₦airaland Forum

Gainman:
Are u married? B4 i explain things to u

You can join him going to every media house to explain to the world how his wife finished him, how his son joined his mother to rob him from now till both of you grow old and ur gospel reach the length and breadth of the world.


If you are one of those who condermed Tonto dikeh for going dirty always with her ex, Churchill but now reluctant to condernm Ike because you are a man.

Just know you are nothing but hypocrite

gassbee:
Who do we believe Emeka or the wife, Emeka says he never beat her, the eife says he has been violent towards her

Seeing him alone, you would see "aggressiveness' in him, he would also have issue with anger" management and above all a *talkative.

When husband nags too much, he would have problems in marriage, I think it's women that do nag and men overlook several things for peace to reign at home.

Emeka a very foolish guy, a crazy attention seeker, who "always" going dirty publicly about his family affairs.

I still don't know how many times he would go publicly about his marriage's failure for people to hear him and emphatise with him as a victim of marriage.( Anyway he is seeking public sympathy this time around, to reedeem his dead career)


I think Emeka and Edoche should be bestie and Emeka vs Tonto would be perfect match.

nairalee:
There's no rule. Everyone is a product of his or her CHOICES. Agree there are things that influence your choice but it still boils down to u.


In this life I've seen pastor children become most wayward in the society and I've seen a single girl raised by a street prostitute grow up to become a disciplined moral girl.

U need to be more exposed to see life from different angles

Yes anybody can become anything irrespective of his or her background but, THERE ARE SIMILAR PATTERN SOME PEOPLE MUST BEHAVE IF THEY BELONG TO SIMILAR SOCIETY, BACKGROUND OR ENVIRONMENT, EVEN AT THAT, NOT ALL WOULD STILL BEHAVE IN SUCH MANNER, BUT WHEN 7/10 OF RESEARCH GOING IN SIMILAR WAY, WE CATEGORIZED SUCH FINDINGS AS POSITIVE OUTCOME.

Any girl brought up by single mother usually find it difficult to be submissive to husband, and this is result of absent of father figure during her upbringing. Also, they usually toxic towards husband, this will happen if her mother is a toxic woman herself and they can also be a wife that would easily involve in extramarital affairs in their marriage, that's, if her mother is a type that changing different men carelessly.

easyfem:
What shock me must is that she said she is a new born again christian and millions of pple had died and dying due to mismanagement of our common wealth and guess what ? GOD is a GOD of mercy , he will forgive her and if care is not taken , she will make heaven .. I'm not judging anyway but as a xtian, she will ...now aw abt the pple that lost their life , family , home, business , marriage and many more due to this politician stupidity... have u seen ex cbn governor carrying bible around ? I swear is a crazy world my brother and sister ..... dont let us b fool by this useless guys called looters , take ur life serious or else , u will just die for nothing and the person that kill the country will make heaven

Meanwhile, she might be forgiven o, but she started suffering her sin even from earth here

7victor:
The issue is that if I like a woman because maybe she is attractive or intelligent or nice/kind-hearted/caring, it will only remain in the arena of "Like".

But immediately she started showing interest in me, she will become sexy in addition to her initial qualities that made me like her in the first place.

That's when I will move from Like to Love.



Also a woman who shows sexual interest in me suddenly becomes very sexy and attractive to me.

In fact a woman who says "I must sleep with the man afterall he is a man" is suddenly more attractive to me than the most beautiful woman in the world.

The actress that made that statement in the movie I once watched, till today I find her to be the most attractive actress in Nollywood just because she made that statement.


Another case is that let's say I am about to enter a room, a woman blocks my way in a playful manner, I suddenly finds her very attractive and sexy. In fact every type of teasing by women is very attractive to me.

The most surprising one is a woman who wants to have sex with me.

I tell the truth and nothing but the truth: The only women currently occupying a place in my heart and I find it difficult to forget them are the women (1) who wanted to have sex with you, (2) who told me to marry her (3) who teased me one way or another. Maybe she just appeared from nowhere and said something, cover my face or did any other things.(4) who showed interest in me.

