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A very rascal guy puts several different women at home and he thinks only him would be "smacking them.
I pity who no pity u, even one wife, husband still struggling to cage her not to let loose, not to talk of plenty women .

If they deceiving u dnt deceve urself Mr.

deyplay:
because other ministers are banned from talking to the press or their work is in the realm of the spirit and thus invisible?

Everyone must play to the galleries, indeed, I understand your type.

You would be very easy to be dribbled by surbodinates ,who are pretenders and who do eye service if u happened to be boss.


If u say it's Tunjiojo alone that's working out of 48 ministers, it's an indictment on Tinubu govt himself.


Bye Mr myopic.

Maybe you are talking about military coalition. Tinubu is not Jonathan or Buhari, even after 8 years it would require, more than colition to defeat APC under Tinubu watch, it's only death and probably if military ready, that can stop Tinubu and not any political colition or 3rd force.


Buhari gave you express way to Aso rock, you guys foolishly gave ur ticket to selfish and serial looser.

If truly she had knowledge of the drug in her bag, (not that someone put it behind her) before taking it to airport, she is most foolish being ever liveth.

Even those who ingested hard drugs, are caught, let alone direct inside handbag.

forgiveness:
Hon. Minister, is it possible to pass the border without human contact? Because those shameless immigration forcefully collect money to stamp your passport to go out and even enter your own country.

In fact, all the agencies at the border collect money from Nigerians and even Africans.

Is it also possible to rearrange the clearance of containers at the ports and borders? Because the agent use this opportunity to exploit importers which results to inflation.

They will never allow you to know the real fee of the shipping company, terminal and custom clearance because importers are not allowed to generate the invoice by themselves except through the agent.

I will advise that it be mandated that invoice must be sent to owners directly through email and owners should pay directly into the government account with the name the importer used to import into Nigeria.

That will reduce inflation because some agent with the collaboration of customs wants to make between 1.5m - 2m naira on importation of just one car alone besides others fees.

The owners of these cars wouldn't want to loose money hence add the agent 2m, other fees and his own profits on the vehicle making it extremely expensive. This is where inflation is also coming from.

Owners must be involved in direct payment of imported goods. Assigning this to agent tantamount to being exploited.

Hon minister of Interior, you can do it, sir.

Channel ur complaint to minister of finance. Port/custom is not under his ministry.

Ogbonna24:
The only working minister

Hope u also know that some ministers may be working than him and not choose to be going to media?

Dnt give excellent for a student when u haven't graded other students. The student who submits first may not score the highest mark o.

Jeon:
Seriously?.

The brain of some Nigerian ladies have been washed with Marriage and man.

And you? Have you ever contributed to any issues outside man and woman issues before? Are you not sleeping and waking up only on relationship stuffs? Are you not dreaming the day one guy will come to ur life to rescue you from jaw of economy deprivation that zoo had subjected into? Are you not feeling helpless with absent of quality" man in ur life?

DeLaRue:
Suspended for misappropriation after just 2 months of appointment?

What an embarrassment she has caused her family, and those who lobbied for her to get the role.

Thank God we now have a proactive President.

Leopard can never change her skin.

A theif must exhibit her trait even if she find herself in midst of saints

Can WIFE agree with football world that her drunk-master sleeps at home?

SPAMBOX7:
https://www.nairaland.com/7954403/been-insensitive-should-just-neighbour

I read the story above and asked myself will she learn from her experience? As the story reminded me of one chick.


So this girl I once dealt with. She was chick and while we were dating she sent money to her ex that was in another state to come meet her. The ex didn't come. But the fact she wanted the dude to come was enough. I found out through her friend and dumped her.

At first I just locked up I didn't confront her cos I wasn't tired of smashing her yet. But this chick was the type that if she call you once and you don't pick she's calling you on video call the next second to know where you at. God save you to pick if not she will assume you with another chick and start keeping malice.
I don't even wanna talk about her sneaking into my WhatsApp at any given opportunity. But one day she went into my WhatsApp and called a random girl's number thinking she was my girl.

I got pissed and told her to bring her phone lemme check too then she refused. I insisted and all this while she rushed to her WhatsApp and cleared some chat she had of she and the ex. This got me mad but I calmly told her I know what she been up to. She tried to deny then I told her about her sending her ex money to come smash her in town. She was perplexed. She started begging..

Then I told her we can't be the same again. Even tho I wasn't tired of hitting I told her point blank I ain't taking her back. The only thing that would make me take her back was if she was gonna be paying me half of her salary monthly

She got mad that I was trying to make her buy me. I told her I don't care cos since she got enough money to send to a man to come smash her like she's some sugar mommy then it was only fair she pay me for what I been doing for free. If not no more fvking and I gave her a deadline if she don't start paying she should forget about me. I told her plain blank that it was my punishment to her for trying to cheat and still having the guts to check through my phone and even go dial some numbers.
She cried throughout the night and left the following morning. But before she did she cursed and spoiled my door knob


Chick came back after 2 weeks calling with different numbers cos I already blocked her, crying that she is ready to start paying me half of her salary..I told her the deadline was over and that was it.


