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eazzzy1:
The circumstances that make people go/stay broke are usually not within their control. It’s tough to deal with the loss of wealth coupled with the betrayal of a partner arising from the loss of wealth. A more realistic advise is to expect the betrayal so it doesn’t take you by surprise.

Go back and read the content before you start defending urself, pastor says nothing but truth and u dnt need to amend or change the topic.

Pastor doesn't say one can't go broke or start from humble background.

He said you should try harder not to remain broke, in other word, no matter the condition you later find urself, going forward in a relationship. You must work harder to stand again and start bringing something to the table.

Money is a "compulsory oil" that powers the engine of relationship, and wen you re the one powers the engine,it gives u authority over the rest in the relationship.

You dnt expect to be bedding a woman, not giving her money for food and other bills and still expecting her to be obeying ur empty authority.

Testiebobo:
Do think people can change because they love someone? Like for the sake of someone they love? Is it possible?

Yes very possible, you may stop coming late to office because u love ur boss.

People often sacrifice their "wants/desire" for people they love and cherish.

Femi adeshina I know, can never ever give true account of Buhari regime

The man at the center himself knew, he was colossal failure, the worst president that Nigerians mistakenly voted for

Friend22:
Well, I see where you're coming from.
None my friend will pass such irresponsible comment to compliment my wife in my front and not get a scolding even she's given birth to twenty.

E no concern you.

You're my friend not my wife's hence they are certain words that are totally uncalled for.

Paraventure, you now catch ur wife cheating on you,.....I will be most surprised if you don't kill ur wife and latter commit suicide.


Oga, life is full of mysteries and I will advise you to prepare for worse.

NB. I'm expecting you to also arrest a friend who use eye and mind think of all sort of dirty things he would do with ur wife if he gets opportunity ok

Friend22:
You call such statement innocent?
What's the world turning into?
Somebody is openly sexualizing your wife you will be smiling sheepishly as a comment ?

Oga, if your wife who born like 3, dresses well and is passing across, and ur friend which you know, he is not pervert made a comment that

UR WIFE HAS A NICE SHAPE, DESPITE SHE IS A MOTHER.

THAT'S NOT SEXUALISING OK, LET LEARN HOW NOT TO BE TOO RIGID, CLAIMING RELIGION OR PRINCIPLE.

Friend22:
It's either you are too weak minded or have no principles ,or you are keeping shameless friends.
Maybe I am talking as a Muslim since how women cover up.
But none of my friends whom I call friends will spew such nonsense.
I go change am for am quickly.
And warn him never to come close to my house again.

No man in his right mind will let his wife be sexualized by a 'friend' no matter what.

It's utter shamelessness!

They are things a friend no matter what should not say.

So, it's all Moslem women that cover body? The last time I checked, those who doesn't cover triple those who cover.


Learn how to talk off from religion/tribe.

Every religion and tribe have good and bad adherents.

adesegun121:
How do you reply a friend who told you your wife has a nice shape or your husband is so hot?

It depends on type of friend. Though I can accept nice shape but HOT, I won't tolerate such dirty talk.

To reply nice shape I will thank him, that, it's lord doing, but for hot, I would give it to him back by frown at him and warn him that I dnt tolerate such dirty talk, even if the word comes from woman.

Humbrown23:
my little sister is 10 and she's in the fourth grade. throughout primary school, she's had multiple teachers and last year Mrs Beza started teaching her class. my sister didn't like her at first because she gave them lots of homework and was less permissive than her previous teachers. one time, i went with my dad to pick up my sisters from school (i have three and they're all in the same school).

Mrs Beza was still there and began talking to my dad while me and my sisters waited there. I noticed she was leaning weirdly close and to my dad and trying to touch him. One of my other sisters (who's 14) noticed too and she tried getting our dad to leave the conversation but with no luck.

Also, this wasn't the only time she acted like this. Every time she sees him, she gets inappropriately close to him and she always seems to have something so important to tell him that she has to get him to go somewhere else. Now don't get me wrong, I trust my dad very much and know he would never cheat on my mom. They've been married for 19 years and have a very good and loving relationship.

This issue is with Mrs Beza, definitely not my dad. I also know that this woman has a husband herself, so it made me lose respect for her as well. I don't know what to do. I hate her and honestly can't wait for my sister to finish primary school, so she can finally get rid of that woman.

