Health › Re: Please Share Your Experience With PCOS And Pregnancy. by Esthered: 10:49am On Mar 26, 2024 |
Acidosis: Ahaha... Esther ooo.
Okay, here is the thing. God obviously loves children since the Bible says that they are His heritage. What that verse means is that children are given to us to nurture, love, show care, and lead to eternal life since they know nothing about God or His kingdom. When we take out that "eternal life," "love," and "care" responsibilities out of the way, then the whole idea of birthing more children becomes meaningless to God. It probably just becomes a biological or social exercise, just like buying a piece of cake to feel good or a pension plan to escape poverty, depression, and loneliness in old age (like most Nigerians do anyway).
...But that's my interpretation of the scriptures. I don't know, but your MOGs may hold a different view.  This your view get as e be. Thanks for sharing. |
Health › Re: Please Share Your Experience With PCOS And Pregnancy. by Esthered: 7:00pm On Mar 25, 2024 |
Acidosis: There are more important things God wants Christians to do, but "replenishing" the earth with potential candidates of hell isn't one. Please expatiate. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Esthered: 6:57am On Mar 23, 2024 |
Beautifulsenora: Goodmorning Mamas, please I need your inputs. I am a few weeks pregnant and I feel very constipated to the degree that my lower abdomen is tight and swollen as I am unable to completely empty my bladder. I did try push and strained a little when I felt the urge and in the process may have hurt my anus ( apologies for the TMI) I have been taking a lot of water, going for walks and even took hot water this morning to no avail. I can't even sit properly due to the anal pain. Pls has anyone experienced this or have a solution to this issue? Thank you. Why don't you visit the hospital while you improve on your diet. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Esthered: 6:55am On Mar 23, 2024 |
bastien: Good evening mothers n fathers here, pls I need help, my son is losing weight each passing day , he’s 1yr 5months old, he eats but not a lot, and he poos a lot and urinate too, we have done check up and all doctors even mother and care hospital said he’s okay but now he keeps losing weight and cries a lot, it’s making me sad and makes me cry whenever I sees him now his ribs are showing I’m fed up I had to come here , what good meal, food or cereal anything that will bring back his body to give him plsss Is he taking multivitamins? |
Family › Re: Husband Refuses Wife To Work And She Feels Resentful by Esthered: 5:49pm On Mar 15, 2024 |
Acidosis: What we call agreements in marriage are non binding. A woman may decide to be a stay at home home today for the sake of the kids and later on decide to pursue her career. Such non binding agreements can be subject to change as no one is getting hurt or battered in the process.
Personally, I don't even remember prioritising work or no-work discussions. An adult should be encouraged to work (or otherwise) when certain situations or events arise. In this case, the woman feels completely unfulfilled and considers work/career a potential motivation. Depression may set in later on if nothing is done. Your point is valid. |
Family › Re: Husband Refuses Wife To Work And She Feels Resentful by Esthered: 3:59am On Mar 15, 2024 |
Acidosis: He's a wicked man. A very wicked man. What makes him wicked? I'm assuming they never agreed she'll work when they're all grown. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu: I Did Not Urge FG To Print New Naira Notes (March 2020) by Esthered: 2:17pm On Mar 10, 2024 |
Annahh: Pweeh, age is no longer on my side. 😭 |
Politics › Re: Tinubu: I Did Not Urge FG To Print New Naira Notes (March 2020) by Esthered: 1:47pm On Mar 10, 2024 |
Annahh: Happy Sunday ma, how is work and FMAP, please I have some questions about FMAP.
1)Can I apply for FMAP with CIBN certificate 2)What is the Age limit? 3)Which professional certification did you use to apply? Very fine by God's grace. 1. Yes you can. 2. 30 3. ACA (ICAN) |
Politics › Re: Tinubu: I Did Not Urge FG To Print New Naira Notes (March 2020) by Esthered: 8:07am On Mar 08, 2024 |
Tap0lane: Where is the prove to this your lie ?!
Are you Igbo ?! Go to an ATM terminal disbursing mint and check who signed the note. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu: I Did Not Urge FG To Print New Naira Notes (March 2020) by Esthered: 8:06am On Mar 08, 2024 |
Salubata: Yes! Printing note and minting coin is part of their responsibility.
