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frndfghtr:
I reicieve a call this evening that she will undergo brain and eye sugery, pls nairalander, if she needs our help, I will let us know, may b I will ask her, her direct means of getting money, if is her acc number, I will forward it, if d case arise pls, and I need ur prayers, cos people said if anything happen to the woman, am in danger, thanks

OP thank you for saving the Lady.
Abeg confirm PRIMUS HOSPITAL ADDRESS BELOW. I HAVE TIME TO WASTE TODAY.

I AM STILL BOILING?

Primus Hospital is about to feel my negative vibes and trend online.

Any online rating? Reputation? PRIMUS HOSPITAL have will be personally be tarnished by me today. After rejecting someone in serious pain and the fact they rejected a fellow Nairalander like me who was trying to help her.

They have given me a new purpose for today. Please verify - this is the address of the useless Primus Hospital - 272 Ijesha Rd, Ijesha Tedo 101282, Lagos?

Confirm immediately Abeg. I need to put my frustration and anger on their online reputation today?

Jabioro:
The Primus hospital and the Police officers that involved all the challantant character needed to be sue,displine by the authority if we don't want this behavior to continue..for the OP..may good Lord bless you continually

OP thank you for saving the Lady.
Oga Jabioro thanks for asking for the name of the hospital.

Now I know who? Where and what to vent my anger on today.

Primus Hospital is about to feel my negative vibes and trend online.

Any online rating? Reputation? PRIMUS HOSPITAL have will be personally be tarnished by me today. After rejecting someone in serious pain and the fact they rejected a fellow Nairalander like me who was trying to help her.

They have given me a new purpose for today. Pleass verify is it this address of the useless Primus Hospital - 272 Ijesha Rd, Ijesha Tedo 101282, Lagos?

Confirm immediately Abeg. I need to put my frustration and anger on their online reputation today?

Tarabye:
It doesn't matter how tacha got the Benz, the important thing is she has it, those preachers are even worst than her, hypocrites everywhere
Olosho this and that, we are tired of hearing all this nonsense, bring up with something new
Tacha enjoy your Benz, it's hurting your haters

.

Hmm you are the definition of a true Nigerian. It doesn't matter how one get money too abi even if it is in an evil way ( example using ones family member or your own family member ba). Most Nigerians the process never really matters, it is just the end result abi. That is why we cant maintain anything, from road, building, hospitals, relationships, wealth or riches for 5 yrs at most.

Please let's try to change that mentality.

Gnn

Playstation1:
MGTOW....
@Op, Please Look Up To That Word On Google And Make A Good Decision About Ur Next Step/action.


For Those Of Us That Want To Live A Happy And Peaceful Live, MTGOW All The Way.

My brother from another mother.

You gave him the best advice, only if he will think rationally and not emotionally.

If he truly wants peace, calmness, tranquility and happiness. That is the solution.

Safeman.

Lol

Jewessgratitude:
Why would she go about telling guys about her past? Are they pure themselves?
Let her not divulge it to any man again. It happened in the past, let it remain in the past. Its not any body's business!

She should simply go on her kneels to God in prayers and ask for forgiveness. Repent genuinely and never do it again.

As for whether it will haunt her in future, she has nothing to fear as Long as she's genuinely repented nothing will haunt her but she has to marry a genuine born again brother for such not to occur cos with a non born again, I can't vouch or say he won't cheat as that is the order of the day for non born again men.

Shalom

Hmm I read your comment and I can easily guess your personality.

So because she prayed and got forgiveness from God Almighty means she is now pure again Abi.

And her bobo or husband to to be doesn't need to know about it ba.Lmao

Karma is always a bitvch trust me. She will not.escape it. This is from experience. If she wants to be truthful, she better tell her future bobo and if he is mature and still wants her, he will accept her (if he wants to be captain save a hoe). But all this lies and manipulation techniques that our old parents used in the past aint working in this generation.

And as i always advice my brothers from another mother, free agent lifestyle is.still the.best. No need to worry about all this naija ladies. Time will.tell sha.