Ur mother u made reference in ur post in April last year still leaving with ur dad?

Humbrown23:
My girlfriend cries a lot She cries all the time Happy, sad, tired, it doesn't matter

I made a joke about cheating and she started crying instead of her to defend herself

It's ridiculous! I haven't cried in 15 years, not even when my mom died

I don't get how a grown woman in her mid twenties can cry so easily. It's not normal! She's great otherwise, but this crying thing is driving me insane it making me feel she's abnormal

Ok

mignone:
Thank you o.

If i remember well, his case was one of those that complicated Kola Olawuyi's exit isue from FRCN then.

I wonder if people read their Bibles up-side-dowm, cos how can a right thinking fellow, not to talk of a Christian even consider that man a true man of God?

He claimed to specialise in healing, why then has everyone with aliment not gone there through referrals from colleagues, neighbours, friends, etc. who'd got healed?

E.g.: an aunt's colleague's husband didn't get ay healing there, just like many others.

People like you would say all negative about him because u had bias mind against him from day 1. Since u don't follow him, how would you know about him, you only want to hear bad thing against him.

If you have been watching him, you would know that he was do everything you said he wasn't doing,

For not be able to heal ur relative, it not possible to heal everyone,he is not God.

Even Jesus Christ doesn't heal everyone during his earthly ministry.

Oga, if u re to be alive during Jesus time, you would say more than this for him.

Freshtruth:
He get one babe wey service me well I find now go on new year day I no see am, yesterday night I say make I stroll go there again her room lock. Na one babe come hustle me I be like wet this gal wey dey dey this room na so she tell me say the gal die on Christmas day. Omo I shock ,
One of the Ashawo gal scream / Ashawo die Toto rest/

Na so I enter my Car drive go House


Una done fine gal for Ashawo quarters before una find out out say she done die?

U have car, yet still patronizing ashewo joint.

Don't you see u are downgrading urself?

That's what they say, person is growing but refuses to develop.

Beremx:
Your husband is not the type. I hear you o!
Listen to your mother and allow her go. Period!!

And u think, if she goes now, husband can't get her ?

Did she want to leave the country or leave world entirely?

Nnpcl should completely hand over for private investor completely and Nigeria's stake should reduce to 30% or below.

Same shouldn't only applicable to all other federal govt business entities but also state govt too

Nigerians can never ever run govt business efficiently.

U never know anything, keep on establishing them, even state universities need to be investigated. We are heading to a situation in which "school cert" would be lecturing university students.

Ondo ,Kogi, Edo have 3 universities each, what are they doing with such homongus number of universities? Every gov wants to bring university to his home town.

Is it more universities will need or jobs for graduates from that universities?

All these characters assassination made this man popular and growing during his earthly ministry, they still not stop even in death. Of course, the world is evil itself and evil people would quickly want to hear damage thing about others.

Let CNN, ALJAZERA AND OTHERS JOIN, SCOAN SHALL BE GROWING

ruggedtimi:
Damage control..if he is truely innocent no need for damage control. All the evidence una still dey argue. More reason members of other churches suffering similar fate wont come out because nobody will believe them.

Abi oooo, evil people like you, will always like to hear damage things about others, whenever they post negative about others, that's when you would eager to hear, cos that's what ur ear wishes to hear about people.

IF TODAY I GO PUBLIC AND SAY YOU RAPE A GIRL, WITHOUT ANY SINGLE EVIDENT TO BACK IT UP , AND YOU EXPECT EVERYONE TO BELIEVE IT, "in as much prophet TB never a Saint, a submission he himself alluded to, wen he was alive",....only a satanist like you would beliv rubbish that BBC posted.

You ask urself, when will BBC carry out investigation about charity work that SCOAN and other churches are doing?

Which daughter that father would reject in which she would go public to say thrash about his dad like this?

You ask urself, for her to say this thrash, does that make TB Joshua family accept her back?

Does the act made her good before people or even tarnishing her future more?

With ur stupid logic, the guys that claimed Sanwo olu and Otedola fathered them, automatically they belong to those families.

saphiere:
Nigerian men are afraid of independent women.
They are intimidated by our successes.
They need women that are solely dependant on them so that they can use those women as they whish.

