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frankkydee:
Oh really, even if the single dad is so lovely,caring and wealthy?

frankkydee:
You hardly see a single dad so loving and caring












Oh really, even if the single dad is so lovely,caring and wealthy?

drips8:
Society looks down on childless married couples and the stigma is worse for the women

lilbest4:
What about the boy child and what's so important about the girl child that we will no longer hear word?
The way women Focus on only the female gender if men do /did the same do you have any idea how your lives would look like today? Selfish gender.

Nbote:
Stop weeping and do something now U are in a position to do something about it in ur own little way..

ceejayMAX:
WHICH ONE BE CAMBODIA,E NOR GET WHERE NIGERIANS NOR DEY FOR THIS WORLD.

FocusedB1h:
This is nothing to be proud of especially when they do it at the neglect of their region. They go about “developing” every other place but the entire south east is a mess.
Stupidity

aminusodiq:
Now, jamb ar eager to prosecute someone who was wrong but ar not ready to take d blame for witholding d results of a graduate frim tulip secondary school in abuja!!! After so many clear evidences d boy is a born talent... Dey kept mute!!!! Jamb are lik bubu... Very clueless board

eni4real:
Single mothers should settle with single fathers.. Stop adding burden to a young man life.. He is just starting up for God sake.
He is yet to have his own child but he is a step father already... Is that what you wish your blood brother?? To marry a single mother??

Single mothers can become a second wife in another family too. That is perfect for their MATURITY

degamemaster:
You might the lucky one. Just read my last comment.


And btw, you're still by now...

Pinky111:
Pls friends I have a man coming for my hand in marriage- US base.

He was a two times divorcee and later came home in 2016 to marry the third who later joined him but the marriage is having issues.He has 4children in all from previous marriage
This man is telling me to have a child for him and possibly marry him that the children over there will never come back to Nigeria. He said he needs an indigenous wife and baby who are going to base in Nigeria until the child gets to 18. He is assuring of financial security and comfort.

He is in his early 70s and I'm 33. The age gap is much coupled with the fact that I don't love him. What should I do ,he is damn serious. On the other hand I'm considering my age. But truth be told I see him as a father figure and least expected the sudden demand for marriage.

LillyVal:
I don't know why Ladies think that anytime a guy invites them to his house is for sex
Please some times men just need someone to talk to, Is that right guys?

degamemaster:
Tell me the truth, are you a single mother and where do you base? Send me an email.

Temmygold600:
Hi people
I opened this acct cuz I need advice

I have a boyfriend who is 8 years older than me
We both love each other but the problem is he insults me anytime we have a misunderstanding and he always threaten to hurt me but yet am always the one to beg for forgiveness.

This has happened a lot of times and we had another fight again and he called me stupid and prostitute and promised to hurt me as usual and he did .he called my dad and told him am a prostitute,, something have never done in my life my.. and he told my dad all sort of things.we broke up and I decided not to beg this time cuz I was hurt..
During the break up I met another guy tho I knew this guy before and I friend zoned him for a year.i decided to give him a chance..he is really nice and caring and doesn't insult me whenever we quarrel but I didn't love him like my ex.

I missed my ex bf and I felt incomplete without him.but this guy is always busy and doesn't have my time much or maybe that's just my excuse... later I called my ex and we got talking again, we got back together but I didn't know how to tell the other guy.he later found out that I got back with my ex but he wasn't angry instead he begged me to choose him or date both of them and told me he would wait for me whenever am done with my ex.i told him to leave me alone and broke up with him but he told me we should be friends again.
But recently I had another fight with my ex turned boyfriend again and he insulted me and called me a bastard.. he told me never to call him again.i had to beg and beg before he forgives me again and now I think I should just let him go now cuz I don't want to get hurt anymore.
But I still have doubts about leaving him cuz I would feel incomplete again.we have been through a lot together and I know all his family and vice versa .
Should I let him go and face my studies and graduate before thinking of relationship again cuz am still very young ,am only 21 and he is 29
I don't want to spend my life with this kind of person
OR
Should I give the other guy a chance again and move on cuz I can't seem to forget my ex anytime I try to .
Please advice me on what to do
Thanks

Ilekokonit:
Once a woman realises that you love her more than she loves you, she will one way or another destroy your self esteem.

ubunja:
I'm the biggest loser. That's why I'm a baby daddy. Cause I can afford to screw around cause I can't get pregnant.

But you can't do that. You have to watch who you sleep with

jumzzy448:
Hello house,

Pls don't get confused with my topic. I just have an issue bothering me.
I have a friend, let me call her friend A. We were so close that she basically tells me everything about her other friends. Both good and bad. Let me call her other friends B and C.

One day, there was a misunderstanding between the 3 of them and I got involved one way or the other. After the whole matter died down, I became friends with B and C. Friend B we help babysit for each other cos we leave close by. Friend C cos we work together.

During the course of our friendship, I realized my own friend has actually said a lot of unpleasant things about me to friend B and C But I don't want to cause no problem so no confrontation. Rather, I started withdrawing from Friend A but still don't want to lose the friendship.

We had another argument today and she made a statement that my friend's friend is not my friend. She actually said it in yoruba that if I think it well then I'll understand what she's saying. She feels she's been sidelined.
Pls advice me...do I cut off the whole friends or what? But I don't know how possible that will be especially with the one that we babysit for each other.
What actually scares me with friend A is once you offend her, she'll badmouth you to every Dick and Harry.
Don't have no other friends just this little circle.
Pls no insult. Thank you.

Pls don't mind the typos.

infortech:
Good afternoon All. I have some issues am passing through in my Marriage, because I married a nagging and Hot temper woman. I never noticed this things am seeing now before our wedding. after our wedding everything open. because of church issues we Wher not able to stay to together to monitor each other, she only visit on Saturday and go on Sunday. I never no she is hiding many things for me. NOW THE MAIN PROBLEM IS. Any time we have some issues she will start raising her voice so that people out side will hear her. just two days ago being 14/08/2019. we have augment before you no it she start insulting me, calling me all sort of names. I told her that I will never lay my hands on her but if I do she will shot up her mouth, she stands up from her sit and told me that she have been waiting for the day I will do it. that if I try it any day, she will STAB ME And It Will Appear IN Television, then immediately I remembered the day I saw cutlass under our bed. I was wondering what is this cutlass doing under the bed. pls your advice needed

AstroG:


Brother wey mumu, as the thunder dey fire you all the time wey make you dey frustrated

hpretty:
It's been 6years already, I had my son when my ex walked away because he wanted to pursue his career. After he made me let go of all the people that loves me and care about me.

I wanted to go for my Master's but till today, I've not been able to achieve that because I've been busy working hard talking Care of my son.
no relationship, no marriage. no dating.

I'm already 30years and i'm always afraid to get committed.
Afraid to involve in sexual relationship.
I eaily turn people down because I don't believe them.
I keep meeting people, but I don't like any.
I'm always afraid.

I realized should I keep being this way, I may not be able to settle down and I love to.
Anyone who sees me will think I have a serious relationship, but I have non not even being in a sexual relationship for years.


Counselors in the house, please

What measure can you suggest for me?
Do you think something is wrong with me?
I was a loving person back then, but I don't know of now.


For the past few days, I really feel so lonely and depressed.
Like I want to talk to someone

Raydos:
See bressssssssssss