₦airaland Forum

rajiedreez:
Will he have instructed Oba of Benin or Emir of Kano to stand up if they were there

Occupants of those offices had dealt with more than this by constituted authority in the past, do urself favour and find out, if they were thr, they must obey and no single thing will happen.


All kings in Nigeria are employees of govt, they must obey directives from govt and not vice versa.

You are 100 % correct sir.


Every culture and religion's' doctines must bow down to constitution.

We are not in banana republic, not until we start doing that, we will not live like civilized but like in jungle

Hope these lads won't start misbehaving with PS and directors that old enough to be their fathers and mothers in the ministry now?


It's not every wail from press and social media that president should be taken into consideration ooo.

Sprints3:
They raise shiit children children who later become naive, face bigger challenges in life they can't cope they struggle to keep a relationship beacuse they were not brought up with open affection... But u see parents who aren't strict but disciplined nuture the best children but u see those our parents who believe by telling a child to sit down at home controlling the lifr of the child as if u created the child mold the useless set of children... My father is strict till now we still have verbal argument cuz he believes by being strict is a being a responsible parents...

Meanwhile , children their parents not strict ended up do anyhow, some even impregnated several girls before theye ready for marriage, some ended up in club house and being killed or even used for ritual.

Oga, why would a parent allows his kid daughter to carry different guys home, just because he wants to train her how to have affection?

Why would parents allow his son to have friends that are taking drugs, because he can know how to relate with others?

Why would father allows teenage kids to dress anyhow?

Why would mother allows his son/daughter to go out and come back home at will at that age wen they are still highly vunerable to be misled by untrained peers? Even adults in the community?



I biliv u re one of those who condermed a newly inducted nurse last month, nurse that her mother came all the way from PH to celebrate her, the nurse that left her mom at home and went to club house, in which she ended in the hands of yahoo boys that used her for ritual.

If her mother is strict, that nurse might escape brutal death that day.

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maureensylvia:
No to an extent

I was brought up under strict parenting, if I still want to mess around I have the opportunities to... but I chose to do what's best for me, strict parenting or not

Strict parenting can actually lead to worse outcomes including depression, anxiety and low self-esteem.

Parents needs to find a balance between setting rules and boundaries and giving their children freedom to make their own decisions.

Communication and open dialogue are also key, so that children feel heard and understood.

U re not messing around now, because u were not allowed to do it during ur prime time ( time of youthful exuberant).

You should thank ur God that u came out from such parents,

You have a teenage child, you allow him/her to do whatever he likes under ur roof, when such little kids haven't even known good from bad yet, and u called that one good upbringing?

Go and do statistics of children that came out from strict parenting and others, before u argue further

Try to also compare ur way of life now with ur peers that came out from parents that aren't strict then


Several (90%) things that parents forbidden teenagers to do are for their own good wen they grow older, that is why older people do appreciate fathers latter in year.

jom28gy:
Which sites can I get blue films?

Latter, hypocrite like you would come out and start lamenting and bitter about naked women picture and video, crying for everyone that care to listening to you ,how morality has been grounded among women, you won't remember to talk about ur own asking for people up and down how to get naked women video again ooo.

By then, u will be searching for virgin u want to marry, wen u urself is animal wen it comes to sexual immorality

Hananfine:
You just want to talk so that you can get useless like.

The governor has power to dethroned king but no Governor in the northern Nigeria can command Emir to stand up and greet him.

So is a two different things

Read how Abacha humiliated the then Sultan of Sokoto, hope you know Sultan is most powerful king in the north and most powerful muslim in Nigeria.

You re free to goggle it urself to read about,rise and downfall of sultan Dasuki.

Ajehkpako4naija:
I was told by someone in Ekiti not to marry a Yoruba woman, because their promiscousity is topnotch. They don't forbid adultery. Secondly thier brothers are skull miners

Like this

It's late already oooo.

You guys should have done that long before now , except God, his eight years would complete.

They ask you to go for Osinbanjo then u said no.
when he wasn't yet occupied most powerful sit, he has enomous power to face people in power, and brought them to their kneels.
how much less,wen he controls everything.

Emekaphilip360:
This is a blown naked or semi porn movie. Girls running naked for a competition. Men own are still better compared to women. Beautiful girls for that matter
Men make sure you marry a virgin. E get why. Non virgin don’t deserve bride price.

Why can't you let go of having sex with woman?

Afterall,adoption is allowed nah.


If men stop consuming naked video of women, the industry would die a natural death.

