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JackDaAlienz:
Omo we busted village yesterday, we are in my grandmas place.
After lunch, i was shocked when my grandma told my dad to go outside and buy recharge card for her.
See man wey dey form hard man for house
Dem dey send to go buy recharge card

I couldn't help but hold my laughter when my dad went out to buy recharge card

E really shock me, my dad is a Big man ohh
As well respected thats why im wondering why his mother (my grandma) still send him on errands

The question is, you actually sat there and watched your dad go buy the recharge card?

Edoziesmart:
So they will check if you own your network provider this days at the Embassy?

They just look for reasons to support their stealing ans scamming; extremely wicked people.

dosage150:
I was referring to my appointment letter which states 3 months........I met the HR today she promised me that I will be paid

Oh... OK. 3 months is a long one. But I'm glad you've sorted it out. Good luck on your new job!

crafteck:
I no get strength to search... Try research am

Trust me, I did. I learn these things because I'm an advocate of equality, inclusion and diversity. So I like to know the latest developments around the world.

Anyway, I don't think people are bad for being homophobic. But I also don't think laws should be made based on whether we like some people or not. I live in a majority white country, and I know how we fight to ensure policies are inclusive. It's, therefore, not logical for someone fighting for inclusiveness to push for the exclusion of others.

Have a great day, sir!

crafteck:
Cant find that particular article of the country where parents consent isnt needed to be identified by any gender.

1) Just for clarity, you said 4 years and this is 6 years.
2) Most importantly, you said preferred sexuality and this is preferred gender. Like I said, no form ever asks kids of that age to indicate thier preferred sexuality because they might not even have sexual attractions then.
3) No, there's no country where it's done without parental consent.

Gromilla010:
mugu...who gave you the right to decide what two grown men decides to do with their money?
The heterosexuals that end up giving birth to kids and abondoning them due to financial incapabilities is not mentally unstable?
What have you done to better your society and your community?
How many children have you adopted in the orphanage home to cater for?
How many children have you sponsored or taken care of in your hopeless community?
What about the little urchins, raggamuffins and waif in your neighborhood wandering about because they don't have a place they call a home as a result of the Stupidity of foolish so called straight idiots have you brought to your home and sheltered?
Are you financially bouyant to take care of all the whole kids in the streets of your community and neighborhood that needs a home?

You don't need anybody to tell you that you are an illiterate who have lost the physical, mental, or moral qualities considered normal and desirable; showing evidence of decline.

You probably quoted the wrong person or maybe didn't understand my post. We're practically saying the same thing.

Thebadpolitican:
Just like people who have nannies in their house assume those workers are paid nannies

And the owner of the orphanage is their biological parents


Homosexual are mentally unstable that child growing up will definitely have conflicting identities on his sexual orientation which will go along way affecting is mental health

The child will continually be bullied by his peers as an orphan raised by 2 gay parents that you won't easily notice if they were adopted by heterosexuals couples


If homosexual cant give birth they shouldn't adopt that's how nature has to breed the imperfect breeds of humans of the earth

Kids that have nannies still have thier parents to go to at the end of the day. Besides, these nannies are paid to have one-on-one time with the children. In orphanages, there are hundreds of children with a few caretakers who do shifts. They are either sent to cheap schools or do home classes. It's not even comparable.

Kids get bullied in schools regardless of who thier parents are. You can't tell me kids raised by single moms or single fathers are any better than kids raised by two women or two fathers. When it's mentioned to kids that such couples, you guys say they're making the kids gay. But the whole idea is to ensure those that have gay parents aren't perceived differently or get bullied. And guess what, it's working. Kids are very open minded. It's not logical to deny gay rights because some straight people have refused to teach thier children to respect differences.

I personally know kids raised by gay couples. And I can tell you they're doing great. Besides, will you adopt these kids? Hoe much have you contributed to orphanages? Where do they get the funding all these children you're hoarding? You think they're better living poorly in orphanages just because you hate gay people? Like I said, you don't have thier interest at heart. You just hate gay people.

ini4brandon:
Oh my God!!!
The Ghanaians we Chased out of Nigeria in the 80s must be thanking thier god today.

