not started your training you will not be paid.

I have stopped going to PPA until my January and February stipend are paid. I spend average of 1k daily to and fro my PPA.

Rugaria:
Russia has Ukraine on a chokehold.
If the Russians decide this hour to level Kiev and take over the rubbles, it will be over in 24 hours. Go and read up on what they have done to Mariupol when the fascist Nazis there refused to heed to basic instincts.. The whole world knows this. Russia should be praised for showing enermous restraint in the face of endless provocation by the puppet regime in Kiev.

its over a month and they still can't enter kyiv fully with all the "almighty Russian army". it is glaring now that the only threat putin is using to gain grounds is that he has nuclear weapons and won't hesitate using them. This Ukraine invasion has proved that aside nuclear weapons the Russian army is not as everyone thought they are. Ukraine used to be owners of the 3rd largest nuclear arsenal in the world (17000) before they went into agreement with US, NATO and Russia to decommission them which they did. Do you think such a country will be an easy pushover when it comes to war?..

dawnomike:
In football, small teams will spend most of the time defending and launch a counter attack once in a while when the opportunity arises... That is all I see here

and most times such counter attacks can devastating.

Cheerycherry:
Good evening family landers, I created this account because of this and I need advice from people that have been married for a while.

I've been married for almost 3 years now and we were in a relationship for more than 6 years before then.

Since I married my husband, I've noticed that he's an emotional cheat so to speak. One time I stumbled upon a chat with a girl saying things like if I catch you I will wound you with d ick.

When I bring it up he will tell me he was joking and even swear with his life that he will never cheat on me he's just joking.

Earlier this year, I stumbled upon his chat with a girl who I happened to know as well, a very young girl sending his shirtless pics and asking her if she knows how to ride d ick well if she can kiss and suck his whatever well.

Asides this, he sent her money up to 13,000 in the space of a week while he kept telling me he had no money and I was managing my personal money to run stuff.

He apologised and said its because I don't kiss him when we have s ex and he didn't even intend meeting the girl that it was him catching cruise.

This week again I stumbled upon his chat with another girl, he has known this girl for a while tho and I've met her too. He sent her a message saying Je ki n do e kara e bale in yoruba which means let me f uck you let your body calm down. I've been mad since I saw this one cos he apologised and afterwards said he was just joking.

I'm tired of the disrespect the whole nonsense brings to me and I'm considering leaving. I have a well paying job, I take care of my personal expenses and send money to my parents and siblings myself and we have a child together.

It's not s ex cos we have sex not less than 2-3 times a week; very satisfying s ex.

I need inputs from married people please.
We have an ongoing building project together which we are both sponsoring 50:50. I'm not an uptight person at all, I talk, I make jokes, I'm not boring!

Hanty, maybe you no dey give huncle well well.

InsanePsycho:
Op this guy nailed it.

Tell her you have a doctor who will conduct the pregnancy test.

It is all about money for "upkeep"

Na farewell money she dey find my brother.

finson:
Good day all,

I was working in Lagos as expatriate. I am married and she was fully aware at the beginning of the relationship.

I had sex with my gf on the 6th day and I pulled out.

I told her that month that my contract has been terminated by my company and I have to go back to my country.

On 27th day I met her (5 days before leaving the country) and she asked me if I am sure that I pulled out on time when we had sex last time and I told her yes and she told me that she is asking the question because she has not seen her period.

When I left the country 2 weeks later I chatted her and I asked if she is doing well. She told me that she is not fine. I asked "why ?" And she told me that she is pregnant. I was very surprised and I called her. That day she told me that she was just joking with me she is not pregrant and we talked about everything.

Last week she told me that she is pregnant. She shared with me a test results on a paper where the date of the pregnancy perfectly matches with the date we had sex.

She told me that if her family is aware of the situation they will disowned her and she immediately shared with me some requirements to apply for a job in UK where 2 million NGN are required and she asked me for support. She also deleted the image of the tests results.

When I asked her to share with me she told me that she does not want me to be in trouble if my wife see that document in my phone. I insisted to get a copy and I told her that she can be assured I will not keep it in my phone. She shared back the document after cropped the letterhead. I insisted to get the full copy and she sent another one after striketrhoughed on her name.

I told her that I don't think in Nigeria the only option available for a woman who gets pregnant is to travel to UK even if her family will disown her. I understand that the situation is not comfortable but there could be other options. Even this process to go to UK can be unsuccessful, and if it is the case, this amount of money would have been lost.

I am not from Nigeria and this story seems suspicious to me. I am currently abroad, there is no way I can verify what she is telling me. I don't also want to open it some of my friends there.

To be honest, I never planned after I left the country to cut communication with her or to support her. But I prefer to support her whenever I have the opportunity to do. I don't know now if this story about the pregnancy is true or not.

If you have any experience in this kind of situation please share with me. Any advice is also welcome.
Please don't judge me.

i believe you still have friends in Nigeria?. open up to one who you trust and ask him to help you investigate thoroughly.
If its true shes pregnant then you can decide to help her if you convinced the baby is yours.

