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Honeydenz:
There are different reasons guys are reluctant to marry whom they impregnate, it doesn't boil down to the girl's character alone, most times it's as a result of the guy's financial inability to provide for a family that has turned our girls into baby mamas, you don't have money, yet they are hunting for pussy to bang, then turn around to blamed d girl for not being In her husband's house. Nor be who chop belleful dey marry? Shameless men!!

Are u now blaming the frustrated he-goats that hunting for pusssies to bang or foolish hoes, that open pusssies for complete jobless guys.

Tall guys, handsome guy ,six pack. Without money and good behaviour to make ur marriage enjoyable, you would taste hell on earth.


Not tangible job, yet open legs for him, anyway I hardly pity woman sha.

charsoso:
You know nothing about history. You need to read different versions of the history presented by different writers, professors, historians and other archeological findings. It will help to give you a logical view

Go to Wikipedia and read kingdom that Bini succeeded from, don't forget Wikipedia's Bini history is furnished by Bini people themselves ooo

Everyone knows Bini were from Ile -ife, the way they are turning the hands of clock backward by claiming all south were once under Bini empire is worrisome.







EVEN IN WIKIPEDIA, BINI PEOPLE ACKNOWLEDGED THAT BINI PRECEDED FROM IFE.

The reasons are
1. it means you are not happy when both were together.
2.He can also think, you are the reason they were broke up.
3. Such friend would be afraid to seek marital advice from you in future.


For the girl, she is nothing but dumpsite, one friend left you his close friend is the next guy climbing you, is that how men scarce reached"

Always shying away to talk about fighting corruption, I think fighting corruption is the biggest along side insecurity, infact, insecurity that refused to reduce can be traced to corruption

I biliv more reasons why marriages are not last again, all the attributes that make man above woman in term of behaviour are gradually erroding ...... Before, they say married man is a responsible man, owing to 'in-built"shock absorber in man. Now , man talks like parrots and behave like weaklings.

See how DMW and his crew talk like persons with mouth diarrhoea recently, they talking in such away that making reconciliation almost impossible, even when DMW doesn't have a single tangible reason to hold on to. Yet frustrated he-cows applauding them.

You white wash ur inlaws, you also allowing ur friends to talk nonsense to ur inlaws, who does that? If not weak man.


Indeed men are loosing value and this comon among ages 35 downward.

addictiv:
What I don't understand is, someone has committed a sin by having sex before marriage. And as a consequence they get pregnant, the person realising themselves wants to make things right by getting married. Isn't the church meant to counsel them and help them make right of the situation by encouraging and helping them to get married ?
What is the rationale behind cancelling the wedding? Does the church want to condemn them to their plight and they go on living their Iives in iniquity?

Isn't the church's primary objective to help people who re lost in the worldly way, find a way in christ?

Soooooooo, church should be shifting her ground in other to accommodate all errors that members made deliberately?

If such happens ,what did you think would happen to body of Christ? .....banana republic where everything goes!

If church depreciated to that level as we are withnessing today, what would say to body of Christ? ....you will still condernm it.



Only death can satisfy you people.

Judgesledge:
The church actually does not have the power to join people in marriage, what we are witnessing now is infusion of western traditional marriage rites into Christianity in the name of church wedding which was made popular by the colonialism

So why did they go to church in first instance?
If they think church lacks that capacity, why not stick to their parents to give them marriage certificate?

No wonder Naija become jungle where everyone does what he likes.

Lee99:
Stop talking rubbish even Mary the mother of Jesus took in out of wedlock, I don't see any reason why the church should refuse to marry them, after all the idea of marriage is to hide the shame of the pregnancy so the church has double standards, why can't they forgive and forget like the Bible preaches? Don't come at me

How are you coping in real life? how people around you coping with personality that attack every action positive or negative?

Little wonder marriage not lasting again, how would woman that frigile already, cope with mad cow? That bitter 24/7 on everything?


If church sanctions thing like this and u still condernming the church. Oga u destroy already . May God save u.

Lee99:
Meanwhile people are still fornicating in that church, hypocrites everywhere, the pastor will be pained...
Must you even marry in the church? What happened to court wedding?

Hypocrite like you would still condernm church, for the church girls that are wayward.

