₦airaland Forum

This people attack is now worst than boko haram attack

Boko haram concentrated in the North and the beast called Fulani heads men are just everywhere

Left for me the federal government should link this national ID to obtaining birth certificate for children who are newly born so that in the next 30yrs, no adult will be needing national ID

As you are obtaining birth certificate from local government population bring your child to capture national ID

BVN Biometric
Passport Biometric
Driving licence Biometric
Simcard Biometric
Jamb Biometric

Very soon, to we have to thumb print to eat

otokx:
Strange things are happening.

You are just funny.

Everyone must get it by force by fire.

But why is it that all over the world, they are fighting Nigerians ❓

Is it because of our ruggedness or because we are unyielding ❓

Fear woman, no matter how small she is

Too bad for her age

Better than BBA Naija

Ohh God, save your daughters ohhh

This is becoming too wicked and bad

This is the height of evil, rip dear lady

Hunt your killer and fish him out

Someone should just help engage this woman so that she will put and end to all this advert

If lagos state government can float enough ferries there, BRT will experience less crowd and vehicles will be less on the road

Bring these to Bayelsa, just give them 72hrs there won't be traces of blood but you will be assured of the skeleton

A self acclaimed priest, defiling a minor ❓

Where have people conscience gone to ❓

It will never be well with those that pregnanted this orphan

This one own done end, e don go be that

Who wan try God ❓

How come, hmmm a born again for that matter

Those army guys own done finish be that, they must go to jail

That is what makes the difference

The educated emir sent her to get more knowledge in a foreign school and the illiterate ones among them keep marrying without even taking them to school

I think it's a good idea, better for the youths to engage themselves with it, than begging money like beggers

I like this Akwa Ibom people, their own no dey waste time

Instant judgement, even if its a mistaken identity

Stay away from crime or be babequed

TimFisher2:


I don’t know what Fulanis wan turn this country into?

Is it because Nigeria is folding up!

Can you edit where fulani was mentioned ❓

judgementyard:
Am not understanding,she was rescued by the police and according to her testimony,sh prayed that her captors should fall asleep of which they did and she escaped?
........Fulani herdsmen being her abductors?
pls someone should help me out .

Whether she excaped or rescued, the first thing is for her to report herself to the police station

Trust police, they will always want to take credit as if its easy to escape from kidnappers den

Her word are strong

She is a strong woman

But you have to reconsider, adoption, when old age comes, who will you call upon to give you a cup of water ❓

Your husband have been very supportive, complete your happiness with an adoption and remain happier forever

That's a good treat for mummy

catwalq:
Pls lemme buy you a crate of Heineken biko

LOL, she is deceiving herself

This guy really knows how to guide his family and he keep showing them to the world

If its one of my stupid brother, despite his wealth, he will be troubling his wife for not having a male child as if her chromosome is responsible for it

Na this person go carry the Wahala of their miss understanding

joseph1832:
Nonsense. Unregistered and illegally deployed my ass.

Don't mind them, just because the company didn't or have not renewed there licence for this year

All these lost and calamity just because of pussy ❓

At the end of everything the man will go to jail for killing

His wife will still continue with other men after sometime

Pius will rebuild his house and will likely not marry her

No body should fight for a pussy or dick

If you can't share or endure sharing it with another, just walk away, simple

It's the same taste but with different faces

Randy100:
I don't understand this story. Which brother was sleeping with the wife? The wife brother or the husband brother.

She slept with her husband brother pius

The husband got angry and went to the wife family to complain and the wife brother challenged him, he shit him in the eye and he died

They are shaking muric's table

The Muslims are coming for her rescue

Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.

Hmmm, if all you said is true, just leave her behind and travel

When you come back tell her you want a divorce and start the processing

I don't just know what her problem is

After all the pleading and begging, her head is still hot

You might not be happy with it because her nagging just started

Let her go and try another man

If you are not courageous enough to survive university studies, just find your way out instead of putting your family through pains and you end up in hell