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faxana:My point can be summarized as thus, women insult men just as men insult women, so if we're going to have a balanced conversation, then we should call both gender to order - what is "unreal" about that? ... |
Moneyyman:OP take this advice ...And before you implement, try to save up lots of money (atleast a years worth) ... |
If this was a girlfriend boyfriend matter, I would immediately advice you to du.mp her sorry a.ss ...I mean, why should I be stressed out because you're unwilling to deal with your insecurities when I can find someone much more mature and secure ...Alas! This isn't relationship, it's marriage, so it gets a bit dicey ...I believe you should have a heart to heart conversation with her and help her deal with her insecurities, try to win her trust in certain regards - it should help with that ...Na your wife, you no fit troway am ...So you better try and get to the bottom of this before it ruins your marriage ... |
First of... Stop the as.slicking OP, it's sickening! ...Secondly... This thread is very one sided ...Females be insulting men and calling men all sorts of depraved and unprintable names and yet somehow you saw no need to address that? How convenient ...If we're going to be addressing the issue of abuse and insults on romanceland, then it's best we have a balanced argument don't you think? ...Thirdly... Some of the things you tagged as "insults" or "abuse" are just men stating a fact ...Lemme give a few instances ...If men say they don't want single mothers, it's not an insult, it's just a preference ...If men say they don't want wh.ores they want virgins, it's not an insult, it's just preference ...It's the same way women say they don't want broke men and we applaud it as a preference, so why can't men do the same thing too? ...I agree that they've been a few cases of misogyny and lots more of misandry, and those cases needs to be looked into, however bringing up one and neglecting the other is just proof of hypocrisy ... |
Peter532:Lol ...So it's no more about the point I'm making, to you it's about how I made them ...Tis well o ...But atleast an 11 year old is wise enough to know that just because you do xyz for someone doesn't mean that the same individual will do it back for you ...An 11 year old knows that there's a marked difference between "giving" and "borrowing" ...If this is something that an "elder" like you don't know at your age, doesn't that mean you're even more daft than an 11 year old? ... |
Peter532:I guess I touched a spot right? @bolded ...Don't worry eh, you'll be fine ...And besides, the explanation isn't necessary ![]() Either ways ...If you're pained or in your own words "surprised" by that happenings then it's proof you had expectations that just because you did xyz for him in the past means he should do xyz for you ...Now there's absolutely nothing wrong having such expectations, we're human after all - but having those expectations makes you naive because that only works that way in your head ...So next time you want to give, do so without expectations and be sure to plan for rainy days such as this ... |
You're not a fool OP ...You're just naive and your head isn't in the right place ...You think because you gave him 10k that means he should give you back the 10k? ...Do you know whether that 1k was his last card? ...Omorrrr... If you're giving a person money just so that you get back the money later in future, you're not really "giving him free money", you're only "borrowing" the money ...Next time, state your terms clearly, so they know that they'll have to refund the money back to you in future ... |
Get yourself a lawyer asap ...Cause if you let this slide in the future, she'll change the narrative to how you abandoned her and the child and bla bla bla ...She'll even turn the mind of the child against you and her "evidence" will be that you weren't there for them ...So get yourself a lawyer now and fight for your child!!! ...You most likely won't gain custody of the child especially considering the age, but you sure will get the right to be in your child's life .... |
Money for family can never be enough ...Some can make do with a 100k, others still "struggle" to get by with 1mil ...What I'll tell you is that you cut your clothes according to your material ...No go do pass yourself and be sure to live within your means at all times ... |
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This religion is the most us.eless religion ever ...Killing innocent folks for not adhering to st.upid religious dictates and what's worse is that if you try to denounce it, you're still beheaded ... |
CasNova:Haahhahaha ...You should read songs of Solomon ...You'd be shocked that things like that can be found in the bible ...The bible is indeed very complete ... |
