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Instead of hunting for girls and guys, it's the prime time to face future, future in naija is highly unpredictable and time do flyyyyyy too fast . You would just wake up and see urself @40.

At teen age, you must hold on to at least 1 of 3 underlisted.

1.You focus on your study squarely.
2.If u re not good in area of education, go and learn work.
3. Or you start a tangible trade if you have financial back up.

(Teenage girls at that age should totally eraze it from memories that ,one husband would be ur financial security in future)

MANY OF DESTINIES USUALLY DESTROYED AND TAMPERING WITH AT TEENAGE YEARS ,and on many occasions, one cannot rewind the clock.

Better. If Courts are doing this, perhaps lawyers would stop jam-packing Courts with loads of cases.

Just like Roberts clerk said,.....if I'm Atiku's lawyer,I won't advice him to go to supreme court, because it's obvious he would fail. Trust my naija hungry lawyers, they advised him to file the case just for them to collect their own share of loots.

Obolor123454:
NB, I OPENED THIS ACCOUNT FOR THIS

Hello my friends, I need you different view and please I need your in put about my wife.
We live in the states. she is in kenya for a three weeks visit with the 2 kids. She has been in kenya for about 10 days, three days ago, she called me and said she will be attending her friend's marriage ceremonial, which is taking place 600km away she did not say if the person is a male or female ( I did not ask because I was just kind of not wanting to be drawn into the discussion), she said she may not be able to come back same day, because event is starting late that she will like my brother to come with her, because she does not want to go alone. This is the first time I am hearing about this occassion, she never mentioned it before and I do not know the friend she is talking about. (or at least I am sure, because I do not really know most of friends, and she is not the friend keeping type)
I just told her that I am not ready for the discussion yet.
Please guys what are your take, I do not feel like telling her to go ( well, she may still go without my consent )
Please it may sound stupid, I just need your genuine advice

If you are a husband and you can't stop ur wife not to attend ANY kind of party( not interview, hospital, schooling,office/business, but party) you are horseband and not husband oo.

Obi and LP not different from other Naija politicians and political parties.

People only hide under him to make Igbo presidency by portraying him as Saint.


We have LP as rep, senator and governor, what are they doing differently now from other crooks in government.

greypencils:
Baba na you wan remarry. The norm will be for men to keep remarrying, women can do whatever they want. But the ego in men, the pride in men will never allow them to stay under the same roof with a cheating woman. Sebi the feminist agenda is to model woke countries na? Even in woke countries the men don't stay with women who cheat. They opt out of the marriage. Instead of remarrying you keep women friends and as much as possible try to stay in the lives of your children. When they are of age, tell them the truth about what happened. No be their mama cheat? As long they recognise their father, you are good to go. If it is about konji, there are several ways to satisfy konji without getting married please.

U are only thinking at present and not deep into future,.....the way u re now , it won't be like that wen u clock 60 going to 70. (A 60 years that remarried like 3 times, and seeing the same errors from his woman, won't he accepts his faith)

You asked urself bitter question, HOW MANY GIRLFRIEND FAITHFUL TO BOYFRIEND NOW, IS IT HOW IT WAS IN THE PAST?

HOW MANY HUSBAND MARRIED VIRGIN NOW?HOPE THEY TOLD YOU HOW THEY TREATED MAIDEN THAT LOST HER VIRGINITY BEFORE MARRIAGE IN THE PAST?


If u don't agree with me u re free to leave in self deceit. Even now, some husbands know infidelity on part of their wife yet overlooked it. Funke Akindele ex knew about her wife infidelity yet overlooked it. It was Funke that pushed him out wen she tired of him .

I see u reason to the level of ur intelligent perhaps, self-deception.

Bye.

greypencils:
No man with 'preek' will live under the same roof with a cheating wife. 10-20 years what you would see are viral cases of divorce. I doubt if women will slow down extra marital affairs but marriages will keep on crumbling. I repeat it. NO MAN WITH 'PREEK' WILL HARBOUR A CHEATING WIFE.

