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grrr:
but who provided the money for it all?. Who works his ass off to get bills paid? Who works to put food on the table?

So you think it's only fathers that does that alone

Will you swear that you have never seen a home where their mother is a breed winner and still perform the task of a mother

Tell me such home does the man have value and love before their
children more than their mother

So in this case who will the children love more

For your information this is what is happening presently in most homes.

Mustiboy:
A father is the breadwinner of the family. He wakes up for work while the rest of the family are still fast asleep and comes back late at night when they must have gone to bed. All this he does to put food on the table for his family. Then why do the children get to shower him little or no love at all? The answer to this question may vary according to individual perspective.

As the child grows up, it gets emotionally connected to the one who is always around- the mother. Children tend to forget someone whom they don’t always see, or at worst, feel insecure with his/her presence. Does this explain the under-appreciation of fathers? Not entirely. Another point of view to this issue is the African mothers. You may ask what the mother has got to do with this, well, it’s quite simple: the African mother has a way of presenting the father in a non-pleasant way to the children. Let’s take this scenario as a case study : the children of John, who is away at work, come back from school and tell their mother they need money to buy the items needed for their forthcoming practicals in school. The mother tell God will provide, as it is the way of Africans. Later in the night, when the father has arrived from work tired and exhausted, she tells him, while in bed, about the need of the children and the husband provides as it is his responsibility. The mother then gives the children what they need and never tells them where the money came from. With this, the children feel safe confiding in their mother for their financial needs because they believe she is the one providing for them.

Fathers have a lot of work to do in registering their presence in their respective families. It is never enough to be there financially, the children need more of love and support. The mother also has a crucial role to play in helping the child appreciate the father. She needs to explain to the child why the father cannot always be around and make it understand that it cares. The father, on the other hand, should try to build a subtle relationship with the children and not to be too dictational and fierce with the children in order not to scare them away. As a father, make your children know you love them, take them out on vacations, pay attention to them, and most essentially, keep contact with them when you’re around and when you’re not. The child needs you to be at your best, dad!

Why do you think fathers are under-appreciated?

Let me pick my responds from your points

Father's are greatly appreciated and recognised but its always in a sillent ways

That fathers wakes up early and go to work while the family are still sleeping doesn't means that mothers sleeps all days
In a situation where the mother is a home maker, do you exothermic father to come home and see everywhere scattered, dirty and the children looking unkpet.
I am sure you don't expect that, it's because mothers handles that aspect

Have you ever stayed at home during school holidays and see how this children makes you to keep taking from morning till they go to bed at night
Have you wandered why they make you talk and develop headache during their holidays
It's because they have so much energy and they exact it through activities which involves noise making, fighting one another and shouting on top of their voice, it's because they have so much energy
Who handles all this wahala I have mentioned, mother's, and if she doesn't acknowledge or control their activities there will be domestic accidents

Children are closer to mothers because nature made them to carry their babies for 9 months before delivery
That alone has bound children with their mother's and she understands every child more than everyone

Fathers most times are too strict for their children, in situations like that the children will prefer their mothers who will give them listening ears and understand what it's all about

In a family settings where there is love and happiness between the parents, you will always see their mothers telling the children to pray for daddy for god to bless him.

Children always read the relay both parents
If a father so my love their mothers, they observe and appreciate but they don't see them expressing love to themselves (parents) the children will rather be closer to mothers because their dady is harsh

A father does have to be the one to give his child money directly to prove to the child that he is the one that provided if he does so, the mother's will still find a way to manipulate the children that he is not carrying

Lastly my best option is for fathers to show and prove love to them all expecially their mothers, she will be the one to present their fathers to them that he is a wonderful father.

Once the children starts growing till they marry and start their own family
They will always regards their mothers more than their fathers nature has made it so

Take a look at that collapsed structure

It was not well reinforced
The mixture was with less cement

There are things you don't manage because of materials

Now that it has collapsed
They will spend double to do it better

People should learn to do and get things right once and for all

Hector09:
This story self

The story done dey lose value and interest.
Mtcheew

Tell your Aunty and her children to invite him over to the wedding
If he refuses to come let her son play the father's role

He shouldn't use his own to disturb his children own

At his ripe age of 70yrs he wants to start life afresh just because he wants a fresh pussy

That's his choice he should allow others to make their own choices too

How much is the worth of 2 eggs that you have to give her a scare on her beautiful face

You will now spend multiple of the worth of that egg to treat her

You shouldn't have given the devil a chance to manipulate you

dinma007:
Lagos soldier identified as Esther Onyinye, who has been accused of assaulting her housemaid for not washing plates has given her own side of the story.

