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Prolificgiant:
Food stuff ooo,there is no 2ways about it

I appreciate this. Thanks

I'm thinking of opening a business for my sister.

I thought about which business to open and arrived at either of these two; Foodstuff business or selling of Clothing/Tailoring accessories.

Note: She learned tailoring and has a sewing machine already which she use in sewing cloths on her free time at home, though she has not done her freedom yet. I brought in the Foodstuff idea due to the fact that tailors are too many in our area and the chances of her getting customers on time might be too slim.

Capital at hand N200k

So elders, please what are/is your advices?

Thanks

What do you really want to gain from her getting married? Is it grandchildren?

She's living her life and not worried (which is the principal thing) and you are here crying.

What is your problem sef?

I keep wondering where the Constitution states that guys should be giving their girlfriends money.

By now I expect every guy to know that a girl, no matter how foolish you are to think that she loves you, will always cheat at any slight opportunity.

God is saving me
I'm okay with that!

Tob456:
Hey guys, my ex girlfriend is 7 months pregnant. She doesn't want to have anything to do with me cos I didn't want to carry the responsibility of her four sisters.

She is 24 orphen and the oldest of seven children. She is a fruit seller and the pregnancy wasn't plan she took in 6 months into the relationship but I have accepted the responsibility and I wanted to make her my wife.

First of all I wanted us to discussed about her sisters living arrangements after the wedding and she said she wanted to bring all four who are under 18 to live with us after the wedding and I rejected.

I suggested that the youngest two can live with us while the other two can stay with the aunty but she refused.

She said the relationship was over and she doesn't need me in her life that she will take care of the baby alone.

I've told her even if she doesn't want me in her life anymore she should not stop me from helping her financially because I want our baby to be born in good condition but she refused.

Last week I sent 30k to her account for baby stuffs and she sent the money back to me saying she doesn't need a kobo from me she will take care of the baby alone.

I want to leave her alone but it is hard for me to do so cos she is carrying my child. It will not be easy for me to give up easily I just want to be a part of my daughter life. What do you guys think please?

Don't panic just create a separate account and be keeping the money u re suppose to send to her. When she needs money she will come around, don't force it on her. She will definitely need the money especially after giving birth. Just relax and watch

Smoking, drinking alcoholic drinks, womanizing, prostitution, premarital sex, gambling etc are regarded as sin not because of the act itself, but because of the effect it has/will have on a person.

Everybody knows that doing any or more of the things above will surely affect one negatively, whether directly or indirectly and God doesn't want anything to happen to us (His creatures).
So For that reason, they are sins!

May God have mercy upon us who might be doing any of those things.

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Waynesteave:
Like you read up there, I don't actually know my age, but I can remember some event way back,
I lost my mum and dad so early and I grew up with grandma.

I remember my uncle coming to take me back to lag, in year 2000 precisely and I remember very well when that bomb blast at Ikeja cantoment happened for days in Lagos.

Now key important things to know is, when my uncle came to take me back to lag it was during third term holidays and I was on my way to primary 2 then but when I got to lag he enrroll me to private school and I was taken back to nursery 3 because baba (me) no Sabi even speak English as at then, and I still remember that very moment very well.

So like how many years of age do you guys think I might be then cuz all the memories are still fresh in my brain so for me to still remember everything then, I am thinking maybe i was 7 or 9 then. I'm so confuse.

Ask your uncle who brought you to Lag. He is in the best position to know ur age

Samdal:
Good morning to you all
After 7 years on wastefulness,I have finally decided to quit sport betting