What do you think about this?

Please no insult.

What you are passing through is nothing but pure lust and sexual fantasies. Infact some sexual perverts called fetish

So many people don't know the tiny different of love and lust, they mistaken lust to love

Only few females billv they can get rich or succeed without support from men/selling their bodies.

The super league would soon become monotonous and boring after 5-7 years of existence, wen the same set of 20 teams are playing year in year out.

Football has its funs and suspenses when teams relegated and qualified for champion league.


Just see how Chelsea gave way for Newcastle and how Arsenal came back after several years of not competing in champion league.

I think that makes it to be highly interesting and makes other teams to strive harder to qualify and play better.

Dantepet5000:
I am a 40 years old man,married with 3kids...I got married 6 years ago. In my early and mid 30s I wooed several women most of whom either turned me down or weren't ready to settle down at that time even though some where in their late 20s.
I needed them so badly back then but nothing seemed to workout. Very beautiful extremely outspoken and gallantly curved.
I am fairly financially ok but maybe they knew better what they wanted.time was not on my side and so I eventually settled with a girl I actually love and she loves me too.fast forward to 3 more years in my marriage, some of these women i either dated or wooed in the past started finding their ways back into my life knowing fully well I am married but didn't mind still getting a piece of me despite how hard I tried to fight it. The obsession of times back didn't leave my head so I tried to knakk so that I may do away with them permanently and focus better.
Most of them still look as good as they were, the only difference is time and interest.
What baffles me the most is some who dated better men than I was in the past now find me more attractive than their present men even though this has nothing to do with looks or money. They have answers to such pensive innuendo. Some even left their marriages cos of their husbands infidelity only to end up with me who is also married and this keeps me wondering why they left their husbands in the first place....
The aim of this writeup is just to pinpoint gratitude of the rejection of the past coz it has saved me from marrying women whom are either not OK with one man or loose in its entirety.
To set the record straight for those who did not read this writeup till the end, I did not sleep with any of these women as I am still faithful to my darling wife as she is to me too. It is not easy even though I know I may fall in the future as the temptation is biologically potent.
I keep asking myself this question , do men become more attractive as they age or it is something we have no control over as even girls half my age don't mind been my sugar baby. The temptation is just so much and I do not know how long am gonna be able to handle this. This may be the only sin to land one in hell and I do not want to there.

What is happening to you, is applicable to 90% of men in ur age bracket (so, don't use that to raise shoulder)

Man chances of having affairs with women increase from teenage years and pick at 40s and start decline at 50, where as, ladies start decline at 28 and by 40 ,they are already oldies, in which they would be struggling for relationships.

My advise, if you don't careful , this is a stage in life of man, in which, the chances are high to have another wife or impregnated another woman because of availability of women at that stage of his life and by extension the stage in which Marriage can be scattered.

If it's European court who doesn't have a single influence or authority over football that has power or UEFA/FIFA that controls how boy would be governed, let see if your yeye judgement would hold water.

wirinet:
If this scenario happens, that might signify the beginning of the end of democracy in Nigeria, if not Nigeria itself. That would have been a direct affront on the constitution. Tinubu would have exercise dictatorial powers outside the constitution. The courts would have been dragged further into the mess, with conficting purchased injunction up and down. The whole of the Niger delta would have been up in flames, as the Ijaws would take the matter as an insult to its tribe.
It's a pity Fubara chickened out, he was not ready to put himself at risk.

Ps. The situation is still not resolved, as I don't see Fubara implementing the 7 items on the so called peace agreement. I don't see him reinstating the resigned commissioners loyal to Wike. There is no way Fubara can work with commissioners who clearly stated they can't take orders from him.
So I expect us to be back to square one within a very short time.

Is it not same Ijaw that Tinubu pushed out of power in federal as ordinary non state actor, and in which nothing happened. Or which ijaw you are saying?

