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delkuf:
Please I need your advice. Is so happened that I know this lady for years now. we are good friends. But the problem is, I know that as a Christian we can't really get married because she is a Muslim. So I have been trying to keep the relationship on just us being friends, even though I love her and I know She has this little feelings for me. If I had been serious, I know we would have gotten married or close to that, but I keep avoiding her and sometimes I do it on purpose.

Now, where I get really confused is that, any time i pray for God's will in marriage, she keeps coming to my mind. This is not infatuation or something. It has been happening over and over again. I know God also talk to us through giving us this deep impression in our heart.

It was so deep on day that I told the Holy Spirit that I can't marry her. I spoke with my pastor this week concerning this issue, and he said it is not possible for God to tell us to marry a Muslim and this thing keeps coming. am really confuse. because of this, have not been praying concerning marriage.

PLEASEEEEEE, I need Christians to comment on this.

Even if you marry a pegan, it makes no difference
She is a Muslim and you are a Christian
The most important question for you is,
Do you really love her and be happy to spend the rest of your life with her

Ask her if she is ready to change her religion
Ask her if she will allow your children practice Christianity with you
If she says yes, good luck

There are chances that with time the love she has for you and the marriage will make force her to change her mind

Love is the main thing in marriage,, absence of quality love distroys marriage more than religion

Eketem:
Trouble getting creates himself most times.

If he doesn't have time to be a father as you say then he should relinquish all rights to fatherhood and let a man who has less trouble and more time be a father. You cannot abandon parental responsibility to a mother and be having unprotected sex everywhere to bring in more babies that you will still be too troubled to father

You guys failed to understand that, that pregnancy was planned alone by Amaka and Mike was not aware that Amaka needed him for child bearing

You people should stop blaming Mike for not taking up his responsibility over that child, what is happening to him is more than he can cope with.

When the time comes, even in a law court the DNA will favour him.

I keep wandering why people keeps their generator close to them to have inhale the smoke

Does it mean that it was kept by the parlour, room or kitchen

Eketem:
Zero actual efforts, he spends more time jumping around and banging than attempting any sort of care for the baby. Only shows up once in a while to play with the baby. A baby needs much more

Amaka is strictly keeping that child away from Mike,

Mind you, Mike doesn't go to Amaka's house unless on invitation

Amaka is so rich that she won't even want to accept anything from Mike for that child

Amaka haven't told Mike openly that the child belongs to him she only acknowledge that when Mike forces it on her

Mike haven't even found his foot talk more of fending for that child

Mike is not even bothered that he hasn't spend a dine for his son, for the fact that the DNA test proves that he is his son, thats all he needs.

This Mike, trouble has become your middle name

Mike, if you are very sure of the paternity of your son, don't slak, it's now time for you to take over her business, syphon all the income and hold it as a ramson if she doesn't declare the true father.

LilSfc:
There is this girl I met at my working place in the mid last year, we exchanged contact that day, and one thing led to the other and we started dating. We are really into each other and I can sense how much she care about me compared to other relationships I have been in the past.

But when my mum got to know about her, she said she's not in support with our relationship and she has never said such in my past relationship.

Please I want to seek advice from nairalanders on how I can peacefully end the relationship without hurting her feelings.

And how can I justify myself so that she won't have a bad impression about me (and men in general) that I just use her and dump her.

Is not about your mother dislike for her, it's about you

Have you asked your mum why the dislike ? Does her reply make sense to you?

Do you really love her or you are with her until you get someone you are in love with. If you love her keep talking to your mum if you don't love her let her off.

Are you really ready for marriage and willing to spend your entire life with her? Marriage without love is like a cooked soup with out a single salt.

Ask yourself all this question the answers lyes with you.

I just hope you haven't proposed to her

OK, for all of you fighting for Amaka to live
I withdraw my death wishes for her
Let's see how it will all end. Lol

iListen:
No one can take the place of one's mother.