Sincerely... I pity men who make the mistake of picking a woman up from the mud, brushing her up and taking her abroad - I see them as fo.ols even ...Everyday on the news, there's one headline or the other of a man losing his house, his work and his entire life savings all because of a woman ...And to think that this is a woman you picked up when she was an illiterate, sponsored her to school, fed her, clothe her, gave her opportunity to be whatever it is that she is now, omorrrr that's betrayal of the highest order ...And still men haven't learnt that it's a huge risk brushing up a woman, dey play just dey play ...Let them continue, me I know that I can't be this fo.olish ... I'd rather use that money and rear fowl than pay this huge a sacrifice for any woman in the name of wife .... |
OP, there's nothing there to "manage" ...Women in general, are naturally ungrateful and will at the slightest moment bite the fingers that fed them - this is a fact that every man must come to realize, accept and act accordingly ...This is why I advice men, NEVER TAKE A WOMAN ABROAD (especially women from broke homes, IF SHE WANTS TO GO LET HER GO ALONE WITH HER OWN MONEY ...Someone that is so broke that she hasn't even left her village, how do you expect her to act when you take her across the continent? ...The way that woman will act when their men take them abroad is the same way a spoilt brat will act when you give them small power - ABUSIVE! ...And ask yourself, why is it that the news of women who do this to their men when they go there are ALWAYS NIGERIAN WOMEN? ...Why not other nationalities, like Asian countries, why always Nigerians? ... Why is it so easy for the African society (Nigeria in this case) to conform to western ideologies? ...Omorr... This is something we need to ask ourselves o ...Cause I believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with the ideology of females - Nigerian women in this case ... |
incandescentena:@bolded... Throw a man and a woman in an even playing Field and I bet you that 9 out of 10 times, men will dominate ...A proof of this is the so called "trans women" in various female based sports that are effortlessly smashing records ...A proof of this is also why they're lots of jobs out there that have a gender specifications and the gender? Well your guess is as good as mine ..."Secretary needed, females only" ...Female teachers needed for xyz ...I hope you get the point now ...And feminist knows that they can't compete with men in an even playing Field, so they try to side line men so that they can "dominant" and feel good about themselves ...Feminist are just a bunch of losers ...In my opinion, "let the best man win" ...If women are better at the job than men, then by all means, give it to them. But if you must sideline anyone, let it be on the strength of their capacity not their gender ... |
okoroemeka:Proverbs 5:19 comes to mind ... |
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onobire83:She went for family planning without your consent? And her reason for not wanting another child is not because you can't take care of them, but because she thinks it will "affect her body"? ...Regardless... No be every small thing wey sup na it suppose cause divorce oga ...I don't think that an issue like this should lead to a divorce as it can be resolved by communication (unless there's something other than this) ...And besides, you need to consider your children now, cause growing up in a broken home will affect your children ...So try marriage counseling first ... |
God forbid!!!!!!! ...I can't even wish this in my own worse enemy, talk more of engaging this kind of woman ...Any woman who doesn't have a skill or a job that gives her enough money to not be dependent on anyone is a liability to any man that marries her ...Women like that are usually very ungrateful and irresponsible ...I can not can abeg ...Liabilities disgusts me ... |
Hahaahhahhah ...Abeg no cast am na ...Allow women to keep being feminist ...Cause this feminism thingy really favours men ...Never in the history of humanity has there been a movement that favours men like this ...Women believe that just like men, they can sleep around - which means more pu.ssy for men without commitment ...Feminism has forced women to start paying bills just like men - which means men can save more money for themselves ...Feminism has kicked chivalry out the window - this means men don't have to bend over for women since ofcourse "we're equal" ...Please men, embrace feminism, cause the thing dey favour wuna wella ... |
Can someone please tell that mad dog up there to shu.t the hell up ...BAT has been president for months now and he has successfully turned the nation down side up ...The current doings of BAT is making Buhari feel like he was a dope president ...And yet rather than hold him accountable, all y'all online warriors do is support him blindly ...I sha hope that y'all that are supporting him blindly are buying fuel @#65 ... |
