uche87: Often when single young people move to the United Kingdom, they are always caught between starting new relationships abroad or sticking to their old relationships in their home countries. This short article is aimed at guiding you to make the best decision on the basis of reality and not mere emotions and sentiments.
I will try as much as possible to make this piece less controversial. The aim isn't to break relationships and destroy the efforts of couples in their relationships.
Dating a good Nigerian woman in the UK is amazing. They bring happiness and increase your zeal to succeed by giving you strong backing. Below are some of the reasons why dating a Nigerian woman in the UK is highly recommended.
(1) Nigerian women are appreciative:
Let's face it, there is no abundance of 'original' male suitors in the UK. Some coloured women even go for several months without anybody stopping them on the street to say hello. This adds value to men (law of demand and supply). So when single women ever meet their male counterparts, they value you like the pound note.
(2) Financial independence:
The UK creates an enabling ground and a level-playing field for everybody to succeed. As long as you are ready to work, you will make good money. UK-based Nigerian women have their own money and take pleasure in buying their own things unlike their counterparts back home, who are at the mercy of Tinubu and his APC friends.
(3) Beauty and fashion:
UK-based Nigerian women are not only beautiful, but they are so classy. They could be fashionable due to the extra cash and the affordability of clothes in the UK. I believe they have more 'packaging' than Amazon lol
(4) Better opportunities:
Nigerian women are doing really well in the UK. They are like the last piece of the puzzle you need to make your life complete. I have seen some men doing blue-collar jobs marry doctors and company management officials in the UK. This opens a door of opportunities and stability.
(5) Adaptability:
If you are in the UK, you are better off dating a Nigerian woman who lives in the country. This is because they have adapted to the system and have a strong knowledge of how it works. This is always as smooth as when Robin Van Persie moved from Arsenal to Old Trafford. He hit the ground running.
(6) Happy Ending:
UK women have very strong 'grips'. Legends in the house would understand. This is because of the scarcity of men and the busy nature of the country. You can't boldly say the same about Lagos-based women who are mostly 'sexually stressed' due to too multiple relationships running concurrently and marketing activities.
(7) Mental stability:
Due to the performing nature of the UK economy (compared to Nigeria), the women are generally happy to an extent because their needs are easily met via simple financial plans. Tinubu, back home has triggered an epidemic of mood swings amongst women with highly counterproductive public policies.
( Fiscal compatibility:
Nigerian women in the UK are largely transparent with their finances. They also contribute to the payment of bills. They know for sure that their spouses might develop hunchbacks carrying those responsibilities alone. This attribute isn't easy to come by in Nigeria where the women regularly say 'Your money is our money and my money is my money' to their men.
(9) Better exposure:
Traveling itself is a form of education. As you pass through places, they also pass through you. Nigerian women in the UK have mixed with different races by virtue of being in the country. This has also broadened their perspective on life and made them better people.
(10) Cooking:
Nigerian women are generally fantastic cooks. They don't just have the skill, but they also have the financial resources to explore new measures of making both local and foreign dishes. Inadequate financial resources impede the abilities of their local counterparts.
Osahon George Osayimwen writes from the United Kingdom.
please and please don't listen to this madman Is aim is to destroy the life of guilble Nigerian men in the hands of those demented UK or American based naija women Those women are worse than animal if you most know! PLEASE STAY AWAY FROM THOSE UK BASE NIGERIA WOMEN!
turmacs: Now according to the Bible, in Exodus Chapter 33 verse 11 the Bible says and I quote "Thus the Lord used to speak to Moses face to face, as man speaks to his friend" ......
Now my question here is, all of you that call yourselves Christians in this world today (especially Nigerians), is there anyone among you that God has spoken to face to face, how a man speaks to his friend ? Please I'm not talking about God speaking to you in a dream please, because that is how he speaks to all of you nowadays.. I'm talking about speaking to God face to face , just like the way you would speak to you earthly friend in a conversation...And for those of you that might bring up the argument that Moses was very special to God and he did works for God that no man was capable of, does that mean that God loves some of his children more than he loves others?
Righteousness99 nlfpmod Mynd44 Seun OAM4J farano
if you like! No give your life to Christ or carry or life give those false people of peace. Weti concern me.
Na when you die and come realise you made a grave mistake by not giving your life to Christ but already to late. Once you chop that fire and sulfuric smoke for hell tired na that time you go get small sense were don already too late.
For now enjoy your life! Fvck plenty dicck as possible, do asahawo till you tired. Fvck dog 🐶 as many times as you like, lick your fellow women yansh as you like, use your dirty mouth to commit slanderous act. For me I done already tell you your faith if you no repent
For those who don't understand Tiv language, she agreed that the voice in the conversation is the groom's dad's voice but she said they are not cousins. She said they are related along the line but it's by their great-great grandparents not even the grandparents. She said all this happened during the trade-by-barter era when they were not even born and the woman they traded on their side is not even her great-grandmother. She admitted knowing so much about the Tiv culture and if they were cousins, she wouldn't have proceeded with the marriage.
why this boy won destroy his life by marrying evening newspapers?
