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From munshi to yaba, you should expect that, that munshi is a dirty slum and she is use to dirts

Dizzyrascal:
well, his statement reads: I CAN EASILY GET A HOOKER AND PAY. it doesn't mean he has already done it, it means he can. He is simply implying what he can do, not what he has done.

OK, his mind is not yet ready for conventional women since he knows that he can easily hook up with hookers

If men can use their natural strength to sex a woman, these issues won't be coming up

Once a sex enhancer is used, the recipient who is the woman suffers it

Even his local government can sponsor him but greed will not allow them

The state should take over

His relatives will not want to support because of family matters as they don't want him to be greater than their own child

In her imagination, does she think she is getting real proposers ❓

These beast have started again in a rape form

All these bastards they gave birth to without planning

Animals in human form

Amuocha:
Fulani fulani fulani fulani herdsmen

With this withdrawal same time that he was killed, its not fulani

He must have been caught, atm taken from him with the pin number and probably he saw there faces and they decided to kill him as they have confirmed the pin and successful withdrawal

Fulani are so dumped to be that smart in technology

There own is to create havoc by killing

XhosaNostra:
I wonder why she's posting this on social media. She needs to be investigated imo. Perhaps there's a new relationship she wanna pursue & doesn't want the children standing in the way of her "happiness". Something is fishy about this.

Stop this nonsense thinking

phidipe:
Hello pals.

Please i need your honest and sincere advice advice please and i will be very happy if you help me out of this silent desire of mine. i attend a church with this woman. She is a lecturer and a widow. She lost her husband some years back and she has two beautiful children a girl and a boy. since i started worshiping in this church my desire is always towards her most of the time i will be staring at her she knows am always do that.

Sometime she will lock her eyes with mine she is older than me a Phd holder and working in a federal university. Please it seems i like this woman. but i don;t want to mess up myself and get disgraced. So please how do get my intention known to her, i asked the Pastor about the pastor said she is free and seriously needs a companion but my pastor is not someone to discuses the intention with from my observation he is not good in that aspect.

So please my fellow nairalander help me out please i am dying in silence, i am not married but i have kids from a woman that has remarried she left when i have nothing then. I am of age too but not as old as her Honest advice please

You have a good interest in her, but you have to be very matured with her.

She is lonely and you too are lonely, so the both of you might be a good choice to each other

Age shouldn't be an issue because it is never written that a man must marry his junior, what count is maturity

Be bold about it, try and approach her that you will like to have her number, she will give it to you

Start from there, don't get intimidated about her profile but respect her and respect yourself and you guys will sail through

The key word is respect and am glad that you guys have children from the previous marriage

Dizzyrascal:
Miss, if you indeed paid any attention to this post you would see clearly where the Op stated that he has never had sex. So what's all this talk about hookers? Clean up your mindset, please

Read it again, he said only with hookers, so who are hookers ❓

20yrs old ❓

That's to early for such madness

SingleGuy9999:
Good day guys, I'm not really too active here, but this is a 2nd account I created for this. I am 22 year old student in my final year. But I've never had a girlfriend, also I have never had sex, but that is not the major problem as I can easily get a hooker and pay. I feel I'm pretty good looking, at least average. This would be a little long, pls try to read through.

My problem is I can't seem to get a girlfriend, I have been rejected by girls like 7 times in a row or more...I don't meet that many girls but I do go out and meet sha and if I like a girl and I feel she's someone I can date I ask her out. If we aren't really vibing I just delete their numbers and forget about them. But I keep getting rejected by all the girls I've asked out, they either see me as a friend and tell me stuff like I'm a good friend or they not ready for a relationship or that they feel I have no feelings for them...like wtf

It's really frustrating so much that it's literally killed every confidence I have to ask girls out. Like the last 3 girls I wanted to ask out I ended up not bothering since I know it'll end same way...planned to ask one out today but I just couldn't stand to get rejected again...cos even tho I think what I'm getting might be green light I'm not sure about girls anymore...in fact now I'm no longer sure if the girls I think liked me before ever did (I wasn't interested in them so I didn't ask them out). Even the one who made me lose all hope was after spending so much time with a girl, I was asking her out for 4 months, I never tot I'd ever ask a girl out that long but I was blinded by love...and we spent so much time together, my friends kept wondering if we were dating but she never said yes even tho she said she liked me too but kept giving excuses...and I pretty much abandoned chasing other girls in for that while...but I still got a no at the end with story changed to she tot she liked me but was just trying to as she could see I was in love with her and didn't wanna break my heart...