How can the innocent son even be fine with Mike's mother who is more or less living in poverty?

Abeg o...

My own logic is that Amaka wants Mike all for herself

You and I knows that Mike would rather remain single instead of marrying Amaka.

I don't wish her child to be brought up by another mother all I want is for Amaka to free Mike and if it will warrant her death, then let it be

alexistaiwo:
Oya cool down and go through this comment of yours.
Is this written in English or your native language

You are found of this question of yours

Just underline the sentence that warrant your question.
Mtcheew

favourbaby:
All of you wishing Amaka death should come and take gun and snuff life out of her.

After that, una go carry her baby and train am for Mike.

Make una remember to prepare breast wey d Bobo go suck as una wan kill hin mama.

My dear, Amaka have a hidden agenda let's be hopeful she doesn't unleash it on Mike

iListen:
Hian! Amaka is the mother of Mike's son o...

I don't understand these death wishes.

Amaka is an obstacle, he placed a curse on Mike and the effects are what is happening to him now unless you didn't follow this story from page one

Mike's son can survive with Mike's mother.

If Amaka should remove his eyes from Mike and let him go good and fine

Amaka should just die let her case close or get her eliminated either by poison or assassination
She is an obstacle.

Mike pls do the needful

Mumu mother in law, so you think you are doing your daughter in law

You are actually punishing your son who pregnanted her

Idiotic mother, is it a new thing to you that when a woman comes into the family due to marriage
Family settings will change

HeWrites:
The Narcotics Control Bureau (NCB), Bengaluru on Wednesday, July 25, arrested a Nigerian national with 155.5 grams of cocaine which was being transported from Mumbai to the city.

The accused identified as Ozy Chukwudu, 30, was intercepted by the NCB sleuths when he disembarked from a sleeper bus from Mumbai to Bengaluru.

With specific information of cocaine smuggling, the NCB team was waiting for his arrival from Mumbai.

Chukwudu, who did not have a passport and other documents, was carrying a polythene bag with 11 capsules which contained cocaine.

The drug was brought to Mumbai by an unidentified man hiding it in his stomach and was later handed over to Chukwudu to be brought to Bengaluru.

According to a press release by the NCB, Bengaluru, the value of the contraband is said to be around Rs 93 lakh in the international market.
"Based on examination, he was arrested under the Narcotic Drugs and Psychotropic Substances Act," said Sunil Kumar Sinha, zonal director, NCB, Bengaluru.

He was produced before the court yesterday, Thursday, July 26.

https://www.torimill.co/news/9010/nigerian-man-nabbed-in-india-with-155-5-grams-of-cocaine-photos.html

This my brothers, una no dey fear death?

elmagnifico411:
No mind the guy

I wander why he wants to take us backwards
when we are looking forward to the end of this love triangle adventure

Ferya:
Only in underdeveloped countries Men like Mike will not be satisfied even with 10 wives. Imagine, he slept with Amaka, Ruth, Sandra and still dey eye Phila. God forbid

Mike likes women and he love sex that's one area he is very weak at

Ambitionsway:
It seems Mike has forget about Thomas the gay guy he would definitely resurface again.

He hasn't forgotten about him

Now that Sandra is in town, any threats from Jack will bounce on jack

But those policemen in Amaka house, I don't know what they are up to

You are as dumb as jumia,
You saw a cloth box for 2k and you quickly paid for it
How many cloth do you think travelling box of 2k will contain?
Give that toy to the most brilliant child in your family as a gift for being brilliant.

Hmmm
Sandra has broken the jinx by proposing to Mike and Mike gave her a strong response. (it's not easy as you think)

If Mike's decision doesn't favour Ruth, she might be stranded

Mike's mum advice to him was a very good one, telling him to use his discretion

But how well Mike will use his discretion is going to be an uphill task for mike.

Somebody must be favoured and someone must be hurt

Whatever you want to give her is not upto her inheritance from her father's wealth.