Hmm so she feels she can now escape it.

My brothers from another mother, you see all she explained above is the characters of most naija women.

They are always confuse. Why because they are lazy. They want a man already made. She will just arrive and present herself (her Toto- nothing else ) to an higher male and all is fine.

That is why they Will always get used. No matter what. They oldman go.chop.go.back house to meet madam for.house (madam.too dey do it to another man oo). Dont let us fool ourselves.

It is just pure scam. But when we tell you all to be a free agent lifestyle with Redpill, Mgtow? Alphamale knowledge. You all will come here and be following virtue signalling sluts up and down.

Defending them (awon white knight with shinning armour) like the way.you were all programmed to do it based on societal norm. But I understand sha. I was once programmed like you all to be a male beta simp.

You need to.unplug and unlearn the.crap they told you and.accept reality for what it is.

Qoute me at your own peril. Enjoy.

Hmm this is just the pure truth in most case in Nigeria. Most men are weak and their wives control and manipulate them. Because women got the gift of knowledge and manipulation from the serpent subconsciously.

I have seen it in most older men, including in my family. They are all pvssy wiped. It is painful to see it and you cant tell them cause they feel they know more.

But am Glad the future is bright for the millennial guys. Now I can see why 7 women will beg 1man to marry them. Cause the eyes of youngmen (redpill, alpha male, mgtow guys) are truly opening too see the deception of ladies.

Imagine a Governor been controlled and manipulated to the extent everyone sees it.

Deep

Hmm where do I start from?

First of all. Lol. I mean Lmao. You are just a weak pvssy man. You are worst than an infidel.

Infact i changed my mind. I wanted to write an epistle on your mindset and that of the babe. But I realise experience will teach you both.

Enjoy your day. And don't bother quoting me. Pssh

Hmm I now believe it. That religion is mostly used by Africans to cover up a vacuum or space in their life.

Africans, especially Nigerians use religion to prevent depression or face reality. We modify, add, mix, and integrate religion, one way or the other to supress our deep dark desires.

Example, are people praying before and after sex, especially ladies. She just gave you a mad sex marathon that even an Olosho gon dey drop cap for her. But she will pray after.

Now listen to this old madam, you will realize she used religion to cover or fulfill her own immoral attitude.

Hm

Hmm senators that have no knowledge of what they are proposing.

All they see is how they can quickly cashout from the deal that will be made.

Infact by the time you will see the budget or allocation for this, you will tell them to just repair our current options that we have.

Ask them how will it be maintained ?
By who (local staff or foreigners )?
How sustainable is it on a longterm for us as a nation.

Infact why am i even bothered. Na audio project e go bi last last. Hmm hmm

Hmm

Hmm My people everytime a lady tells you what kind of man/ partner/ husband she wants.

Please listen carefully to her like all these ladies commenting before and after me.

Then ask her which of the qualities does she herself have in all the qualities she mentionned. If none (which is the case at most times). Just smile and walk away. She will get her answer.

This apply to both single, married, divorced, widows etc. You will just realize the juice is not worth the squeeze most times.

Congrats to our white Knight brothers with shinning armor in the plantation. We do not envy them at all.

Qoute me at your own peril.

Hmm

Hmm where do I start from?

People rush into marriage because of:

Peer pressure
Societal norm
Survival tactic
Parental issues
Joblessness
Lack of self responsibility
Sexual market value declination
Lack of financial independence
Desperation
Lack of self confidence
Unable to embrace aloneness
Immaturity
Not understanding everyone has a different pat
Retirement plan
Last option
Family, status quo elevation
Lazyness mostly for Gold diggers
Etc .

Recently I know an unemployed girl who did introduction after 3 months of dating and as usual I told her. She is rushing it and as they say you rush in, you rush out. However her reponse was the typical female reply - don't you.want me to be happy.

I kept quiet, because I know you must find personal or self happiness alone . And once you.don't have it, you can't find it in marriage. You are carrying your emotional trauma and baggage into another persons life.