If you don't careful, people will push u to do unthinkable, now , only you will face the problem, now, immediately after ur removal from , all those sycophants that praise singing u to cross your boundaries, you would look back and see none.

lovediehatelive:
A padlock that any key can open loses its value and utility. But a key that can open any padlock is called a master key.


Heavy mileage for the padlock is a disadvantage. Serious mileage for the key is an advantage. Take a driver. The more cars a driver drives, the more that driver's value increases as a skilled expert. An experienced driver is an asset. But the more drivers a car has had, the less its value as an asset. A highly used car is a liability. High mileage is good for the driver but bad for the vehicle.


That is why you should be wise. Both genders are not equal. One is like glass. If it is broken, you will know. The other is like water. It breaks rocks but can't be broken. I agree it is not fair. But it is a fact of life.

Do what will build your long-term treasure, not what will give you short-term pleasure. A parable!

According to Reno On Facebook

You are fool like the person you quoted.

You are hungry looking for food, everywhere to buy, yet u re advocate of people should stop selling food.

How will people like at....a man going mad..


Women never close their padlocks, you men are raping here and there,

Men sleeping with their daughter?

Many of u sleeping with your cousins.

What would hai if they close shop.

fyzaila:
Clapp for yourself, she just added you to her body counts. Some ladies and self respect are two parallel lines. Imagine just one invite, she don open legs waaa.
Seriously smh

If she doesn't allow her to sex for months now, u will also lament about being playing hard, wen will u guys stop lamentations on issues that totally not concerned you?

Are you the one to tell her wen to have sex with him?

Is inviting her several times before sex make woman expensive?

What did you want to say about guy that invited her for a date for the very first time spent on her?

Sandralight:
Yes let's blame the victim instead of the evil man.
As usual women are the ones at fault

Keep on blaming the predators, and leave the victims entirely, wen it's preys that are going to the graves.

ivandrag0n:
You have time to waste sha! How can you be responding to a CHILD OF HATE from the SadEast Region of perdition? You should know by now that envy, jealousy and anger are deep within their souls.

Don’t bother with them. Ignore them. Dem Go wail die las las!!!

Before and during election, they put all their eggs in one basket, even after election they still attacking most powerful man that can appoint and remove, yet they want that same man to start loading them in his govt.

Saao:
I'm not impress with his CV at all for that position especially when we have better people than him, anyway the appointing authority knows better.

Mention better people.

Tozocalamity:
When igbo do their own nw una go say igbo are bad but u guys dont see anything wrong with apointing only ur tribesmen into juicy gorverment positions exclusively to run the country and divide the spoil among themselves. others are now spectators.. Ok na. Shithole country

I think, north central and south south should complain oooo

Yugoslavia247:
The things that led to Biafra war was this.

Now they are taking us back to 1950 and 60s

Appointment based on tribesmen.

Which kain country be this.

Now the country will be more divided.

Power has become north for north
West for west

The middle belt, south south the ones wey no get voice. Dem follow us come count bridge.

A leader and drug lord are parallel lines.

Let Biafra start again, who knows if their population will reduce small.


The Biafra that is removed,I don't think you read extent he wrecked naija.


IN AS MUCH I DON'T LIKE LOPSIDEDNESS APPOINTMENTS (that's not how to govern in multiethnic nation) ITS NOT IN THE MOUTH OF BIAFRA WE HEAR IT.

The way teenagers want to become overnight billionaires is frightening.

bnovative:
The father is very literate and enlightened.
There are three types of marriage as recognized by the marriage acts.
1. Customary (traditional) marriage
2. Registry (statutory) marriage
3. Sharia marriage.
Most wedding/marriages celebrated in most churches are not recognise by law, except such place of worship are license to act as registry.
And most Pentecostal churches don't have the license in this regard.
This is the reason some Pentecostal churches will insist, for one to celebrate one's marriage in church, one must go to have a court/registry marriage.
It's the only marriage that is monogamous.
Once anyone fulfilled his traditional marriage, he is married.

The man is enlightened? Even though he has conducted valid marriage for her daughter, yet he went ahead to do the second marriage in the church, meanwhile,having reached thr, he still wants to dictate for church what to do.

That ur man, if he goes to hospital or school, he would be the one to tell them what to do.

If he knows he is the one to do Marriage for her daughter and not church why going to church for same marriage he has done?

You people will never think rationally for once.

Go and learn different between Marriage and wedding. I give u as assignment.

Wen u know it u will know who is doing wedding and marriage for daughter

mrksquare:
Under the Marriage Act in Nigeria, there are two types of marriages that are recognized by the law of the land: The customary and statutory marriage. And the statutory marriage isn't superior to the customary marriage.

So it isn't only the government that can join two people as husband and wife.