How many Nigerian men afraid of independent woman? How many afraid women's success?

.....be going out with good guy, u say no, why won't end in the hands of rascals?

I will advise you to look beyond hopeless urchins in outside world.

Several of ur peers are not only progress in their careers but also flourishing in their marriages.

THIS IS NEW YEAR OO, IS NOT TOO LATE TO MAKE AMENDMENT BY OPEN UR EYES WIDE, GOOD MAN IS FAR BEYOND SIX PACK OR LONG MAN.

cpu2006:
the best Minister so far in Tinubu cabinet. he is doing well. i pray he is not part of this scandal. but, if he is among them, then then then & then

Someone with scandal, yet u still calling him best minister.

What will u call "scanda-less ministers?

Anybody read that documentry and believe it, hook line and sinker, just know something is wrong with you and ur brain needs to be checked.

U just interviewed a random people with no single evident to back it up.

Someone claiming he was one of disciples yet, he didn't show any proof to back it up. All the current and former disciples, I think we know them and their tie with TB Joshua.

Nice123:
Considering the actions of this lady, a 37-year-old youth within her first 8 months in office, it's a stark realization of the state of our nation
At times, I reflect on whether there's any Nigerian, myself included, untouched by corruption, someone who wouldn't embezzle public funds if presented with the chance.

Who shall save Nigeria? The earlier we realised what we are doing to ourselves, the better for us. Clock is ticking, one day monkey go go market e no go return.

They say, give youth chance, it's youth that can do it,now, little chance they give youth, see messy, less than 6 months

I doubt married and remarried won't be ur portion, because hurtful statement like this (as u claimed) won't stop comming from women.

Odogwuzack:
Did you read where he said he had resigned his directorship in 2019 (with proper documentations) and do not pursue jobs for the company neither is he a signatory to any document?

I'm very sure you saw that part but una agenda must agend.

Hope u know that the current director is his wife?

Enny2013:
Things I read on Nairaland!

Y won't u sleep at ur babe's house when u ar both responsible fellows? What's d big deal?

Check ur comment, you put the word responsible, how many girls out there are responsible? For majority, it's one man that paid for house rent and as a guy who values his life, he needs to be extra vigilant.

Man jealous than Woman o, some men can kill fellow man if he catches him sleeping in house he rents for his woman o

ddippset:
Lol

She only reported the illegal movement of 44 billion.
That's her only offence😪😪😪

So paying 500 million into a private account is not an offence?

Stop all these pls, it's normal for her to report such illegality , doing that shouldn't be yardstick for her to do illegality herself.

Govt business must be conducted strictly according to established code and conduct.


Nigeria has enough rule and laws to make things right, but bending the rules by individual is what turn Nigeria to jungle.

Go and update urself about misappropriation of govt fund.


Govt money that is meant for official car, you used it to build govt office. Hope u know it's an offence.

The most BRAINWASHED Christian globally are people attending Christ choosen.

Using entire members to advertise his church business.


How can a rational human being would be traveling from Lagos to Abuja, afre dressing well and coperately, let say SUIT attire, he now wear apron as overall.

......and this is APRON that carries particular church name and logo.

Wherever you go, they see the name of the church, if by chance they asked u about it, u also give sweet talk about the church product.

Which other marketing strategies good and free than that?

Iamicekid:
To her the names calling means nothing by what you said yourself, she calls. Virtually everyone by there pet names, Guy move on don’t be a simp, plenty fish dey ocean, looking for a new river and cast ur net

Such women/girls beware and vr extravigilant about their manipulative skills.

This one is talking as those cases not generated uproar than this before they were fired.

Infact, Tinubu prompted to intervene far more than those people, as his minister of information said, they still looking at it, which is normal in every settings, if after this week ,they made the findings and she is guilty of embezzlement and not fired ....that's when you can accuse Tinubu.

If they made finding, if she did it erroneously, probably because she still naive in handling of govt transactions and the money involved still intact in the accounts.

Tinubu may reprimand her for suspension or warning.

BEFORE PEOPLE SAID EVIL SPIRIT BUT NOW STAGE MANAGE.

You repeatedly raped for years because ur hands and legs were tied for those years?

You had abortion first time,you also allowed him to rape u for the second time until five abortions.