Though you're saying they printed excess, that's what you meant.
The question is, You work with CBN? You are an higher ranking CBN staff to have known this? The signature on the notes withdrawn on ATM terminals yesterday has Cardoso's signature. It's already in circulation. It has nothing to do with being a CBN staff. |
Politics › Re: Inflation: Tinubu advised Buhari to print more money - Paul Ibe by Esthered: 6:02pm On Mar 07, 2024*. Modified: 9:44pm On Mar 25, 2024 |
The 1,000 note in ATMs today was signed by Cardoso, meaning CBN is on a printing spree. |
Health › Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Esthered: 9:01pm On Mar 05, 2024*. Modified: 12:59pm On Mar 06, 2024 |
Krystalluv: Thanks for this. Did you lose mucus plug before the mild contractions? BCS I've not seen the show unlike my previous pregnancy where the show was d first thing I saw. The water leakage is my major fear. I use a general hospital and it's far from my house. The fear of those nurses sending me back home is my problem bcs I was sent home during my last pregnancy even with water leakage and contractions. Please go to the hospital. My water leaked and I failed to report till about after a week not knowing that my cervix was already opened and baby came 3 weeks to EDD. I was told my child risked having chorioamnionitis and we were kept for observation post delivery. |
Family › Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Esthered: 10:39am On Mar 04, 2024*. Modified: 12:51pm On Mar 04, 2024 |
Acidosis: Haha... The dictionary meaning of a bachelor is typically a man who has never been married.
But I used the word in that context to mean a single man perfectly and financially suited to live independently in his own apartment or home. I now understand your context. I think some guys feel suited for marriage based on age which I believe the OP falls into. |
Family › Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Esthered: 9:30am On Mar 04, 2024 |
Acidosis: What were you trying to build? The basic thing for a marriage is an apartment and you never had one in your name.
Two available options here:
1. You guys need to separate for a while. You're clearly not ready for marriage. You're not even qualified to be a "bachelor" yet. You're still in your early phase, so if I were you, I will return to my parents home and build my savings. I'm not posting this to hurt your feelings. But that's the truth; a truth I would personally embrace.
2. Hang on and continue hoping for a breakthrough. This is the version you'll most likely hear across different religious setting, but have it in mind that 90% of the people who relied on hope ended up with generational poverty. Like the US lottery, nothing is guaranteed. Please explain the bolded egbon. |
Family › Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Esthered: 4:20am On Mar 04, 2024 |
Dear OP, you married her to make your parents happy. You saw she has no income and you're a firstborn, in what way was she going to fulfill her mandate as your help meet if you were to go by the Proverbs 31 woman? Getting married on a low income is your greatest undoing. She needs to get a job and I'm wondering if she truly loves you and not knowing that you need her support in this trying times. Who marries a woman without a source of income when he's not well to do? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: How To Those Shuttling Ikorodu To Mainland Cope? by Esthered: 2:46pm On Feb 27, 2024 |
Tonididdyx: All this una decent R&P self con is it ;
-pop ceilings? -water heaters? -stamped concrete compounds? -fenced and gated? -personal balcony/varander? -big 2x2 tiles? -Toilets with overhead showers and wash hand basins?
I ask, because in Edo state (new houses mostly) you'll get all of them above and for less than 400 for 2BD sef.