What do I know self. Hmm Time will tell.

Hmm pool party where 95% cant swim.

Where everyone will be faking and acting funny.

Where you will end up wishing you bought pizza (with the money you.were meant to spend there) and chill at home watching a movie.

I have been to several and I always end up disappointed.

Abeg It is just a hangout for buyers and sellers not a pool party . If you know you know. I rest my case.

GreetMe:
Hahahaha...type Tacha on Google, her face will come up...then type your name and check

White Knights. Always looking for a way to protect females. So the fact he stated the clear and obvious statement in most hypocritical Nigerians mind about her. You have to protect her image.

My brother with all these registration, profile on internet sites, social media sites, Wikipedia, YouTube etc. Even a fools name and face can appear. So don't get that part twisted.

I type my own name, my friends name, or even lost or distance family members full name and their face will appear. So typing someone's name on Google doesn't change or give you a social status. It doesn't represent the image or reputation of who you are.

Even pornstars who perform the most slutty stuff like sucking balls and eating Dubai shit up and down, doesn't mean they have arrived or achieved a reputable image.

But I cant blame you and most Nigerians (especially weakmen/ bluepilled men/ captain save a slut men - note I was once one, so I fully understand where you are coming from).

The level of moral decadence don dey reach it peak when people still defend and aspire to be like the Kadarshians. But when a religious and cultural country like Nigeria, create a star out of an olosho/slut and white Knights like you are defending her . In addition your future daughters will see her as a role.model. Then you know we are at the full peak of moral decadence.

I don talk my own. Come and beat me. Gbam.

Hmm where do I start from?

Is it the ability for her to change her color from beautiful black to smelling yellow?

Or the she exposes her fallen body parts to gain attention? We know that after age 30-35 it is over. With the little she is exposing already.

Or the lack of self confidence in her, but some people think she is confident instead of rudeness and arrogance ?

Or the fact she has no moral and self respect for herself and the struggle for women intellectual gender equality movement ? (Because gender equality get different degree or stage oo - well that is a topic for another day).

Or the fact that most Nigerians have lost it and can't look for the right role model for our future unborn daughters than this?

Or the fact she is a mother who believes her only way of survival na to sell sexually, in one form or the other (advertising sexually, rendering sexual services, sexual attention seeking etc.).

Cause seriously where did we get it all wrong?

Hmm where do I start from.

The guy is the real definition of rapist paedophile.
I am happy he got what he desserved.

Like my people from the manosphere would say ,He is not only just sex starved, he is bleeped up mentally. He should have channel the energy to something more useful like mgtow brothers say. But he decided to let his small brain think.

Now he will give various feminist or old newspapers on nairaland things to rant about for the next few hours. Qoute me and I will know you are one

I don't.support transactional babes but that could have save him this national embarassement. Cause even normal babes would have claim rape or sexual harassment.

But the girl is too small. Too small and I ask myself what kind of pleasure would he gain.

For the first time am confused as Fvck. This is just way too weird and scary for my brain. You cant even leave your daughter or sister. Shit. Any idiot that try to justify what this man did will get a fair share of his own with his daughter or sister. Aaaah

The future looks scary aaah

Hmm

My brother from another mother you read my mind Ooo.

I posted this thread few weeks ago and most ladies and white Knight came for my head.

https://www.nairaland.com/5542927/dark-truth-couples-above-30s

I am not surprised though. Brothers are waking up. We are seeing the truth and life for what it is.

Your point about men don't really give a fvck about your degrees, status or money is right to an extent. I once told some ladies (women) in a discussion one day that if they ever had an housemaid who is younger, (not even considering beauty or not) and always readily available to be humble, respect, feed and take care of their beloved husband and children. While they are forming feminist and hardworking women. Hmmm
The houseamaid na him be the wife ooo. They started shouting and saying not all men are dogs. It was then I realize women don't like the truth.

They will always be deceived and lied to like the serpent did. They love lies that can even bring back a died person and be like Bros I hail ooo. Lmao. That is what most will keep getting till they die. Simple.