I'm sure you condernmed church for DMW's wife saga. Now u still condernming church for standing up for her rule.


What would church do again to satisfy you?

If they loose in sanctioning u weep, they strict in sanctioning you cry too.

Anyone(man or woman) married liability upon big liability (subsidy & taxes) Tinubu imposed already, I pity his/her sorry butt ooo.



Husband and wife must collaboration to work and assist each other in all areas to make marriage work.

bestman09:
You guys can say whatever you like concerning this guy but his loyalty to his oga is not in doubt.


It is better to lose a wife that doesn't want to stay than to lose your source of guaranteed income. If you have a wife without a source of good income, you will be experiencing hell in your home

Abi ooooo, why can't him cut his manhood to proof absolute loyalty.

Doing that would make him permanently off from all women and eternally glue to his slavemaster.

After all, it was practice in time immemorial.
EUNUCH.

Why?

Dtruthspeaker:
You know his gender and you saw him murder.

Adam is not a murderer, so who is the murderer that fathered Cain?

Abi oooo, the way u don't know eve's gender but for you to foolishly assume her to be ""she and that she solely committed the simple instruction (obedience) that almighty asked both to obey.

Solofresh2:
I came across this thread https://www.nairaland.com/7922825/husband-before-ask-wife-what and I see the OP trying to justify the saying "what does a woman brings to the table" anthem by men nowadays.

Saying a woman facing a difficult time giving birth to her child is a sacrifice is a no no.It is natural for a woman to give birth to a child,either difficulty or not.

It is also natural for a man to releases sperm,so as to impregnate a woman.

If a man find it difficult to impregnate a woman, will you call that a sacrifice too?

Infact,sacrifice is when a man provides everything for his woman because it is not compulsory.

Anybody can make money to provide for their own needs, not always waiting for your man to do everything for you.

It is your responsibility as a woman to carry your pregnancy if you want a child.

Work hard to use the money to uplift ur woman and household is not a sacrifice.

SouthSouth1914:
How do you expect his candidature to work for the people when he has been assured by ghost godfathers. When you work under someone, you have to be loyal and keep your flex. What happened to Edevbie in Delta State may befall him.

Oga, Whatelse you want him to do ooooo?



Perhaps, you are in Gaza strip since their issue started.

Easier to be critical and attacking others.


The same way people here would attack anything but themselves, wen u blame others always, but failed to call out yourself,where you have inadequacy. Know that, u re not qualified for leadership role and in marriage/relationship, you are the problem and not ur partner.

Thats how they lie, oba of Bini won't see his first son from birth till he passed on.

Dtruthspeaker:
Curtesy of MiddleDimension, looking closely at the wording in Genesis 4, it appears that Cain is not the first child.

But he is certainly the first male born which is why his name is Cain. "i have gotten a man from God"

Meaning she had gotten a child before but not a man.

And remember God Said in Genesis 3:14/15 to Satan and the woman "i will put enmity between thy (Satan) seed and her.(woman) seed.

And by Genesis 38:9, we know that seed also means what we now call sperm.

Which clearly means that Eve had sex with satan, the serpent and she gave birth to who? GIRLS!

Which is why we see that God is not close to women and does not easily speak to them upto the point of hatred.

And which is why women are very very evil and their hearts very very full of evil thoughts.

Eve had girls before Cain was born.

Cain you mentioned, what was his gender ? And you should tell us his behaviour wen he was alive?

dkidd:
The story no complete. Something must have pushed him to get drunk and lash out at his bride... She looks like those sex dolls btw and who said she's 44

Nairaland's urchin supporting is fellow mad crippled in Thailand.

If ur brain functioning enough to reason, you would have asked, why carrying gun around on the day of his happiness?

DMW brother from another country.

Several guys are not matured to be called "responsible man" and more reason why marriages are going toxic everyday.
It takes fully maturity for u to bring in grown up & matured woman with complete different upbringing and co-habitate together.


I think men should revert back to olden days and learn how to be responsible husbands.

ASIDE INFIDELITY, MEN SHOULD DEVELOP STRONG SHOCK ABSORBER TO WITHSTAND WOMAN'S BEHAVIOUR, hence the name, "responsible man"

.....but you shall be overwhelmed by moneybags.

