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RomanceRe: Stop The Hate On Women by Fahvvy: 5:50pm On Dec 21, 2023
faxana:
Be real!
If women really insulted men, the way men insulted women on this forum, when this site was down, why didn't I see people talking about it on twitter? All I was seeing was misogyny and tribalism.
My point can be summarized as thus, women insult men just as men insult women, so if we're going to have a balanced conversation, then we should call both gender to order - what is "unreal" about that? undecided...
FamilyRe: Kindly Advice : Go Back To School To Study Medicine At 38 by Fahvvy: 1:08pm On Dec 21, 2023
Moneyyman:
1. Discuss with your wife. Whatever you want to do now depends on her cooperation or you'll suffer. Talk with her. Get her commitment cos she won't find it easy too. Medicine takes a lot of time and focus.

2. If you patent store gives you at least 100k monthly, you can scale to 250k monthly within a year. Again, your wife will need to help you out.

3. If your wife is not working yet, you might want to ask her to assume responsibility of the store, when you quit you job.

4. Remember to create another source of income to support the store. Business doesn't move well always.

5. You can plan for the next months. Jamb is coming up soon. Register, write, and keep planning. Make sure to apply to a university close to your place of residence.

God bless you, brother. You'll be done in no time!
OP take this advice undecided...

And before you implement, try to save up lots of money (atleast a years worth) undecided...
RomanceRe: What Do You Do When You Have An Insecure Partner by Fahvvy: 11:32am On Dec 21, 2023
If this was a girlfriend boyfriend matter, I would immediately advice you to du.mp her sorry a.ss undecided...

I mean, why should I be stressed out because you're unwilling to deal with your insecurities when I can find someone much more mature and secure undecided...

Alas! This isn't relationship, it's marriage, so it gets a bit dicey undecided...

I believe you should have a heart to heart conversation with her and help her deal with her insecurities, try to win her trust in certain regards - it should help with that undecided...

Na your wife, you no fit troway am undecided...
So you better try and get to the bottom of this before it ruins your marriage undecided...
RomanceRe: Stop The Hate On Women by Fahvvy: 11:28am On Dec 21, 2023
First of...
Stop the as.slicking OP, it's sickening! undecided...

Secondly...
This thread is very one sided undecided...
Females be insulting men and calling men all sorts of depraved and unprintable names and yet somehow you saw no need to address that? How convenient undecided...

If we're going to be addressing the issue of abuse and insults on romanceland, then it's best we have a balanced argument don't you think? undecided...

Thirdly...
Some of the things you tagged as "insults" or "abuse" are just men stating a fact undecided...

Lemme give a few instances undecided...
If men say they don't want single mothers, it's not an insult, it's just a preference undecided...

If men say they don't want wh.ores they want virgins, it's not an insult, it's just preference undecided...

It's the same way women say they don't want broke men and we applaud it as a preference, so why can't men do the same thing too? grin...

I agree that they've been a few cases of misogyny and lots more of misandry, and those cases needs to be looked into, however bringing up one and neglecting the other is just proof of hypocrisy undecided...
RomanceRe: I Dashed Him 10k Free Last Month See How He Paid Me Back by Fahvvy: 9:28am On Dec 18, 2023
Peter532:
7 emojis just to make a point?

Are old are you? 11?

Gosh..no more response kid.
Lol grin...
So it's no more about the point I'm making, to you it's about how I made them grin...
Tis well o grin...

But atleast an 11 year old is wise enough to know that just because you do xyz for someone doesn't mean that the same individual will do it back for you grin...

An 11 year old knows that there's a marked difference between "giving" and "borrowing" cheesy...

If this is something that an "elder" like you don't know at your age, doesn't that mean you're even more daft than an 11 year old? grin...
RomanceRe: I Dashed Him 10k Free Last Month See How He Paid Me Back by Fahvvy: 9:09am On Dec 18, 2023
Peter532:
your a fool for saying this.

I have never given money to friends and expect them to pay when I know it's dashed.

I was surprised about yesterday drama because I didn't expect that from him.
I guess I touched a spot right? @bolded grin...
Don't worry eh, you'll be fine cheesy...
And besides, the explanation isn't necessary grin

Either ways undecided...