She took to her facebook page to respond to the allegations. She wrote;

“Hello my friends and well wishers, this girl u see here is my neice pls am very sorry for going too far to correct her in this manner, am trying to see how she can be better person. I never meant to maltreat her, i want the best for her.

U can imagine her at this age not being a virgin. She portrays character that makes her peers to always watch her and brings report every now and then about her both at school the teacher will always say “This girl is a problem child.

There things she does that i don’t want to say here, pls insults and curses will not help us with a solution to make her a better person, but ur kind advise. Tank u and GOD bless.”

Source: https://lailasnews.com/soldier-who-brutalised-househelp-has-replied/

Whatever bad you think she is, the way you handled it was abusive

If she is not a virgin at this her tender age, an adult idiot braked her virginity with out her consent because she is a minor

If she is possed take her to her parents

Biological Mothers knows best how to handle earing children
more that anyone

Maltreating her in such matters will hardened her instead

From the look of things she has been exposed to bad life
I can't say for sure who's fault
Either from her home before she came to you or while she has been living with you

Take her to her parents before she dies in your hand

Whatever that child must have done, he doesn't deserve that kind of maltreatment

That woman should be punished and her rank reduced for being brutal to that child

Jokerman:
lol.... our fathers never cared about type and skill of sex, buh since the introduction of Indecency, sex skills has proliferated... na wa...

Then there was no exposure to life

Women were having female circumsition were the clitories are being cut off to avoid such women having urge for sex

The women end up satisfing their men and nothing goes for them

When the world realised that such acts are harmful to women because they die in the process of genital mutilation, they stopped the practice

Though some town do practice it but it has come to a reduced level

Women of nowadays are joining longer circumsized and they now experience sex urge

It's now left for the man to do the needful to avoid losing such wany to another man

franchasng:
they know but men are too stubborn; we like forcing everything to go our away, sadly

You are right, men likes forcing their way and ladies don't like it that way

That's why when a lady gets a guy that allows her express herself and work on her, based on body language of the girl
She end up seeing such guys as an idol to worship

There is no way a guy will engage a lady in a fore play that will melt her from in to out and such a lady will want to loose him

A real woman needs a guy that will make her experience that heavenly feelings more than a guy that will give her money, yet down there she is not satisfied.

franchasng:
True.

Women enjoy sex more than men only when they are having sex with their dream man or preferred man, and women have more self control towards sexual urge than men.

Also women enjoy sex more than men when they are having sex with their desired man, but men enjoy sex even with a mad woman, this is where the difference lies.

Women are very preferential or selective with their choice of sexual partner while most men don't have choice; any woman is okay for them no matter how she looks, a very disgusting trait in majority of men

Women prefer to have sex with a man they feel is above them in mental capacity, financial status, social status, academic status, career status while men don't care about the financial, social, mental, psychological or emotional status of their sex partner or target.

A woman can be truly fulfilled having sex with one desired or chosen man till she dies but a man will never be truly fulfilled and satisfied having sex with just one female till he dies; it hardly ever happens, in fact it never ever happens

You spoke well as if you are a woman

I wish men will read this well and understand the content

A woman enjoys sex with whom she desires not just any man

The sight of such desired men makes a woman to squit even before sex

vizkiz:
Everyone is an actor/actress nowadays. Even when we haven't seen them in any movie.



That is not true. I am not an expert in the sexual institution but I always make women reach orgasm.

Sex ain't just about piercing through a woman's pussý.

You need to work on your _Foreplay abilities...Once you bring your A game to it, a woman will CUM multiple times with her body vibrating like generator even before you start "going harder"

If you have never made a woman _squit before, you seriously need to work on being a REAL MAN

You nailed it.
You will be a wonderful guy in bed

Good for him
Idiot, his mates are struggling to make a living he is stealing from their sweats

I need to understand this clearly

Does it means that for 15,days he was playing the music, he did not leave to the bathroom or to the loo

If he does, during that moment was the music playing

Was guinesss there to monitor the timing

OkpaAkuEriEri:
fork off wit ur opinion.
Righteous homo.


I have talk my mind. If u didn't like it nwanne I kwuo udo.
As for money.
I wee make it any witch way

You like fucking virgins because they give you good luck

Mumu, your daughters and sisters will be handled same way you handled people daughters and sisters

Idiotic man looking for Virgins for ritual purposes

As a mad man that he is

What and how does he think him alone can kill and cook a whole goat meat t and finish it without preservation

That's why he is regarded as a mad man

BIXYBABE:
Abeg dem no kill d man, although I didn't support wat he did but dey just want to make life more miserable for d 7 children. No one will take care of them, even family members.