The figures don't tell a story; at least, not the full story. Nigeria could easily remove all the zeros from one thousand naira and say our currency is now higher than the dollar. But this will not change the basketworth of the currency.

Thebadpolitican:
Homosexuality is natural who told you that my God did the body of gays modify the anus for pennis insertion for you to prove is natural

Please can you give me a research report that has proved biologically homosexuality is natural

Homosexuality in the ancient greeks and room
Didn't even see it as natural but an act of custom which portray masculinity and spiritualism and not necessarily affection

Can you atleast point out or upload a picture from an African environment were you have seen two same sex animals having intercourse



Just come up with evident if not medical evidence, to make it easier for you bring physical evidence like imagery before you completely ghost out on me

Or else you're just a black monkey who gulps in anything is white masters tells him to do

Homosexuality is natural my foot

Read in my screenshot and bring me evidence to your claims medical report would be more appropriated

First, it impossible for all the billions of people all over the world to be straight. That's not how nature works. Nothing in nature is ever that consistent. Even day and night is never that consistent. Only the artificial does that. Nature is beautified with differences and exceptions.

Yes, there are many gay animals. For a long time, my grandmother had a lesbian chicken that would always mount other hens and made us laugh. They have been sightings of lions doing it with other lions in Kenya, and guess what the African officials say, "they do it cause they see humans doing it". Anything to continue living in denial.

Here: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/africa/gay-lions-sex-kenya-photos-men-inspired-need-therapy-says-official-a8036016.html%3Famp&ved=2ahUKEwjk2JWS3bf6AhVcpokEHTH2B_MQFnoECAYQAQ&usg=AOvVaw2WzbStLzIYWxgMNnsfVHjW

As for biology, there's something called a prostate in the rectum of men which when simulated provides intense pleasure. That is there for a reason.

crafteck:
You may call it woke, you may call it open-mindedness, its nothing but biological abnormally, some kids of 4 years age range are being told to choose their preferred sexuality... Na this wokeness go end us.

A kid of 4 years? Do you guys just say these things to win an argument or what? No kid of 4 years fills a form that includes a field for sexuality. Even adults are hardly asked to indicate their sexuality. I'm interested in knowing where you go this from. The society only makes it easier for gay people to live themselves and be truthful to thier parents. There are many of them in Nigeria living fake lives, marrying your women to loveless relationships and having kids in broken homes. All because y'all have chosen to pretend they don't exist. You don't need to be woke to respect others who aren't like you.

babajero:
in in your case there is no "if" it is a must. Homosexuality and other unnatural vices like cross dressing, man surgically turning to woman vis a vis, drugs addiction, addiction to pornography etc, are all mental disorders that was adopted one time in life and with the help of satan and fellow addicts like you it became a norm.

Unfortunately for you, you don't have a say in that.

God1000:
This is unmistakable message.

Russians have tolerated Putin for 22 years, it's time to oust him from power and save our planet earth from the possibility of nuclear war, he's unhinged and dangerous.

We're faced with a drowning and losing Putin that doesn't want to lose this war, the land-grabber must be stopped.

He first called his invasion of Ukraine a special military operation for the demilitarisation and denazification of Ukraine, he's now conducting a sham referendum to incorporate those illegally occupied regions into Russia

Look at the pictures below, this is Georgia in 2008 when Russia invaded it, Russians are running back to the same country 14 years after

Funny thing is, when you bring up all these, his supporters would say "America is a monster" and then you start wondering how that's a valid response to Putin's atrocious ambitions. First, it was peacekeeping/demilitarization. Then it was to make certain regions free/independent and now, he wants to do a referendum in his sitting room to make these areas part of Russia. All these happening and when you point them out, people will call you Pro America CNN lover.

dosage150:
Just referred to this , it should be 3 months notice , it is well

3 months? Was he a director? It's all about what the contract letter says. For many organizations, it would depend on the level of the person living. Something like two weeks for junior, a month for mid and 2 months for senior.

