₦airaland Forum

Instant judgement, no need for trial, the people have done the needful

As young as she is, she has mastered the act of dealing with a minor. Just because she hasn't experienced child birth pains ❓

GistOffer:
A 35-year-old man died in mysterious circumstances while having sex with a 50-year-old widow in a maize plantation in Sachangwan-Chebyakwai, near Eldoret International Airport in Uasin Gishu County on Monday.

The deceased identified as Julius Kiptoo is said to have been on a drinking spree until late night at a local bar on Sunday before hooking up with the woman whose name could not be immediately established.

When journalists toured the area on Monday morning, shocked residents were seen trooping to a maize plantation where the duo had their romp to view the lifeless body of the young man.

The woman narrated to detectives who arrived at the scene how the young man became obsessed with nonstop sex after swallowing a sex booster pill.

“We were headed to the house but he became impatient and demanded that we do it at the maize plantation. However, he started becoming sick in the process before dying instantly,” said the woman.

She said that she later called neighbours who confirmed that the young man, who does menial jobs in the village, had died.

Police from the nearby Kiambaa Police station who arrived at the scene moved the body to the Moi Teaching and Referral Hospital (MTRH) Mortuary.

The woman was on the receiving end from irate villagers who blasted her for being a bad example to young women in the village by moving with younger men.

“This is very embarrassing. We look up to such women for guidance but they are the ones spoiling young people,” said Susan Jerotich, a resident told Nairobi news.

See more here; http://gistmore.com/35-year-old-man-dies-during-sex-marathon-with-50-year-old-widow-in-kenya

So how is it her fault now ❓

Few meters to the house, the guy couldn't wait.

That's drug for you

With terms and condition attached

ZWorld:
Watch the video
https://zenithnaija.com/wedding-of-the-year-man-in-vegetative-state-weds-his-old-lover-photos/

That is it, he married her all these while no wedding and she must have been waiting and begging for her wedding only for him to accept now that he is not sure if he will see the next day

So the right thing at the right time and take the glory

guuudy87:
That's how he took people's life for a crime that did not take anyone's life. We Nigerians should be careful..

Why is your brain licking ❓

He meant to knock them down not killing them besides are they supposed to be stealing bike from people ❓

Anger management is necessary for every adult

This is someone's future oohhh

Hmmmm

How safe is this guy now ❓

I will be glad to see this lady with pregnancy one day, that's when I will comment

Those stripes of wip will lead to abuse and finally reduction in rank

Good thinking

blizard44:
Hello , Nairalanders.

I recently called off a two-year relationship with my Ex Girlfriend.

I found out she was cheating on me with two other guys and decided to walk away.

But the thing is that I can't stop thinking about her.
I can't eat, work or do anything without memories of the times we shared together hanging over my eyelids.

I felt that the depression and pain that suffused me after I told her it was over was hinged on the fact that she was my first love - and would go away with time, but I was wrong.
I think of her now more than I ever remember doing.
I'm afraid the feelings heightens everyday.
And this is made worse by the fact that we're colleagues.
We see each other everyday.
And concerns for her, I found out, still manage to hide behind my ribs.

I'm not thinking of going back to her.
It's not an option.
That to me now, is like dining with my archenemies blindfolded.

I feel like I don't know her .
I never knew her!

At least, I never knew she could tell heavy lies with our eyes locked.


I need help redeeming myself from her.
I want to see her for who she really is.
And I want to go back to the life I led before her.

I need help getting her out of my head.

Tell me how you survived breakups.


P.S
I want to read your comments.

Just endure the hard feelings, it's normal with what you are feeling for separating with someone you love deeply

It's your first love and it will help you to learn how to handle break up.

But since you guys are colleagues, relate with her as if nothing happens and make sure you have made up your mind not to bed her

Get into another relationship to kill the deep feelings you have in her

She is supposed to be felling hurt too but since she has other bouy friends, she is using then to cusion the effects of the break

emeijeh:
Her family did not do well by telling her to remain in an abusive marriage.