Not even when that same Tinubu now occupied all the executive power.

You guys would just be making urself happy by way of hallucinations.

TruthsFM:
Sim Fubara will never be removed in Rivers State. Rivers State is 100.% peaceful, so no form of declaring State of emergency. Tinubu will just be distracting himself more by issuing threat that will never hold any water. Governor Fubara have signed the passed budget and the government continues.

Sit down thr and be saying trash.

As I said u just grown up and following politics and governance from Jonathan's reign. Jonathan and Buhari didn't show you how powerful Nigeria's president is.




I will refer you to Obasanjo declaration of State of emergency in Ekiti state.


Bye and bye

TruthsFM:
Tinubu can’t do anything here. Buhari failed woefully when Obaseki blow up Oshimole in Edo State politics, so tell me what Tinubu government will do to stop governor Fubara from leading in his government. Tinubu government will be distracting themselves more

It's only to utter a word both sim and Wike will be removed.

Well! If you you think every president is like Jonathan and Buhari , it's say how far you ur step understand office called president of Nigeria.(perhaps you grow to maturity and start following politics and governance in Nigeria from Jonathan time)

tetula123:
Check around you will see one to do without the mom. I had to ask another one after the first one refused without the mom’s consent.
I see dna like a must, before I got married I always told myself I was going to do dna for my kids it’s not about trust. I just feel it should be a must do. I did tell my wife I would have one after she gave birth in her words na me go waste my money she no get wahala. Later told my wife I did one, her reply was it’s a lie. I no even stress the matter my own is I have done what was on my mind. It’s expensive though

You shouldn't have put the statement..... "it's expensive though"

At least you have satisfied ur curriousity.......pls don't be weary to do second till last one sir.


To me, any woman that I would have "an atom* of doubt that she may be sleeping (not even bring another kid o) she shouldn't deserve to be in same house with me.

TruthsFM:
Hmm 🤔 so the yesterday leaked judgement was very true. Our judiciary have been heavily compromised. Very unfortunate. So our constitution isn’t followed again. Our law makers are now law breakers.

What about judgement that gives legality for 4 lawmakers out of 32?

Nice2023:
If you earn form 50k pounds downwards you pay only 20% tax

If you earn from 51k pounds to 125k pounds you pay 40% tax.

So you rather remain at 49k than accept 50/60k pounds salary.

In Sweden/Ireland in particular, they use that to discourage people to greedly overworked themselves, so that, there would still be much more jobs for others to do.

Besides, they also use tax to *ploughback money from citizens to economy in other to redistribute it for wellbeing of general public.

That is country where they plan and things are working well for them.

It seems you guys want nairaland's embittered republic to have hearts attacks. Please, spare them we are enjoying their rants & depressions on every post here o.

Let them continuing until it generates to the level of north east or even worse, they say, they wanted to become president, and if they don't give them chance at all cost, they must destroy themselves within for them to actualize their mission.

The way North fought christian president by breeding jihadists, few years after, there are muslim presidents consecutively, but rains of bombs not cease to rain over their territory.

Kobojunkie:
is More like a tool of mental enslavement for those of you who are of the religion of Christianity particularly the womenfolk who are brainwashed with lies of how God desires for you lot to have a man rule over you and you have babies all over the place when in fact the God of Israel cursed marriage and childbearing from the beginning.

Stop allowing your gods of men to rule over your minds with their many lies!

Where is the correlation between what OP said and jargon you wrote? Which area did he mention pastors?

Oga, stop fighting your creator! It's a fight you can never ever win. Instead, you will only destroy irrepairable. Provided, it doesn't even extend to ur generation unborn.


Meanwhile, if mentions & likes intoxicating you, I think you should carefully choose posts to express your lunatic .

Igbe lowo wa.( Na inside bush monkey dey)


U ask urself,how u u safe as bank manager and how u safe as a cleaner.

TUTU147:
If you are sincere with your self,so you don't know what they are agitating for.Is nigeria working out for all.Peaceful separation will do all parties good.