@OP, you'll get paid if you give the right notice. But your payment would likely be prorated to reflect how many days you worked in the pay period.

Thebadpolitican:
Its better you live the child in an orphanage home than put the child in a gay family to get him tormented daily by the sight of two men

You don't care about the child. You just hate gay people. If not, you wouldn't have said this. Have you been to an orphanage before? The people take shifts. They do thier jobs and go home. Just like any other employee, they protest and give less when underpaid. The kids are work item. You can't compare this to a home with parental love. And what torment are you talking about? You think a kid is born with your mindset of having gay people?

Thebadpolitican:
I would be worried by kids who grew up with same gender parents

Their sexuality for life is compromise because they wont even know what is right in terms of sexually they grew up to see and the one the majority people practice that would effect their mental health for life


If both male couples cant produce a child then they shouldn't adopt, adopting would be pure hypocrisy

I know kids who have same gender parents. And none of them is gay. The only thing peculiar about them is that they don't judge others or determine correctness based on individual differences like gender, religion, sexuality, race, etc. cause of thier own background.

So if a man can't have a child, he shouldn't adopt? That's a funny thing to say cause 99% of those that adopt are men who can't impregnate thier wives. Gay or not, some people can't have children. If you really care about these kids, you'd know thar a home is 100 times better than an orphanage where the kids are seen as "jobs to be done".

Thebadpolitican:
You're a gay come out clean

If I were one, I wouldn't hide it from you on a faceless forum. I don't have friends here. I don't even live in Africa. But I'm not here to prove my sexuality to you. You only have to learn to see things beyond "my people".

babajero:
I pray you give birth to children, and when you will need grandchildren, your children will tell you they are all homosexuals, and there will be no advice you will give to them that will make them stop fncking their fellow man in the anus. As that is a normal thing to you, let it befall you, and you shall carry the guilt it, instead of the memory of your grandchildren to your grave.

If I give birth to a gay person, I'd make him or her know my love doesn't come with conditions. Where I live, gay people have kids, biological kids for thar matter. Nevertheless, it would be thier choice to have kids. Any person who is not willing to accept whatever nature a child may have is not fit to have children.

Edusouls:
Those same sex adults are very sick and retarded humans that have lost their souls already while alive, they the dammned, hellfire is all but guaranteed..

Hell fire? So which one of us is free of hell fire exactly?

crafteck:
Merely looking down my pant gave me that logical conclusion, at what point did you decide same poles of your magnet attract.

Which year, which month and which day exactly?

No sir, you found yourself attracted to girls. You didn't look down your pants at any point and say "because I've got a dick, I'll go after women". You never took that decision. You didn't choose to be straight. You're just straight. I know cause I am straight. A gay person didn't take a decision to be gay. A gay person found himself attracted to the same gender. They know as early as puberty strikes and for most them, that is when they start carrying the burden of fake live pretending to be straight just to satisfy society.

The only difference between you and I is that I'm open minded enough to look beyond people's sexuality and thereby making them comfortable enough to share their stories with me.

Thebadpolitican:
On what bases were they granted this right because the government every right to everything demanded by the people


Why should other sexual right be denied right like incest, pedophile bestiality be denied and homosexuality which is unnatural be granted right.....


Or you're a guy hiding behind the moniker go push your agenda

Homosexuality is natural. Uncommon, yes. Minority, yes. But unnatural, no. Nature is not a function of the majorit alone. Some people are born gay. That's thier own nature. The only limit to your right is another person's right. If two consenting men kissing is not hurting anyone, there's no logical reason to criminalize it. The other things you mentioned either hurt another party or lacks consent.

If I were gay, you believe I'd hide it from you? For what? It's not like you could do anything to me. The issue with y'all is the herd lifestyle. You believe people only support other people of thier tribe, religion, gender, etc. That is the major problem in Nigeria.

ForgetfulJones:
agreed, but why adopt a kid and teach him that shit? Since the kid is not an adult.

