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Obaaderemi2:
The man should have left her before she left him. He was a Uber driver. That should be enough to take care of his financial needs on his own. The kids already took sides with their mother. He bet big and lost big. He shouldn't have chased after his loss he should have cut his loss and start over again. There's nothing like "where do I start from".

I also see the husband, who started living above his means, because of his wife breakthrough, (I biliv the narrator deliberately expunged that one, in other to make husband looks "saint and wife looks devil" that's more reason it hard for him to detach himself from allegedly toxic wife.

Meanwhile, it's more hurtful for women to see husbands spending their hard-earned money on female gender like them.

Kobojunkie:
And you think if she had come upon the same level of success in Nigeria, this man would not have ended her life the way he did on the other shore?

If she was successful in Nigeria, she might not go gaga the way she did in oversea, the unlimited freedom that she latter exposed thr won't be available for her here, besides, it would have easier for family to wade in and correct any anomaly here than oversea.

I'm very sure that 90% of people that available to advice the woman thr, would advise her to treat her husband anyhow, since that is common occurrences over there.

pansophist:
If this story is true, then why kill her?

Just move out of the house and let her be. Offing someone's light won't bring light to oneself.

But situations like this are solved from the foundation. As a breadwinner, he should be the one to go first, and not put himself in a position of weakness, where he will start afresh in a new country.

To just uproot yourself as a man from a place where you have economical dominance is suicidal. And not many woman can respect a man they earn more than. A thread in the front page today even validate this.

I pity the kids. They are the real victims here.

The man is a very foolish man, who sets up himself for marital slavery and eventually destroy himself.

In the story, I see him became leech and parasite shortly before the tragic end of once beautiful family.

If it's me, immediately I see handwriting on the wall, I would have moved out quickly and found way to stay on my own and contented with little I earned, but he choose to glue with her and see nonsense (what you don't see cannot make you sad).

AllBlack:
You are a big pile of vulcanized shit.
you want to correct your father? Look for your mate and go back to primary school. Shit is an absolutely correct word and I chose it because it best describes you.

Semi illiterate professor, see your life.

I'm very sure shit eater will also correct dictionary.

AllBlack:
Yes and I chose to use the word because that is exactly what you are.

If you are not shit, you won't be eating and digesting it on public forum.

I doubt if you are not having nightmares, because of feaces

AllBlack:
You are a big pile of vulcanized shit.
you want to correct your father? Look for your mate and go back to primary school. Shit is an absolutely correct word and I chose it because it best describes you.

Shit , it's vulgar word like pussy.

If you want to write thesis, going by what you claimed, will you write shit or pussy? Instead of feaces or vigina.

AllBlack:
Fly must support shit feaces.
no wonder.

You wrote less than 10 words ooo


I imagine if you wrote full page, readers heads would burst, before you argue blindly, check appropriate words instead of vulgar above, make sure you use phone in your hand, provided you know how to use it positively.

HarunaWest:
Me I even feel the Final itself was rigged. The French coach used players from the bench to start. France a known attacking team was busy defending. Na later on craze enter Mbappe head and the others followed suit. If not ball to ball, Argentina isn't a match for France, but what do I know?. I may be wrong, I may be right. Its just my own silly opinion. I sha expected France to do the brace I rooted for them throughout the tournament.

It was fifa that instructed, french FA or coach to bench players abi?

If indeed you are real football fan you will know football is highly unpredictable.

Liverpool vs AC Milan final 3:3
Nigeria vs Seria lone 4:4

I guess CAF also bribed NFA to draw seria lone from 4 :0 down to 4:4 in our own stadium

I doubt if u guys think before writing gilberish.

AllBlack:
When you put out a topic that seeks public engagement and interraction then you have to make it, at least, READABLE. So please don't defend trash.
there is a difference between ledgible writing and readable writing. this one is only ledgible because of computer fonts. I can bet her calligraphy is crap too

Can you imagine out of thousands reading it, it's only that can read it and understand.

What is different between her post and every other posts on front page in term of speech writings?

Oga, u only wanted to call a dog bad name in other to hang it jare.

Posts here are not official writing.

UDUJ:
Very terrible command of English language. Bombs everywhere

Which school did you finish from?

You want to attack as usual, hope you know she is not writing PhD thesis? What she wrote is comprehensive enough.

Read the message and contribute and stop attacking messenger.

Funkybabee:
Good morning to my beautiful ladies here and our fellow brothers though una can wail like you normally did before. This post is not for you but for ladies to share their opinion 👎👎

I saw a post on instablog where a ladies share her opinion on why you shouldn't marry a man who cannot afford the thing you can do for yourself.

Back to my own view, I think it's not about how much he earn but how much he can give, a man can be rich and be stingy at the same time while a man can be rich, give and still not care about cheating thereby disrespecting your feeling.