That's one stupid thing the ibo tribe does just because of the shame that their daughter packed out of the husband house

Am an ibo and I don't support any parents leaving her daughter to suffer emotional trauma in marriage

Stealing upon prostitution, what a mad way of life

Jamb, is a dream killer

This guy has spoken very well, his performance is per excellence

This is the kind of students that deserve scholarship to study outside the shores

But jamb wants to be his monitoring spirit

I wish the parents can afford to sponsor him abroad as a reward for his academic A's

He must have scored above jamb expectations

This is deep, so many people will go in for this

The army captain is already robed for breaking the handcuff

Hmmmm, Army, this is how they shield their own person who spends for them

Shouting that he was kidnapped was the only thing that spoilt these smooth operation which was already a success

Awol1:
Does anyone really think this man will return to Nigeria?

He will definitely return because he has strong and die hard followers who are waiting for his return and also waiting for the next plan of government

They are ever ready for another crisis and mayhem

Take her to general hospital ikeja, you will be asigned to a pediatrician who knows what to do and what test to do

Has your baby started talking or saying what you can hear

Does your baby stands on her own

Can your baby stand by an object and connect each other object to walk

Does your baby have any form of shaky legs

Have you asked your mum or hubby's if there was a challenge when you guys was supposed to walk as a toddler ❓

ImaIma1:
Let me put into perspective. I come back from work, prepare rice and stew for dinner, bath and feed our child and then he says "go and buy beans for me from iya sikira"? :DHow? In which area?

People should drop some funny baggage before they get married. Not all wives will take such nonsense. Let him call family meeting and report me

OK, I get you now.

Just tell him politely that you don't like going there to buy that beans for him

It is now left for him to go himself, send someone or stop combining the food with it

You have a case, but your presentation will determine the outcome

fineboynl:
It was still hard to believe. I couldn't come to term with it like in reality. part of me is still not in conclusion until I was told they have done embalming.

I don't know if its just normal... I still don't feel like I lost someone i still feel like he is alive. unlike the way I feel for people that are even far from me when they died. it feel like I need to be reminded every seconds.

I have been drinking and have drunk already.

please for respect seek. I don't want this to be on the front page. and I don't want anyone to tell me sorry or take heart.

You will start feeling his demise the day he will be buried nad when you will need him to stand for you

ImaIma1:
He would have to go buy it himself then. Because I won't indulge him. There's a thin line between being submissive and being a doormat

Hmmm, just take it calm there is no big deal about buying it for him

If you are reacting like this for a mere food in buka, how will you react if you discover he has another woman outside you ❓

Will you push him out or pin him down to you ❓

Bigbayour:
We got married in 2014, and since then things have not been easy. All what my wife dont do while we were courting are now her usuals.

How do I explain a situation my wife nag of everything? Distespect, shout, talk to me anyhow. How do I explain my wife seen washing my cloth (with a washing machine o) as a favour? We do not have intimate talk again. The only time my wife talk to.me heart to heart is when she want to give me the list of bills. And once that is done...she carry her face again.

The worse part of my travail is that she deprive me of sex. Without exaggeration we sometimes go on 3 months sex break...and anytime she allowed me, it would be like by force and its just once.

I am financially ok, living in my own house in lagos,bought a car for her. I am a Chartered Accountant, currently head of Finance/accounts in my company, and I dont think my physique is not presentable to be a husband.

We have 2 kids and I.love her so much.



Mature advice,please

With all you have mentioned, you have endured enough

Just treat her the way she is treating you

Let her fill the heat

If she wants sex give her but sort yourself out

Make sure the kids doesn't lack

Take attention away from her and stop giving her audience

She will enter inside her shell and come out to beg you

Once you have succeeded with this accept her apology and tell her that hence fort

Anytime she becomes naughty you will start yours

revolt:
Somebody else is banging her
...it's simple.

Stop it, it's all not about banging, she just want to be naughty because the man has enough time and attention on her

Simpleandsweet:
You just spoke my mind!!
I couldn't have said it better!
It seems like there's an increasing trend of women treating their husbands like trash and getting away with it and the lovestruck husbands taking nonsense and empowering rubbish behaviour!
No sex for 3months! And she's still in that house and not sick or bedridden! What nonsense!! Mtcheeeewww

Women has the ability to endure sex

Their sex urge is attached to their emotions, in fact every thing they do is attached to their emotions

Unlike men that can get sex urge even in the hight of tension or stressful situations

islandmoon:
get a side Chic or a second wife

You think getting a second wife is that easy, even with kids from the previous marriage

Look women are the same with similar threats
Just pray you get the one with small wahala

Every man must learn how to manage his wife and that's why they have side chicks

Bigbayour:
We got married in 2014, and since then things have not been easy. All what my wife dont do while we were courting are now her usuals.