Having married and remarried for up to 4times and same things reocurring, I guess u would grow old leaving alone.


Oga, think deeply into the future, the way woman sees it that almost impossible to see man who won't cheat and accepted it as norm.

Still imagine what what marriage would turn to in next 10-20 years.

I'm seeing a scenario in which husbands would have knowledge that their wives are having affairs outside marriage and showing little or no hard feelings towards it, just the way it has become norm for husbands having side chicks now.


By then, 8/10 of wives would be involving in extramarital affairs, which would make it norm in the society.

Tmb78:
We always Major in Minor and Minor in Major in this Naija.

What if the police officer volunteered to help her with the earring?
Some people get time sha!😂

Even though its nothing, but it would be more honourable If she does that off camera and if she is social media crazy type, she should do it without uniform.(that's what we call professionalism. How will you feel if you see CJN in front of APC secretariat? Or Kumuyi taking pic with masquerade?)


The message she passes thr, is more than what u think.......... every action or inaction can pass different messages.


Just imagine a police officer drink dear on social media,......I biliv u know beer is legal in Nigeria and he own his body to consume what pleases him, but to the public he is not displine officer.

Cloggym:
So I shouldn’t confront her ?

I'm very sure you know the answer she would give you already, If u confront her.


If u confront her now, she would not only denying it but also put up a defense against future occurrences.

Before u know, you would be leaving in a world of female's manipulations.

Not until we see Nigeria project as _personal project, it would continue dancing backward

teepain:
How do you assume that the girl knew his evil intention? Is it all young men that have evil intentions. Several years back I was a 19 year old boy like him and I didn't have evil intentions towards people's daughters. If I asked a lady out and she said know at any point in time, I simply walked away since I believed in my own self-worth.

Wen you have grown up daughter, tell her to be jumping into one boy bed room to another, tell her to leave ur house and relocate to stay with teenage boy permanently in hotel room, after all, just like her father, she won't know if the boy has evil intention.

Since his father must read it in capital letters on forehead, before he can believe you have evil intention towards him.

teepain:
Sorry, do you mean to say that every time a girl follows a man into the room it must result in sex? A girl can follow you to a room and when you make a pass at her and she says know you must respect her wishes. It is thinking like yours that has landed many Nigerians in jail abroad.

Wen u already knows his evil intention, why can't you avoid going inside with him, wen u know the chance to escape is minimal inside?

You people should think rationally, prevention is farrrrr better than cure.

19 years teen bold enough to take girl to hotel? A girl of 17 has started following man to hotel.

The gap now and few years back is wider than imagination.


A teen that his body is supposed to still be "chasis", would drink all sorts of illegal substances just to feel like conqueror.

seborrhic:
Whenever I see replies like this,I always ask:if the average Nigerian,including highly certified ones can believe that a man can steal another's manhood by mere touch or reciting an incantation,then believing tales like this to them is like believing the sun will rise the next day.

Let me tell you what happened to me few years back, I was working and based in different town from where my then fiancee ( now my wife stayed) so, Whenever my then fiancee visited me,she used to play with one lady in our neighbour. The lady normally finds way to indirectly hit me in present of my girl then, she would say ,she didn't know what this beautiful girl, doing with me. She won't throw jabs at me directly o, but trying to dissuade my girl to leave me.

Meanwhile, Whenever my girl traveled back then, the lady in question would come to my flat and went directly to my kitchen, came back to sitting room and doing all manner of cunning stuffs in other for me to ask her out. By God grace, all her tricks not successful.

After like 4 years into my marriage, my wife now narrated how the lady used to indirectly attack me in her present, this also made me to open up and told her everything she did for me, trying to have having affair with me, (the lady latter ended up with a man of 3 wives making 4th wife).


Oga, what's different between this story and my own? Except I didn't go for her.

Bro ,the more you look the less you see. Several things are happening in ur present with ur eyes fully opened in which you don't see them ooo.

Burruchaga71:
If you believe this STORY you will also believe that DRUGGIE Tinubu is from Nigeria.

