Mastalo: It is only weak, frustrated, poor old guys that goes after evening newspaper because the fresh younger girls are too beautiful for them and they will feel insecure around them claiming immaturity while those young succulent girls are more matured in mind than them.
Many of them will now think it's all about money to get the young girls but it's not.
They will do anything to please the young girls but they are not into them, do you know why; because you are not attractive to her.
They will now go and settled for the old tired Mamas. (Second hand)
Guys, dress Sharp, don't just wear trouser and shirt, dress SHARP!
Girls will be fighting to have you.
With this write up, you are not matured yet for even a relationship
lexy2014: If u say "all those people making this decisions, their kids are already teenagers or adults", that means their kids who are now teenagers & adults were once babies. So in fact, they do feel what those women feel
Past memories are quite different from present memories with those that are affected
EggSauce: If The igbos supporting this man knows the kind of atrocities this man has been committing against his fellow kinsmen in zaria, kaduna state for decades ehn hmmm...
He has form his own government... Tell me which country Will stand watch such thing happen.... Forget this dere kind face they're showing the media .
bayulll011: you sound diabolical there. there is no need to do all that,that man is selfish irresponsible and silly,i love the western life just sue his assss and divorce him sharply
There is nothing diabolical there, drastic moments deserve drastic decisions
If the driver survived this fire outbreak, then he is the suspect.
I'm kinda thinking the driver of the bus diverted the diesel to some other place, Pocketed the money then drove back towards the school and set the bus ablaze?
What makes you think that he ignited the fire, no body monitors him so he can as well do some deals and still clean his foot print
GISTM0RE: Operatives of the National Agency for the Prohibition of Trafficking in Persons (NAPTIP) have arrested 30 years old Shedrach Ozoemena Nwekeagu for allegedly raping a 6 years old school pupil. . The suspect is the Head Teacher in one of the private schools in the Kuje, Abuja. According to the victim’s father, he observed that his daughter complained of stomachache and saw bloodstains on her underwear when she came back from school. . Upon enquiry, she informed her parents that the Mr. Nwekeagu had inserted his finger into her vagina the previous week, and a week later, he brutally raped her in the classroom after school hours while they waited to be picked up by their parents. . . Some teachers in the school also informed NAPTIP that they had their suspicions about the suspect sexually molesting pupils in the school, but were afraid of speaking out because he is a relative of the proprietress and they were afraid they would lose their jobs.
hurthubby: My story is too long but let me try to summarize everything.
(I have been a member of Nairaland since 2009, but i just created this account to hide my identity)
I got married in the year 2000 and wedded in Dec 2001. Before the actual wedding, my wife got a job in Abuja, where she stayed for one year before our wedding and her joining me in Ibadan. During the cause of that year, i have a friend who stays in Abuja that knows my wife very well, who reported about my wife's infidelity to me then, though i ignored it.
In the year 2005, my wife confessed to me that she committed adultery after our wedding. (She was actually about 2 months pregnant in Feb 2002 when she sought my permission to visit her sister in Lagos. I never knew that she actually visited one of her old boy friends and spent 2 days with him).
I was down cast for some days when i heard her confession before i got back myself and forgave and forgot everything.
She later got a job which made her travel often, sometimes spending weeks outside but i never suspected anything even though her boss, (A lady) called me several times to complain about my wife's behavior, which is contrary to that of a married woman but i didn't take her serious because my wife always complained of the harshness of the woman. She later lost the job and joined me in my business, but always going to Lagos to buy jewelry, which she sells in Ibadan.
In the year 2014, i got some texts from a concerned fellow about how my wife have been sleeping with his neighbor for over 2 years in Lagos. It happens that the fellow knows us very well and didn't want to cause any problem in our marriage but the the acts became too much, he had to let me know. When i confronted my wife with all the evidence and some dates, she owned up and pleaded for forgiveness. She confessed that the affair started when she was working for the lady i mentioned earlier and anytime she travels to Lagos for her jewelry business, she always go and sleep with the man. She promised to turn a new leaf.
In the year 2018, i discovered that she had been communicating with the same man, to the extent that he even knew that my wife traveled to Owerri for a wedding. I discovered that they had reconnected back and chats always. When i confronted my wife, she said that they have nothing, just chats, which i made her to stop (I don't know if they actually stopped).
Before i married her, a man actually dumped her and married her friend, 6 years earlier. The next boy friend left her and traveled abroad for over 2 years, without any communication (before i met and married her) but unfortunately, it didn't work out for him and he came back and discovered that shes married. He started pestering her,pretending that he wanted to marry her, that he traveled to make money for both of them, but been that she's already married, she introduced the man to her cousin and he married the cousin.