If you're pained or in your own words "surprised" by that happenings then it's proof you had expectations that just because you did xyz for him in the past means he should do xyz for you undecided...

Now there's absolutely nothing wrong having such expectations, we're human after all - but having those expectations makes you naive because that only works that way in your head undecided...

So next time you want to give, do so without expectations and be sure to plan for rainy days such as this undecided...
RomanceRe: I Dashed Him 10k Free Last Month See How He Paid Me Back by Fahvvy: 8:50am On Dec 18, 2023
You're not a fool OP undecided...
You're just naive and your head isn't in the right place undecided...

You think because you gave him 10k that means he should give you back the 10k? undecided...

Do you know whether that 1k was his last card? undecided...

Omorrrr...
If you're giving a person money just so that you get back the money later in future, you're not really "giving him free money", you're only "borrowing" the money undecided...

Next time, state your terms clearly, so they know that they'll have to refund the money back to you in future undecided...
RomanceRe: How Can I Claim My Child From My Baby Mama? by Fahvvy: 2:39am On Dec 18, 2023
Get yourself a lawyer asap undecided...

Cause if you let this slide in the future, she'll change the narrative to how you abandoned her and the child and bla bla bla undecided...

She'll even turn the mind of the child against you and her "evidence" will be that you weren't there for them undecided...

So get yourself a lawyer now and fight for your child!!! undecided...

You most likely won't gain custody of the child especially considering the age, but you sure will get the right to be in your child's life undecided....
RomanceRe: 400k Salary To Start Up A Family. by Fahvvy: 5:54am On Dec 17, 2023
Money for family can never be enough undecided...

Some can make do with a 100k, others still "struggle" to get by with 1mil undecided...

What I'll tell you is that you cut your clothes according to your material undecided...

No go do pass yourself and be sure to live within your means at all times undecided...
RomanceRe: He Want To Marry A Mother Of Four As A Single Man by Fahvvy: 5:49am On Dec 17, 2023
undecided....
CrimeRe: Brother Stabs 28yr Old Sister Multiple Times For Not Adhering To Islamic Norms by Fahvvy: 8:23am On Dec 16, 2023
This religion is the most us.eless religion ever undecided...

Killing innocent folks for not adhering to st.upid religious dictates and what's worse is that if you try to denounce it, you're still beheaded undecided...
RomanceRe: Why The Craze About Female Boobs? by Fahvvy: 3:58pm On Dec 14, 2023
CasNova:
Proverbs 5: 19


Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her.

Jesus!

This sounds like soft porn.
Haahhahaha grin...
You should read songs of Solomon grin...

You'd be shocked that things like that can be found in the bible grin...

The bible is indeed very complete undecided...
RomanceRe: The DUMBEST SH1T You'll Read On The Internet In 2023 by Fahvvy: 3:57pm On Dec 14, 2023
Sincerely...

I pity men who make the mistake of picking a woman up from the mud, brushing her up and taking her abroad - I see them as fo.ols even undecided...

Everyday on the news, there's one headline or the other of a man losing his house, his work and his entire life savings all because of a woman undecided...

And to think that this is a woman you picked up when she was an illiterate, sponsored her to school, fed her, clothe her, gave her opportunity to be whatever it is that she is now, omorrrr that's betrayal of the highest order undecided...

And still men haven't learnt that it's a huge risk brushing up a woman, dey play just dey play undecided...

Let them continue, me I know that I can't be this fo.olish undecided... I'd rather use that money and rear fowl than pay this huge a sacrifice for any woman in the name of wife undecided....
RomanceRe: Managing Your Nigerian Wife Abroad by Fahvvy: 3:40pm On Dec 14, 2023
OP, there's nothing there to "manage" undecided...

Women in general, are naturally ungrateful and will at the slightest moment bite the fingers that fed them - this is a fact that every man must come to realize, accept and act accordingly undecided...

This is why I advice men, NEVER TAKE A WOMAN ABROAD (especially women from broke homes, IF SHE WANTS TO GO LET HER GO ALONE WITH HER OWN MONEY undecided...