Kaybmal100:
Listen guys

For most women in their 30s
who are still single, Who aren’t in a relationship, Those who are still available, Doesn’t have a guy at the moment and they are above 30, These women are comsidered a red flag.

based on my personal experience with women,
speaking t0 friends, random questions on walkway facebook friends, and my own previous relationships, an overwelming number of them have serious RED FLAGS.

when you meet this 30 year old single women, who isnt in a commited relationship, what she'll tell you is that she has had alot of bad relationships, that she was attracted to the wrong guy or that bad boys just keep finding her.

thats not true guys. she choose these guys
and what shes afraid to tell you is that she loves sleeping with bad boys. she loves being a side piece.

She doesnt want to tell you that she rejected a lot of good quality men because if she does tell you this it will show how fullish she is.

women dont like looking into the mirror and reflecting on their lives. this is why they hop from relationship to relationship
guys to guys because they dont want to reflect on the things they had done wrong.

they are afraid to tell you they have done all sort of cock ridingswith differrent guys in their 20s.

what they will say is ....i have been with this guy for 5years, he cheated on me, i stayed with this other guy for 3years he did thesame without talking about her mess. they will try to sell you

she wunt tell you that shes looking for a meal ticket, shes looking for some fool, a guffy guy who will take a bait, she wunt tell you that shes still talking and sleeping with different guys.
she wunt tell tell you that you are her last resolt
that she is expiring she can feel it.

Cos if she tell you that it will deperistalize her
it will humble her.

listen guys a single woman in her 30s shes afraid to tell you all those stuffs cos it will show how horrible her life is and how horrible her decisions are.

She wunt tell you that at that age her greatest fear in life is being alone. they hate it.
it sucks for a woman to go ome to a cold bed
but shes afraid to tell you that when shes with you. shes is hurting inside because no man want to comit to her cos of her attitude.
She wunt tell you how horrible her attitude is
but she act like shes a good person 2 to 3 months upfront time will tell .

ask yourself,
why she she still single?
not even commited to a serious relationship.

women in their 30s still single, not committed in any relationship has just failed in life.

listen girls

no man cares about your degree
or how successful you are, cos according to nature your job is to nuture, you are naturally made to receive love, be opened to receiving care and to be submissive. All these, feminist have destroyed.

but for men they are made to strive, break through barriers in life achieve.
you can argue with your religious books if you want to

that why a man can leave a high intellectual, successful woman for an house girl.
think about that.

So guys!
they are afraid to tell you the truth guys cos the truth will set them free but they dont want to be free

Freedom requires reflexion and she will never reflect in order not to be free so she hops from guy yo guy and hoping some fool like you will look at her.

they are aftraid to tell you that majority of them caused their breakups in their past relationships.
they instigated arguments with the their spouses
or their previouse long term partners.

they wunt tell you how sharp their mouth is.
trust me guys have talked to most of them,
tons of them, one on one conversation

they always have some time of Issues, whether its Dady issues, abandonment issues
boardline personality Disorder,Bipolo disorder.

From Darius.

Remember as women age, their sexual market value goes down but as men age their sexual market value goes up. It’s a fact

Also studies have shown that as women age they are likely to have healthier children

Comment below you experience dating women in their 30s

Airtimex:
My bro. I understand your point. But don't you think experience and maturity plays a major role in marriage?

If I'm to marry base on your point, I might not marry at all...unless you are new to this world, no age bracket is safe from promiscuity...

Moreso, everybody must not marry before 30...your article is just painting a particular age bracket black. Forget Nigerians developed countries don't take marriage this serious...

Personally, I will advice women to focus on things that will help their life and society before rushing into marriage...

We don't have active women again in the society because most of them rush into marriage, which in one way or the other will cage them against their destiny...bro please let's focus on other things and leave women alone.

Marriage will come when it will...don't create unnecessary tension for gullible women who might want to take your article serious. I personally prefer experience women than naive ones.