Now the issue is that my wife is flirting with her former boyfriends, sending pornographic pictures and nude pictures with dirty chats. I used to monitor her chat but to save myself from HIGH BLOOD PRESSURE, i stopped checking her phone.
My wife even told the one that dumped her for her friend that she still loves him so much. She also tells the one that married her cousin the same thing and regrets that distance is so much between them. (The one that married the cousin is based in Kano while the one that married her friend is based in Abuja) Whenever i confront her, she will deny anything serious but when she sees my evidence, she will beg for forgiveness. My business is down and she provides about 70% of the house up keep (She is a teacher). We have 4 children, the eldest being 17. I have been trying to sell my house or land to reestablish my business but it has not been easy. My wife now does as she like, even having male friends here in Ibadan and keeps too much secret? What should i do.
I know this is long, but its just a summary. Forgive any typo.
Hmmm, she is a serial cheat and it runs in her, even though you take her to the village, she will still connect with men and cheat
Just over look all those dirty acts from her so that you can live a normal life
Think of how to raise money and revive your business
With time once you get your stability, you can get another wife whom you feel will be faithful and loyal to you and be happy
You will still keep her as your wife but be living with another woman
By so doing, she will have enough time to galivant as she likes while you on your own side will be happy with your new wife
Make sure you take care of her children for you
And if you think you can't or wouldn't want to get another wife because of women wahala, start using condom on her
Once she is still the one providing for the family, there is little or nothing you can do about it
madridguy: Your husband is the type that make woman to be looking for remote control all over places. Just a year marriage he's already talking about second wife. I will suggest you discuss the issue with your parent for quick intervention.
You are right, his type of men are the type they put inside bottle, close it very tight and throw inside oceans like bar beach where it would sink down and that is it, forever no one will ever trace it.
The only thing he will always remember is her and the kids nothing else, any penny with him must be remitted to his wife till death
Just that for the sake of God, we ristrain ourselves
miss00000: We met in school during my pre-degree and dated for 7 years before he proposed to me. Before the proposal, both our parents had been pestering us to get married and start having children.
We started trying 6months prior, and 6 months after proposing I got pregnant. Few months later we did our introduction and got married (registry) march this year.
About two years ago, he met a lady where he was supplying his goods. According to him, the lady has been doing everything in her power to push his business. Every time I suspect there was more to their friendship, he always assured me there was nothing, that she's just a friend. sometimes he would even travel with her to Abuja to sell his goods which I had to allow since it was helping his business.
8 months into my pregnancy I noticed a drastic change like coming home very late, he hardly eats at home, he barely talks to memos he's always on his phone. I knew something was wrong and every time I talk to him, he always assured me that everything was fine.
After the delivery and naming of my baby I expected things to go back to the way it was, but it became worse. he changes his phone password almost everyday and still hides his phones from me.
One day I cried and begged him to tell me what was going on, after hours of begging, the first question he asked me was "where was it written in the bible that marriage has to be between one man and one woman and not with different women", "why can't a man marry two or more wives if he has the resources to take care of them equally"(the lady is a muslim btw).
He confessed that he has been dating this lady for over two years and has no plan of leaving her, and theres a possibility he's going to marry her. I'm just 26yo with a one month old baby, I didn't sign up for this.
While growing up, my mum has always warned us against polygamy. although he's promised to be there for me and still wants our marriage to continue, but the thought of my husband being with someone else is killing me. I've tried to reason with him several times but I end up hurting even more. I've been praying but still no change. He's been trying to compensate with gifts and money but thats not what I want. he doesn't want me to tell anyone and I feel reporting him to his family will even worsen the case. We've always settled our issues ourselves without involving anyone. I've tried everything I can just to take my mind off it. I need someone to talk to, prolly a friend or a counsellor. I've been crying for days now, I've not been eating well and I have to breastfeed my child. I never knew my life would be this complicated. I don't know why he got married to me if he already had this in mind. I hate my life right now.
Pls ohhh, don't wound yourself, if anything happens to you, wherever you are or maybe, for the fact that you are no longer there to care for your child, you will remain sad
If he wants to marry her, leave him to go ahead, the good thing is that she is a Muslim and might not be happy in the marriage when traditional things comes up
Forget about his decision to marry because only God can change his mind
Just be yourself and take charge of your home while he will be getting a house for her if they marry
Just let him know that you are not in support of his plans and it will affect your marriage with him. If he insist, leave to go ahead
Men, once they sex another woman who have every time in the whole world for them, their senses will no longer be fine unless they do what is in their mind
Let them marry but they will definitely have issues and that's when he will regret his decisions and come back to you, by then you have already developed thick skin on him.
Nurse your baby and have the number of kids you think you can handle incase he stops taking care of you guys
Make sure you get something doing and prepare to take care of yourself and your kids
Be strong and be happy that's not the end of life
Whatever that makes you happy, just do it , you only live once
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