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Do they still need to tell the fucking government or whoever the Bleep seized their only means of survival to pity them

At least they should apply human feeling na! Gosh!

It's only a foolish woman that will push her husband to rape her.

Are you not suppose go with him peacefully?
Idiots!

chegzyshade:
Good evening house

I will be straight and brief with my explanation


I dropped my kids in their school early today. On my way out of the premises, I over heard the HOS/HM telling/asking a particular child " WHY ARE YOUR PARENTS SO STUBBORN?" because the child wore a black socks instead of white. That word strucked me and I felt pained cos, I won't take such.

I intervened immediately and correct her manner( I told her that shouldn't be coming from her as the head teacher).
Though she felt remorsed, but she was like the said parents are always proving hard. She told me she has had several encounter with this parents on this but they always complaining that the road to the school is very bad that whenever it rained, their child will come in black socks.

To be honest, the road is so mouldy and messed, very unpleasant, you find it so hard to walk through the road in raining periods. If you're so familiar with 'QUEENMARIS SCHOOLS' along ikotun-ijegun road, you'll understand better.
She also complained that this child will sometimes wear bodyhug under the unform or improvised cardigan to prevent cold cos the parents refused to buy the school cardigan claiming it's not priority. That they'll rather pay their child school fee than buying cardigan when they can improvise.

I was speechless though, but, I told her what she said is not good enough.

How will you feel and how will you react if your child told you someone in his/her school tell this

To be honest, you are one of the stubborn parents!
Why should you blame the HM for scolding a disobedient pupil/parents.

It's your type that teach children to be disobedient.
Abeg comot for here!

That's what should have been done, rather than postponing matches

Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful

The thing is, you have tolerated her for so long, why on earth would she be that selfish and inconsiderate?
She knows your work schedule (when to wake and when to leave for work) and she does all these?
I see it as intentional wickedness! She's is an adult, she knows how important sleep is for human.
You need to call her for strick order, else it might be too late and you might be in for a great danger health wise.

lilioj:
Jeeeez, get her the damn help! It doesn't matter if she's a SAHM, in fact they are more tired than working class moms, pls get her a help.

What rubbish is this one vormitting?
Did you read the post at all?

Make too much sense no kill that guy.

I'm impressed

Make this drunkard go find somewhere sit down and stop disturbing people with noise abeg

papiilo:
Morning guys!

So this company where I work paid me twice in error. Do you think they will detect later that they paid me twice?

They will detect sooner or later especially if they paid through account.

Change the station to African Magic or Football na.
Make person watch

Vinnie2000:
Was in a Tricycle going home and observed that most Schools put a Vacancy for 'Teachers Wanted'.

The driver now said 'Na so so Teachers dis Schools dey find?

'If dem dey see am, e for beta nah.The Guy next to me, said!

He now told us he is a Private school teacher for 5yrs and that these days, Graduates ARE NO LONGER INTERESTED in teaching jobs!

That they are all into Plumbing, Tailoring, Graphics designs, Online selling, Bitcoin trade, Yahoo, Hookups, etc.

SO, THE QUESTION IS

What is the cause of this?

If this Ugly trend continues, Who will Teach the New generation of Nigerian children

Or in 2035 or 2040, will Education in Nigeria be something, Dispensable or Optional

Pls move to FP. Tanx.

I am a private school teacher, I have been working in this school for six years now (started with 15k as salary, now 21k.) Is this how one will build house, buy car(s) and become financially stable? No na! I gats run away make SAPA no finish me if I see any better way.
I no even get girlfriend self as I no say I go just dey deceive myself

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She represented Nigeria �� at the Greece �� Olympics in order to win gold medal for Nigeria �� too, after wining for Brazil.

She has played with legendary footballers like Pele, Ronaldinho, Maradona, Ronaldo, Messi and Neymar Jr amongst others.

She was once the minister of Agriculture and Petroleum resources in Nigeria during the General Olusegun Babangida regime between 1988 and 1998.

Finally, she was a very good cook!

May her soul rest in peace.

