back to the post. I never knew south africans can fall in love, maybe you are a different breed. I met one who had a professional career but a chronic drunk, clubber, dosent see going to dates with numerous men as a big deal and highly manipulative. I had a very bad opinion about southafricans because everything she did was against the Nigerian social vices. Maybe the cultural shock or something but I just couldnt vibe well with her unforgiving nature. Since you seems like a good south african, I think you can reconsider your decision to stay with him only if he will permanently base in South africa or if youa re willing to permanently relocate to Nigeria with him in future. Seeing his exs and kids will automatically bring back okafors law and you may not be able to stand it. You also need to note that a man in south africa might act differently in nigeria, over here, everything is permissible. think carefully before making your decision. Polygamy is bad, its even worce when its from multiple women. The ball is in your court.
Jackie999: Why is this useless and worthless? I'm just asking for comments. Please, it's a genuine post
carl90: I met her when I went for service in Rivers state some years back. I live in Lagos. After the service year ,I have to go back to Lagos . Now, of recent, we initiated a conversation that she still wants me and is willing to relocate from P.H to my base in Lagos. I am still single. So, is she . However, there are other women in the picture (there is always some in a man's life, right? whether you are single or married ?) I am not committed to any of them though. Should I encourage her to shoot her shot by relocating back to Lagos?
This is the kind of thread I love to see. Summarized and very clear pictures.
Pls can you state the time line? Fertilizer application? Insecticide application Weeding? Irrigation if applicable. Staking if applicable.
Total cost per hectare, or your landsize so we can estimate a probable output. Your response will be highly appreciated
somtovictor111: Greetings farmers, In this thread I will explain how Easy and profitable pepper farming is though I won't be Explaining in details
I started off early last year around the end of February, I did my nursery of roughly 3000 seeds (I pack of the super habanero f1 & the f2) after the nursery process I had at least 2500 seedlings which i transplanted into a small black nylon bag due to the temperature and weather conditions and it made it. easier for me to manage, it stayed at the small nylon bag till it first rain, I have already prepared the land so i transplanted the pepper to field, though it was raining daily but it was enough for the pepper to keep surviving. few weeks after transplant it started producing flowers and bearing seeds during that time it happens to be raining at least twice a week and it made the pepper healthy. around 2nd week of June my pepper started ripping and my first harvest was four bags. I harvest my pepper weekly and it increases after each harvest, during that period pepper was very scarce, costly and Infact,i wasn't meeting up with the supply because of the demand of the pepper in my area, when it was at it peak production I harvested 13 bags consecutively for 6weeks which was shocking and a bag was sold a 19k per 25kg bag. I harvested my pepper for 4 months before the production began to reduce but was still profitable. After the total harvest I made a profit of 200% return on Investment .
Pepper is very easy to maintain as long as you are giving it the necessary requirements and has just 40% stress but the stress can't be compared to the joy of making money every week.
we accept your apology, but 2014 shouldnt be an excuse. Its more than 10 years already. This is not the Nairaland of our dreams, a mobile app is a good way to start and an ability to turn ito full fledge social media platform while still maintaining its anonymity status.
2024 will be the year of Nairaland's resurgence. I will face Nairaland squarely like I used to before the discouraging Data Loss Incident of 2014. I will hire more hands to help us to improve Nairaland.
The problems of Nairaland that we should have solved years ago will be solved.
* We will defeat tribalists, trolls, & spammers. * We will complete our advertising platform. * We will improve the UI and UX. * Home page topics will be educative & fresh. * We will reverse the anti-women trends.
However, I must warn you that things will get worse before they get better. Please stand with us and fight for us as Nairaland faces the tough challenges of 2024, which have already started.
You didnt ask rightly. You asked for help without any prove. You even rejected cash payment. 10k is not alot of money, I would have helped if there was alittle more details about your predicaments.
Unyimekelvin: Why is it so difficult to find help anywhere in this country💔💔
PressMyButton: Nothing special here. I am aware how Tinubu patners with several mission houses to deliver reliefs to prisoners in Lagos state. He does that without going around for camera-Op. Constantly seeking public validation is a sign of low self esteem.
Giftedhand47: I have a chronic anger problem I've tried not to get angry and overlook things but this demonic spirit will just do his thing Pls help me i really need tips from Nairaland family.don't know I may get help here . Thanks
LilMissFavvy: Hmm, so you are still waiting for Miss. Perfect?
As for the Op, my advice is that your brother should think of the attributes of this lady. Does she have good characteristics? If she loves him, is well mannered, etc, then he can forgive her and marry her. If she doesn't possess other good attributes, then he can let go. There is no perfect human and mistakes happen.
lol, he pain u like that? How did you know I haven't gone far in Life? A serious war hasnt happened yet because it has always been a field day of unabetted killings by the Israelis. Guerilla warfare is the hardest to win. They are only fighting Ghosts. If macron said you need 10 years to annihilate Hamas, who are you to sit in your filty room to be typing rubbishhh?
BTW, your opinion is not on opinion as long as in public space, you cant be saying trash without being put in place.