If the kid is straight, he's straight. Having gay parents doesn't make anyone gay. If so, straight parents would be having gay children. A child is 100 times better off in a home than in an orphanage.

Carlyboi:
You clearly can’t engage me cos you obviously don’t have the range,lol,you don’t know what “ fundamental “ means in the context of your discourse but you’re here posturing like some smarty pants,I didn’t even poke at you but you felt it was an ego contest?you claimed I’m a homophobe but you don’t even know what that means neither could you defend your erroneous claims!

Engaging you further would only deplete my brain cells and further insult my sensibilities as there’s nothing ingenious about your thought-process,your thoughts are one-dimensional,incoherent,bland,and there’s nothing original or creative about them,you couldn’t even defend your arguments convincingly you lacked the ammo!

Lastly you’re a weirdo,and gay,admit it!stop hiding under the cloak of some gay right activist!come out that closet!

I see you really want my time. When I see a solid and decent argument, I will respectfully engage it. So far, yours is just boyish ego and eagerness to impress. Like I said, have fun with your "I'm not homophobic but I think gay people are comparable to murderers and pedophiles" logic.

babajero:
No o, they don't have to be straight, they have to be homosexuals so that they can keep reproducing.

Everybody mustn't reproduce. We have billions of straight people out there. The gay ones aren't your problem.

Carlyboi:
Yeah!a subtle way of throwing the Towel,I see!lol.

It was a nice exchange tho it’s been eons I typed this much on nairaland!it is good to do some mental exercises every now and then lest the brain and mind becomes rusty!goodnight babe!

I was never having any exchange with you. If it's about ego, please go with your ego. I don't mind. I chose people I chat with, and someone who's not bold enough to take a stance isn't one of them. You wrote a long poorly paragraphed and difficult to read epistle why gay should be denied access to the rights others enjoy and how they're not normal and then you turn around and tell you're not homophobic. And you want me to sit and be chatting with you? I'd rather talk to a stone.

babajero:
And the 2 consenting adults as you call it, were they given birth to by 2 men or by 2 women? The devil is really waging a war against humanity and he is been supported by deranged fellows like you guys.

What's your point? That they were given birth to by a heterosexual couple, so what exactly? They must be straight too?

Carlyboi:
I stopped reading at I’m homophobic.So,cos I find something abhorrent and unnatural makes me a homophobe?lol!you don’t know the meaning of homophobe then!I read the part you were telling someone he doesn’t know what fundamental means,ironically you’re the one who doesn’t even know what fundamental means,dude there’s nothing fundamental about homosexuality or gay rights,biology and nature,evolution and theology/religious account of creation or the worlds existence don’t support it the fact that Alexander the Great had a male lover asides his plethora of female ones and some ancient Chinese men explored homosexuality still doesn’t make it natural those are just few exceptions out of millions of straight that have existed even in a democracy which is the only reason these gay laws are been signed into majority supercedes the minority and the fundamental rights,laws,of that state which is backed by the majority would hold sway so also is the cultural and society norms and traditions of that society and ours for instance isn’t in support of homosexuality so there can’t be a fundamental right of association of gay people in such societies!you should be smart enough to know their rights don’t supercede mine and you come across as somewhat intelligent but you can’t differentiate indifference from hate or dislike? also you couldn’t distinguish the acts from its participants I don’t have anything against the individuals I find the act abhorrent and if I’m a homophobe I’d be at the fore-front of lynch campaigns against them,do you get the difference now?Mr or Miss you should be intelligent enough!

I decide to to complete the read so as not to give you a false sense of grandiose or make you feel you’ve got superior arguments cos I’m taking you to the cleaners here man,pun intended.

So you come as someone who is a homosexual or you’ve got strong ties to people who belong to that “ community “ and so you’d lean toward that direction and there would be some kinda bias which is only natural as you won’t wanna throw “ yours “ under the bus,but,if we’re to be objective here there’s no merit for same-sex couples adopting kids from orphanages and you’re also losing sight of something here and that’s confusing the norm with the exception homosexuality is the exception here!