The ideology that "only God can judge you" is the most fallacious and hilarious thing I have heard so far ...In an ideal setting, you would've been very correct, but in reality, what you're saying doesn't hold water, cause as long as you're alive, you will ALWAYS be judged by people ...I'm not saying it's right, but I'm saying that it's the reality of things ...Secondly... You made an illustration using the VP's daughter and all. Lemme ask, are there people in bad situations who have clawed their way out of it without compromise? ...If the answer is yes, then what this tells me is that, whilst situations can affect a person's behavior, a person's personal decision not to compromise regardless is the deciding factor as to whether a person compromises or not ...Thirdly... There are certain "stigmas" attached to certain "jobs" ...Look at morticians ("mortuary attendants" , are you aware that on account of their jobs, lots of people wouldn't even consider being in a relationship with them even if they're the last person on earth? ...How about military women? Female lawyers? Folks in the waste management business? My point? Being a part of certain industries will attract certain stigma to you. Now, if you're not ready to embrace with your full chest the stigma that comes with it, then you prolly shouldn't be a part of it in the first place ...In summary... I have absolutely no issue with women who choose to wh.ore around for money, it's their life and it's their choice, so they can wh.ore around for all I care ...But don't come crying when the stigma of that decision comes back to bite you in the as.s, cause last time I checked ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES! ... |
Amumaigwe:1. Yes they are! ...Anyone who enjoy beating up another human being over issues that can otherwise be resolved without violence, belongs in an assylum - REGARDLESS OF GENDER ...2. This is not a gender thingy ...The only time I believe it is right to go all out on anyone is in times of self defense, other than that, I believe that issues can and should be resolved without violence ... |
Help a woman at your own peril! ... |
The answer is 4 60 ÷ 5 (7 - 4) 60 ÷ 5 (3) 60 ÷ 15 4 If you still doubt this, lets try substitution method Let the A be the left hand side, that is A = 60 And let B equal the right hand side, that is B = 5 (7 - 4) So in essence, the above equation becomes: A ÷ B A is 60 and B is 15, So the equation becomes 60 ÷ 15 = 4 |
A girl will wake up one morning... Enter the bathroom.... Take a shower... Do her makeup... Wear her clothes... Pay transport to a hotel... Enter the hotel room... Sleep with a man... And somehow, she's not to blamed? ...Please make it make sense! ...Is it that she's a minor or maybe she's so daf.t to think that it's revival service that happens in a hotel? ...See eh... It's high time we start holding females accountable for their actions ...If an adult female chooses to sle.ep around, as long as she wasn't ra.ped, then it's simply because she CHOOSE to sleep around, simple! ... They're not kids for crying out loud! And before you blame condition, please remember that there are other girls in far worse situations that those girls and yet they still came out of it without compromise ... |
Obidients and what? ... |
Even with all her fame and accolades, she still encourages submission ...I sincerely hope that all this urgent 2k girls will learn something from it ... |
Akano5:Contact me when you're ready and I'll get you professional Udemy courses on any skill of your choice for a small fee ...@OP... There's no skill you'll learn that doesn't have it's ups and downs ... Even the offline skill someone is advising you to learn also have it's issues (or you think it's every barber that's cashing out from it) ...But one thing is for certain, people are making it big time with online skills ...So rather than feel this way, why not try to find out what they're doing that you're not and start applying it asap ... |
If you meet me for assistance, it is my decision whether or not I want to assist you ...And in cases where I demand something in return for my assistance, then it is my prerogative to do so and I shouldn't be shamed for it ...Let's stop living under the illusion that every guy out there is obligated to help girls when they ask for it ...Because men aren't! ...Guys don't owe girls nothing! ...For God's sake, why can't females ask their fellow females for help? ...Or better still, work for their own money, since in their minds "men want to take advantage of me" ... |
One thing that never ceases to amuse me about women is the way they shirk from accountability and responsibilities ...In their mind, "it's never my fault" ...Just imagine this one went and opened her legs for her step father, betraying her own mother and she still had the boldness to say, "it's not my fault, blame my mother" ...Very soon now, her fellow colleagues will be here to blame the man ... |
Send the woman packing asap and make sure she faces the consequences of paternity fraud ... |
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, are you aware that on account of their jobs, lots of people wouldn't even consider being in a relationship with them even if they're the last person on earth?