More than these are true life stories everywhere.

Go out and see ugly and dirty stuff happening on secondly basis.

Merry100:
It is obvious that you never loved him if you chose to leave him just because your roommate told you to. It seems like you're only bitter because you are not there to enjoy his success with him. Some guys don't have money presently, but they do have potential. Your roommate was wise enough to notice his potentials and take him away from you.

Let me tell you fact, very biter truth. Many ladies, (when their values still at high side thou,) do marry for ego and to please friends.
When she finally settles for guys that her friends hype for her, only her alone would now be facing her problem if the guy latter turns to be a monster.

DMW & VIRGIN a case study.

femicyrus:
If I am tinubu, I'll open the border this morning in reaction to the words of Obasanjo

U cannot be Tinubu, because u don't have what it takes to be president.

I think it's a lesson for parents who are too blinded by foreign language. To some parents,it's an abomination to speak their dialect at home.

I am very sure the man together with his parents (if they are still alive) are regretting his inability to speak his dialect now. I trust Naija, they would use that to push his to the dustbin.



Adunni Ade, a Yoruba actress that she is not only half cast but also born in America, thank God for her ability to speak yoruba language,maybe she won't be a celebrity today.

Ayomitemedia:
Big Brother Naija reality star and disc jockey, Tolanibaj has lamented that all the men she had dated in the past ended up not marrying her.

She said, “I feel like in the dating pool, we are left with remnants. The good ones are married. We hopped on the train too late. I have dated like seven guys and I thought they were the husbands I prayed for” she said

More info at https://Ayomitemedia.com.ng

First of all, check urself. I mean ur character.

Secondly, are these guys really want marriage or your body? Many of you ladies, hypergamy is ur number 1 enemy. (If the guy not exactly my dream spec, higher socioeconomic status than me I will never look his way), not even with small fame you acquired through easier mean. Madam,better raise your shoulder down and go for lesser guy before you enter menopause.

Hope you also marry again as virgin.

Trying hard to hit back at DMW,......the way two of you doing clearly show, two of you not yet matured for marriage. Besides that, two of you are not meant for each other.

nairalanda1:
No it won't. Everyone knows that whatever the race, at the end Verstappen wins.

(Moto GP is a bit more competitive)

Hamilton, Alonso among other once dominated.


Formula one is a competition that different people win, stop leaving in trance.

nairalanda1:
LOL, this is basically another misogynistic thread.

The painful thing is that many of these nairalanders who come here to say that woman is this and woman is that....many of them are doing so because some woman hurt them in the past, and as a result, all women are bad.

Personally, I see nothing wrong with women doing commentary on football. What is needed is a knowledge of the game, and if you know the game, good. If you don;t know the difference between offside, and onside and (unless you are a certain Chris Kamara), know when a player is sent off, it's good.

But one thing I am going to say to everyone commenting on this thread is simple. Stop hating women. Stop putting down women. It does not make you a better person, it only makes you look bitter and hateful. At the end you are going to father daughters, marry women and relate with women. You cannot do that if you think poorly and hate all of them

Before you people come and call me simp...yes, I know some women are bad, and yes some forms of femminism are basically misandrist propaganda. God knows I don't like it. But there is nothing wrong with a woman commenting. Better accept it...it is life, and that's how it is going to be.

Besides, I am even happy some women are taking an interest in football. It used to annoy me a lot when I was younger and see women who were proud to be ignorant about the beautiful game.

Not because they were hurt. Basically, they are not measured up, when it comes to having relationship with girls/ladies.
They are hopeless guys (though many of them are teens) that no girl would consider to be her boyfriend let alone husband.

Chetas81:
HYPATENSION WON'T ALLOWED ME LOVE FOOTBALL GAME, BUT THE FORMULA 1 AND THE MOTO GP RACING SPORTS

Those one too,are they not games of competition? Won't ur darling team or favourite driver looses or wins?

FuckingMachine:
Female comentators in sports.


