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One of them immediately registered as a man in my brain. I will never understand these people, though I have no problem with them.

Davizee:
What do you mean

Mscheew.

OGHENAOGIE:
what's the point then if not u trying to magnify what's not there...

The point is I have a life outside Nairaland.

OGHENAOGIE:
and White Man no de do sex or what...

That is not the point.

seguno2:
Who gave opportunity to the other races? We blacks

Pointless argument.

My friend always says “even on his deathbed, a black man will ensure to have sex.” This report is not news.

I've been restless this entire week, having heart palpitations, panic attacks and all manners of emotional and mental upheaval. I thought i have it all together but alas, I don't. 13 years should be a long time to cut someone off, soulmate or not, But see me, mumu being sucked back into what i thought I'd escaped. I'm losing my mind!

This guy that has played a huge role in my life. He has been the subjects of some of my thread the last 13 years
https://www.nairaland.com/659853/isnt-just-cruel
https://www.nairaland.com/817505/isnt-just-cruel-part-2

In this 13 year time period we were lovers, friends, everything and back to lovers, a continious cycle. We became so close that even his extended relatives knew me. I didn't know when i cut off all my university friends subconciously. He became my only friend for years at a time. I'll start other relationships and it'll fail and i'll still go back to him. We spend days and night with eachother even while i was in other relationships, Couple of years ago, I had an oppurunity to get a job in Lagos and my decision was heavily influenced by having an opportunity to detach from this dude once and for all. He cried and begged for me not to take this Job offer but i refused and bade Abuja farewell.
That move helped me regain my sanity and i was now able to make other friends and live a normal life. Even got married in the process. I still used to visit Abuja from time to time and we'll hang out in strictly platonic fashion. Then my marriage ended two years ago. In conversations with this guy after my marriage ended, he kept urging me to move back to Abuja. I refused.

Last year, He got posted to Lagos. We hung out from time to time but still platonic. Recently, his girlfriend broke up with him and the gears shifted to something more between us. I've spent the three weekends in his house and now I've come to the realization that I'm hooked again. Like a person on Heroin. Exactly why i fled from him in the place. What will we call this biko. On a normal day, I'm a hard chic not prone to feelings and emotions but this guy just confuses me on a spiritual level. The sex is mad! Best sex ever!!!! And all my mumu has been fully activated.

I've been telling my self to get sense all week, but my sense is failing me. Is this Jazz? Did they send this guy to ruin my life! When I'm not with him, all i think about is him. I'm just tired. As i write this, I'm shaking and losing my mind!

Lazy youth.

All these children born yesterday, sef. Mscheew.

Seun, was Ishilove sacked or not? I know you saw my thread.

seguno2:
Are Egyptians black? Assuming you’re correct, why were the Egyptian blacks so lazy to allow the Arabs take over their land?

Better weapons, I guess. I have to research for a definite answer.

So you finally agree that we blacks are mentally lazy lovers of opacity, which is why we failed to have alphabets and written history

We are humans no different from any other. We lack opportunity because we developed late compared to other countries. Nigerians who study and find themselves in leading fields excel over most other raced counterparts.

Twenty-one years is enough to birth a grown adult. Nothing dey the marriage again. The man wants fresh meat. He would’ve impregnated someone outside if children were the only issue. He doesn’t want her anymore.

seguno2:
Are you also surprised that we blacks are the scumbags of the world because we don’t keep records and have no alphabets for our languages?

Egyptians kept records, used calculations and invented medicine long before Arabs took over their land. Our side of the continent used stories to pass knowledge down generations. Unfortunately tales become diluted or exaggerated as decades pass.

Kayode’s girlfriend that year. Mago-mago will not kill Nigerians.

Better to self service in peace than to stay in a relationship with zero peace of mind.

Looks nothing like him.

Russia is not a fun place to be. Trump will take his chances in America.

First time. Na normal thing. By the fourth abortion, you no go see am as anything. I remember smoking weed for the first time, confessing that I finally ran mad. Now I can smoke the thing without a second thought — the same for eating it. Initial gra-gra, na him dey do you.

finallybusy:
Bots, alternates or sockpuppeting. I can’t tell the difference.

All of the above.

Isn’t that Honey? This must be old news. These sort of arrests take place every other week in the US. Humans there must be lonely. Like Africans, these people think with their nethers, the difference is they are bold to act on it. Prisons, hospitals, movie studios, offices, animal shelters, churches, schools, the military and relief services. It’s the same old story. This eight minute activity is impulsive for some people.

Is there any Nigerian woman who didn’t lose hers through rape? My dating experience taught me that every sexually active woman was raped by all her boyfriends. Nobody ever willingly slept with a man. Abeg, forget that scam. Na to visit South Africa. At least the women that way are honest about their sex drive.

Welcome to Nairaland.

Okay. Life continues. I'm surprised they kept records.

She's getting desperate. Men don't like desperation.

She's cute, sha. I want a makeup-free picture.

I like the look. It gives them personality. Oyibos like seeing black men look that way, the young adventurous ones want to befriend them. The average oyibo is scared of the appearance but appreciates it from afar.

Nemesis0147:
They do all these to draw attention to themselves.
There is not place someone with tattoos or dreadlocks will enter and won’t be noticed.

That’s why,,they need the attention.

If they enter a dreadlock and tattoo convention, they get lost in the crowd.