I met a guy this year, got to his apartment saw there are no things there when I asked he said he just moved to this state with a new job but still setting up small by small, I said that's good to me for the fact that he's going to one of the old disciplined church while also he has completed is Master unless he has no ambition that he will be definitely good to go.

Later I discovered something about him, he don't used to call unless you chat don't know how it look somehow to me because I don't like calls too but I feel somehow, if you ain't online, he will wait till you come online to chat whether two or more days, he's after sexual thing though he said he's a believer, our house is not far to his place I normally trekked that's why I don't care about tfare at all so one day, I loosed my hair, went to his place to greet him omo he doesn't even look my way but after his satisfaction and later on he began one filmsy excuse of waiting for his brother to come that I should prepare to leave now. it didn't bother me too much until I got home and call my brain to order that am I for real with this guy, I later left him but he keep begging me it's not what I think, but I told him to come and see outside for him to spend assurance while herefused to that

Omo ladies come and share your experience concerning this una guys are welcome with your bashing

A love without giving is a lust. It's not about be material or how much he can give but the willing in his heart and to love someone without caring about his materialistic is not an offence

My advice for u and all single ladies, we are in 21st century and not years back.....every lady should be having things doing to fetch her income, that's how you can have peace in marriage.


Going by ur post, it clearly shown that you are the one pushing urself on that promising young lad, (you were dating urself for that short period you were together) and this is result of what you saw in his apartment,.......the guy didn't see any quality in you, the one u can call quality (boobs and ass) not qualities in real sense.

The era where women think they can become rich owing to be someone wife is almost gone.

Work hard and be something useful, you will see how husband would respect you alot.

Two things make women melt and ignore red flags fast.

1. When guys showering her gifts and money.

2. When guys tall and well built.



In as much those attributes are very good, settling down with a man should go beyond that.
ACCORDING TO OUR OWN AUNTY, IF THE GUY IS BOMBARDING HER WITH GIFTS, SHE WOULD BE WORSHIPPING HIM, EVEN
IF HE IS DEVIL IN- WAITING.

Niniowo and Edochie's wives would be able to say much about how women sweat inside men's AC

Flier:
Fought my friend just now because of this issue,he met this lady 3 weeks ago and already spent like 2 million plus on her while his main chick he has been dating for 5 years is very broke and that 2 million could have changed everything for her,infact 500k
This life isn’t fear I am very upset.

If main chick cheated or abandoned him for another guy now, the satanist would come online and say all sorts of nonsense on entire female gender.

I'm still saying it that, we men are the biggest reason why marriages are collapsing

fasho01:
The status quo will be maintained. Sentiments aside, the election was won by Tinubu and none of the petitioners were able to prove otherwise, hence I expect the election results to be upheld.

He won indeed, but to be fair enough, that 25% requirement in Abuja , wasn't satisfied according to electoral law, thoug the judges will overlooked it.

[quote author=GanagiBitrus post=125569646]So the one offering the prayers is not a human being?

Anyway I don't doubt efficacy of prayers. The point is, I can not pay anyone money for Prayers. [/quot



Hope u also read the part, where I say u shouldn't pray for problem beyond circumstances.....if it comes, you will pay more than money.

GanagiBitrus:
Are people that gullible to be paying money for "special prayers".
&most times, the person offering the prayers is wretched & poor.

I pray you shouldn't enter problem that beyond u as human being.


Meanwhile, thr are some prayers / charms that really working effectively, take it or leave it.

Though, they are very very few people that capable of offering it ooo.

Werey, why can't you return transport fares back where it was before ur druggie installed as slave master.

You adjusted ur own to reflect current reality why civil servants should continuing working for agberos in the name of going to offices.

SonofGod231:
If a woman should say all she wants and you provide them after earning her love and trust. She would still be outraged and feel damaged if she heard you were cheating even if it's carefully and discreetly done. I don't think any sensible man would treat his sidechic better than he treats his lovely wife. Nobody is perfect so your partner will never be perfect. Women just want you to pamper their pride. If he respects and treat you and your feelings right that's fair enough. Don't go asking for a saint chris. Men are humane,It's as simple as that.

You want her to accept you with ur inadequacies but you don't want tolerate hers, you want her to be perfect and doing your biddings like zombie.

Is that wish of " God to his son" as u claimed.

SonofGod231:
The main trouble is that a man's desire to be loved and to love never really changes from the onset but the focus of women tends to move from one material thing to children to being solely Independent. Eventually we see what OP has just mentioned playing out. Most marriages are suffering,no Iota of LOVE but most peeps just have to live with it.
What makes a Loveless relationship sweet?!

Hope u also known that substantial percentage of men are the architect of their marriages downfall, wen they are at peak, they do anyhow claiming African man rhetoric, treating their own wife like slaves instead of queens, before you know, the woman won't be able to accommodate the nonsense anymore.


Edochie and Niniowo are few examples of my submission above,. million of such that are not celebrities abound everywhere.

