₦airaland Forum

pocohantas:
Oga rest abeg. No dey cap nonsense and offpoint. When you have a daughter and disapprove her marriage, tell her to run off with the guy because of love. For your small pikin brain, love is going against your family. Na too much film dey make una mumu. If they ask you to donate one kidney, love go clear from your opolo eyes.

Because your gbola dey rise, you think you are in love. Small children of this generation sha.

I'm not the cause of your misery, look for someone else to throw your frustrations at.

Buhari is attracted to failures, I see him reappointing rufai.

This I have seen.

There will be not more war. I see Putin bowing his head in shame.

This I have seen.

Soludo will transform Anambra to Dubai

This I have seen.

The dog only came to watch his show, why evils.

All those blood thirsty guys shouting aye axemen, Egede, butchering their fellow humans like animals are what then?

This Christmas will be the worst for many Nigerian girls.

This I have seen.

pocohantas:
This is a public forum and you would be quoted whether you like it or yes. Your personal attacks won’t change my opinion to your stance. So I ask you again, would you marry a woman when your whole family is against her and you heard madness runs in her family? We all know what men do, so stop looking for women that would disregard their families for you!! You are not worth it!

So in your myopic reasoning, you suddenly know what decision I'm going to make in my relationship, how did you acquire this strange gift if I may ask?

Suddenly all men will dump their woman because of a negative story they heard about her or her family.

When you read of stories of men who send their girlfriends abroad to study or invest heavily on their girls admist opposition from their friends and family concerning the girl, you'll turn a blind eye.

Recently an African footballer lost all the wealth he made in football because he registered his properties in his wife's name and she divorced him and inherited them.

As usual you feminist wouldn't move a muscle, but once a man gives an opinion you don't agreed you'll start jumping up and down like a dog on heat.

Magnoliaa:
I have. Plenty of times.

Reasons:
- Money
- Attitude
- Ideological differences
- Religious beliefs
- Sexual Incompatibility

According to the law of right and wrong, you're hereby banned from going into any form or kind of engagement.

This I have seen.

I see this man finding his way back to his wife whom he abandoned after Rachel Umahi (the kind hearted wife of the governor) donates millions to her for the upkeep of the twins.

I see him lying on the floor begging his wife like a thief about to be lynched, I see her accepting him back.

This I have seen.

pocohantas:
Please stop seeing nonsense and take a break. Hypocritical elements that can’t take the same treatment they dish out. Stand by you indeed. How many women have Naija men stood by? Always wanting to collecting till they leave a sister drained and gasping for breath.

What's your problem, did you see me in your dream?

I gave my opinion if you don't like it, swerve and pass. Last time I checked we're still in democracy, meaning I'm free to make my own independent opinion.

You can't force yours down my throat neither can I force mine down your throat, so if you dislike mine rather than rant like a girl whom her guy dumped a day to their wedding, look for the nearest transformer in your area and hug.

pocohantas:
Of course it is brainwashing when you men are at the receiving end, but let your mother reject your fiancee and you would dump her in seconds because what an elder can see sitting down…

So a Nigerian woman in Nigeria, who is not even regarded as a member of the family she is marrying into. Who is seen as disposable. Should marry you without the support of her family because she LOVES you? Same love that would make you cheat on her because men are polygamous in nature. Only a very foolish lady without a strong family tie will do that and only a more foolish man would expect a woman to go against her family to prove she loves him. When he starts dealing with her, she will know the importance of her family and run back home. They always do. Toor!

Love indeed. No Naija woman should try to prove any nonsense love to a Naija man.

What's with the outburst...I can see that you're speaking out of experience. Hope the heartbreak wasn't that bad, and hope you're recovering very fast, sorry ok?

I see you meeting a sugar daddy before the end of this year, I see him buying you iPhone 13 but it will be fake, I see you angry very very angry, I see you doing plastic surgery for your breast and bum, I see you looking more sexy than chioma davidos ex.

This I have seen.

daxon001:
so what then is OKafor's Law

It states that once you're in a sexual relationship with a woman, you will always have access to her Honey pot in future, whether or not she's married.

Guyman02:
Yes, we dated for 4 years as students, proposed to her after my NYSC when I secured a job, met her family, discussed my intention and they felt we are not on the same level (full of themselves), later they even claimed that they went to investigate my family in our village and they were told that mental illness runs in our lineage.
They convinced her to abandon our marriage plans which she did instead of fighting for us, I asked her to refund part of the bulk money I gave to her for the marriage preparation which she later did because I wanted a proper closure to the relationship, felt really humiliated, locked myself inside and cried, washed my face and told myself it was time to move on.