I'm presently on my bed,crying my eyes out and regretting d foolish decision i made 7 years ago,I played my first bet 7years ago,using 100naira to win 10k,and since then its been a crazy,weird experience for me
The amount i have wasted on betting since then is enough for me to make a living but i was living in this false hope of winning millions,the highest i have won from this bet is only 48k but i have wasted millions playing it....From different kinds of bookies ranging from sportybet to betbang,betking,betpawa,merrybet,bet9ja
I don't play Virtual at all,I only play sport betting
I have turned to a loser,a liar,a debtor and a shadow of myself because of betting.....I decided i have had enough when i lost 10k yesterday when real madrid failed to beat Osasuna at d Bernabeu.....it was at that moment i knew you can never win d house no matter what,at the end of the day sport betting is a scam
I used to be a very bright,capable young boy but betting has rendered me useless to myself and my family.....I'm quitting sport betting this moment and I'm never going
I'm ready to pick up my broken pieces and set my goals right
At 27,I'm not too old to chase my future and be something useful to my self and my generation
Betting is a scam.....pls and pls,flee from it
You will never win that millions,you are only deceiving yourself
You have lost millions of millions to them and you will never win back your losses,that i guarantee you
I'm now broken,dejected and I'm done with it forever

So because you lose 10k yesterday u re typing all these?
Anyway people like us (myself) I have typed more than this before, took it as a prayer point, for God to deliver me from betting.
But guess what, I still dey play! Though I play responsibly now (with what I can afford to lose). So I'm not moved when I lose.

It will be a good thing if one can stop playing. But it's not easy to stoo. Especially someone like me who work, live in the midst of people who play bet on a daily.

My advice is that you chilled, play with what u can afford to loose. For example 200, 100, highest 500 naira on 20 odds, 15 odds, 30 odds etc. Stop going for millions or playing 10k, 20k or highly with 2 or 3 odds thinking it sure.
Good luck

Dunkjames5:
There is this Calabar girl we live in thesame compound although we use to talk crack jokes, but I don't have any sexual feelings for her.
Then just today before I woke up this morning I was having a dream she came into my house and the next thing we started romancing ourselves to the limit that we even naked ourselves before I came back from the dream land, just as I opened my door she was the first person I set my eyes on and she Shook my hand just as it happened in my dream.

There's nothing so special about the dream. Just continue ur normal life

How I wish the waste product (poo) she will produce after eating it will be useful to humanity.

Gosh!

SenecaTheYonger:
Yet if you are able to Bleep her just like that you will come online to call them cheap.

That’s why good things don’t happen to you Nigerians.

Once you get a good thing easily, you will come online and abuse and Bragg about it. Even label all ladies as loose.

I’m very happy Nigerian ladies are treating you like this.

Let them press your necks very well.

She probably has 15 guys in her DM asking her to come to their house. So don’t worry, she won’t remember you next day.

I sometimes wonder why sex is seen as Favour to the male gender only.

For goodness sake, sex, if beneficial, is to both parties (male and female) involved, not only males. It's even more beneficial to the female. its the man who goes through the push-up stress alone after all, nearly collapsing in the process.

As a guy I can never see sex as a favour, if u no gree come to my house make we play. Abeg gerrat

obembet:
I believe we still have many good Nigerians who can judge this matter

If Banana grows like this and enter your compound, are you the owner or your neighbor?

I will arrest the banana and put it in my custody, why will it climb the fence into my compound?
It a thief!

Chisomann:
I have helped them a lot I think is enough they should go and hustle. I am thinking about changing my number soon so I will have no contact with them again

If you have enough to help them, pls continue to help them, and don't forget to also encourage them to find something doing. Unless u don't have the ability. Doing good has no disadvantage!

Because this life no balance . It takes a twinkle of an eye for things to turn around.
May evil no befall any of us o.

So you birth to new borns every year like fowl.
Anyway, maybe giving birth to new babies is ur hobby or Father Abraham is ur role model.

Congrats o, make I no sound like bad belle

So is he not suppose to go and buy card for his mother? Or what are u insinuating?

BurgundyBlue:
forget that thing...woman wey like you go call you oooo....I dey experience ham nau....she go dey call you dey ask if you don chop or not, dey do you like say u be her son....I dey tell you....the ones wey no like you, no go send you if you no call them again ....

If you believe or think that ur gf likes u, it's because she's not meet another guy. Just wait let her jam another guy wey she like, e go shock u?!