You see,in the state of nature according to Thomas Hobbes life was brutish and short and it became a survival of the fittest with the stonger ones dominating the weak ones that’s how government came about where every individual decided to relinquish their individual powers and rights,and submit themselves to a higher power under a collective and to form that social construct which is known as the government or the state today!the reason for mentioning this is that individual rights or whatever you call fundamental can only go as far as what is recognized by the collective,which is the majority and which on a larger view is the government,the state and it laws,so if the majority says homosexuality is harmful the government has to make it unlawful and such associations can only be in private or be a closeted one,in essence if we are to recognize every individual’s right we’d go back to the Paleolithic age and state of nature as there would be no laws governing the society be it moral or criminal laws,we would have zilch!

Peadophilia,bestiality,rape,murder,stealing,assault,trafficking (drug,arms,human)and any other unlawful or illegal act or vices you can think of would amount to denying some people their “ fundamental “ rights like you said earlier!


I’m gonna round up here,I never said homosexuals are bad people neither have I ascribed goodness or perfection to heterosexuals but it would be disingenuous of you not to recognize the fact that there’s something called “ influence “ and also the data you’re building your argument on is limited people are gay for different reasons the fact that straight parents raised gay kids and vice versa doesn’t mean this is the norm,some people become gays due to peer-pressure and socio-cultural influence it has nothing to do with the handling or the way their parents raised them its due to the society.LGBTQ is subtly being normalized in the world especially in the west it’s just like a kid discovering a shiny new toy,it’s becoming the new cool to belong to the “ rainbow “ group so some even go in there to explore just for some sexual fluidity which would not have been if it’s not been openly practiced and laws like same-sex marriage,making babies and adoption of kids are not being backed by the law,if you think these laws won’t astronomically increase the number of homosexuals in no distant time in those countries where the rights has been signed into law then I have got a unicorn to sell to you!

Lastly,am I bothered about same sex relationships?hell No,do I approve of open practice of homosexuality no,but I could be indifferent,same sex marriages?whatever rocks their boat inasmuch as they’re aren’t coercing and luring straight people in,but if you ask me what I think about homosexual couples adopting kids I’d tell you it makes no sense,and,is highly rephrehensible and irresponsible on the part of the government and I’m utterly disapproving of such!

YOU ARE EXTREMELY HOMOPHOBIC

2elliot:
I was in the university, one of our closest female friends was a lesbian tomboy. She bragged about how she took some guys babes and turn them to lesbians. She had the money and the power tjat most guys lacked, and with great sex with intimacy gadgets and all that, after the experience, most of the girls swore to never have boyfriends again. Do you recognize unnatural influences?

Yes, I do. I know someone in Abuja who is not gay but sleeps with men for money. I will not pretend such things don't happen. But the thing is, people will do anything for money. Those girls your friend messed around with aren't necessarily turned into lesbians, they were hustling for money like the prostitutes that they were. Believe it or not, they'd still have boyfriends and get married and have kids. That is because you can't switch off your attraction to a particular gender like some binary system.

Being gay is about being able to love someone of the same gender. Gay men can have women best friends but they can't love women the way you do. So you see, it's not about the sex and money. Someone can be gay even without ever having sex. Anyone can remove thier clothes and allow others touch them just to get paid. Does that mean they have switched sexualities? No, because if switching sexuality was that simple, corrective rape would have been effective. Ask yourself, why do you think the 1% of Nigerians that are gay could make the 99% straight people gay and not the other way around?

2elliot:
Your talking points are just so familiar, and they don't sound original to me. Are they your own opinions? If the science changes, would you change? You may have not been taking notice, but covid and the vaccines science for the past two years shows that mainstream science could turn out being pseudoscience.

Like I said earlier, homosexuality predates modern day science. So let's leave that bit. My words sound familiar to you because you might have come across a few other open minded persons in the past and outlook is generally the same. What I'm saying is based on principles that do not just apply to the issue of homosexuality, but generally applies to all aspects of human relationships. Being emotionally intelligent enough not to use our own nature, culture or personal standards/preferences as a reference to establish the goodness of others, and also staying away from stereotypes will greatly affect how you view others and how you relate with them.