This was like a year ago. Last night I saw her at my former hood when I went to check on a friend. We didnt speak cos the moment I saw her coming towards my direction I went inside the house. Her friends kept telling me how she keeps talking about me and how she fbcked up and wished I gave her another chance bla bla.
Now I am asking you fellas if I had given that girl another chance would she have made good use of it?

Because I haven't seen a woman that was given a second chance and she made good use of. It is always the opposite, cos instead of changing they rather device ways to be more sneaky.
This has always been what I observed from modern women. Our forefathers used to exert measures that will make their women not to repeat any mistakes they have done. And they used to Obey and fall in line. But women of nowadays tends to operate differently.

I think it is this evolution that made the statement "once a cheat, always a cheat" valid af.

So I am asking one more time. Are there any women that has learnt from her mistakes and adjusted after given a second chance

At the end the day ,you guys would come back to ur vomits, one thing will lead to another, pregnancy would come up, u will start leaving like husband and wife, and a few years as couples, the character would out again like smoke, you will send her away and you would come to Nairaland to wail as usual.... Marriage Na scam ,.... Marriage not meant for everybody.



IF YOU ARE A WISE MAN, YOU WOULD KNOW THAT SHE IS A TYPE THAT CAN'T RESIST ANY GUY THAT FUCKKK HER BEFORE. AS SHE IS DOING TO YOU, SHE IS DOING SAME TO ALL HER EX THAT COMES NEAR HER.

Anybody singing he/she doesn't need husband or wife, he/she knows he is leaving in self-denial. Not even men, who are not really born to do house chores.

Thou Im very sure that many of those guys are teen boys who think the way they agile and social today,is how it would be going forward for the rest of their life.

Buffon that wanted to lead house which cannot lead his nuclear family successfully.

Indeed, PDP itself is a joker party.They like to win but interested in fieldin wrong candidates.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
This is a security threat to OP life & property and the idiots here are telling him to mind his business! ?🙀😡

Foolish boy, I'm waiting for you to jointly contribute with OP to assist criminal girl pls.


If u don't contact op to assist u re nothing but rag.

Foolish people that write without smell gutter they wrote.

Foodqueen:
Mind your business.

I can't imagine that u actually went to say that to her mother. Isn't she aware about what's going on before

No matter how much you try, that girl no go ever look your side, there are some girls that are destined to date bad boys, she's one of them.

U thought cos u are a cool guy, she should av been chilling with you ba

If u like part with your money cos u av the hope that she might start dating you. OYO.

Mind your business before them naked you for that house.

Infact, this type of girl and his mother, a hard/bad guy would be sleeping with them, even with knowledge of both the mother and daughter of immortality that is going on. That's is their mentality and little or nothing can good person does, to re-orientate them.

MrDoGood:
Read very well, op is not talking about dating the girl.

I think minding his business will be better because it clearly shows that we read meaning to someone trying to help.

He might just be concerned and don't want her to mix with bad boys. Same thing any good big brother will do.
But almost everyone is telling him the girl won't agree to date him.

Wahala

If you read OP silent character, he is been jealous seeing the girl with so-called bad guys and he is being pained that the street guys are having upper hand on the girl.

He wants to *come-in now, to rescue the teen girl, "just to be seen as Messiah" and used that opportunity to have upper hand in the battle of contest between him and bad boys.


He is a type of guy who normally pretend to be morally upright, in which they would be dying in silent for what their body desired.
Instead for him to have convinced the girl and occupied her heart from very beginning in which the street boys wouldn't have had opportunity to near the girl, not to talk of becoming rival, he let it slipped away from his grip , having seeing his potential prey in the midst of his rival/competitor, he now resulted to name calling.

Tallesty1:
Bro, how is your conscience treating you? Is it okay with the whole "mind your business" stuff? Will it not judge you harshly if you don't help? In most situations, I do things that satisfy my conscience, and there are times that I regret following it, but I know deep inside that it would have been worse if I hadn't listened to it.

Forget what people will say or think; do you, do what is right.

The lady is still in the age of unseriousness and will likely regret her actions in the future. This very incident will teach her a good lesson if she has sense, so please help if you can. If a certain police officer minded his business in 2015, I would probably be in prison right now wasting away for something I didn't do.

Looking away always sounds nice until you are the person being ignored.

Forget the mother; she actually doesn't have one.

Do you; it might be your worst mistake or the best decision this year, but you'll never know if you don't try.