Is there no young women around? What benefits will he have by fucking an expired pu.ssy?
FSBoperator: The funniest shit I ever saw in my life was when waiting on line to be interviewed , this Ibo chief came in with full regalia and introduced himself as Chief so and so but was bluntly alerted by the black American interviewer who told him "I ask the questions and you respond. You understand me?"
Another one was one fake pastor who came in with tonnes of paper work presenting certificates of his church and what not and a letter of invitation. They bounce him without taking one look at any of it.
Those guys believe Nigerians will lie and so any too much turanchi raises a flag for them.
But most importantly , and this is for anyone who understands Americans , is that they rely on eye contact and most Nigerians don't seem to be able to maintain eye contact. To an American , that is a sign someone is lying.
forget the eye contact bullshit. See America, they have already done there research and know the region of a particular country who who want to Japa for drug and the rest. Or just runaway. You will hardly see a northerner been denied visa. You know why?
Pheleecity13: Visa denied today 21st of July, 2023
Vo:Good morning Me:Good morning
Vo:Have you ever been to the US? Me:No, I never had a reason to until now
Vo:Do you have a family there? Me:No, I don't
Vo:Do you know anybody in the US? Me:Yes, I have my family friend there?
Vo:what does she do there? Me:she is a student
Vo:who is sponsoring you? Me:My dad, he is..... (Cuts off)
Vo: what does he do Me:He is a successful business man, he's the CEO of bleep global services, he deals with the importation of cars and cars spare parts and the exportation of agricultural products, he's also into real estate, he earns 50m annually
Vo:what are your postgraduate plan? Me: I will be coming back to Nigeria for the compulsory national youth services, after which I will seek employment in top food companies and hotels, I will do that for a while because I will love to start up my own baking shop and culinary school where I can impact knowledge in those that are interested in culinary world.
Typed for a while and passed me the blue paper.
Please what could be wrong?
which person pikin no go work for his father so called successful bleep company, but instead the foolish son won go work for top food company instead of his successful papa company
I be visa agent I go even ban you for applying for America visa
TemplarLandry: Why are you so toxic? And I used to love you.
she no see husband marry ohh. And she don dey enter menopause ohh. AKA evening newspapers stage, and the worse part of it is that she come fat untop the matter! Na all this things make her toxic ohh
His wife got a job in the UK which pays her about £30,000/ annum. Husband will be going with the wife along with thier 3months old baby as a dependent. How do you think this man can cope nursing thier baby for God knows how long before he gets something doing.
On a second thought he will rather let the wife go while he stays back with the baby in Nigeria managing his business. He's not doing do bad in Nigeria.
My people what's the best option he should take that would favour him and his family?.
As a man. He shouldn't follow his wife to UK as a dependant. That would be a slap on his face and his said wife will immediately turn to wolf 🐺 and see her husband as a bag of shit This I have witnessed
talented321: I swear this one weak me, i have never been this weak before.
until you go fvck one girl come see say your life dey go upside down, business no come dey work for you, them sack you for work, family them people dey sick, nothing dey go well for your life! Na that time you go start to dey find village people to blame instead of your preek were you carry enter one used hole
Because them don use you take renew Thier subscription already! And I hear say if them use you, you go mumu for life except you go do deliverance! Una go dey open yansh anyhow like carburettor once them flash small small money for Una face not knowing say na renewer of expired subscription them won do, Try find any better nearby church make them check you ohh.
DKM123: Abeg this is overdoing it and being excessively dramatic. Did she just know that her daughter has graduated? Wetin be this?
oga enemy of progress, chief executive manager of the head of village people, the overall chief of army staff (brigade General) of enemy of progress, CEO of poverty management firm, HOD of "brought up by an abusive family background" vice-chancellor of hate and envy
Babathanks: How I go marry woman that earn more than me in the first place?. I think is only greedy and lazy guys that always want to marry woman that earn more than them. I once dated a lawyer that I earn more than but it reach a stage she started earning more than me and she started disrespecting me cos of that. Immediately I dump her ass off. I’m not a lazy person and I believe in myself. My advice to all this single guys out there, don’t ever date someone that earn more than you Especially this our generation. It will never work
Quality20: Are they not supposed to be happy that their wives are not asking them for every penny they need?
because you are a yoruba man that's why A typical Yoruba man will not like to work but be chasing small small girls while his wife will be earning money at work. Hence see that there's nothing wrong with this!
your nonsense voice and commentary can't make me to watch this video in peace I just have to vex and started scrolling down to comments section I regret that Seconds I used to click play
Revolva: A man stab his lover in broad day light and took his own life by drinking sniper at d same spot of the incident yesterday 9th july 2023 , sunday afternoon at Olodi Apapa , ajeromi ifelodun LGa area of Lagos .
The unidentified man may have killed his lover due to some unexplained circumstances which we cant tell and later committed suicide by drinking sniper .