The south east States, are they working out for you all?

Is it every local governments in the state you come from that have tasted governor?

I guess the state too would go on separate ways!

NB. Out of 52 States that existed in 300+ years in US, only 21 have ever produced Presidents, 13 of 21 produced just once while 31 never produce , while a state (Virgina) produced 8 times.

Yet America not threatened by brims and stones by states never produced, even when a State produced 13.

In 4th republic alone, Katisina has produced president twice, does that make Katisina better than south east? (Anambra in particular)

If you guys are clamouring for "resources control", it would have far BETTER.

TUTU147:
I know from onset that mnk will not be released, but the truth remain that agitations will never end with the way nigeria is going.We are too divided.The country can survive with the way we are going.Even after mnk,more agitators will come.so might be more violence than we have seen.If many Igbos join in the struggle,it will not take time before nigeria is divided.

What are they agitating for? For Igbo to become president at all cost?
Can person/region becomes president without going through the ballot during democracy?

If you want ur region to be president but u don't have enough votes to make you president, must you resort to violence?

If you do that, won't law catch up with you?

Akwamkpuruamu:
Saying the truth by half is pure lies. His house was illegally attacked and he ran for his life amd you extradited him against all known international conventions of extradition.

Nigeria remains a zoo

Go back a little bit and narrate ur story fully.


Before his house was attacked ransacked, endeavour to tell us what he was doing .


When you urself is saying 1/4 truth ,u still accusing someone say 1/2.

moskush1:
I thought SIM isn't this smart now I know he is calm and calculated. If I were him, I will aligned with Amaechi and do away with the drug addict whose voice is like that of a frog

Is Amechi better of? I think SIM only need to be in good book of Tinubu for now, for him to neutralise any presidential "might" that Wike can bring from Abuja. I'm very sure Tinubu not happy with Wike himself, he only trying to be diplomatic with both of them.

Obaofaba:
Hehehe I really pity this Fubara.

You claimed you want to fight godfatherism in rivers state but you were handpicked and rigged in.

What moral justification do you have?

Secondly, even if you must fight, why don't you wait till after supreme Court verdict knowing fully well that you were rigged in and all the secrets are with your godfather.

No new evidence would be accepted in supreme court, besides Wike is a minister, he can go to say something that would cause problem for him in the court.

Sirchiboy:
We keep blaming the government but our parents is the cause of 90% of the problems we face today.
As a man, you know you can't even feed three square a meal or pay your rents yet you still go ahead and get married.
Start giving birth to kids you can't cater for yet you keep blaming the government.
You are worse than the devil himself.

Why having sex, knowing fully well that outcome would bring children?

blowjohn:
Why did u go to school knowing fully well that ur degree won't earn u a job?

I hope that answers ur question

Infact ,married is even far better than school for this discussion. For Marriage you will still reproduce urself.

Democracy! Everything that works in other climes must fail in Naija.

In anything you want to do, don't overstep ur boundary, u cannot satisfy everyone, stop being impress people at detriment of urself.

Only Naija spend lavishly in time of penury.

When you have spirit of spend wisely, u will never put to shame.

Fatbam005:
If you no get money, you go hate your innocent wife and abuse your innocent children be warned . A poor man has no control over his home

Why can't you commit suicide instead?

I always tell feminist and redpiler's students that only "you" would suffer for satanist and foolish indoctrinations, the most foolish thing to do is to taking advice from someone who fails woefully in that directions.

Marriage has formula, if you follow the rules and backs it up with prayers, you will enjoy ur Marriage and if any storm arises you will overcome it.

MARRY SOMEONE IN WHICH TWO OF YOU, HAVE AT LEAST, 40% LOVE FOR EACHOTHER.

TWO OF YOU SHOULD WORK TO BRING INCOME TO POWER THE MARRIAGE.

HAVE RESPECT FOR EACHOTHER.

MUST ALWAYS READY TO REACH COMPROMISE.

FERVENT PRAYERS.