Besides, the customary law is even more potent that the statutory wedding.

In my place of Okrika, our highest customary marriage is called 'iya'. This marriage entails tying of traditional mat and also the indissolubility of the union.

The iya marriage doesn't recognize divource. After this rite, if the woman choices to divource her husband, when she dies she would be buried in her husband's place. If she goes out to have kids for another man, those kids are assumed to be the property of her husband. The iya marriage doesn't recognize divource of any kind.

That ur statutory , take it to embassy wen u re going abroad.

That ur statutory take it to court if u have issue in wedding.

Any marriage outside, registry/church or mosque is invalid.

lexy2014:
Read his post again. He clearly answered your question

I will advise you to read and this time read to understand, purge urself from sentiment.

Dancebreaker:
Nope. This is the problem, Always talk of money. I mean our traditional palaces as custodians of our culture (marriage/bride price are part of it)
Should be enough to witness it. So long they have synchronised with modern realities of govt. Simple.

Why would palace be the one to validate marriage? Is palace not under govt.

Do u people even remember, marriage may still bring problem and wen problem arises, u re bringing it to govt?

How will govt solve it, if they are not witnessed it from very beginning.

..... meanwhile, for palace to witness ur Marriage, nobody stop you ok. You are at liberty to invite whoever you want , be it palace or even ifa priest.

Sageez:
I am sorry I disagree with you. The man is not a fool, infact, he is right. I am a Christian. The church doesn't have the right to pronounce them man and wife, what they do is marriage blessing.

The person who has the right to do so is the bride's father. He is the one to hand over his daughter to the man and pronounce them man and wife I.e after he must have completed the traditional rights. Please be careful how you use the word 'fool'

Thanks

Oga, who is right to pronounce them husband and wife?


NB. For u to be christian doesn't make u knowledgeable enough to know right from left ooo

Dancebreaker:
This is where our leaders have failed woefully. Ideally, the local Oba/Igwe/Emir/duke's palace recognised by the Local Govt and Chieftaincy affairs Ministry of bride's paternal homestead/place of marriage should play a big role. A palace official approved by the ministry ought to witness traditional marriages and issue a recognised/valid Customary Marriage Certificate. This can then be forward to govt marriage registry.

So that one can decades later obtain a copy from marriage registry, say kids or grandkids, in the future.

We don't seem to be truly proud of our African heritage or take it to the next level. Eating oha or Ewedu soup, or wearing agbada or Ishiagwu is not how to be African. Anyone can eat any food or wear any clothes but not promote that culture.

But by looking at a core part of culture and make it modern to endure into the future. Traditional marriage/bride price is part of it.

And who told you that you can do registry wedding in ur daddy compound? So far you have money to do it.

If u give registry people good money they will come and validate ur wedding in ur daddy compound. Again we must learn how to obey simple rule.
Do engagement in daddy compound and proceed to registry/church/mosque for validation not yet reduce us as african

That father is a foolish plus stark illiterate.

Why taking daughter to church since you don't ready to abide by simple rule of govt, government do Marriage (not even church).

It's govt that can declare two persons married, not even church, and at that particular time church marriage, govt has ceded such power to church.

Even if not, why did he want to ruin the day of his joy because of irrelevant issue.

Boondocxs:
Against woman again Men are just cruel

Women are too convetous. 2/3 of ritual killings that involving women would have been avoided if they choose not to fall for the baits of convetousness set by men.

Women should be extremely careful with guys they are dating and following.


Showering gifts and money are not wholly sign of being good and nice man

75% of young guys ready to go into ritual these days.

Sign of glory taken from devil.

You will see it but won't enjoy it

Stop misleading obedient, with this , you have pressed their remote bottom, they will go gaga and start attacking and bitting everyone that doesn't align with their indoctrination as usual.

orohbiro:
Halaand deserve both the balloon do or and this award. How can
You win Golden booth at EpL
Win Golden booth at Uefa champions league
Win EPL,corabo and Fa cup, win Super cup, about to win world club cup and not win Balloon do or?
How can u decide balloon do or with a 3 weeks tournament? Crazy this clear rubbery

I can see ur frustration because ur godfather has as already be relegated.

Meanwhile, check goals, assists and stats of the two players.

You talk about trophies one won but neglected the one the other won.

GOAT won trophies from 3 different teams while the other won from one team .

Two of 3 teams that GOAT won trophies with are average and low level teams, (Goat almost singlehandedly won it for the clubs), while the other won it with best assembled team in the world.


And lastly, if u re old enough in 2010 ,I will refer you to that year, coincidentally a world cup year.

Ask what happened between Sneldier and GOAT.