#fantazy

I wonder why they banned Okadas in tbe first place when they can't provide other means

Akwa Ibom! My Root!

This one can burn down the house one day if care is not taken.

I will beat the madness outta her

If I have subscription I watch at home alone, but if i don't, I march to the viewing centre! Nothing spoil!

You can go for part time course, if they offer, so you can still do your business and take care of your child; or better still take a sibling to look after ur biz, while you come to check it once in a while.

Stopping the biz can affect you financially, as you might run out of money anytime, unless you have someone to sponsor you financially.

How I wish some people can mind their business and stay out of other peoples lifestyle.

Na today she marry the man, abi na you find the husband for her wey you go dey regret?

Abeg shift joor!

Fact!
But this write-up of yours doesn't tally with what a graduate should put up, as you told the woman.

I experienced it too. But mine has started working back

Just concentrate on the guy's sister(s) if he has any.
Knack sege comot for her body

Bro, take your daughter away from your sister! There's a 95% probability that she is not taking care of your daughter.
I have such as an aunt! My mum died in 2016 I had to bring my sister to live with our aunt till I get my own place cos I was sqauting with my friend (after relating) it with her and she accepted
She maltreated the hell out of my sister (her niece) for that matter. I had to take her to live with me in my friend's place, thanks to a tolerating and understanding friend I have.
Most family members are not reliable in this present generation. Its so unfortunate!

That's fantabulus!
What's her prize?

A man who earns 100k in this country now should be seen as a rich man.

Most of you saying Nay, nay Don't even earn up to 30k, even the OP self (stop deceiving yourself on social media abeg).

How many people can you point to who earns 100k and above?
Stay there and be looking for who earns millions. When menopause hit you na that time ur eye to clear.

You van even work naked sef. Nobody will query you.

Crisbenson:
'He Left Me Because I Was Ugly' — Lady
Shares Transformation Photos Years After Boy Broke Her Heart

“He rejected me because I was ugly, a tomboy, and too loud.”

But you are more ugly now compared to then!

Godsprojectayo:
Teaching job of 20k salary 7:30a.m to 4p.m or okada hustle for a bsc holder? which would you recommend?
All contributions will be appreciated please!

If you already have the bike why not give it to someone to ride and deliver to you on weekly basis (with signed agreement)
then you do the teaching.
Gather more money and do something better.

Note: I'm also a teacher currently earning that same amount you mentioned. I had to combine another job (night job) last month. My plan is to save up some change, buy the equipment I need (Camera) and go into my main hustle (skits production). This life no balance!
So help me God!

Rozross:
A thread was created by blessedmercy asking if it would be wise to settle down with a man that earns 100k and all she got was insults and jabs from guys, like seriously?

Should a guy who earns 100k think of marriage or how to double his hustle ? Why are most guys unrealistic, can 100k fend and cater for yourself alone.

Please I’ll want those who think it’s ok to come break it down for us on how the 100k will be managed monthly, I maybe learning a whole lot from this. Thanks

My neighbor with his wife and 3 kids is earning 40k per month, his wife is doing nothing at the moment and they are living happily, his children are eating to their satisfaction.
See, in this present economy, no amount of money is enough! The higher you earn, the higher the demand and increase in taste.
Just plan with what you earn you'll be alright.

This kind of woman (ur wife) is only for dating (gf) purpose, not for marriage. You should have noticed this and run for your life during dating/friendship period.

Kimiso:
How much are you earning from the job you are doing presently and how are you managing it till the next month because i know alot is just doing the job just not to stay idle am earning 25k monthly 2days on 2days off and i also eat there 3times a day am an ssce holder to be sincere

Which kain work be that and where is it?

One thing about you women is you can see hole covered with mat and you fully know that whoever steps on the mat will fall into the hole but you will still step on it and later claim to be regretting.

You carry your two left legs enter house wey ur ex dey, sleep on the same mattress with him and expect nothing to happen between you both for a whole night? Gosh! Stories like this sometimes makes me scared of going into marriage.

You be sharp man jor.
Very sensitive!