I'm not feeling it at all. It feels less intense watching a match with a female voice commentating especially for my own team where I have strong passion and adrenaline running.

No offence but female voices just don't match for certain sports and definitely not football. Male commentators convey my passion the right way, these female voices sound like child's play.

A woman's voice calms a man. We don't want to calm down when watching football, we want to be gingered.

Imagine a female commentator for boxing or NBA basketball or WWE where raw passion/adrenaline is needed. It will kill that sport. Females can commentate on less intense sports like golf, beach volleyball or swimming.


I really hope they stop this trend because over the years it will make football lose followership. Let's face it, the only thing a football fan brings is passion. If you remove it then the football fan will not bother to spend money watching his struggling team only when they're doing well.

Most fans don't even have a logical reason for spending on football every weekend, we just love the intensity. If I have to continue listening to a soft female voice when a long range shot is scored or a strong tackle flies in, I will feel disgusted.


This should be stopped.
Thanks.

[i]*CHANGE IS CONSTANT*[/i], any time,any day, you find urself unable to change and adapt to new changes which are not only legal but also moral. Just know you are a radical and a selfish who thinks about himself all alone, and you are not different from "Islamic jihadists"

killsmith:
Thing about wifing a refurbished LovePeddler is that, On your wedding day, several men will congratulate you publicly and pity you inwardly.

And you that they are pity privately, hope you can also tell them , what u have done for people's wives, fiancee, girlfriends and daughters privately.

dontrulee:
And you think you're making sense?
No matter how depraved the world becomes, there are ladies who will still keep themselves chaste till marriage although they're rare.

The onus doesn't lie on the men alone, infact it lies more on the female side. Ladies can't afford to eat their cakes and have it when it comes to matters of a relationship but a man has a lot of leverage

Are u think you re not going mad? Is it only lady that is supposed to keep themselves chaste?

Another avenue for woman to swindle Maga.

realmindz:
This time last year, I didn’t know I’d be married this year. A lot has happened in one year, met my wife in a strange manner, loved her and finally got married to her.

https://www.nairaland.com/7847420/how-met-fiancee


I will like to keep my anonymity so unfortunately no pictures here. But I can give you a good description, she’s the last child and only daughter, so you know how she must have been pampered. Her mum was so emotional and she had tears roll down her cheek on the D-day, it was lovely though to see such wonderful connection.

My wife is tall, ebony and in her early twenties. White sparkling teeth, bright eyes, always smiling. She’s the perfect gift to me. The wedding was simple yet beautiful. I am so fortunate to have her in my life.

And the best gift came after. Let me whisper it (I met her at home, tear rubber)

I pray you won't pull down ur marriage , for ur craziness in attention seeking wahala.


Nothing special you meet ur wife virgin, it's normal thing, thou it seems to be abnormal/strange owing to civilisation.


To start is very easy, to finish strong is achievement.


I expected you to come to social media to celebrate 10, 20....50 years of marriage and not 5 days.

Blackhacker:
What one thing a kid born after 2000 will not understand no matter how long you explain it?

1.Life without phone.

2.One or no person would pass WAEC in a whole local government.

3.Turning antenna up and down to watch black and white Television.

4. Chelsea, Man U, Arsenal, Liverpool fans that litter every ghetto.

5.That you cannot withdraw money outside the exact bank you opened your bank account......

Military govt, (Supreme Military Council.

Military Adminstration of Ondo, Bornu, Anambra etc. (MILAD instead of Gov) ).





They are too many.

Hunger dey town

I think these people judges are honest and absolutely moral in that side of the country. So, critics and attackers are also having issues in their own backyard.

Buhari4dullard:
Who does not know that the igbos are into business,while the yorubas are into Agberoism.

So where Yoruba Agbero see money?

Abi oOoo, everyone knows igbo and drug trafficking are like 5&6, if chinedu not caught in Malaysia, chibuzor would be caught in India. Why won't igbo become moneybags.

Instead to carry their illegal money to develop their region, curse won't allow them to do that, instead, region they say it's their enemy.