People had to flee away as fast as possible at the scene The two couples were seen in a pool of blood as the scene was very graphic and it was quite a sorrowful scene
Instagram had to take the raw video down, due to its very graphic and i have to blur the video and re upload on IG
dyera: The heart of a black man is desperately wicked. A black man will never help his fellow citizen without expecting anything in return. If you fail to give something in return they will find a way to take back what they gave to you, if they cannot take it back they start cursing the you. That is how wicked a black man actually is.
naice: I find myself facing a difficult situation in my marriage and would greatly appreciate your insights and advice. The issue at hand revolves around my wife's unwillingness to listen to me. I'm at a loss as to why she behaves this way, and it's starting to take a toll on our relationship.
To provide some context, my wife has a strong-headed personality, which often leads to conflicts between us. No matter how gently I communicate my concerns or requests, she seems to disregard them and even does the opposite. This behavior frustrates me and leaves me questioning our compatibility.
One possible explanation I've considered is her background as an orphan. She lost her parents at a young age and had to take on the responsibility of caring for herself and her siblings. While I understand the challenges she faced, it seems like her self-reliance has translated into a resistance to accepting input or guidance from others, including me.
At this point, I have contemplated divorce, but there's a significant factor holding me back: our children. I love them deeply and cannot bear the thought of being separated from them. As much as her strong-headedness affects me, I firmly believe that domestic violence is never an option.
I'm reaching out to this community for reasonable opinions and advice on how to navigate this situation. Have any of you experienced a similar dynamic in your relationships? How did you cope with a spouse who doesn't listen? Are there effective strategies to foster better communication and understanding in such circumstances?
Thank you in advance for your support and guidance. Your insights will be invaluable in helping me make an informed decision about the future of my marriage."
during courtship didn't you see those signs?
If you knew how many naija women I have dump during courtship because of Their bipolar sickness It only takes a foolish man to see those signs and keep pushing all in the name of big yansh and breast Now sex don tired you, na attitude you won change? That's impossible. Many of these naija women comes with pre-installed mental illness with you can't change
Peejayz: if you are from a rich background, don't you think someone did the struggle for you ??
Is like you no dey understand! At some some point in Human history, someone has to did the struggle for the next generation and forth generations to survive or pick it up. This doesn't implies that all men must struggle to gain something and believe that women shouldn't struggle What kind of fvcked up mentality is that? If you as a man is struggling, you should be struggling for your future generations to live a struggle free life just how our forefathers did for us
GUNITGuy: Someone doesnt even think straight ....Some people are women pleasers by default ask him how many men has he helped ...This are the kind of men that would give a woman #100million naira for doing nothing than just beautiful because he believes a woman should not suffer while all men can go to hell
... And know if a guy (my friend) every salary he receive at the end of the month, he will budget 50k for women (hook-up and the rest) All advise to channel that money to helping others or channel it to something productive fall into deaf ears. Later in the future this ediot will start ranting like the op and be saying men must suffer while women should not suffer
I work in a company and my take home is 450k after tax. My problem is I have been thinking of a skill to learn as this job would not last forever. Aside this job I do not have a skill and as a man I feel one should have a long lasting skill. Please any suggestions would be welcomed aside from online skills. Thank you .
one has skills but do not have job while the other one with no skills have a job paying 450k And yet the foolish man with no skills and a paying job doesn't have the common sense of savings
blazepascal: Stop comparing yourself to the ladies.
We don't have the same privileges. They have all the chances to live and experience a better life.
They might never go hungry. They might drive the latest version of car, they might live in the best apartment in the city, use the latest technology, fly first class.
But you as a man will have to suffer to become someone or experience these things. Working should be your moto.
Suffer today so you can have a better life tomorrow, don't compare yourself with your sisters, don't hate the females in your city for living a life more than you.
We are different, a man must suffer to become someone of importance. That's why you must understand what is taking your time and little money and cut off with them.
You identify your wastrel in your life. In this journey of life, a man's worst enemy is idle time.
Let this message scare you, wake up and stop comparing yourself with the females. A broke man is nothing even to his family. A broke girls is something to her family members.
Don't be delusional, we are different and our chances are not the same to smile or be respected. A broke guy is not respected, he has no value to his community, they laugh at you when you walk by, the beautiful ladies call you loser. Get up.
Get up! Be scared of your future.
#BLAZE
na you and your family go suffer since poverty dey Una lineage If you dey suffer no means say othe people family dey suffer also, you just dey unfortunate say them born you into poverty or descendants of poverty that's why you dey yarn sand comot from your mouth like this
Instead try work hard so that you go break that generational poverty and make your pikin no suffer for life as you dey suffer so (base on your write-up)
This your nonsense writeup no dey applicable to certain type of individual abegi
rep is avoiding another civil war with ojokuw decentants.
Heard ojokuw started a civil war because of one Igbo woman which the Northern leaders then has been bulalaing her with their pencil buratashi (peniiis)