₦airaland Forum

Whenever I see a lady selling something and I access the type of her dressing. I quickly reset my brain that women with different manipulation skills to hook up down men.

....when u see a lady, selling/hawking goods that not worth 1000, with revealing outfit making ass gangantual, quickly know that she tactically looking for clients, .......if dey no come meet me, I go go meet them......

Nazgul:
One thing you have to understand about most pastors these days is that many of them act based on perception and not the by the leading of the Holy Spirit.

If you're coming to marry their spiritual daughter and they don't like you, rather then be completely honest with their so called spiritual daughter that they don't really like you, they'll just tell the ignorant girl that God said you're not her husband. And the foolish girl would end everything you guys have laboured for simply because of one pastor who hasn't contributed a penny to her life.

Sit her down and talk to her, make her understand that it's only her parents who have the right to air their opinion in whoever she wants to marry and not someone who's only connection to her is because she attends his church. If she remains adamant on standing by her Pastor's prophecy I'll suggest you just let her be.

Instead of u to advice him to ask for reasons, u re telling him, it's only his parents, does his parents know spiritual reasons that pastor saw?

Wizzyonyxphoenix:
I just want to know guys. Is there really any reason for this? Even though he was the one who got the phone for me, but shouldn't he still respect my privacy as an adult despite that? I'm just curious because when I challenged him about it this morning, he went berserk and almost broke my teeth. I'm just really concerned as to know whether or not I should have kept quiet and let him comfortably go through my private messages.

And no, I have absolutely nothing to hide. I just feel it's wrong, especially because he has a tendency to do it again, and because he has no iota of trust for me. I just need some clarification guys, to clear my conscience.

Thanks.

Is there any reason for ur dad to stop paying ur school fees, feeding & clothing u, because u r are big boy of 18?

It takes alot of monitoring for children not to fall for peer pressure.........many teenage girls had been disvirgined at very tender age that their parents could be ever imagined and no thanks to peer pressure, they indulged in it mainly because pressure and not they wanted at that age, ditto of guys drinking and smoking.

How pdp southern surport group will campaign for Fulani still not clear to me after 8 years of fulani tribalistic rule

dominique:
That's the norm where he comes from. Ideally the person that proposed the date should be the one to pay

Obroni, I like that word

Here in the land of manipulation, they will want to open shop on you on first day.

But they complain it's too early if u ask for pleasure.

Corridon:
The only federal project in the east.

Wen will u show us just one gigantic project obidient did for 8 years.

yomi961:
Nice.
Osinbajo the president we never had

Abi oo, our journey still farrrrrrrrrr.

Even to the blind, one will know this man would have performed better if he becomes president.

But for man who hates Nigeria with passion, he refused to support him when he needed him most, infact, with support that Osinbajo gave Buhari, he didn't need to think twice before throwing his weight behind him.

.....AT A TIME HE REMINDED THEM THAT,HE IS NO LONGER AT CENTER,THAT THEY SHOULD GO AND MEET COLE.....this is the man that wants to be god-father o.
When they are at low, they will contribute nothing but appear at scene to grab opportunity when it's ripe, the same scenario for Atiku. Why won't they have problem?

Amaech contested against rock of Gibraltar, .....for sure this is possible outcome.


Tinubu has been on this game, (at low and at high time) long time even before Ameachi muchroom planned to be gov, yet he bilived he could overcome such
a man.

The same thing will play out btw Obi and Tinubu at the poll, ...... infact, the gap will be wider that he won't even see Tinubu shadow in his 'farrrrr front'

ysth:
So its emilokan that wont placate his people or Atiku that wont continue the fulani hegemony that buhari started?

U re free to right ur opinion on them oooo.


Stop making Obi personal issue ok.

Obi is also a thief like Tinubu and Atiku.

Ask urself, how is he richer than Biden? No be govt money.

ysth:
Shut up your trap hole

Go and read breaking news of happenings in Ebonyi right now.

U guys never see anything ok.

mrvitalis:
Bros I dare you name one thing obi supporters do that tinubu and atiku supporters don't do worse ...I dare you to name one

U see, I'm not here to defend Tinubu or anybody ok, criticizing and abuse are normal occurrences in Nigeria's politics, but the way u guys (obedient) are going, is becoming something else, what u re doing now is attacking and not abuse again, u guys ready to result to violence at any given day.