Deleted her contact from my phone, never scooped around her social media handles, put aside all our pictures together under a locker and didn't worry myself about her anymore.

Started another relationship with a lady I was close to as friends who was very passionate about me but I didn't look at her because I was faithful to my ex.

Suddenly from the blues, my ex elder sister called me after some months that she has been erratic, cursing everyone for making her to abandon the love of her life and that the family has agreed to our plans for marriage.

Later she called me asking for forgiveness and that it was an Uncle of mine who told her family that mental illness runs in our family because he felt I was marrying into a prominent family and to a girl who works in a big establishment while his own children are scattered.

I simply told her I have moved on and wasn't gonna look back and had already started marriage plans with the lady I mentioned earlier and I even invited her to the superlative wedding we were planning in an exquisite location then.
I used the opportunity to tell her that I am wiser now as I go for only ladies who stand by their men because I am afraid if I show any signs of madness (as my uncle told her family) instead of taking me to a psychiatrist hospital, she will rather take me to a market square so that the madness will become permanent.

Today we are both married to different people and talk freely on general topics anytime she calls me, but I totally avoid making any reference to our 4 years failed relationship to avoid Okafors Law.

Wao...

To be honest, it takes the grace of God to see a lady that will stand by you even though the whole world is against you.

Most ladies are easily brainwashed by their families whenever they're not in support of her relationship.

I'm happy you both settled down happily.

chatinent:
The heading said “engaged and didn't later marry” so I said no.


Dated? Why not?
Me wey get pensioners wey I dey pay for my dating school.

Why would you date someone you can't marry?

I thought dating is the stepping stone to engagement, then marriage...No?

chatinent:
No.


All I want are good energies.

So you've never dated before?

Hello folks, as the topic implies, have you been been with someone for months, and even years and ended up going your separate ways? What went wrong?

Kindly share with us.

Simps will not harken unto this advise, I see them spending their life savings on broke slay queens, I see them getting dumped, I see them in severe pains.

This I have seen.

kponkedenge:
He who price must pay. BBC don price.

You are a member of NBM

This I have seen

I see Oshimem being the highest goal scorer in the Afcon, I see Nigeria lifting the trophy.

This I have seen.

I see him getting a good job because of this gesture.

This I have seen.

Call a man a lion and he will be happy, but call him an animal, quarrel don start.... biko is lion an electronic device?

I see her not being able to find a man because of her promiscuous nature. I see her becoming a baby mama instead.

This I have seen.

femi4:
Your focus was on the goal not his defensive ability. He was a versatile player that played positions like left wing back, centre and left midfielder, especially when Nigeria switch from defense to attack and vise versa

Oliseh was more of a utility player on that defensive midfield than him.

The duo of taribo and okechukwu provided a very powerful defensive wall. And babayaro who played left back overlapped and played 11 as well. So our left wing was covered.

That's why he (lawal) was always very silent on the pitch except maybe when he's fouled or when he fouls a player.

I see another bloody protest against the police force next year, I see more the 90% of police stations across Nigeria being burnt, I see policemen dying in their hundreds. I see chaos.

This I have seen.

femi4:
Garba Lawal was there on merit.

Go back and watch Atlanta 96 and Nig vs Spain in 98. Lawal is always helping in the defense

That goal he scored against Spain was the fault of the goal keeper, the ball wasn't even on target zubizareta just hit it inside the net.

In Atlanta 96, most of our squad were young and fit, so it was expected of him to perform.

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asunmoGGMU:
Garba Lawal? He wasn't an outstanding player but damn. Please, how old are you?

I don't get you... are you saying that Garuba lawal was an exceptional player?

Emperormartin:
Musa will still make the team even under Eguaveon. In fact lemme burst your bubble; musa will go to the World Cup if Nigeria qualifies.

See eh there’s sth you guys don’t understand about Musa; he’s not there on merit; he’s representing the northern region whose numbers in the National team are becoming slimmer on each new day…

You're right...

Same was the case with Garuba lawal until he retired, and the crazy thing was that lawal was making the fist 11 starting line up, despite the fact that there was nothing special about him.

The North will always want a representative in the super eagles.

This I have seen.

I see thousands of Nigerian families applying for their daughters, I see them linking the girls to their families in the US. I see the girls disappearing once they touch down in the US, I see them not participating in the tech program.

Magnoliaa:

Oh ye of little faith...where is thine faith.