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winner37:
Let me just say you haven't hurt any ladies or you haven't met the aggressive one who will hate you till her last breathe..

Have experience this from different ladies on occasions, they are some who hate me with passion exchanging pleasantries is crime for her and there are some when when they moved on still on another relationship we do have fun together...

What I could advise you is that beware some ladies are not really who they are you're
seeing..

Before it gets to that level, they have seen you like killer or ritual, in which their own life is in danger, and that's survival instinct for all humans. Aside that, trust me , woman would fall yakata after several years, if your way latter cross eachother, most especially if u are now a big man.

saphiere:
Seun another nonsense to rubbish women.

You ask yourself if the post is truth or not? If it's true nothing stops you to admit and use the opportunity to warn ur fellow women, to me, that's how to behave rationally and not to always surport own gender, even if what they say is obvious. I am a man, yet I criticized my fellow guys if the post is obvious about men.


Meanwhile, what OP said is nothing but absolute truth, it's happening not because how God created woman ( tender heart/weaker vessel)

This is why girls should limit guys they sleep with, because it may hurt them in future marriage. More reasons marriage are frigile THISDAY.

Daxray07:
The only reason you moved on and acted that way was due to the fact that he was already married as you lastly mentioned. Aside hurting your feelings u knew there was no future for Una two again nai make u fit hold body. An ex that left and came back upgraded would get a second hit no matter how u hide the thing.

For her to even come out to meet him first time, is a green light that she would eventually fall, if the guy screwed further, they would back to their vomits.

highvaluewoman:
Yes.

For me, out of sight is out of mind. Especially if we do not keep in touch for more than 3 months, your thoughts eventually evaporate from my mind. I quickly forget people and don't even miss people (LOL). So, no one is even that special to me. Not even my loved ones. Maybe, my kids though.

Op said, if he mistakenly be around with them, not at distance.

Can u say, if by error you meet your ex where ur current man, can never, ever see you. If ur ex call you, won't you attend to him? Is it all ur exes you can deny to see you?

Hit and run is allowed too in women world.

YesDaddyTill203:
Like I have previously stated. Even the Nigerians complaining about bad govt don't really care about good governance, what they really care about is that the person they support is in charge.
Just listen to all these NL wailing wailers. How can you support 5 members against 27? Just imagine if 5 members tried to impeach this Governor, these same people will be crying how illegal that it. They will be crying that this is the end of democracy.
But just because they don't like Wikez they are are willing to support a Governor setting the assembly on fire, they are ok with 5 members controlling the assembly and against a clear majority of 27. They are even ok with a Governor demolishing the house of assembly just to prevent the 27 members from doing what they are legally allowed to do under the law.
Now you can see that even the wailing wailers don't care about what is right or what is wrong, as long as the side they support is winning according to them.
If and when Wike and his own gang start to fo their own illegalities, then social media will be filled with cries of democracy is dead blah blah blah. HYPOCRITES.

In as much I want Wike to be disgraced.

Your analysis is nothing but absolute truth, we must always be at side of what constitution says, if gov cannot do what are within his power to lure majority to himself so be it, but court also do damage, why would court give backing to 4 members? In which they don't even form a quorum.

Chevrolet076:
So how is it the men's fault? When the girls know that if they dress nicely (which they usually do after they're 35+), they'd get decent men, why then do they dress slutty?

Are you saying that girls are senseless? Or that they themselves want to be treated that way?

Have you considered how girls with millions of naira also dress? Check the last girl that won BBN... What else does she need after winning 100m+?

History has it that her dressing became more exposed after she had more money

But wen girl raped by men , you blame girls of indecent dressing.

When yahoo boy used girls you fault ladies for greediness.


Now you cannot blame man, are you not seeing that prejudice has eroded ur sense of judging fairly?

Yes men take 70% of the blame.

When u craving for 2,3, 4some why won't they go wayward.

Wen you introduce ur gf into drinking & hard drugs, in other for two of you to fucccck like animals.

When you are having more than 10 girlfriends,even to the knowledge of all, yet u want ur own not to have other options.

When you take hard drugs to sleep excessive with girls, yet u still want such girls not to have porn experiences.

Wen u take innocent and naive girl to night clubs daily. Still, u want her to be an SU girl.

When guys and men paying excorbitant entrance fees to see stripers in night club

When guys fighting on girls that walking naked ignoring girls that dress decently.

When you knew that a girl is dating one guy, but still go ahead to spoil and lavish her with excessive money. Having graduated to "money for hand" ,'back for ground',(she conditions her love for highest bidder) u still lamenting.


whenever I read guys weeping about girl's immorality. I do say. "God forgives them, for,they don't know what they really want".

Ballmer:
The will when the Pandora criminal Peter Obi become president in Ipobland

I'm very sure if Tinubu do twosome with ur mother and and ur wife ( provided Tinubu economy policy even allow you to even have girlfriend).