That killed my confidence, and I'm not blaming her or anyone...now since then I've only asked 2 girls out, and I still got rejected...

I spend time with the girls, we hang out, flirt, chat etc but they would never date me... I've gotten so lonely as I want to date someone I truly care about and I have even questioned if it's possible for 2 people to fall in love with each other out of the billions of people on earth.

I've heard from someone that I play with girls too much so they won't take me seriously, another was that I'm nice (I don't think I'm that "nice guy" cos I won't go extra mile for any girl just cos I like her, but I'm understanding and I think I tend to make excuses for people when they disappoint). And I'm tired of girls seeing me as a friend, or being taken for granted. In fact my best female friend is one who I asked out before.

When I see people dating I wonder if they from another planet, I can't figure out what's wrong...is it that I have no luck with girls? I have gone online, read books etc. They all keep saying same thing...they talk about confidence but I had that...tho right now I just fake it cos all my confidence is gone with numerous rejections. Then I read about working on yourself, I have done that, I may not be anywhere near the freshest guy but at least I'm sure I'm okay. They talk about creating tension and stuff by making contact and I do that, I hold them around the waist etc....

So far I even read that I shouldn't blame myself or stop trying to figure out what went wrong when I face rejections, that's what I'm doing now...but nothing seems to be changing. I rarely spend time with girls again, except some good friends, and instead I've been focusing more on my hobbies cos I now see it as a waste of time when it only ends in rejection. I think of going out with a girl but I just rather sit at home or spend more time with my guys or even spend the money on them cos I'm fed up. The thought even crossed my mind to give up on girls since it never seems to work...I'm not used to multiple failure as even in other stuff I don't fail as much, but I just can't seem to get it to work with girls. Everything seems fine at first and going smoothly but it all ends with rejection.
I don't wanna give up on girls and I know there's nothing left of my confidence when it comes to girls, tho I fake it...and I will never result to insulting girls just cos of my rejection.

Pls I need real advice on what to do, I have exhausted all my options, and today I resolved to never ask any girl out till I'm 99% sure she'll say yes, but is that even possible? I know every guy gets rejected but it's not easy when u get rejected several times in a row by girls you have serious feelings for.

Should I just cut my losses and give up on girls? For months I spent time on other things and never really cared about any girl any longer but now that feeling is back with this new girl but I can't even ask her out cos I can't say for sure what her reply would be... maybe a no as I usually get...

Pls don't insult me or call me names I just need advice that would help

You have not been patience enough with women and their delay tactics, besides you are already used to hockers and their quick service

Falling in love might not really come easy for you because those hookers are an alternative for you

Everything still boils down on you, restrict yourself and calm down to start a different life style from the hockers

A man without patience can't fall in love or get loved

revenge001:
foolish country with imbecilic creatures, sometimes i feel like suing my parents for making love and enjoying themselves thereby bringing me to this shithol. I spit on this country...... Nonsense

Justify this by not birthing a child here

Jayslicky:
It's not insultive, it's up to the lady to say yes or no.

Who will risk her heart and love with a casanova like him, who can detect a sweet pussy from ordinary picture ❓

That's gambling

ubunja:
don't be jealous. It makes you look uglier than you are.

Concentrate on how to have a good mind set, you are too myopic

ubunja:
so you gonna compare female biology and male biology?

Don't be such as a useless feminist

After sending post on how to satisfy a woman you are here concluding on them, you are still learning

It's a book with so many volumes

ubunja:
men's bodies have 99 problems and Expiry ain't 1.

When you get to that age you will understand better, enjoy your youth age for now

ubunja:
so you gonna compare female biology and male biology?

Don't be such as a useless feminist

You picked on the females, so the male's too have theirs

Who goes to the female body's ❓, Males.

Your problem is complex

ubunja:
That's like getting an ancient car a new engine. It won't help. By 40 a woman's body has totally gone to shît

EDIT: so much butthurt from my comment.