Guy you are just deep and I really appreciate your point plus.concerns. You see I just like given a.different point of view which most people tend.to not understand. They.think.I hate or beef them.

The part where you stated that most women never focus on.their life and improvement hits me. Personally I don't intend to marry and if I decide too, I will.marry.a pure feminist . Not the.fake ones. The one who understand that she determines her life, wealth and faith. Not the.one who will marry.me and see me as a trophy or mr do it all.

The problem is most Nigerian ladies are lost. No career, no path, and no focus. They just use weak beta male men as their. Retirement plan.

But your points are also valid .
Safe bro.

LilMissFavvy:
You are sick...... mentally deranged. What's wrong with a daughter in-law in her 30s? Do you know the number of ladies who were stuck up in a relationship of many years, waiting for their men to be ready, but it never turned well, making such ladies single at 30? In such situations, where is the hoeing phase?

My little missfavvy .why are you on me like this. It seems you miss me ba Well let me clear your doubts as usual.

I never said all women, but most case na them. But the case you stated above means the lady will still.bring her emotional baggages and traumas of been with a guy.that.gilted her into.the.marriage or relationship after the.age of 30 ba?
This same scenario apply to the.guys too.

You are free to do whatever you want. But don't come on nairaland and rants. Cause people like me and other guys or girls have warned you on this forum. We are the ones who take the.bitterness of you all that cant understand the reality of life. Simple.

bukatyne:
Interesting view.

I agree with you that the earlier the spouses meet or the fewer their previous sexual partners, the better.

My ideal situation is an open minded virgin lady meeting an open minded virgin man.

However, going through your other comments, you seem to unconsciously believe that 30s females are worse off than 30s males.

As always, there are exceptions for older singles who were sexually disciplined in their youth and promiscuous men and women who have healed psychologically and are able to bond with their spouses.

This however doesn't take into cognizance the people who got inspiration for their spouses irrespective of their past.

All am trying to say is the dark truth in most cases. That doesn't mean their are no exception.
You can still marry.a.guy or lady above thirty. But deal with the.risk and emotional trauma. Dont come here on nairaland and start look for sympathy or empathy when everything start falling apart. Simple.

bukatyne:
Interesting view.

I agree with you that the earlier the spouses meet or the fewer their previous sexual partners, the better.

My ideal situation is an open minded virgin lady meeting an open minded virgin man.

However, going through your other comments, you seem to unconsciously believe that 30s females are worse off than 30s males.

As always, there are exceptions for older singles who were sexually disciplined in their youth and promiscuous men and women who have healed psychologically and are able to bond with their spouses.

This however doesn't take into cognizance the people who got inspiration for their spouses irrespective of their past.

All am trying to say is the dark truth in most cases. That doesn't mean their are no exception.
You can still marry.a.guy or lady above thirty. But deal with the.risk and emotional trauma. Dont come your on nairaland and look for sympathy or empathy when everything start falling apart. Simple.

MarianaTrench:
So people should not get married cos they're above 30?

I didn't say so. I am just stating the obvious dark truth and challenges you might face. However you are free to do whatever you want. But remember the things that might happen. Simple.

Jgoldie:
Even if you marry a girl of 18yrs

She will go through the hoe phase right under your nose and resent you that you trapped her in marriage when she was young....

Marry someone you love regardless of their age.

.

Aa you just said the truth about hoe phase . Ladies never accept this. But am glad it is coming from a Lady. Damn

Bitter truth.

Airtimex:
My bro are you saying people should not marry women who are above 30yrs?


Even if you say some, does being promiscuous in the past have anything to do with a healthy marriage? And who told you girls below 30yrs are perfect match for marriage...

This article is not necessary...

Promiscuousity has nothing to do with age, I agree but the older they are the more higher their probability . Trust me.

I never said girls below 30 are perfect match. And the only reason why ladies in the past could hide it was because we didn't have digital and social media to expose them.

See parents especially mothers no it. They know the.nature.of their daughters because they were once them. That is just the simple truth.

Hmm