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ItsModella: Holy Moly, what sort of troll is this? Are you a moderator? If yes, hide the post. If not, deal with it. Afterall, your father is not the owner of Nairaland.

Excellent. exactly my point
neither is your dad

We could all be be insensitive to one another (within or outside the NL rules)
so lets all deal with it

tunnytox: esere826
WTF is wrong with ya?
I've recommended you for a ban for that fckking ridiculous posts above.

it sure is crazy right?
well, the idea is to pass a simple message accross
"self-centeredness breeds self-centeredness"

Kindly recomend that my concerns are addressed first before my ban
Thanks

Jeez!!!
folks cant be this self centered.

How about this?

itsmodella and Maclatunji get those flashing "shut the f.uck up posts" out of this page

(*silly ego mast.urbating kids*)

@MOD

I think the moderator should change the topic of this thread on the front page. It should be

" A Girl discovers her boyfriend e-cheating on Nairaland"

This would drive more traffic to the site

*na suggestion ooooooo *

questions to be asked

is racism an inherent trait in human, especially towards the darker skin tone?

ie, if a group of say 50 kids are isolated and groomed to adulthood without external contacts
lets say 25 blacks and 25 whites

what would be their reaction to the different skin tones that they have?
if the ratio is 10 blacks to 40 whites what would be the outcome?
if the ration is 40 blacks to 10 whites, what would be the outcome?

is racism inherent?
if it is, what can be done to eliminate or limit its impact on the subjects of the action?

general comment and theory

i suspect that there must have been a time when blacks where the dominant group in the world
Such a time would have been when science was in its infancy, and brutish force or strength was the admired trait

its possible that as time elapsed, and science prevailed
the black groups held on to strength as being the desired xteristics
while some other groups sought for ways to defend themselves using science

as the lighter groups grew in scientific knowledge
the tendency to discriminate against blacker skin tone (which is apparently inherent)
became more prominent, and even embeded in cultural and religious beliefs

the darker skin tones where therefore pushed towards the extreme (southern) borders with time
or they (darker groups) sought refugee in those regions from the lighter skinned marauders


This might explain why darker groups occupy the lower parts of africa and india
while lighter groups occupy the nothern parts

*na theory oooooo*

*coughs*

@itsmodella

since una don settle
please kindly remove that shine shine bobo when you post
im dey pain my eyes

thanks in advance

Idowuogbo: Flirt, yab, provoke etc... still my kondo dey hold on tight.Poster! Dump him na! Abi wetin u wan hia

@Seun+ (f)

now you've learnt your lessons
on the importance of ensuring that there is someone more macho always warming up to take the batton

If that was the case, you can see how convenient dumping Eze Promoe would have been
Your conscience would be clear knowing and saying that he e-cheated on you

*wicked laughter*

considering all ^^^^^ the above

It gets clearer
with every passing second
that life, is indeed..

......a rat race

EmceeX: R u sure seun+ and eze promoe is not the same person?

as I dey jobless today,
take a look at the last thread on this link
https://www.nairaland.com/seun%2B/posts

its an exchange between the 2 characters


(*Kai, i don turn to NL detective. I hate Seun Osewa *}

Caveat: This comment assumes that the scene presently playing out between Seun+ and Eze Promoe is not orchestrated

Girls over smart sha
she has simply and stylishly told other girls on this forum to keep off her man -he's taken

It has little to do with Eze Promoe's 'randy' and flirtatious e-character


*closes eyes and prays that same fate does not befall me*

Enkidu: @Yinka Oke,

Surprise surprise! So I have found you on Nairaland.
So your family is breaking up.
Nemesis is catching up with you.

@Everyone;
Pls take back all your good advise for this swine.

This maggot forgot to tell you about the other side of the story. He is hopeless womaniser who even seduces other peoples's wives and destroys other people's homes.
He has destroyed mine.

I refer all of you to my post last year.
https://www.nairaland.com/705239/neighbor-seduced-wife-now-im

As for you, Yinka Oke, Revenge is a Dish Best Served Cold.