Even if Tinubu have 3some with ur mother and ur wife you would still be shouting hosanna, I can see ur case is even worse that embittered and hate republic, if u re Yoruba, I will advise ur father to do DNA. ( He give birthday to Buffon think he is animal in human form)

Ballmer:
The will when the Pandora criminal Peter Obi become president in Ipobland

Keep on delusional about tribe, wen to feed it's problem for you.

I know you are slave and thr nothing anyone can do about ur slave mentality, wen you destroy with ur Tinubu or tribe govt,.... Nigeria will raise.

I think it's time Nigeria military do what other African Militaries are doing, it obvious Nigeria politicians are not capable to be good managers.

Wen people really want to work for Naija you see that enthusiasm in them,unfortunately, those politicians are not up to 1% in Nigeria.

The rest, their 2 reasons of joining politics are to accumulate excessive wealth and to be in the corridor power to be feeling sense of power intoxication.

A rational human being would know, press could trick him on the D-day, because Victor is not only ur country man but player in ur team as one of national team coaches.

Why is he only him they as about Salah & Hakim only?

Even at that, he should have completed it that ,....I choose Salah above Hakim but Victor is king today.


Oga is doing damage repair after he has let loose the real venom inside him against is football son.


I remember things fall apart poor OKONKWO character.

Oneloveyo:
Omo, it seems many of you didn't read the post or you guys just lack understanding. It's like you guys have what I call, rigidity of thinking. What you have already concluded in your mind, no matter the contrary to that, you guys would still maintain your stance. The man clearly stated the context and you guys are still claiming He did what He was alleged to do. Let's even assume it's true, if Everyone votes for their country man, will Osimhen win?

If u re not stupid, and if you can read between the line, you would know his post is afterthought" not even wen Osimeh saluted him after crowned as African king.

EtinosaDLaw:
The traffic situation in Lagos will not let armed robbers get away with it. That's what's stopping them. Not all this balderdash. Celebrating mediocrity.

So, it's last four year that traffic started in Lagos?

How you guys sleep with full bitterness full your heart, still not clear to me, but I will still warm u for acummulated BP in future.

Wen you did if heart attack in ur 40s, people won't know you have accumulated loads of bitterness in ur heart & liver for very long time.

victorclean:
Is Agbadorians among them?. What can the world be proud of from owamberians?.

Everything about them is deceit and cheat.

At least they mentioned you now, and that gave you enough masturbation for this hour, waiting for next post for you to masturbate on agbado republic, before Tinubu finishes his first term ,all your semen that you need to replace yourself would have wasted on mentions and likes of faceless forum.


See what your fellow embittered republic said before Osinmeh crowned Africa king

Tempulated:
Simp first of all unhide yourself from the m sign on your monicker.

As for me it is none of my business whether anyone is married or not.

The way you are taking Colorado and "monkey tail" that had not only rendered you useless but also putting you in hopeless situation, you think everyone is like that. Anyway, I will still advise you because the remaining sun in your life can still make cloth dries.

...."face ur life squarely and leave woman matter now, by focusing on women matters when your precious life is devaluing on hourly basis would surely destroy you irreparably".......

Did you know why you are struggling to have relationship with women now? It's basically because you don't have life. When you progress in life, you would see woman swimming around you and the frustrating story you are telling now, would change to boastful story.

Boy, keep this bitter truth in ur archive for reference tomorrow

liamjakes247:
Age for ladies really doesn't matter. Many teenage and girls in their 20's does more than those in their 30's. For men, just pray, get money and live right, the right woman will come stress-free.

Infact, I laughed like drunkard wen he said 30+ blablabla, if he knows what secondary sch girls are doing with their private parts, he would choose 30+ like golden girls.

What all these yahoo guys doing with teenagers girls in secondary and higher institutions(immorality, drugs etc) are beyond imagination.

EdoBoy90:
Dear guys,

Always ask questions about any lady's past. If she can't tell you, get it by yourself. Avoid any lady is who shouting privacy yet she wants to have access to yours; passwords of your whatsAPP, Facebook and other social platforms. Ladies can keep secrets. They always claim "Saints" whereas they aren't. Many ladies above 30 years who are not married, 95% are the caused of their problems. Don't pity any lady in relationship especially if you would like to settle down with her.

A situation where a lady told you that a man is her Uncle whereas the man wasn't her uncle. she has been with the man for more than 10 years as a 'side chic' whereas she couldn't get a guy or relationship for 2 years. The man is her sugar daddy. He only called her whenever he wants her. Ladies are heartless and wicked. Above 30 years, many ladies are just looking for an innocent guy to put their useless problems on his head.

In my opinion, avoid ladies who are above 30 years with multiple Exs. Just avoid them for your peace of mind please and future. The good ones are less than 3%

I will advise you to run flee from such girl. Any girl that can be saying truth and even if she wants to tell lies, she would be struggling to tell lies, they have master in manipulation skill already, such lady would sleep with all brothers in neighbourhood and still look innocent like S.U girl.