You are doing so to prove to her family that you are not after their wealth

Nice idea anyway

I don't know what is happening to people

If its possible that he can double money, he could have as well double his own money instead of looking for who to swindle

Well, those he tricked in to it are gullible

He must be forced to drink that engine oil

Ohhh my gosh
See what stubbornness has brought to candy
So she will remain in a wheelchair for the rest of her life?

This part isn't pleasant, how will they cope with this

Mike you that needed help is now stocked with helping Ruth and her sister
If you leave them at this stage, do we say you did bad?

joa2013:
My wife and her family members are driving me crazy. Their involvement in my home is becoming embarrassing. I may have to give my wife the red card asap. Her family poke noses into all my affairs. How I spent my money, who I give my money to, who I visit, and so on. All they want is to continue to expend money on them and live my life for them. I got their daughter a job, her salary isn't enough for them, how can I be taking care of able bodied men who have refused to work with their certificates, looking for jobs with good pays before they'll work, their pensioner father is not also helping matters, very difficult to please. I have made it known to my wife that our marriage contract did not include pleasing her family members but she won't listen then I worked my transfer from Lagos to Abuja, yet they're on my neck. My wife's younger brother is presently in Abuja without any clear cut mission other than to come and monitor my affairs. He called me around 7pm yesterday to tell me he's in Utako and that I should come and pick him from pack, I told him I didn't invite him to Abuja so why should I pick him up? I asked him if he didn't have a mission before coming and why he should get to Abuja before notifying me that he's coming to my place. I shunned him and switched off my phone. I switched on the phone now only to read 3 abusive text messages from my wife and one from her father threatening that if anything happens to his son, I'll be held responsible. My people, can you see my life? My pastor have been trying to broker peace between us before I left for Abuja to no avail, what I intended to do is to settle down here and get her relocated so that if she's a bit far from her family, things will work out. I'll instruct a lawyer to file divorce papers tomorrow, I can no longer take it.

You did well by putting your phone off that period, decipline have to start from somewhere.

Forget about the threats that's the beginning of being serious with them

As for your wife, let her be aware of and how you want the family to be when she comes down

Tell her if she is ready to put her family aside for both of you to raise your family she can come over

but if she is still going to put her family before your marriage she should forget it.

Also let her know that before any family members comes for a visit, it must be with your approval.
Simple

GODWINLOWSKI:
Nigeria ehh, wetin concern the buyer now. The buyer steal am, or na him tell the guy to go steal him oga jeep. Nigeria ehh, wetin concern the buyer now. The buyer steal am, or na him tell the guy to go steal him oga jeep.

The buyer is at fault, how come he bought such a car for that amount?

eagleeye2:
I so hate people like Amaka. So she was only crying because her so called friend that died was owing her money? smh

Amaka is more conscious of her business than any other thing be it human being.

Amaka's love for mike is strictly for bleeping and self satisfaction.

Why the rush,
did she marry late.

She should know that she is over working herself and she thinks she is making history
Mtcheew

This Ruth have made up her mind to die in the search for candy

Mike pls stay behind,
the deaf ear that lead candy is the same deaf ears that is leading Ruth.

iListen:
Lol...no one is even worried about Amaka. Even Mike hasn't taken time to think about the safety and whereabouts of his son.

Mike knows that his baby is in a better place.

As for his thinking about Amaka,
Amaka is the last person Mike should be worried about

Benblaq:
At a stretch? Like the two women together in the barracks? Lol now that's funny.

When it's night, who'll excuse who between the women?

what I mean is that he can keep them at different locations and still give them equal love because he loves them even as they loves him more

Benblaq:
The suspense has turned into fear of the unknown.

What if Candy dies?

What if Ruth decides to go with Mike to the barracks and Sandra arrives?

Just what if

Mike has the ability to handle all this women around him.

They love him equally and he has a place in his heart for everyone of them.

Bouncingbabyboy:
So cotonou is no longer on earth?

People ship there cars to cotonou because of cheap clearance and nothing else.