You still have the sword of democles hanging over your head.
One day,just like a thief in the night, it will fall on you.

I clicked on the thread
Jeez!!!

This whole thing is getting weirder
and sickening

esere826: As far as I am concerned every single person should go back to his country
Including foreign companies going back to their own countries
Those two white guys that went mining for Gold in Ghana should also be deported etc

Till then, its just a game of economics
I won't condemn 9ja folks who for economic reasons try to anchor themselves abroad legitimately or not

obadiah777: CARE TO EXPAND ON THIS STORY ?

Referring to this: http://dsc.discovery.com/tv-shows/jungle-gold
which was discussed by NLanders in this: https://www.nairaland.com/1103245/why-china-built-ghost-town (somewhere from the 13th post on the 1st page)

Generally Speaking
I think we should look beyong the term 'illegal immigrants'
and appreciate the fact that people migrate to improve their economic and/or social well being

Those of us who are students of business strategy saw the move that Rupert Murdoch (Fox TV 'owner') made
marrying a chinese lady, Wendi, in order to gain a firmer foothold in the Chinese media market

So what is the difference between Murdoch's strategic marriage,
and those of Nigerian boys who marry Europeans in order to gain residency?

As far as I am concerned every single person should go back to his country
Including foreign companies going back to their own countries
Those two white guys that went mining for Gold in Ghana should also be deported etc
(see: http://dsc.discovery.com/tv-shows/jungle-gold
discussed in:https://www.nairaland.com/1103245/why-china-built-ghost-town)

Till then, its just a game of economics
I won't condemn 9ja folks who for economic reasons try to anchor themselves abroad legitimately or not

Generally Speaking
I think we should look beyong the term 'illegal immigrants'
and appreciate the fact that people migrate to improve their economic and/or social well being

Those of us who are students of business strategy saw the move that Rupert Murdoch (Fox TV 'owner') made
marrying a chinese lady, Wendi, in order to gain a firmer foothold in the Chinese media market

So what is the difference between Murdoch's strategic marriage,
and those of Nigerian boys who marry Europeans in order to gain residency?

Why is it legal for one, and illegal for the other?

IMO We are all fixated on color because it makes us look strikingly different physically

Whereas, darker folks generally tend to appreciate/admire the lighter skin tone
The lighter folks generally tend to look down on those with the darker skin tones
(albinism seems to be an exception to this general rule)

Some blacks are learning that they are generally being dispised for something as simple as skin colour
and actually being pushed (together with their kids) to become 2nd class individuals
so they root for anything black to counteract this negative effect

I am not crazy about Obama, but I appreciate the subliminal psychological role he plays
in giving the darker tone groups some confidence and also minimizing their stereotyping by the lighter group

Just as I am not crazy about GEJ, but also appreciate his pychological impact
on both the major and smaller Nigerian ethnic groups that might never have considered a minority fit to rule


They're not worse than those before them

odehaj: I will obey God!

*scratches head*
I thought that xtians where the israel that God was referring to

uhmm
OK, i get it
we are meant to sell our birthright to the physical isreal for no pottage at all

Ishilove: Are you sure it isn't your "other snake"??

I am sure. Very sure
This one was much longer *serious face*

Got into my seperated apartment and had this extremely strong urge to raise up the mattress in my room
I did, and saw this long glittering snake
(I really dont know how, but I kind of expected to see it)

I calmy shut the room door and went to get my younger brother and a spade
The spade was for the snake
and the brother was to ensure that there was a witness in case of any unfortunates

"up on the table" i told my kid brother
and he did before the last word

I set about butchering the snake with glee

I made my brother promise not to tell dad
I didnt want dad instructing that the flowers I had labored so hard to nuture around the house be cut down

Wow guys

people dey curse people when it comes to the Nigerian civil war issues sha
Cant folks simply be civil and have informed discussions while trying to unearth issues

So much emotions even from those who did not loose any familly members
Jeez!! are we so pro ethnic clusters?