Your level of understanding and maturity still need an upgrade

What about men that gets flaccid and uses an enhancer to stay on ❓

There is nothing illegal there, just that they would have renewed their visas and get work permit

They will sort their way out

visijo:
A date is a meeting between two people who would wish to know more about each other but not an opportunity to order food you never ate in your life my sister.... �����

Then why taking her to an eatery when you can take her to your office if you ever have one ❓

When you come to eateries, what are you expected to do there, perceive the aroma and go or to patronise them ❓

Flier:
Dont mind those idiots 99% of parent does it with their daughter I don’t see anything wrong

You are right
Even the daughter doesn't know what she is doing, she believes they are playing

It's just play time and I don't see what is wrong in it

Why taking the car and leaving your children ❓

He must be a low life man

What if he gets an accident with the car one day and becomes crippled, would it be the woman fault or the man's fault ❓

He would have just let go, simple

So this child will not bear his surname until they sort themselves out

Anyway be strong over handing that child like a single mum that you are

This is one of the disadvantage of staying and living in face me I face you

They are always outside till night before going in to sleep, once there is no light, it becomes worst

If you leave in a flat, 6pm,you are not expeted to be outside

May she be found in Jesus name

9th August and we are on 6th August ❓

That's by the way

These small boys just want to have money not minding the risk involved

Lazy youths tgat have lost focus in their life at an early age

Just jail them to reduce more crime

Ndiala

justine94:
My Gf of Almost 3 years, her Ex still calls her anytime he likes even though not Frequently, she once told me she felt bad about him that he did nothing to her, she so much believe him to an extent he calls her to tell her things that he Dreamt about her life.

She says most of his Dreams comes to Past while they were Dating then. When she went back to school, she told me he called her to come see him but she declined.

I know she loves me very much, she has proven it to me beyond any reasonable doubt but she still has a Soft Spots for her Ex.

Its making us have issues most times. Of recent i saw a dialled log of her ex on her phone. She said she wanted to check on him. It weakened me alot.

But she said it was nothing, even though the ex is actually helping her kid bro for his admission. She claims she only called to tell him that the brother has written his PUME exams...

When i look at her, I have this feeling she still have a soft spot for her ex..i told her can she see her ex call and not pick it up, she could not ansa. I asked her if she still loves him, she could not ansa, she only tell me she cant go back to him, that she loves me..

I know she won't go back to him, but i know this to be sure she still have a Soft spots for her ex..and her ex knows this very well, so he calls her anytime he likes knowing fully well he knows how to talk to her for her to listen.

Anything he tells her she believes him, notwithstanding, anytime he calls her ,she tells me that he called her, am just confused.. I have already told her i cant continue again becuase i cant continue to hurt my self....

Please i need advice

Am ex remains an ex, you don't know the level of the closeness before they separated

She might be close to him, which might lead to intimacy or not

If she loves you as you claim, she will respect your relationship


They are communicating because of her brothers admission and I think you need to give her time

If after he gains admission and they are still glued to each other, then let her know that you guys need a break so that she can tell the other guy that she wants to focus in her relationship

But is she the one you want to marry or just dating

I don't want you to put her in a tight corner

cococandy:
Where’s the blame for the father in all of this?

The step mom is evil no doubt.

The father whose flesh and blood this is should even attract more of a verbal scourge for letting someone he married and can easily divorce do this to his own blood.
Are men exempt from being good parents?
If the man is not a fool and he mistakenly gets married to someone who treats his child this way, a sensible man will do away with such an evil woman and be the safety for his child/ren.

Imagine the pain when a stranger (step mom) does this to a child. Now imagine the pain, fear and hopelessness that child will feel if the person God assigned to care for him joins in doing it?
Yet all we are hearing is step mom this and that. Like the man gave up his brain once he got married.

Do you know why I left the dad out of this ❓

It takes a real father to stand firm and protect his child in the presence of a step mum


Some men are so stupid and clueless, they are weak in the face of the step mum just because probably she is the one feeding and providing for the entire family

Who is that woman that will come into a man house and maltreat a motherless child if the father have not compromised ❓

The best option in this instance is to take that child to his mother's family let him grow up there

All these future step mothers, you have to take it easy oohh

Some one's child should be your own child, treat them with love and care, the results always come out during your old age

Marriage is meant to be enjoyed and if your happiness is not guaranteed, just do the needful.

As for the instergram man that says that women should be humble, respectull, don't challenge your husband, what ever he says is final. You are quoting the Bible as if the Bible has no portion where it us written for a man to love his wife.

That word "love" is a word with so many meanings.

You can't be wearing designers dress, glasses and bag with a bathroom slippers, it won't work.

Before you expect a woman to give you heavenly peace, be the heaven she will dewel in

If you try this one naw, those mad danfo drivers will just clear knock him off and ran away