Even if he is forgiven, he will marry another woman and keep procrating

Let him go and face it

Those children will and must survive come what may

Others will learn from his stupid act

Stupid man

You married her and she birthed 7 children for you

She took your 1000 to cook for your children

You pushed her while you know that she is pregnant with the 8th child

You are an idiot and ungrateful man to be called a husband

You will definitely be hanged until your last breath, thats what you bargained for

Bluezy13:
Hmmm...



Satan 2 : 0 God


Satan clearly leading with a wide margin, as religious fanatics are coming for my head in 3..2..1...

Shame on you
The devil will use you and still disappoint you

Hmmm

Alarm done blow for mike

Don't be surprise he might ask Ruth to abort the pregnancy

WHAT A CROSS ROAD

Idiot
You kill your girl friend and because of you, your father died

Rot in jail

The God of impossibilities will make living possible for you and will grant you safe delivery

He should go to jail for allowing his dick to direct him

He was unemployed until he got a job

He became very close the family and forget his sense of direction

Idiotic man

IDIOT

That's a good one

He finally died from the overdose of tramadol

Stay away from drugs and live a responsible life

Mumu first class

You robbed to marry your wife

then you kidnap to raise your family.

Then at the end of everything, your entire house hold will be a deen of robbers

It has not gotten to that stage
How old are you that you are marketing yourself

Go to school and keep your self busy after school get employed and you will see guys rushing you like ice cream

Stupid woman, he dealt with you, you reported him and his arrest was planned but you aborted it

Now he came back home and beat you for reporting him

What makes you think he is done with you

You don't want the children to ask you were is their dad

Hope it won't get to a stage where the children will be looking for their mum

Marriage is nut by force, once you sense danger take off

Proffdada:
have you been to East? It's only because Yorùbás are amateurs in covering their tracks. Where do you think baby factories come from?

The Ibo guys in the easten part are business conscious and are mostly hustling because there is trade competition among their kins and at the end of the year, your hustles are accessed either through the progress of other members of your family or the structure you are putting up

With that alone, they are too busy to consider rape as a source of income

That not withstanding, you will get a handful of nuisance amongs them

But the yoruba's doesn't believe in extra struggle or hustling, even when they make the money in whichever way, they end up with organising parties and sleeping with more than one women

They see crime as source of income

This stand to be corrected
All my statements are based on observations

They will keep planning but they will surely be caught.

Ladies pls, I beg you all, don't be desperate to fall in love
Stop meeting people on face book and assure them of friendship, 90% of them are scammers

You just excaped being killed for whatever purpose if they had wanted to kill you

There are more than 100 places to meet guys

If you want to date, look for guys that are doing legitimate jobs no matter their income join him in hustling and he will definitely respect you and your efforts

TechCapon:
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If you have already upgraded your Airtel sim card to 4G this information is not for you but if you’re yet to go for your sim upgrade, I just want to share a little information with you based on my own observations while upgrading my sim at Airtel office. I went for my airtel sim upgrade and I noticed that the staff always insist that everyone drops that old 3G sim with them after performing the sim swap. They give you the new 4G sim and collect the 3G sim from the customers, now this seems normal to almost all the customers in the office except me. I wondered what they were going to do with the old sims after collecting them from customers.

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Most of the customers don’t even bother to backup and erase their contacts from the sim before handing it over to the staff or anyone doing the upgrade. Most of the Airtel 4G upgrade are done by the roadside vendors are call centers and the sim can fall into the wrong hands. It’s true that the old sim gets deactivated and the new one gets activated but that doesn’t mean you cannot see your contacts if you put the sim in another phone. We should all be security conscious at all time because I know that many people store their BVN and other sensitive information in their sim memory. I’m not saying the Airtel staff are careless or anything like that but the fact remains that they intend to either destroy those sims or recycle them therefore it is important that all your data is COMPLETELY BACKED-UP AND WIPED OFF from the sim card before handing it over to them. No need to place 100% trust in anyone (Staff or not) and say my details are safe with them, play your own role and protect yourself from telling stories that touch. Thanks.

SOURCE:https://techcapon.com/important-information-for-those-upgrading-their-airtel-sim-to-4g-lte/

lalasticlala
mynd44
dominique

True talk
If they ask you to drop the sim for a swap, after successful swap demand for them to give you your sim, you want to distroy it in their presence and still return it to them immediately
With that you are rest assured that you personally break the sim

Serves him right
Instant judgement