However, attacking or not attacking is not main issues here but post election, (if Obi wins) forming of government that will be covertly pro-igbo, just the way fulani is doing that render Nigeria economy useless.

ambale:
Of course, I understand your fears

Some of us also nurses such sha, but I just believe we need to try out some new folks in power, since these conglomerates of APCPDP has failed us woefully

More so, the arrogance in their supporters and their candidate is something we need to tame as a nation, it is not good at all

Dnt know we still have neutral supporter of Obi.

So many leaders in Nigeria normally fail, mainly because if they assume office newly , his people will surrounded him and poison his mind to face his tribe heavily, and on many occasions such act do cause problem for his govt, typical of what we are seeing today.

Bomboiy:
You are more concerned about Obi regionalizing his government and not a candidate that said Yoruba lokan? Not a northern candidate whose party chairman, Campaign DG, spokesperson are all Northerners?


So far Obi has not shown anything that will make anyone believe that he will run an inclusive government,it is unfair to compare Obi to Buhari because they are miles apart.

Oga ,u re free to write ur opinion on "emilokan" ok, I'm not holding brief for anybody, ........but for Obi, I see a man who won't perform even if he becomes president, owning to,....it's time to placate my people for long time marginalisation......

mrvitalis:
Lol we know your type and what you stand for but for people who would read this let me ask the following questions

1) do you remember Buhari conducting any interviews laying out his plans ? Peter obi is doing that

2) those who packaged Buhari in 2015 who are they packaging this time around ? It's obviously not Peter obi

3) Buhari was sponsored by a collaboration of politicians with a simple agenda to take power ...who are the collaboration of politicians across partyline against today ? Is it not Peter obi

I can go on and on but I feel this 3 points is enough to convince any none urchins that comparing Peter obi to Buhari is like comparing light(Obi) and darkness

Let me tell u bitter truth, Obi will fail not cos of his inability to perform, but the way you guys are misbehaving immediately issues of obi come up.

Winning people minds into ur fold is not by attacking and resulting to insult ok.

Hope u read it clearly how I criticized APC govt Sha?

I am one of non Igbos that is supporting Obi, but I'm considering my support for him as election is approaching. Why?

Prior to 2015, Buhari was campaigning up and down and running government of the day down then, telling people, how he alone, is the man that can take Nigeria out of economy woes, at a time,he wept on national television for people to give him chance. Meanwhile, little did we know that,he was crying and lamenting only because of his perceived marginalisation and shortchanging Fulanis.

Then, we the electrorates did not know that he was coming to govt to pacify is tribe people and we deceived by voting for him.

So, when he came on board,he entrusted sensitive jobs into the hands of wrong people (Fulani) and this is outcome today.

In the same vein, the obidients of today is reminiscent of "sai Buhari" then. Infact, Obi once said, he must contest, at least to satisfy his conscience that Igbo is on ballot paper.

My worry and question now is that, if Obi wins, won't he regionalise his government? (By way of pacifying igbo from prolonged marginalisation, as they believed in south east). I mean, not running inclusive government which will keep on aggravating insecurity as we are withnessing now.

franchasofficia:
When last did you see Nigerian classy ladies gather with interest like this to listen to a politician, be honest?

I can see Igbo, Igbo, Igbo and Igbo classic ladies. Again it buttressed my earlier submission of my region and my people alone.

PeterObi4LP:
There is no where a Christian buys things cheap than a Muslim

There is no where a Muslim buys things cheap than a Christian

There is no where Northerners buys things cheap than Southerners

There is no where a region buys things cheap than another region.

Inflation and hunger no be your mate.

Vote wisely
Vote Peter Obi.

Throw away sentiment and tribalism to vote competent for the betterment of your children and generation.

But if Obi wins and tribilises his govt the way Buhari is doing now, the inflation and insecurity nwill persist, cos, tribalism won't let him see good quality in other region, Obi is coming to power with same mind and mentality Buhari had before 2015, and what's the mentality? My people have been marginalized and shortchanged.

Out of 3 leading candidates, bigotry manifests most among obidients"

Dialpad:
Obi does not have a solution to Nigeria's problems, although he knows the problem inside out and can do a thorough analysis....

He might be a genuine leader with the interest of Nigerians at heart but I doubt his ability to win this election.

Not only he can not win, he is not strong enough to crack Nigeria *hydraheaded problems.

Truthisunique2:
But we saw makinde present in the atiku town hall engagement in ibadan

They should let wike know their position instead of deceiving him

If u saw makinde in town hall meeting with Atiku, did u also heard what he said about AYU removal?