That's still young, waybill it to me let me help to take care of it till it grows older

DaddyCK:
Bro I can't send u moiney unless u want to be yansh. So bro, u suk dik or can u be yansh?

It's that yansh that will kill you one day. Let's wait and see!

Haha haha haha!
How much do you intend for to pay let me be one of your actors?

DaddyCK:
errm hangon...i hope u not a guy...coz many guys pretend to be female here. I sent one babe £200 and then to find one I send moiney to guy. i dont send moiney to guys

Try and send money to guys too. You will be have a reward and stop simping on all these ashawos (prostitutes) parading themselves around and looking for people like you to scam.

I'm a guy, send money to me! Guys are not your enemies for goodness sake!

zinaunreal:
Nigerians don't listen to psquare kind of music again it's obsolete.

Stop generalizing. You're not the only one in Nigeria. More than 80% of Nigerians still love thier song

Make him roll after rolling he will pack his shameless body to his house. No time!

The earlier she return the iPhone and collect her Android the better for her.

She think say the repairer be mumu abi

Ordinary rats can't do that. Na spiritual rats be that one

Do you know what?
Go with your mother i.e play along with her so she won't get heartbroken.
But if you want to do anything important with names like BVN registration, Nat. ID, Professional Exam registration any document that might be needed for recognition in future, use your real father's name else you will have problem.

Your mother is not thinking of the negative effect that may/will have, she's just being pained. So use your own sense

By carrying condoms around, it automatically means she's ready be knacked by any thing that can knack.

Visiting her bf is not even the reason sef, that one can be gotten around.

Besides did she even ask the bf if he had it or not before buying it along?

Na certified Ashawo she be

If flying is what he craves for why not learn to practice witchcraft, so he can fly anyhow he like and stop risking his life

Village people don finally hold this one for tight for blogos

This concerns the christians mostly but anybody can contribute sincerely without condemnation.

There's this church I have been attending for about 9 years now. It a local church under construction with few /countable members. Its a type of church in which if Deacon Solomon farts, people will know he is the one without asking anyone (that's how few the members are). There are lots of contributions in this church almost every month for different kinds of programs (Sectional, District, General council etc). My problem is not the numerous donations, it is the fact that the names of the donators and those who don't donate will be written down for accountability.

I am not a active donator in the church, that's, in most cases I donate little or none at all (I'm still praying for the grace) cos it takes grace to commit oneself to the extent of always donating when the need arises.

Now the painful part is that the pastor and even some members knows that I'm not the type that donates like that, though I'm very active in other areas as a worker (Instrumentalist, choir member, drama club. etc). because of this, anything done in the church with money they will just conclude that my own money is not part of it.
The pastor has confronted me many times on the payment of tithe, to the extent of announcing to the whole congregation that since I have been coming to the church I have never paid tithe (chai!), he has called me stingy in the church many times.
I'm not denying the fact that I'm not doing well in that area, but, is all those 'calling out" of a thing necessary in the church?

Despite all the calling out I'm not still good in that area. even if I contribute at all, they will still doubt if I did. So I just palm, maintain my stay, though I'm not happy with all the bashes.
I don't want to bring in an excuse concerning the fact that I'm still hustling, with very low paying job. After all na everybody dey hustle.

I sometimes plan to stop going to that church and take some times off church.
It has made me see the church as if donation of cash is the only thing a member can do to be seen as an active member.

NB. I have tried to always donate every time the need arise but I always find my self donating little or none.

I know I'm not doing well in that area as I said earlier. But my point again is: IS IT BIBLICAL/NECESSARY TO BE MAKING IT SO OBVIOUS THAT A PARTICULAR MEMBER IS NOT MEETING UP TO A PARTICULAR DEMAND?

I might stop going to that church anytime soon. The only thing still keeping me there is the fact that I'm very much used to the church and its members.

What do you think about me, the that church or the pastor?

Thanks

No need of wasting time to do any case.

Just waka straight to hell fire