2elliot:
Can we separate the people from the act? My point is,the act is gross.

No, we cannot. It goes beyond the act of sex. It's about emotions. Sexuality is like skin color. Separating them from the fact the fact that they love people of the same gender is like bleaching to satisfy the white man. Even the people themselves have tried to separate themselves from thier sexuality by pretending to be who they are not. They need our friendship so much that they live fake lives just so we wouldn't discard them. It's already sad enough. There's practically nothing they can do anymore. It's on us to stop thinking of whom they buncking and see them for the values they bring to the table as individuals.

2elliot:
Well, I don't hate them, but I find the act disgusting. From your old post that I commented on, the gay thing not entirely cheap. It comes with depression, regrets and suicides. Considering all the monies and efforts put on this gay thing, if it was put into counselling, therapy, and many more care to make them straight, that would have been cheaper.

Yes, it comes with depression and an extremely high rate of suicide. You know why? Because of the stigmatization. Because you see them disgusting and unworthy of your friendship. Going for therapy is pretending like we don't know the depression comes from homophobia. Therapy doesn't change sexuality. Like I said earlier, the white man introduced homophobia to many of thier colonies. They have gone through multiple eras in thier hundreds of years of existence. They have used therapy. They have used electrocution. They have used corrective rape (raping gay people into being straight). All these brought more suffering, stigmatization, depression and suicide. Things evolved and they learned that being gay isn't necessarily acquired and that it doesn't need a cure just because they're the minority. They learned that the only solution to the depression/suicide is love. Nigeria is less than 80 years, I know we'd pass this denial stage some day, but I hope we learn from these guys and get there faster.

2elliot:
On what are you basing your support for gay? Science or personal convinction? If so, I asked, if it changes tomorrow. Will you also change yours? I need to know if you have a mind of your own on this matter, or you are just following the sciences and every other persons against it is likely following their religious beliefs. I am personally against it because for one, it is gross. That would not change whether the science or religious views changes.

My support is based on the philosophy of live and let live. Whether I find it gross or not is my problem and should not have a bearing on how gay people are treated. Many white people find the black skin gross, does that make racism good? There's a say that your right stops where mine starts. It means the only limit to your freedom is the point where it hurts others (not based on whether others like or dislike it). If Nigerians stop seeing the need to combat those who are different (in terms of tribe, gender, sexuality, religion, etc.), trust me, things will get better. These discriminations only make us lose out on talents and relationships that would have taken us forward.

We have gay people around us as our fathers, brothers, cousins, uncles, colleagues, friends, etc. pretending they don't exist will not take them away or make them less gay. They'd end marrying our women into loveless marriages just to satisfy society and thereby leading to kids raised in broken homes. If someone has been great to you, finding they're gay shouldn't automatically make them bad people.

2elliot:
If you read about certain empires and how they fell, at the core of it is moral decadence. And gay practices and immoral sex played huge roles.

Sex played huge roles. This is regardless of sexuality. In fact, heterosexual sex has even played more roles. Kingdoms went to war because of women. I'm not in any way saying straight people are the problem. But likewise, gay people aren't the problem. Sexual urge does not respect sexuality. Let's stop this eagerness to pin bad things on gay people cause regardless of what you pin on them, you'd get it 10 folds in the straight community.

From the chat, I can see you're throwing to see what sticks. You said it could engineered; now you're suggesting it cause issues in the past (even before modern science/engineering). At the end, nothing justifies jailing people for who they have sex with or denying them privileges others enjoy. The world belongs to all of us, being straight doesn't make us superior to others who are gay or bisexual. And we cannot deny thier existence. You find disgusting, that's OK. You're straight, I get it. But they also find the woman reproductive organ repulsive. It doesn't mean they hate women. They just wouldn't get into bed with them. So I don't understand this intense hatred for gay people.