How do I explain a situation my wife nag of everything? Distespect, shout, talk to me anyhow. How do I explain my wife seen washing my cloth (with a washing machine o) as a favour? We do not have intimate talk again. The only time my wife talk to.me heart to heart is when she want to give me the list of bills. And once that is done...she carry her face again.

The worse part of my travail is that she deprive me of sex. Without exaggeration we sometimes go on 3 months sex break...and anytime she allowed me, it would be like by force and its just once.

I am financially ok, living in my own house in lagos,bought a car for her. I am a Chartered Accountant, currently head of Finance/accounts in my company, and I dont think my physique is not presentable to be a husband.

We have 2 kids and I.love her so much.



Mature advice,please

With all you have mentioned, you have endured enough

Just treat her the way she is treating you

Let her fill the heat

If she wants sex give her but sort yourself out

Make sure the kids doesn't lack

Take attention away from her and stop giving her audience

She will enter inside her shell and come out to beg you

Once you have succeeded with this accept her apology and tell her that hence fort

Anytime she becomes naughty you will start yours

revolt:
Somebody else is banging her
...it's simple.

Stop it, it's all not about banging, she just want to be naughty because the man has enough time and attention on her

Simpleandsweet:
You just spoke my mind!!
I couldn't have said it better!
It seems like there's an increasing trend of women treating their husbands like trash and getting away with it and the lovestruck husbands taking nonsense and empowering rubbish behaviour!
No sex for 3months! And she's still in that house and not sick or bedridden! What nonsense!! Mtcheeeewww

Women has the ability to endure sex

Their sex urge is attached to their emotions, in fact every thing they do is attached to their emotions

Unlike men that can get sex urge even in the hight of tension or stressful situations

Bigbayour:
We got married in 2014, and since then things have not been easy. All what my wife dont do while we were courting are now her usuals.

How do I explain a situation my wife nag of everything? Distespect, shout, talk to me anyhow. How do I explain my wife seen washing my cloth (with a washing machine o) as a favour? We do not have intimate talk again. The only time my wife talk to.me heart to heart is when she want to give me the list of bills. And once that is done...she carry her face again.

The worse part of my travail is that she deprive me of sex. Without exaggeration we sometimes go on 3 months sex break...and anytime she allowed me, it would be like by force and its just once.

I am financially ok, living in my own house in lagos,bought a car for her. I am a Chartered Accountant, currently head of Finance/accounts in my company, and I dont think my physique is not presentable to be a husband.

We have 2 kids and I.love her so much.



Mature advice,please

With all you have mentioned, you have endured enough

Just treat her the way she is treating you

Let her fill the heat

If she wants sex give her but sort yourself out

Make sure the kids doesn't lack

Take attention away from her and stop giving her audience

She will enter inside her shell and come out to beg you

Once you have succeeded with this accept her apology and tell her that hence fort

Anytime she becomes naughty you will start yours

revolt:
Somebody else is banging her
...it's simple.

Stop it, it's all not about banging, she just want to be naughty because the man has enough time and attention on her

Bigbayour:
We got married in 2014, and since then things have not been easy. All what my wife dont do while we were courting are now her usuals.

How do I explain a situation my wife nag of everything? Distespect, shout, talk to me anyhow. How do I explain my wife seen washing my cloth (with a washing machine o) as a favour? We do not have intimate talk again. The only time my wife talk to.me heart to heart is when she want to give me the list of bills. And once that is done...she carry her face again.

The worse part of my travail is that she deprive me of sex. Without exaggeration we sometimes go on 3 months sex break...and anytime she allowed me, it would be like by force and its just once.

I am financially ok, living in my own house in lagos,bought a car for her. I am a Chartered Accountant, currently head of Finance/accounts in my company, and I dont think my physique is not presentable to be a husband.

We have 2 kids and I.love her so much.