Meanwhile, you too, have you shown her enough commitment for her to jettison all garbages and unwanted handbags. Because many of you would come to Nairaland to weep on women matters when you too, aren't showing more than enough commitments for ladies not to think of having second choice, because of "fear of unknown" that you guys portrait before them.

MAN CANNOT TURN HIS HOUSE TO MINI-HOTEL FOR WOMEN AND STILL BE EXPECTING ABSOLUTE LOYALTY FROM HER MAIN GIRLFRIEND OO.

Bliss52:
Nothing is impossible and they have nothing to loose trying alternative medicine

.

And they told you they haven't tried all possible means?

Oga stop too being attached to what u read on social media ok.

madscientist88:
well what you say is true in most cases,its not even s matter of being rich as in having lots of cash,(most people in Nigeria only call people with excess cash rich,they dont recognize people with assets of high end value as rich),just show these ladies you are beyond the level of value and they cant figure out were to place you because you are too much,yes it hurts when they cant figure you out or manipulate you, manipulation is just a genetic signature in females,its what i know about them,not all manipulations are evil,they want you to just be a pet or their teddy bear at their beckon,they are subconsciously logged in lol.i get that a lot most of them even unfriend me despite having great chat sessions, probably because they cant keep up and i dont have time to talk about nonsense online.

If you are old enough to marry in which you have money to feed family comfortably and you don't show sign of planning to marry.

Won't ur family members and ur male friends be worried about you?

The way you guys are reason one way and myopically are worrisome for Nigeria's future. Totally delusional about female gender.

Women that they would still ask you to be sleeping with that you would be tired of.

Bliss52:
His wife blocked the chance of him getting herbal cure, calling it poison

Herbal Cure for blood cancer? hope you know, it's too dangerous to be deceiving urself.

The stage he is now, only and only God can bring him back.


Infact he is gone already. Only to be confirmed clinical death that remains.

Infact, the way his son is parading himself like defacto governor is enough for people to reble against him, most especially some political appointees that must pass through son before they can get things done in the state.


They are serving both father and son at same time.

Tempulated:
Has any well to do Single man noticed this in most Nigerian women and ladies?

I mean why does it pain them so much when a bachelor is doing very fine financially but refused to relate with them or get married?

Is it by force for them to always want to relate with successful men. They believe now that you are okay. Automatically they are meant to be in your life.

Why is it always paining Nigeria guys, whenever ladies approach 30 and not married? Abi you haven't noticed that Naija guys having high "BP" on that?

16 ,17 ,18 years patrolising night club to select any kind of girls they want , where are they getting the money to drink expensive wine?

I THINK ITS A CASE OF TWO DEVILS FIGHTING FOR SURVIVAL.

Streetdoctor:
Yorubas tink say every tribe reasons like them with their backward thinking. U can't be in Abuja and still wants to control rivers

Backward thinking yet they determine who will occupy the highest office,..... backward thinking they pushed Naija delta off the seat, backward thinking, they block Igbo and sit on the seat instead.


I think I would prefare a backward thinking that would make me a slavemaster over you guys.

vazsily:
Them say who dey ask questions no dey miss road. Although with the Internet crazy people are bound so I am circumspect.

I have been married over 15 years and in that time I have always complained about the way my wife over cooks and then start looking for who to share the food with in the name of giving alms. You would think having managed kitchen and home for that long, food measurement should come naturally.

I have not taking much interest until with the recent inflation and high cost of goods in the market. And why I struggle with the Grace of God to earn a living, madam on the other hand thinks going to the market regularly and living above my salary na achievement without any adjustment. The matter don tire me, I want to simply pick my bags and run but for the kids.

Responsibility is a choice but I think she's abusing it. Giving to the poor comes naturally for me but you must be wise about it. How do i resolve this?

You too, stop buying overfood" at home, when she sees that the food in the house can barely feed herself and kids, nobody would tell her to adjust.
To force her to adjust, when foods finish, don't buy that day, complaining lamenting for her, that you don't have money and that u have borrowed part of ur salary even before month end. This may force her to use her own money, when she does that, she will understand how things hard in Naija now.

Yet male Maga would still enter her trap!

GVTAsiwaju:
Well... A neighbor told me he gets good erection when he's broke. I don't know how though. Bro, sort out the financial mess and be happy again, then the dry bone would rise again

The person is broke and not in financial mess.

Hope u know the real definition of being broke and also when someone is in state of fire hopelessness.

Go and consult clinical psychologist.

UDOKABESTLUV:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2023/12/anambra-man-accused-of-killing-his-mother-and-sister-and-burying-them-in-shallow-grave-in-enugu-video.html

Whenever a teenager starts smoking /taking cigarettes and other drugs newly, he would be feeling sense of big/hard guy in himself, meanwhile, hardboy/ big boy on top nothing. Such teenager won't know he just started a journey of self destruction.