Did u also heard how he rejected PDP chairman gov forum just a day after announcing him as chairman?


You guys should stop deceiving urself for Christ sake.

That's why many of u are "struggling to stand properly with ur feet", cos u only Imagine impossibility. Self denial.

People deceiving people

Atiku dolling out dollar to improve his image down south. Even if chairman is from South, he will still fail on earth and will loud clearly in heaven.

After eight years satanic rulership of Fulani.

Anyway, it's govt money he stole Sha.

dollytino4real:
Dis could be a spiritual problem, or something beyond our ordinary eyes

Spiritual problem or typical of women to bite more that they can chew

.. d

blissfulheart:
I use to wonder y a married woman would cheat on her husband ,until I got married and had to deal with a man who sex starve me ,sometimes once in a month or twice. I guess for a sexually active woman its mot easy sleeping on the same bed with your husband yet u don't get d love and attention u deserve staying faithful becomes war.

Dnt u have guys had sex bf wedding?


Though, some men would marry, and abandoned their wives and be running after different ladies outside ooo.

They will be saying , ....but I'm giving her and children everything they need now.

Just like EPL, that boys normally separate from men wen premier league is rounding up.


Wen it's two weeks to the election, hallucinations about Obi will fade out. I see Obi coming distance 3rd.


I think we supposed to learn lesson from APC PRIMARY........ social media were high on Osinbanjo, Ameachi and lately on Jonathan and Lawal. But wen result came out .... The combined votes of all other contestants not up to half of the winner.

Thing changed from how it was in 90s.


Now, married women want to flex like married men

Now, married women want to have same authority as husbands.

Now, married men want to share responsibilities equally as wives.

Still imagine, how marriages will look like in 10-20yrs to come.


"Marriage shouldn't be as my mother/father did it,..... we are in 21st century, ....yet it's deteriorating on hourly bases".

purples25:
Looks like a story created to please a certain audience, which is men. A story that aligns to their taste. A story of a woman that fell because she didn't accept them

Rejection and separation is very painful Sha. But still, we need to reason rationally and take heart, rather than comforting one's self with such stories.

Even if her actions seem pretty and wrong

Created ? Yes, but u urself know this is happening, even u, u won't think twice to consider other factors,before u change mind if u see a guy better ur current guy/fiance.


Try to learn lesson from it rather than negative trend it's projecting.

Anigreat:





Buhari government has reduced this man to nothing, he's only good for running errands. A whole professor of Law reduced to nothing by a complete dullarrd .

Few months back wen he was contesting for primary, you blamed economy failure of govt on him o, saying he was in charge of many things. But now it's mere servant ok.


Ur type will find it hard to have peace unless u change to a positive thinker

SouthWestBlood:
Believe Tiktokers at your own peril.

Bro, thousands of this are happening.
Similar thing happened to a brother that we are closely related about two years ago.


I also knew a newly married woman then, (about 4 years ago now) that was lamenting that she met a rich man late.

...she said, if the man had come, less than a month earlier, (before her wedding) she would have cancelled the wedding that she did newly then.

People often mistaken rich for goodness, most especially ladies. Money doesn't always answer all things o, and it doesn't guaranteed peace at all times.
U may marry rich man/woman and yet the partner might not be kind to u

U wanted to marry a man that just appeared from the moon, asked u out and u didn't think twice before u cancelled wedding, infact, if I'm rich guy, I will also think twice about u.


Ladies would say.....I want to be suffered with a man in JEEP. So many ladies that married rich persons but yet they still lack and no peace.

Ebubu:
this shameless man didn’t know it was equity and fairness to zone the ticket to SE, only when it favours him he will shout equity and fairness.

he should sink alone in his dying ship and no wise igbo man should sink with him.

South East has become baby that need to spoon-feed, I guess

ersonleads:
Please can someone help me on how I can go about traveling with my soon to be wedded wife Abroad. One of us will be schooling & working. The other will be working. Presently working on the funds.

How can it be possible & what country will be easier to on my intentions. Please I need your help because dis country done tire me

I won't advice you my bro. If u are not ICT/NURSE/DOCTOR.

VERY DIFFICULT TO CARRY PARTNER TO ABROAD.



If I will give u my candid advise, I will give u two options

1. Forget wedding for now and go abroad to establish urself first.

2. Forget abroad for now , marry here, you and your wife established here .