Mature advice,please

With all you have mentioned, you have endured enough

Just treat her the way she is treating you

Let her fill the heat

If she wants sex give her but sort yourself out

Make sure the kids doesn't lack

Take attention away from her and stop giving her audience

She will enter inside her shell and come out to beg you

Once you have succeeded with this accept her apology and tell her that hence fort

Anytime she becomes naughty you will start yours

Logobenz3:
Confirmed by whom?
The wife?does that sound professional or even normal to you?

Wait until you are matured and married then you can make a point

Just keep learning and stop arguments

Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad

There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up

So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough

Don't be surprise he was trained with it

WildChild00:
Demn

With crayfish alone, if you know how to cook, you will enjoy the taste

Am average igbo woman can't do without crayfish at home

ImaIma1:
You too carriying plate and going to buy the beans sef is adding to the problem.

I can't cook and then he would send me to go buy food. If he can't eat what I cook or tell me what is wrong with it, he should either cook his food or go and buy the roadside food himself.

That's a wrong approach, you don't have to detect his taste or choice of food for him

If he likes a particular food from the bukar, that doesn't mean he doesn't like your cooking

lukui:
with no apology to anyone, most Nigerian women that I have met, most and I mean most, like eight out of ten, don't know how to cook!!! most good cooks that I know are men!


they can only paint their faces, fix hair, fix nails, cook indomie, boil hot water, ask you to take them to fast food restaurants, that's all!!! ask them to cook ordinary rice for you, you go here ween!!!!!

You have started deceiving yourself at this stage, since you realise men cooks better, why not improve on your cooking skills, it will add to your cv as a future husband and wife will appreciate it

sisisioge:


Biko ask him what it is about the ewa he loves so much? Maybe you should use pressure pot to cook it next time to match the consistency of the mama put's . Boys are just weirdos

It's not about the pressure pot, it's about the local spices combination

If you have really eaten ewa agoyin, we'll prepared one with freshly baked soft bread, you will stick with it

Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad

There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up

So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough

Don't be surprise he was trained with it

WildChild00:
Demn

With crayfish alone, if you know how to cook, you will enjoy the taste

Am average igbo woman can't do without crayfish at home

ImaIma1:
You too carriying plate and going to buy the beans sef is adding to the problem.

I can't cook and then he would send me to go buy food. If he can't eat what I cook or tell me what is wrong with it, he should either cook his food or go and buy the roadside food himself.

That's a wrong approach, you don't have to detect his taste or choice of food for him

If he likes a particular food from the bukar, that doesn't mean he doesn't like your cooking

lukui:
with no apology to anyone, most Nigerian women that I have met, most and I mean most, like eight out of ten, don't know how to cook!!! most good cooks that I know are men!


they can only paint their faces, fix hair, fix nails, cook indomie, boil hot water, ask you to take them to fast food restaurants, that's all!!! ask them to cook ordinary rice for you, you go here ween!!!!!

You have started deceiving yourself at this stage, since you realise men cooks better, why not improve on your cooking skills, it will add to your cv as a future husband and wife will appreciate it

Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad

There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up

So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough

Don't be surprise he was trained with it

WildChild00:
Demn

With crayfish alone, if you know how to cook, you will enjoy the taste

Am average igbo woman can't do without crayfish at home

ImaIma1:
You too carriying plate and going to buy the beans sef is adding to the problem.

I can't cook and then he would send me to go buy food. If he can't eat what I cook or tell me what is wrong with it, he should either cook his food or go and buy the roadside food himself.

That's a wrong approach, you don't have to detect his taste or choice of food for him

If he likes a particular food from the bukar, that doesn't mean he doesn't like your cooking

Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad

There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up

So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough

Don't be surprise he was trained with it

WildChild00:
Demn

With crayfish alone, if you know how to cook, you will enjoy the taste

Am average igbo woman can't do without crayfish at home

Sweettwenty8:
Finaly i decided to create an account

What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.

So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside

While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!

How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad

There is no issue here, he lives eating ewa agoyin, because of its local taste and even if you try to cook it that same way, it won't work because of the smoke flavour that adds it up

So pls give him that freedom of eating his favourite ewa agoyin, he can only stop it when he feels he has had enough

Don't be surprise he was trained with it