If you read this story from beginning to the end and still adversing him to continue put mouth into the matter,....I fear who no fear u.

If OP butchers by cultists tomorrow, you will only offer RIP to the dead, .

..... meanwhile,if u think op should still be putting mouth on the issues, in which the mother of useless girl had already warned him to stay clear, I will advise you to ask OP to send u his phone number, so that he can give you useless girl's mother number to contact them in other for u to involve directly into issue that isn't concerned you.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

If u pay a dime, u re not but idiot from pit of hell

Issues40:
What's wrong with her contesting for a senatorial seat? Didn't Oluremi, wife of our dear president contest for a senatorial seat and win?

Oh so because it is Betty ANYAWU, she's not allowed to contest?

Your post reeks of sentiment at its best. Admit it!

And for your information, there would be no Rotimi AKEREDOLU if not for Betty ANYAWU.She stood by him at his worst. She was first, his friend and then his wife and closet ally. Aketi the lion Aketi the lion! Who made Aketi a lion? Betty ANYAWU made AKEREDOLU a lion. Wake up!!

Im sure u have comprehension issue. Give it to someone to tell you the meaning of SITTING GOVERNOR.

DIDN'T REMI STEP DOWN WHEN SHE KNEW HER HUSBAND WANTED TO BECOME PRESIDENT?


INDEED, INDIGBO ARE DANGEROUS AS TRIBE, AND I THINK I WILL JOIN SCHOOL OF THOUGHT, WHO ARE AGAINST MAKING IGBO THE PRESIDENT.

Workch:
I don't know, I am not planning to settle down. I'm above 30 years.

I don't think I can condone the shenanigans of females forever.

It would be preferable if ur testles are removed surgically. With that, no temptation or manipulations from shenanigans republic that would prop up again.

Please take note of plural form of testles.

PlayMaker14:
The way these people are trying to shift all the blame to the woman is really surprising....

Would all these blame games come into play if her name was Betty Adeosun?

Allow the family mourn peacefully.... Except you are angry the First lady did not open the looting vault for you and your cronies.


Shameless people.... Na woman body una sabi show power, but when Fulani herdsmen land, una go run enter Benin Republic.

If you closer to the woman, you would know that media didn't carry, 1/10 of her atrocities.


Check image below, as a wife of sitting gov in which her husband just started his second term in office.


Meanwhile, if you are a xtian, I will advise you to go and read story of a Queen(Vashti) that Esther replaced as Queen. What Vashti did that made king, her husband to chase her out from palace.

Women head easily swollen big when their husbands are in power, if you, as a husband don't let her know her level, she would cause problem for you. Infact, even in ordnary extended family, husband must cut his wife wings for him to be able to leave in peace with his siblings.


One thing that stained akeredolu legacy is too much power he gave to his wife and son, not even wife & son that too intoxicated by power.


I STILL NOT FATHOM WHY, WIFE OF SITTING GOV WOULD GO AS FAR AS EAST TO CONTEST A SENATORIAL SEAT, LET SAY SHE WON,SHE WOULD HAVE LEFT ABANDONED HER HUSBAND AS GOV IN ONDO AND GO TO ABUJA TO STAY AS SENATOR.

Nackzy:
Daddy's child, this is really a bad sign, but the guy isn't smart enough to decipher the meaning, the dad will practically dictates everything that happens in that marriage, my guess though

What makes it a bad sign? Colorado and monkey tail have completely turn ur head and make u reason like lunatic.


If lady leaves you for sane guy now, u would come online to wail as usual, which rational girl will like to settle down with a guy who reasons like a lunatic?

Ikaeniyan0:
The video made me Lol

I can't blame the police officers for their actions. Their salary and allowance is poor.

If they give them ₦1m per week, the greedy police would still take bribe and take money from ground.

Redpiler's gang pls let hear ur opinions about the actions and behaviours of his father, a fellow man like you.


...... because if it's female doing this, ur derogatory comments would have be better imagine.


I pity redpilers/feminists who think a certain rules/ indoctrinations can be applied and effectively tackle all humans behaviours.

Anyway it definitely show ur myopic thinking.

abc115:
One day, his wife or girlfriend will ask him to choose between her and his mother😃🤣🤣
Heartless girls. Imagine struggling with ur mom and a girl who comes from nowhere trying to control what your own mother does with your money. They even go as far as stopping your mom from living with you in the same house.

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Mr Op, pls stick to ur mummy o, infact, make sure you carry ur mummy to higher institution u are attending. When u get job take her to city and let her continue spoon feeding what she started with you and when it's time to have ur own children.


You don't need to go and bring girl that u already know it ur enemy and enemy of ur dear mother, ur mother can also perform the duty of wife, FIRE HER, FRONT AND BACK, SHE WOULD GIVE AS MANY CHILDREN AS YOU WANT FOR YOU, with that, be rest assured you will have peace and no enemity would spike btw ur mother and someone daughter.