So why cramp yourself in an otherwise settlement and pay even more Tenants come life come suffer for that Lagos? I live in a 3BD in GRA in Airport road Benin and it's 300k but my sister just paid for mini flat in Ijesha, Lagos 2.15m for 2 years. Agents will collect 5k for inspection and take you to houses that makes no sense. I'm wondering why I don't see "to let" for vacant houses in Lagos |
Family › Re: Did I Marry Wrong? by Esthered: 6:33pm On Feb 25, 2024 |
Dear OP, you don't communicate your concerns to her. Marriage is all about communication. You have to ensure that the commitment to the success of the marriage is from both parties. Stop giving her transport fare, but give her a sum to support as she works. Ensure that a proportion of her income is committed to either day to day running of the home or capital projects. You'll be burdened when children comes o. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Please, Advise Me On This Banking Job I Got by Esthered: 10:59am On Feb 25, 2024 |
Dear OP, resume training school and give it your best. This is not the best time to be jobless. You can always change unit in the nearest future. Retail OP isn't as hard as it seems. Ask experienced folks how to be successful as a marketer. |
Family › Re: Where Can I Get Beans That Can Last Long With No Weevils by Esthered: 3:44am On Feb 17, 2024 |
I sun dry the beans for days after buying then select them before putting in the fridge. |
Romance › Re: Please How Do I Recover My Money From First Bank (pictures) by Esthered: 3:36am On Feb 17, 2024 |
Thugnificent: Better for you. As a matter of fact, your money is not safe with Nigerian banks. Please print a statement of your account or request for it to be sent to your email registered on your account. Count your transactions from 2021 till date and multiply by N4 if it wouldn't amount to the SMS charge. You claim not to have been using the account, your statement of account will show if you were or not. |
Science/Technology › Re: The Current Heatwave. My Room Was 37c This Afternoon. Enugu by Esthered: 6:15pm On Feb 13, 2024 |
machote: If you have tiles, abandon the bed, lay a wrapper on the ground and also a pillow if you have one and lie down, and it will be much better.
The ground is colder and doesn't really conduct heat like your bed.
Found this hack on Facebook. Works well so far. I don't know how to sleep on tiles even if my body is emitting smoke on the bed. My son doesn't sleep on the bed even in cold season. If he sleeps off on the bed, he finds his way to the floor before the dawn. |
Science/Technology › Re: The Current Heatwave. My Room Was 37c This Afternoon. Enugu by Esthered: 2:28pm On Feb 13, 2024 |
Af0nja: I can't even dare to sleep for bed oo. My bed just dey as e dey since three days now. No rumpling   |
Science/Technology › Re: The Current Heatwave. My Room Was 37c This Afternoon. Enugu by Esthered: 7:41pm On Feb 12, 2024 |
Acidosis: 😂😂
Imagine what pregnant women are going through this period. Omo, we are going through a whole lot.
My landlord wants to finish me here with generator noise. He powers his gen all through the night. I can't blame him because his kids can't stand the weather. It's unbearable. I feel for them. I wake up in the middle of the night with my bed soaked with sweat. Even when power is restored, the fan dey blow hot breeze sometimes. My neighbor with his I better pass my neighbor generator no allow me manage the heat with less noise. |
Science/Technology › Re: The Current Heatwave. My Room Was 37c This Afternoon. Enugu by Esthered: 7:27pm On Feb 12, 2024 |
Acidosis: Toor, I thought I was the only one experiencing the intense weather. I wan faint.
As you're sweating profusely, just make sure that you're also raining curses on the government.
We have been reduced to a generator republic. To power the generator is also a problem. How many Nigerians can afford N630 per hour, running that noisy and irritating pollutant (generator)? With which energy when I'm struggling to fan myself  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Access Bank Bond by Esthered: 12:42pm On Jan 30, 2024 |
Lovethy55: Hi guys. I'm about to go for Access Bank training school and they asked me to bring two sureties with a minimum of 2million in their closing statement. I don't really know people so how do they expect us to just go and look for people that will be willing to stand as surety just like that ? How are they expecting us to do this. Where can I go in order to fulfil this their demand... Start looking inwards. You have nuclear or extended family that can assist. Let your parents assist to look in their circle. No stranger will stand as surety. |
Romance › Re: Would You Buy This Valentine Package For Your Woman??? by Esthered: 5:37pm On Jan 29, 2024 |
Acidosis: No, I won't. My style is to check IG vendors that deal on natural hair growth/care products.
You see that your natural black/African hair ehn? We will grow and nourish it together. You will do Ghana weaving ehn, you go tire.
You see this Peruvian stuff, I will NEVER buy or pay for it under any circumstance. Na wa. |
Education › Re: Maduka University, Enugu, In Pictures by Esthered: 8:17pm On Jan 25, 2024 |
Annahh: I just like it, unlike public university where the environment is not conducive. Okay. Have you resumed TS? |
Education › Re: Maduka University, Enugu, In Pictures by Esthered: 3:28am On Jan 25, 2024 |
Annahh: My children must attend a private university. Why? |
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