The way material and world things are more pronounced than ever.

"Relationship" and "worldliness" cannot go pari passu.

maasoap:
This your own opinion gets as e be! Shocking!!

Hope u know loyalty is different from fidelity.

I also biliv u take not of 100% in my opinion

Loyalty is broder than fidelity

U think such wife would still be respect to the way it was, u re just deceiving urself and if u dnt find something doing to remedy situation, infidelity will crop it.

Opinion bitter to plain truth.

MadeMan01:
I want my woman with her own womb. You can't force me.

The same way, lady wants a guy with job,....u can't force her as well.

josielewa:
celeb nudes full telegram na...at least every day I see about 20 new nudes from telegram...I dont pity all these females
Go to tiktok, see them dancing almost nude and saying all sort of vague and profane shit...why record yourself in the first place...and I can tell you that 70% of the time, they know and they do it for money....nothing else...snapchat, private snaps etc.....

Tiwa salvage nudes still much on the internet, since it leaked, she hasn't made any effort to remove them despite how rich and famous she is.

She deliberately released her nude for whatever gains she wanted from it.

Who knows, if that's price devil required them to pay in other to be continuing trending and being famous.

Enibanks:
Weytin Una dey gain in sending Una nude to someone🙄🙄🙄

Wetin u na dey gain, by wearing tight clothes that would carry "yansh and boobs" out as if, u na dey sell them?

Women had been pushing their obvious faults on men since time immemorial, starting from time of Eve.

You alone removed ur clothes, u also removed ur bra and latter off ur pant by ur own volition.

Without being forced again, u also filmed urself or allowed to be filmed naked,

After that, u either sent it with ur own phone or allowed him to take it away after you have being filmed naked.

After it got leaked, you are now blaming guys.


Indeed woman brain is just like kid.

Westerhoffe:
I have nothing to hide from my woman (once there is one).
Even in my last relationship, she has access to my Social Media accounts. She has access to my phones. Same way I have access to hers even though I hardly go through them.

Once you're in a relationship, where you have secrets, (unless for special secrets) like no access to phones, Social Media accounts, and or rooms, then you're not ready for a relationship.

I salute ur sagacity, may God give u strength to the very end.

Future warning, men are different from women because of polygamous nature, but not withanding some still tame it

Evolutionlove:
MuuMuu

Idiot, selfishness will destroy you,.

maddman:
Very bad analogy. Losing one's job and losing one's womb are not the same thing

Analogy of marry with pure heart, if u love woman you will marry her unconditionally.

You want woman to marry you unconditionally (jobless) but u dnt want to marry her unconditionally (womb)abi?

Ur own analogy is one sided, reek of selfishness

MadeMan01:
Money can be lost and made
A womb once lost cannot be regrown.

Reason with your brain not your anus

And who told you women cannot born without her own womb tru surrogate? , ur brain refuse to reason rationally,

if u re a father and ur daughter bring totally jobless guy for marriage, will you support such union? Selfishness will surely destroy you guys.

Westerhoffe:
Follow this advise…
Nothing more, nothing less.

When I once said during a discussion with some guys, that I can't marry a lady who is less intelligent than I am, they were laughing at me. But man, I know what I'm saying.

When you have with you a woman who is more intelligent, a fast thinker, man, you don't know what you have until you lose it.

Meanwhile, you should ready not to do any dirty shit with such lady.

If not, you will regret hell, u will face in marriage with such intelligent woman.

Such ladies know their rights and ready to fight for them to the last........"I am an african man" rhetoric, won't safe you from such woman.

As it stands now, can you give ur fiance(wife) unrestricted access to ur phone, ur social media accounts and ur ATM passwords.?

If not, u re not qualified for such lady , except you urself is average intelligent guy.

1stSonOfLucifer:
I randomly told all the ladies in circle that I lost my job, whereas I didn't. Guess what? They all deserted me. N'a there I know say wàhálà dey with this generation of ladies of ours

If random ladies told you that ,they lost their wombs,.....how many of them will you take to the altar?

kevwemike:
One of the greatest mistake I made in my life is the woman I marry, pls my brother calm down do alot of test on the woman, I mean hard test, pretend as if u are broke for several months see her reactions, as am telling u now I live alone 😭😭😭 with my 2 boys 5 and 7years old taking care of them all alone no help from anyone, sometimes even to go Hussle is hard bços to live them alone at home na war and now school go soon resume, house rent is there too, but I still believe God will provide. Pls brother marry a woman that have head oooooooooooooooooooooo, no go make mistake for ur life. God bless you.

Oga , marriage comes with heavy responsibility, if u loose job unexpectedly and still expect wife to be loyal to you 100%,. It's only a mad woman will do that ok.


Dont use ur own yardstick to justify every other woman.

You dnt want to leave ur kids to hussle........indeed, be expecting manner. it would soon fall ok.