Someone that is so broke that she hasn't even left her village, how do you expect her to act when you take her across the continent? undecided...

The way that woman will act when their men take them abroad is the same way a spoilt brat will act when you give them small power - ABUSIVE! undecided...


And ask yourself, why is it that the news of women who do this to their men when they go there are ALWAYS NIGERIAN WOMEN? undecided...

Why not other nationalities, like Asian countries, why always Nigerians? undecided... Why is it so easy for the African society (Nigeria in this case) to conform to western ideologies? undecided...

Omorr...
This is something we need to ask ourselves o undecided...
Cause I believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with the ideology of females - Nigerian women in this case undecided...
RomanceRe: True Or False About Gynaecologist by Fahvvy: 3:21pm On Dec 14, 2023
incandescentena:
Nevertheless, one does not have to be a female to understand female anatomy. Men can also understand it with proper knowledge and experience. Hence, gender is not an issue, and some patients are reassured as long as their male gynaecologists have the required qualifications and can provide the necessary quality care.


Why do feminists want to ban men from practicing gynaecology?
@bolded...
Throw a man and a woman in an even playing Field and I bet you that 9 out of 10 times, men will dominate undecided...

A proof of this is the so called "trans women" in various female based sports that are effortlessly smashing records undecided...

A proof of this is also why they're lots of jobs out there that have a gender specifications and the gender? Well your guess is as good as mine undecided...

"Secretary needed, females only" undecided...
Female teachers needed for xyz undecided...
I hope you get the point now undecided...

And feminist knows that they can't compete with men in an even playing Field, so they try to side line men so that they can "dominant" and feel good about themselves undecided...

Feminist are just a bunch of losers undecided...

In my opinion, "let the best man win" undecided...
If women are better at the job than men, then by all means, give it to them. But if you must sideline anyone, let it be on the strength of their capacity not their gender undecided...
RomanceRe: Why The Craze About Female Boobs? by Fahvvy: 3:09pm On Dec 14, 2023
okoroemeka:
there are some breasts you will see,you will agree with me that it is not meant for breastfeeding babies only,God created that for a reason to console us men and feed babies,God is very wise indeed
Proverbs 5:19 comes to mind grin...
RomanceRe: Prostitution And Public Sanctimony by Fahvvy: 3:05pm On Dec 14, 2023
realG101:
I think the idea is people will judge but then they do, Don't be bothered.
I totally agree with this undecided...


Remember the biblical event where Jesus discouraged a mob from stoning an adulterous woman to death. He then told the woman to go and sin no more.
God probably knows people need to do what they have to do in their moment of need but they must keep getting better as they get more empowered
Again, feel free to do whatever you want, but actions have consequences, even the bible said so undecided... Gal. 6:3 Be not deceived, God is not mocked, whatsoever a man sows that he will reap undecided...


You said something about no compromising. Well, all humans are not equal in mental and physical strength but all humans must survive. The ability to persist without compromise is not just innate to some people.

I agree with you that we're not all equal, however the ability to stay above compromise is not an "innate" ability as you put it, it's a PERSONAL DECISION undecided...

In my very few years as a medical practitioner, I have never heard of an "anti compromise gene" grin... Or any innate ability that keeps one from compromise grin, I believe it's a personal decision, but I'm open to learning sha undecided...

And yes, people should totally own up to the consequences of their actions. Agreed!


The biggest stigma remains poverty. People should just make sure anything they do that may bring stigma also gives them good money. The money will cure the stigma (yahoo yahoo comes to mind).

In all, don't hurt nobody and that's it
RomanceRe: Should I End The Marriage? by Fahvvy: 12:44pm On Dec 14, 2023
onobire83:
She said it will affect her cause she’s into modeling
She went for family planning without your consent? And her reason for not wanting another child is not because you can't take care of them, but because she thinks it will "affect her body"? undecided...

Regardless...
No be every small thing wey sup na it suppose cause divorce oga undecided...

I don't think that an issue like this should lead to a divorce as it can be resolved by communication (unless there's something other than this) undecided...