Me I will first collect my shop and go after her friends.

Proudpolygamist:
My first wife got pregnant for me when she was in the university and i had just newly secured a job with a high paying firm. She was the daughter of a big businessman at the time and we were from a conservative society, so we had to sharply perform the marriage rites and settle her family handsomely because they accused me of impregnating their daughter before marriage and sought compensations.
Fast-forward to our marriage life, she started making life hell for me after the birth of our first son.
Hadiza was a real trouble maker and I was beginning to think I made a mistake marrying her, she would nag all day when she was pregnant and won't cook meals at home or do domestic chores. In fact I spent most of the nights on empty stomach, my consolation being that she would put to bed one day. She would only have sex when she felt like doing it and it must have been after a good treat.

Things got worse after she put to bed. She complains that she spends the whole day caring for our young son that she can barely think about anything else.
She prefers to watch TV all day and spend her whole time on social media instead of cooking, doing dishes, , domestic chores or getting a job. She once asked me to prepare breakfast in bed for her on a Monday morning when I was supposed to get to work early for an appointment. I returned home that day hungry but she had refused to prepare food because I didn't make her breakfast in bed. She was so engrossed in telemundo fantasies that she thought she could dictate what direction our marriage swings.
I got tired and decided to teach her a lesson
On this fateful night, she snored irritatingly like a pig in my room and accused me of snoring like a pig, stressing that I need urgent medical check up . I told her she would know who was snoring like a pig, and who needs medical checkup after i'm done with her.I left my room and went to sleep in the guest room.
The following day i left home for work without taking breakfast afterwhich i went to see my lawyer. I issued a court summon to my wife through a court clerk.
I was told, She couldn't believe her eyes after she read through and discovered that i was seeking a divorce
She Refused to sign the papers and told the court clerk that i should kom and tell her with my mouth, stressing that she didn't marry me through a letter. She said i should kom and give her the papers myself if I was man enough.
The court clerk said he tried cajoling her into signing the papers peacefully but she screamed "He is my husband, I can't divorce him" and ran away with hot tears rolling down her cheek.
You know what happened next, i went straight to area command where my good friend works and left for home with 5 armed policemen.
In quick strides we searched for her and found her in her bedroom upstairs. She sat in the bed looking morose and jumped up fearfully when she saw us.
I pointed to her and told the men to escort her out of my house. Before she could say pim, one of the policeman a corporal, clamped handcuffs on her hand and told her to be cooperative as to follow them to the station. She protested very loudly and struggled to free herself, but it was too late, my mind was already made up. She ended up in tears making strong appeals to me but I kept a stony face. The policemen dragged my wife into the waiting van.

One of them came to me and asked to take her things along with her. I was shocked, because I bought everything in the house with my money. The sergeant kept his mouth shut when he saw the look on my face.
I gave him an address and asked him to drop my former wife in that address where her father lives.
Then I locked up the bungalow I bought for my 1st wife and joined my second wife in the estate.

Lol...but oga u went too far with the handcuffs, that was too much.

Alexpre11:
Does Babayaro wants NFF to consider him as Super Eagles head coach

I thought about what he said and I agree with him. Since the departure of Enyeama and then the cancer of Carl Ikheame, there has been no trust worthy goalkeeper coming through for the super eagles.

So npower mean say no payment for March?
This is not fair na!

Fahdiga:
Even the NFF itself should be sacked too

Picnic himself should be sacked and jailed!!!.

Dagger111:
Due to line of my profession, I went for a resolution meeting btw a wealthy family members today. Then, i was shown some apartments occupied illegally by some talents. I felt lik avin a vis-à-vis interaction wit d talents in view of enlightening them d punishment of occupying some1's property without his/her consent. When i banged into 1 of d rooms, i meet 2 ladies, btw age 35-40. I interrogated them that on whose authority are they occupying d property? She was abt given an answer, when i saw a cage from afar, i moved closer and was shocked to see a life Agama lizard, tied wit rope by d waist as to restrict it movement inside same cage. That's double punishment, as in, been locked and tied at same time inside d cage.

At this point, i question the both ladies. I said i am a yoruba boy and understand what that means, but i want them to enlighten me further, the reason they tied an Agama Lizard in a cage, is that not cruelty? The woman was just looking up and down, then i requested she free the innocent Lizard, she said "Never", not in a life time and there are consequences if she dares try it, instead, she will rather vacate the building with her Lizard. When i see that the arguments was creating a scene, i snapped the Cage of the Agama Lizard and take my leave.

At this point, an old woman came and said to me, Alagba (young man)!! that Lizard is representing a soul and that soul is somewhere suffering now, maybe he/she is seriously sicked now and can't move an inch or the person might be working hard to meet day ends and night needs without seeing any proceed or progress. I felt touched to my soul, I only wish i could help the poor Lizard but what do I know, what can i do? I fear nothing at all. Like i always said, i am bigger than any evil plan against me, I am an idol of my own home, infact when alone, i get scared of myself. Take it or leave it. The picture is at the next slide for ur consumption. Take a look gentle and be careful in life.