Buharidgeneral:
Dem dey do surgery for virgin? Are you kidding me

U E Replying illiterate that is displaying madness in public forum, I also surprised 30 likes on his foolish post already. Inded mad people more that rational humans in naija

dinachi:
Yes it shouldn't be so but it's what it is. The Church of today is full of hypochrites

Millions of lesbians and retired and practicing prostitutes full church these days. Only a fool still believe that girl you met in Church is a good girl.

A girl you meet in a club in her element is better that a girl you meet in church in her pretentious state.

Most Church girls are coded lesbians and prostitutes. They pretend a lot.

Let it starts from you, if u change for better , I change for better, church and society would be changed for better.........stop blaming church but we ourselves and stop blame marriage institution but the couples.


The guys too, are they different from girls? Those club girls where are they meeting those guys? No be club? The guys that attend club aren't them going to church too?


If a pastor stop marriage because they don't conform with church ethics, people like you would still condernm the pastor.

derecho:
Is the Israel guy a good boy or church guy?
You think you can just come to Church and pick a godly lady because you be wetin?
No godly church girl marries anyhow.

Like attracts like.If you are pretender, you'll get a pretender.

Indeed no godly girl would marry Isreal.

Since money is only criterion that makes man be good husband in Naija girls mind sha.

immortalcrown:
You guys should learn to be factual. Learn to make claims you can factually prove. The church will be the worst place to marry if what happened to Israel has never happened to any man that married from outside the church.

I am not defending the church. But your judgement here is very illogical. There are bad people in the church, there are also bad people outside the church. Whoever cannot choose a good wife from the church cannot choose a good wife from outside the church. Whoever is able to pick a good wife from outside the church can as well pick a good wife from the church.

.......as if Isreal himself, his good guy.


If not because of fame and money, a virgin girl would go and marry public horse. I doubt if he himself would be able to count several club girls he had done, 2, 3, 4some with, even sex orgy.



Werey did nonsense with people daughters and want to escape to marry virgin girl.


U think God is stupid like you

More reasons marriage packing up on daily basis, the way people sexx reckless is not good for marriage going forward.

Very difficult to adjust, when u re reckless with girls or guys before marriage.

I'm 200% sure that Bello and Ododo have found it difficult to infiltrate afformentioned names, in other for APC to have a field day in the court, hence campaign of callumy.

dNortherner:
Forget about the gender equality pal, ain't no something like that in the Bible and the glorious Quran.

He should forget about gender equality, but u guys still wants virgin as a wife, u want to bang as many as possible and same time want the same set of girls to remain virgin.
what a "confusionist!

STILESGANG:
So been a fine man means you are not going to be a good husband?

Read back and underline where I said that.



Oga, read well and interpret exact what the writer writes.

IAmHim1:
Beautiful!

Most of men that complain about women are pussy niggas. Also men that hate women but hide behind the red pill to 'form smart' with women

Imagine promising a girl marriage before she allows you fvck her...then disembarking after sexxing her...
It's fVcked up...

They're subtle variations in this thread n They're littered in this thread and you can actually spot. Them

The reason I hated further maths back then in school was because I didn't understand further maths

I didn't understand it but others were understanding it...so I felt left out AND I HATED FURTHER MATHS

the reason you hate girls is because you don't understand them. Read ubunjas miseducation...read AND JOT...you'll have questions...write them down...the next miseducation or the next would give insight and if no answer still...hop on this thread and Post... we're a family here. You'll get your answers

Don't hate girls and start venting your frustrations on crippled female beggars in the streets begging for alms under the sun

That'd just be premium fvck up on your part

Infact, man hurts fellow men far more than how girl hurts man,....... will you because of that, hate man too? You hate woman,you also hate man, maybe you go among dog or sheep to socialise.


NOT UNTIL YOU REALISED THAT NOBODY IS EXACT REPLICA OF YOU AND YOU ARE BOUND TO BE HURTED BY FELLOW HUMANS, YOU WON'T HAVE PEACE.

Meanwhile, woman own is even deeper, since both of you would be intimated than any of ur male friends or family members.


Learn how to leave and let leave. Life is too short to be embittered within cos of differences as a result of gender, religion or tribe. These are the things that are not only beyond you,but also impossible for you to change.