And besides, you need to consider your children now, cause growing up in a broken home will affect your children undecided...

So try marriage counseling first ...
RomanceRe: Guys Can You Marry A Lady Who Is Not Working And Has No Degree But Fine by Fahvvy: 12:19pm On Dec 14, 2023
God forbid!!!!!!! angry...

I can't even wish this in my own worse enemy, talk more of engaging this kind of woman undecided...

Any woman who doesn't have a skill or a job that gives her enough money to not be dependent on anyone is a liability to any man that marries her undecided...

Women like that are usually very ungrateful and irresponsible undecided...

I can not can abeg undecided...
Liabilities disgusts me embarassed...
FamilyRe: I Feel Unbelievably Betrayed By Feminism - A 38-year-old White Lady Says by Fahvvy: 12:14pm On Dec 14, 2023
Hahaahhahhah grin...
Abeg no cast am na grin...
Allow women to keep being feminist cheesy...

Cause this feminism thingy really favours men cheesy...
Never in the history of humanity has there been a movement that favours men like this grin...

Women believe that just like men, they can sleep around - which means more pu.ssy for men without commitment grin...

Feminism has forced women to start paying bills just like men - which means men can save more money for themselves grin...

Feminism has kicked chivalry out the window - this means men don't have to bend over for women since ofcourse "we're equal" grin...


Please men, embrace feminism, cause the thing dey favour wuna wella cheesy...
PoliticsRe: As Nigeria Gets Worse, Some Peoples Problem Is Still Peter Obi by Fahvvy: 11:47am On Dec 14, 2023
Can someone please tell that mad dog up there to shu.t the hell up undecided...

BAT has been president for months now and he has successfully turned the nation down side up undecided...

The current doings of BAT is making Buhari feel like he was a dope president undecided...

And yet rather than hold him accountable, all y'all online warriors do is support him blindly undecided...

I sha hope that y'all that are supporting him blindly are buying fuel @#65 grin...
RomanceRe: Prostitution And Public Sanctimony by Fahvvy: 7:18am On Dec 14, 2023
The ideology that "only God can judge you" is the most fallacious and hilarious thing I have heard so far undecided...

In an ideal setting, you would've been very correct, but in reality, what you're saying doesn't hold water, cause as long as you're alive, you will ALWAYS be judged by people undecided...

I'm not saying it's right, but I'm saying that it's the reality of things undecided...

Secondly...
You made an illustration using the VP's daughter and all. Lemme ask, are there people in bad situations who have clawed their way out of it without compromise? undecided...

If the answer is yes, then what this tells me is that, whilst situations can affect a person's behavior, a person's personal decision not to compromise regardless is the deciding factor as to whether a person compromises or not undecided...

Thirdly...
There are certain "stigmas" attached to certain "jobs" undecided...

Look at morticians ("mortuary attendants"wink, are you aware that on account of their jobs, lots of people wouldn't even consider being in a relationship with them even if they're the last person on earth? undecided...

How about military women? Female lawyers? Folks in the waste management business?

My point?
Being a part of certain industries will attract certain stigma to you. Now, if you're not ready to embrace with your full chest the stigma that comes with it, then you prolly shouldn't be a part of it in the first place undecided...

In summary...
I have absolutely no issue with women who choose to wh.ore around for money, it's their life and it's their choice, so they can wh.ore around for all I care undecided...

But don't come crying when the stigma of that decision comes back to bite you in the as.s, cause last time I checked ACTIONS HAVE CONSEQUENCES! undecided...
RomanceRe: If A Woman Hit You, Destroy Her... by Fahvvy: 9:02am On Dec 13, 2023
Amumaigwe:
1 What of women that beat men, are they also psychopaths?

2. Is your assertion based on the act of beating another human being or the gender that does the beating? Kindly throw more light
1. Yes they are! undecided...
Anyone who enjoy beating up another human being over issues that can otherwise be resolved without violence, belongs in an assylum - REGARDLESS OF GENDER undecided...