Dbestbrest: People like you don't go far in life. My opinion is my opinion, if you have contrary opinion you state it without insult. I won't blame you because you weren't brought up properly and that's why you will end up a frustrated boy. For your information, this is the first time serious war will break out between Hamas and IDF. The war is going on well and you will sit behind your chinko phone to read the end of your master, hamas being obliterated. Useless idiot
What they couldnt do in 50 years? You people think with your anuusss
Dbestbrest: It is absurd to see hamas using children and women as shield and claiming that they can match up with Israel. The earlier they own up the better for them to stop further killings of innocent civilians. You are hiding in tunnels and coming out occasionally to attack and think that's how to with a war? As Israel had divided the strip into 3, it will make the job easier for them to destroy all the tunnels in the north, then relocate central Gazans to north before obliterating Hamas and their tunnels from central Gaza before moving to south. I just pity the dead men still walking and hiding in Turkey, Lebanon and Qatar, as their days on earth are numbered
B3 ko, A1 ni. Yoruba wey hard like kilode! One needs total attention with a sound mind to be able to read Yoruba flawlessly. A C5 or C6 is okay
Tajbol4splend: Yoruba should be only language spoken in South West, speaking any other language including English should be criminalized and this motion should be filed by all the law makers across the region, and nobody should be admitted to any higher institution without at least B3 in Yoruba
LOVEALAIGBO: If this was a progressive, fair and balanced country Aba should have witnessed some serious federal intervention in infrastructure….same with Nnewi and Onitsha! Had Aba been in a different country, by now it would be rivalling other continental industrial and commercial cities of repute!
Fuckallmods: Honestly I wanted nairaland host to seize their license forever because of how this forum filled with hate and tribalism... Well, back to the post; Everyone knows how to love, even single parents. For a fact that someone is a single mother doesn't mean she's bad or a terrible person. She just didn't find the right person or she just wasn't the right person for him. But there's a man for every woman, and only about 1 of 10 get their perfect match. Now, imagine slandering a lady who was unfortunate to grow up without both parents... isn't that unfair? That your parents are together, is it because they love each other too much? Or is there a chance things wouldn't have gone south if your dad married his first love? As a man haven't you made relationship errors before? Try asking necessary questions when needed
essentialone: What is your experience with ladies who were raised up by single mother?
Toxic Time Bomb Highly Irritant and Irritable
Very manipulative, toxic, insecure, they seem men as their dad, a threat. Very disrespectful, unforgiving and lack proper home training. Never marry a woman from a broken home, most of them are emotionally broken. Not their fault, thats just the way they were raised
I denounced itel that year that my principal told me to help her do some settings, the phone took about 30 minutes to switch on. She told me thats how she bought it. Then I remembered my Tecno WX3 pro of thesame specs and price. The phone was perfect. I had to gift it to my cousin
Helgreenluv: Itel phones suck. I recently used an itel phone and my experience was terrible. I swore never to use an itel phone again. Please guys don't waste your money in buying this rubbish. Run from itel phones. If you are looking for a low budget phone, Infinix and techno are far better than itel
Olalan: How the owner of Nairand allowed his platform to be without strict control on proper communication is surprising. So many people have stopped visiting this very informative platform due to the uncontrolled ethnic clashes. I hope sanity is restored soon
Even though I always correct and defend igbos here, what i saw on twitter made me have a second thought. This people actually hate SW with passion. Even when the platform is down, they were all over twitter to rain curses on Seun, saying all sort of negative things, only to come back here to source for useful information, forgeting that its the almighty tribalistic hub they wish it shut down forever
YourGFsnatcher: nairaland is part of my daily routine. So when it went down, I had scattered browsing sessions. Even my GF was trolling me because she thinks I like the site a bit too much.
Here's what I learnt when it went down
Conclusion We are happy Nairaland is back, we hope it stays this way
Thats why I love my people. As Christmas dey come so, I go chop am, in fact na me be organizer for my friends house, we will visit all our christian friends home just to eat, in some places we eat meat alone when we are full. They come to mine during salah too.
abdeefggh: This is a symbol of religion tolerance found in the south west of Nigeria that is very rare throughout the world.
Moving out of that house would have given you a quest for bigger responsibility. You could have been married and settled down if you had moved out earlier. Your confort zone wont make you feel any better
Peter532: Don't let peer pressure tension you. I am 36 entering 37 few month from now and I still live with my mother. My dad is late and my mum is aged, I see no reason going to rent an apartment when the one I am living can easily be mine. I just need to refurbished it and I am good with my wives and kids.
I know some negative people will come to catch me witch saying I am for the death of my parents and so my kids Will wished for me too when I am aged.
That's where you are wrong no one is praying for anyone's death. It's contentment. I am planning on taking my relationship life serious and bring an offspring next year. Just a mini introduction my fiancee family that should do till we are ready to tie the knot.
That dress is cool tbh, without a bra, she is indecent especially when she has a big boobs. She could have buttoned up that denim jean
Houseontherock1: She's decent in my opinion, unless there's an official dress code that is against what she's wearing... it's Abuja...who knows what they are expected to wear... maybe she's missing hijab or they have to button up