Which women, TB Joshua would like to bed that she won't open it for him on free?


I GUESS TB JOSHUA ALSO STAGE MANAGED AND BRAINWASHED SEVERAL PRESIDENTS OF NATIONS, AFRICA AND BEYOND THAT CAME TO MEET HIM THEN.

Many of healings and deliverances, he would ask then to go for test in reputable hospitals first and after healings, he would also ask then to go for test for confirmations. I think those hospitals that scatter around the world including UK hospitals are also parts of his stage managing.

The miracles he performed in full glaring of everyone in open stadium in CUBA, PARAGUAY, DOMICAN REPUBLIC etc with President or top govt officials were in attendance were also stage manage


One thing that everyone must know is that, no single church can do all healings of afflicted, if u go thr and no solution, it doesn't mean it's not existed.

YOU JUST GATHER RANDOM PEOPLE TO SAY THRASH WITHOUT A SINGLE EMPERICAL EVIDENCE TO BACK IT UP, YET YOU WANT US TO BILIV U.

codedgalaxy:
Some times they dont toast you directly. Like every other things they like cutting corners than beign direct.
For instance one beautiful girl came to my buisness premises yesterday day, at the beginning she was feeling all posh but, after some few light convo which i did well in bringing her down to her place with subtle humor.
she kinda striked a likening to me cause as she was leaving, she went away for a bit then returned as if she forgot something and said to me playfully with her hands fully stretched out " put you phone number here i can call you up later, so i can disturb you small" lol, to which i politely diclined, with the excuse that she can always reach me at my office any time she likes.
She didnt like it but i didnt give a damn cause, in my life the one thing i cherish and protect the most is my peace and my energy, i dont allow anybody to just jump into my life anyhow.
damn her.
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Codedgalaxy

How I wish just 30% of Naija guys can have ur spirit and character towards female gender. They too cheap before girls ,and more reason average Naija girls turn relationship to billing.

I trust my fellow Naija guys, who are also he-goats in making.

Just like a woman, perhaps, a married woman because of wedding ring she wore, that we boarded same vehicle, she tried everything to start Convo with me, in which I politely rebuffed with one word answers or just shook my head. I would be surprised, had I flowed with and latter requested for her number and reject my request.

vybzkartel:
She is married but we are friends
No strings
She says she would like to pay me a visit
She is a christian and says she can't cheat on her husband
Is it healthy/??

Or is anything wrong with it?

First, is anything wrong if ur future wife pay a bachelor visit in his room?

Even though it story is fake but it's happening, saying all those things is try to pull defence and push every blame on you wen things go messy.

EmptyGarden:
Too many rules and regulations might end up chasing everyone else.

Too many bashing and insults can end up banning Nairaland forum.

Seun:
Hello Everyone,

There have been numerous complaints about anti-women, anti-feminist and misogynistic content on Nairaland, especially in this section.

This is not unrelated to the rising popularity of people like Sola, who are trying to fight back against the perceived excesses of woke western feminism. But it has brewed too much toxicity.

It has driven too many women out of the Romance section and out of Nairaland. They feel that they are always being attacked by male Nairalanders who seem to hate and despise them.

How can we make women feel welcome in the Romance section and on Nairaland? What rules should we put in place to bring women back and make them very happy?

Cheers.

First of all, the posts in romance and family sections that your mods dishing out, 70% of them are skid towards bashing of women. I would be surprised if all mods in romance section are female and posting out such maligning threads.

1. Make sure you re-orientate and educate your mods about posts they should be posting to front pages.

2. Your mods must be vigilant at all times,to quickly ban and remove any bashing/toxic mentions, most especially on front pages.

3.After a particular user might have committed same offence for 3-5 times, endeavour to ban him/her for longer period like a months..

4. Provide a block botton in which individuals can use to block any user he/she doesnt want his or her mention. (Infact this need urgent attention)


Let me remind you that, if we happen to be in advanced world, this platform, NAIRALAND, would have banned long ago, because it full of toxic and hate speeches. TAKE FOR INSTANT, YOU ASKED FOR ADVICE, THE FIRST THREE PAGES, ONLY A HANDFUL OF USERS GIVE YOU AN INSIGHT, OTHRES RESULTED TO BASHING AND HATE SPEECH AGAIN.