What can you say about this?

Oga, u should've raised an alarm and call people around. That is someone tied down spiritually.

Officiallyme:
Guys, it's not as easy as you guys see it, just pray you're not in shoes, thinking about it alone weakens the mind

Bro if u really do like her just observe and give her time to see if she has really changed. If she's still the same then you can end it and take your leave. HIV is real bro so.

BirtherOfKings:
small boi wan handle big something
Leave her now if u know u can't handle her past and groom her into a better version of herself...someone better Dan u is waiting so take it as a privilege from GOD to be d one to lead her in the right path
If u are sleeping with her though, just know ur destiny has been turned to a menstrual rag
Discipline urself to stay away from fornication and show her there are still good men out there...can't handle it? Go away from. Ha

Which do you prefer your brother should date, a public item who sleeps around or a normal girl who has control over herself?

MadamVanessa:




Is there anyone both male and female that doesn't have a reckless past? personally, if I love , I love, I don't believe in the philosophy of digging one's past before settling down with the person; because to be very candid, there's nobody past that's palatable.

Na sex she had no be say she kill person, or no be say she give you disease. Na knack she knack, u been de knack too before u even meet am. The abortion she committed, even house wives of today , commit abortion too. So It's an old story.

Meeting you , means starting afresh with a new chapter. people with trust issue have the time of going back to dig at one's past and if look closely their past too may even be more messy.




Look for more justifiable reason to jappa after knacking the poor girl, don't come up with this childish and RECKLESS excuse.

Nobody is saying don't have sex, doing it anyhow with countless people is the problem here. We all have to be careful because HIV is real and has no cure.

Cardealer2021:
Everybody has a skeletons in their cupboard
Why not forget about your girlfriend past and move on.
You were never a part of the past so don't let it bother you.
If you don't like the girl why not smash and go

There is a 50% chance she will continue the reckless act while in a relationship with the poster. As the popular saying goes, a leopard never changes it's skin. I believe in giving people second chances though.

Kobojunkie:
um....The images came from your heart in the first place, so obviously your heart did initially OK It even if it eventually regretted it.

The devil is the one who put those thoughts in your mind, how your mind reacts to it by either going with the flow or rebuffing it is what I'm talking about.

SultanYoung:
bro no be foolishness ooo, person wey dey drown for river ready to hold crocodile head take breath for one minute.

One thing is certain putin is winning this war from all corners leave the western media and the zelenisky comedian of a president, he knows what's really happening that's why you see him beg at any giving opportunity.

Putin don hold Ukraine for blockoust

Winning as how?.

With all the mouth Putin has made one would think it won't take a week to deal with Ukraine. It's been a month and he's still struggling to capture Kyiv. Instead the Ukrainians are recapturing back their cities from Russia.

Kobojunkie:
Well, if sex comes to your mind and you react by imagining yourself having sex with that your next door neighbor or that one that got away,you turn that simple thought into sin by that.

Does your heart accepts and wished it happened or not?.

Kobojunkie:
If God is really who you claim to want to please by your choice, then you want to make sure you have the right information to help you on your path. According to Jesus Christ, the one who is God's New Covenant and Law in the Kingdom of God, what is sin is not what you refer to as sexual immorality- fornication, masturbation, homosexuality etc. - instead sin is the lust in your heart towards another - Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 - those fantasies and longings for sex are what constitute sin in the Kingdom of God.

So while you claim you have not physically engaged in what is sexually immoral activities in the 18 months period, that all means nothing when you consider that the sin is that committed in your mind/heart and not the physical activity itself.

It's how one reacts to the thought when it come to your mind that matters.

Ricardo Kakaá

Paulo Maldini

Ronaldo Delima

Is it the same murde.rous Black Ax.e aka Aye that we all know?.

Kobnomi

Flexherbal:
Excessive love of Money is the root of all evil.

You can decide to be kind to anybody, whether male or female. But, that kind amount too big ooo. Just give woman 7m without anything?
No project at all?
I leave the matter for the rest people to handle.

If you are having any erectile challenge or sperm issues, search: "Mr. Flex Herbal Tea for men"

It's highly impossible for a guy to be dashing a lady who is not his sister or family member 7m regularly except say guy man dey use her star cashout.

....on a second thought, those money might be the "teach me how to fish" she has been asking him but she won't understand it because she expects to be told everything.

GooodHardDick:
After enjoying the man's money, now she wants to japa? The man even trained her in school?

Nigeria girls are useless. All of them. Nigeria girls are so broke and brainless for my liking. Na why dem dey always use dem do rituals.

Train a girl in school with the hope she will marry you at your own peril.

Flier:
Now that China is taking notes,I bet they won’t dare invading Taiwan.
Russia is already in ruin,I even see the Oligarchs going after Putin.

That's one of the reason for the sanctions.

Blackfire:
Russia beware of us

Dear uncle Putin, pls if you're seeing this pls forgive for he knows not what he's saying.

Ma binu sir!.