Bunch of myopic and foolish urchins!

LUCASC:
I have read most of the comments here, people who try to defend man and woman friendship end up shooting themselves in the leg😁. Contradicting themselves.
There's no way a man and a woman will be casual friends.
As for me I don't have any casual female friend, many have tried to get me to that zone, I quickly reject that.
It's either we are intimate, or a workplace friendship or neighbours. I don't do casual female friends.

U see many of proponents of female besties don't know the different between CLOSE FRIEND AND (NEIGHBOURS, CO-WORKERS, SAME-CHURCH, SCH-MATES even ACQUITTANCE.)

Kaybaba5:
I support you
Some men minds are dirty towards women
No self control Mtchew

You call ur girlfriend by 9pm ,she says she is with her male friend , gisting inside room!

Your wife is taking food out, you ask her,she says ,she is taking it to Mr David her male friend,a single father that leaves in Estate which is about a mile from ur place.

I guess the two scenarios above, your mind would still be pure as snow.

You guys should endeavour to think like rational human beings for once, endeavour to check ur comments before you post them to public platform pls.
ANYWAY MANY OF YOU DON'T BILIV IN BASTARD SHA, ANY CHILD WIFE BRING HOME IS UR CHILD.

maasoap:
They're friends and he's a man who she thinks would probably understand the mind of another man and she trusts him not to be mislead her. Must she take advice from her family members even when she feels that she doesn't want family members involved?

If she can't see a single man from husband family and no single man from her own family to be discussing her marital issueS with but unrelated male friend, such woman is nothing but rag. She is olosho in making who wouldn't think twice to bed her so called bestie.


Ask urself honest question, if ur wife is fun of discussing ur marital issueS with her male friend, how would you feel?

Invest4growth:
What is bad in it. Sex is mutually agreed but everything is not sex. There are women that you can use to your advantage to grow your business to the benefit of both of you. Take my case, I have female friend that I have not seen since year 2020 but we chat regularly. She is happily married. She brings business from her and we share profit. We are not dating no assistance sex no sext chats, no nude pictures nothing romantic. But we chat nearly everyday. Even if it is to drop a sticker. When my wife is nagging and moody, what I do is I just book a call to her and we discuss other issues to allow my woman to cool off. We don't discuss family issues. I don't discuss my wife. She does not discuss her husband. It was her status that revealed she was the second wife of her husband and I never asked her but I know. But if there is money to be made, I am.her first contact.

First, the scenario you narrated is business partner and not friendship, but let say it's even friendship

If it's ur wife that is in your shoe, will you allow her? infact, will you give her opportunity to invite the man for discussion? Even when the man comes out clear that nothing more than business, will you still biliv and allow ur wife to continue friendship?

If ur wife chatting with a male friend deep into 2pm, how will you feel?

That's how marriage do crack and crash, if ur own wife strat chatting and having male friends, how will you chastise her when you urself is guilty of it?

If you leave her to be having friend just because you have, if her own now degenerate to ammouros, who will u blame?

Oga, I will advise you to reduce the friendship to bare minimum in which ur wife will even notice, don't let devil crack ur marriage because of things u think are not significant.
WE SHOULD LEARN HOW TO PLAY THE GAME OF MARRIAGE ACCORDING TO DICTATE OF ITS RULES.

Tranquility2345:
Never ever trust a girl that has male besties or that prefers to hang with guys. In most cases, she’s fukking them.

Those friendships occur because one person is attracted to the other that may not find them desirable at the moment. The undesired one accepts to be friend zoned with the hope of something happening in the future. And in many cases, something go happen. Una go fight and that bestie go take advantage to shine Congo. Infact, Bestie go dey pray say make una dey fight well well

Infact, girls that do write, "love you", "react in love emoji", "my boo", "my dear" for random guys on Facebook, in which they would say it's just for fun of it and thr is nothing btw them.

Beware of them, these girls/women fucck several of such guys , if u can get into their private chat, it will shock u.

luvgurl:
I support the movement ojaree! Wish such will happen here

Have u fed ur mouth satisfactorily can you maintain ordinary girlfriend let alone one wife? Does anybody stop people not to polygamy?

Did you even know your own gender correctly

Bigkoko:
They ain't see nothing yet. Had the rare privilege of sighting 2024 report prepared by KPMG, hahahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Naira is going! I do not rejoice but the foolishness of those people who brought Buhari in 2015, 2019 and even Buhari self became tired of his own cluelessness and tried preventing this usurper.

After four years they will realize by force that elections have consequences. When next people like Asiwaju come near them, they will pour him hot Ewedu soup!

How did you think Obi will do it better?

How did Obi do it wen court gave him opportunity to lead a section of the country?