2. This is not a gender thingy undecided...
The only time I believe it is right to go all out on anyone is in times of self defense, other than that, I believe that issues can and should be resolved without violence undecided...
RomanceRe: UK Based Man In Tears After Wife Report Him To Police & Threw Him Out His Home by Fahvvy: 7:14pm On Dec 12, 2023
Help a woman at your own peril! undecided...
EducationRe: Nobody Has Been Able To Get It Right”: Viral Photo Of Mathematics Question Spark by Fahvvy: 8:52pm On Dec 11, 2023
The answer is 4

60 ÷ 5 (7 - 4)
60 ÷ 5 (3)
60 ÷ 15
4


If you still doubt this, lets try substitution method

Let the A be the left hand side, that is A = 60
And let B equal the right hand side, that is B = 5 (7 - 4)

So in essence, the above equation becomes:
A ÷ B

A is 60 and B is 15,
So the equation becomes 60 ÷ 15 = 4
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Politicians Are Destroying Our Young Girls – Dr Sam Amadi by Fahvvy: 1:35pm On Dec 10, 2023
A girl will wake up one morning...
Enter the bathroom....
Take a shower...
Do her makeup...
Wear her clothes...

Pay transport to a hotel...
Enter the hotel room...
Sleep with a man...
And somehow, she's not to blamed? undecided...
Please make it make sense! undecided...

Is it that she's a minor or maybe she's so daf.t to think that it's revival service that happens in a hotel? undecided...

See eh...
It's high time we start holding females accountable for their actions undecided...

If an adult female chooses to sle.ep around, as long as she wasn't ra.ped, then it's simply because she CHOOSE to sleep around, simple! undecided...

They're not kids for crying out loud!

And before you blame condition, please remember that there are other girls in far worse situations that those girls and yet they still came out of it without compromise undecided...
PoliticsRe: Obidients And Identify Thief Are Like Siamese Twins - Reno Omokri by Fahvvy: 8:18am On Dec 10, 2023
Obidients and what? grin...
CelebritiesRe: Why My Husband Goes To The Market For Me - Veteran Actress, Omotola Ekeinde by Fahvvy: 8:13am On Dec 10, 2023
Even with all her fame and accolades, she still encourages submission undecided...

I sincerely hope that all this urgent 2k girls will learn something from it undecided...
FamilyRe: I have the skills by Fahvvy: 8:07am On Dec 10, 2023
Akano5:
I'm thinking of learning online skills, and I will still learn it
Contact me when you're ready and I'll get you professional Udemy courses on any skill of your choice for a small fee undecided...


@OP...
There's no skill you'll learn that doesn't have it's ups and downs undecided... Even the offline skill someone is advising you to learn also have it's issues (or you think it's every barber that's cashing out from it) undecided...

But one thing is for certain, people are making it big time with online skills undecided...

So rather than feel this way, why not try to find out what they're doing that you're not and start applying it asap undecided...
RomanceRe: What It Means For Men To Be Sleeping Around With Very Young Girls! by Fahvvy: 7:42am On Dec 10, 2023
If you meet me for assistance, it is my decision whether or not I want to assist you undecided...

And in cases where I demand something in return for my assistance, then it is my prerogative to do so and I shouldn't be shamed for it undecided...

Let's stop living under the illusion that every guy out there is obligated to help girls when they ask for it undecided...

Because men aren't! undecided...
Guys don't owe girls nothing! undecided...
For God's sake, why can't females ask their fellow females for help? undecided...

Or better still, work for their own money, since in their minds "men want to take advantage of me" undecided...
CrimeRe: “she Never Loved Me” – Lady Opens Up About Sleeping With Her Stepdad And Blames by Fahvvy: 10:26pm On Dec 09, 2023
One thing that never ceases to amuse me about women is the way they shirk from accountability and responsibilities grin...

In their mind, "it's never my fault" grin...

Just imagine this one went and opened her legs for her step father, betraying her own mother and she still had the boldness to say, "it's not my fault, blame my mother" grin...

Very soon now, her fellow colleagues will be here to blame the man grin...
RomanceRe: What If by Fahvvy: 6:38am On Dec 09, 2023
Send the woman packing asap and make sure she faces the consequences of paternity fraud undecided...

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