*and kingoflag, u'd better face your front. Don't come here with a microscope as small as u, picking grammer and screaming obscenities ooo *

I have never fasted long, and barely fast

When dad and us where much younger, dad always said that Jesus fasted for us, and so we didnt need to fast
My little mind was pleased with dad's rationale and tucked it away in a folder

Now my dad does fast
but its tough for me to shake off my dads lazy wisdom

I always question the rationale for fasting
and many don't seem to hold water

The only one that holds for me now, is that fasting is for discipline sake

@poster

Your wife might most likeley have her faults, buts lets focus on you
you see, women tend to like super heroes
She just has to see you as a magician when she needs one

Her younger ones are dear to her. You cannot escape them
Infact, look around you, you will find that the wife's relatives tend to enjoy more from the husband than the husband's own relatives
na so life be.

Some of us guys are so aware of this dynamics that we dock girls who come with family responsibilities
You've married yours with her responsibilities, you need to stand by her

There is so much that you can do with her
It is almost impossible to give all suggestions

But a divorce when you already have 2 kids after only 3 years of marriage
uhmm, i no know o
So the next woman will also have at least 2 kids for you abi?
She will also have 2 kids for the next man abi?


I am begining to yarn crap, but you guys probaly should try thinking rationally and not emotionally
You could try being seperated first before commencing divorce if you so wish

@poster

I think the first question to ask is if you also want a divorce.
If you really do, and she really does, then a divorce would make sense
But bear in mind that you've got 2 kids that both of you need to manage

If on the other hand, any one of you guys feel that there could be another way out
then it's time for you guys to stop and think

The beauty and excitement of marriage should be the ability to face its challenges and win
that is as long as the marriage is not an abusive one

Assuming that something in you wants to make it work
then simple manage the other person effectively (I am not talking about tolerating)
Manage the other person to produce the outcomes you desire

I might be wrong, but from your story, it appears you've mainly been a wonderful friend to your wife
You've not yet developed an ability to husband her
This has nothing to do with cooking, other chores, or bills
It is something like being a dad to your kids, and not simply being their buddy

ololo12: @ Esere.

God bless you for such an Informative post.. More grease to your elbow, you too much!!

You're welcome dude.
Hope you're finding it extremely useful

^^^
I can't fit to tok again
I am really getting deeper into this ghost of Nigerian past

Ishilove: You think?

Common dearie
give the fella a chance
He likes a peculiar bwit of you
and also adores you

Your relationship with him could be the next hit series you'd be writting on in a year from now
while tucked up in his luxury jet

..'cant wait to read about it and things

I fear loosing control of my mental processor. It's what defines me
This fear ensures that I don't get drunk or get high

cdamsel: I don't know about u guys oh,bt d username sounds like dat of a man,hw come na woman dey tell story?
Just saying

I would have given an advise, but after seeing your comment^^^
It makes sense to move on. Thanks

I am not taking sides here, but IMO I think we need to be more cautious of the west, and their media/PR machines.

They'll easily paint a white dog red in order to hang it
and paint a red dog white if it suits their purpose
Think Ghadafi, Mubarak, Mandela, Saudi Arabia

All they do is highlight flaws that they've always known these leaders or systems have
and we the gullible lap the messages and are whipped up into a frenzy

Even GEJ can suddenly be accused of war crimes in his fight against BokoHaram and dragged to the Hagues

They are extremely calculating. Make no mistakes about this

mmh,...
interesting

kingoflag: So, why don't you pick up a book or ten and help yourself to some knowledge so you can make an informed decision instead of coming here telling us what your short-sighted eyewitnesses think they might have seen.

'decision'?
did you mean 'comment'?


lol
little one
when you're through with combing through threads
and helping Seun correct english, igbo, yoruba and hausa grammer
give yourself a pat on the back
and go to bed

there is more work of such work to be done tomorrow

@Seun

When I see stuff like this
I wipe a tear

thanks Seun for beleiving in your people
despite all

just buy the darn recharge cards
You're not buying her love
Just recharging your communication channel