₦airaland Forum

Hmmm,
So how will they feed them, that means if you give one mouth food you give the other mouth food.

CandidateOfHell:
Dog is Great

So shall your wish as in the name of your moniker, come through

Priscy01:
A South African man identified as Glen_motete on twitter has taken to his Twitter timeline to narrate how his girlfriend who he promised not to leave cheated in him.

Read his heartbreaking story below;
"Years ago, I had sex with this Girl and after we got done, she closed her eyes and when she opened Them, They were Filled With Tears��..

I asked her "what was wrong"

she said "you gonna leave me after this"�

After her doubting question. I answered with a shaking tired broken voice nd I was like "Bbe in u I saw love and future. If I dump you after 2 second of pleasure wht will be my benefit? I dn't do hit nd run, i care abt my life like I care about you". I love u nd I'm here 2 stay.

.allow yourself to love and to be loved, don't let your past paralyze you and prevent you from finding happiness, yes it hurts but baby allow yourself to heal. I'm her forever. That was my answer to her. She was beautify but u can tell from her speech that she's been hurt b4

She's been hurt so many times before by the people that claimed to "love " her. so it was hard for her to trust people. even when she gets in a relationship she becomes paranoid and insecure.

To all the gentlemen out there who keep treating their girl/wife right, you deserve an appreciation post. Keep making your woman happy and show everyone that good guys still exist in this day and age....

We happily dated for 4.6 years and Lord God blessed us with a baby girl. We even got engaged. 45.000 lobola was even pains to her family. We even bought a house in Soweto GP (South africa). She never thought she will ever feel loved like I did gave her love.

But ����

After all this years sacrificing my soul to her. Moulding her into a normal women. Giving her my all. Choosing her over everything. She choose attractions of this world. I thought love is all that she needed but I was wrong. She's not what i thought she was..!!

Is it coz of accident or coz I lost my job after brutal accident I'm still curious to conclude... Coz I don't know what was an influence behind her action... She was never there for me since I been hospitalized in FS. Not even a single day. But she said she loves me? �

How can you say you love some1 then choose not to be supportive? �

I was discharged after 2 months. She never had any idea that I was coming home. Maybe she thought I'm dead or she wanted me do die? When I arrive home I was happy and in Harry to meet my wife to be but only to

Find her in bed with my Friend. Happy and laughing like thing is happening in her life.

She lied �
She cheated me �
She deceived me �

I was in pain I didn't have energy to fight them. I took my baby (who she was sleeping in her room) and few clothes and then go.. She wanted to talk and explain but I was in pain, I didn't wait.

I was hurt. Emotionally and physically. I wanted to go back after few days of that scenario. But my pride didn't allow me to do so. I had no one to talk to at that time. She got no parents, few of those who negotiated the lobola left and they where far to be reached.

Honestly It takes time to move on. It takes time to completely heal again and it takes time to learn how to be happy without the person i thought i couldn't live without.�

As days pass by, i start to slowly let go of all the feelings, emotions, the memories nd everything that happened between me nd this person. She came to my house two weeks later not to explain but to tell me it was over between US.

I never answered her. I gave her everything, including her education, my child, house and car. Few months later I lost my job... And she was also pregnant with my friend's child.���

Life will humble you. I let it go. As painful as it was, i just had to let it go my friend, I can't live sad all the time. Its better to deal with the Heartbreaks than to always go to bed with teary eyes. Love is cruel sometimes but when you fall for
wrong people. I loved her �"

https://www.torimill.com/2018/07/south-african-man-shares-his-heartbreaking-story-on-twitter-photos.html

Well it has already happened and its a pity that what you tried to protect refuse to be protected.

The most important thing to you now it to get healed and start life afresh.

She has gone for good and she Will combe back but that's when you have to do to her what she did to you.

She has issues with her self, she has security issues with her self.
She doesn't really know what she wants in life.

This sane guy she elope with will definitely leave her after child birth and at the end of the day she will have kids for different fathers and she will be left to cater for those kids alone by herself because that's what she wishes for herself.

Once you recover and move on with your life and get a woman that will be with you.

This is getting tensed
Mike, I weep for the mis furtune that have befallen you,
Could it be because of Amaka and her spell ?

May their soul rest in peace and may God give her the heart to bear the greatest loss of her life

Am beginning to have mixed feelings about this story.
Mike I don't really know when your suffering will end.
Just try and round the story up because you have suffered soo much and I am not feeling happy about it again.

I summoned courage to watch the video and thereafter regret watching it.

It was a barbaric act,
the women had their children with them and their faces were tired with their own scarf and after that they were made to seat on the ground and was shot several times to make sure they died with their children.
It was a tearful sight

Ooh Mike, I hope you will not join robbery with this jack and his Julie.
Mike am begging to loose confidence in you oooh.

Metuh:
Instead of building Pedestrian bridges and Bus stops, why don't the state government focus on this part of Lagos State a little?


This is where goods are cleared and imported through.


Lagos amaka anyway.

That's federal Road for you.
Most of the revenue generated from that port belongs to federal government, so state will not and cannot handle it alone.
The state don't mind that road remaining like that until federal government brings up plan that will involve that state to repair the road due to the huge cost involved.

190theclown:
very ugly man

Post your ugly chimpanzee face here, let me see how horrible it looks like.

This is an animalistic behaviour, he should be given to dogs for dinner so that they will feast on him till day brake.

Mike has for once started using his brain instead of his dick thank goodness.
But Mike you are becoming a bad guy.
Your relationship with Thomas was a big mistake in your life.
Oooh my gosh, where is Sandra at this time.

ChiefAzubuike:
I was in that court live. It was so heart breaking seeing the poor boy just break down like that. I even felt like crying for him. I pity am sha but I can't blame him. The country is so hard anyone would do anything for money. After judgement was passed, we whisked him away to a different location to remand him in our custody. I really wish he could be given a second chance at life. He doesn't deserve this treatment at all.

Has it started affecting your brain, why not go straight to yaba left for evaluation.

This matter is getting out of hand
Mike will you survive this dangerous adventure, hmmm.

topherchris819:
I couldn't make out a way around this, my head was full and couldn't analyze any more information. So I looked at my friend who was busy smoking his life out and decided to let him in half way, perhaps he could use his discretion to my advantage.

" someone is blackmailing me". I said.

He looked at me as though I was speaking gibberish. So I repeated what I earlier said.

" I heard you the first time " Jacky said. " what did you do? " he looked suspiciously at me.

" we did something incriminating. Now he's using it against me"

" You kill the boy you're being accused of?" Thomas said rather than asking.

I looked at him and was astonished at the tone he used, as though he had figured out the truth. But I need not to let him in, so I denied it.

" Bro! What nonsense are you saying? That I killed someone? If I did I'll tell you, you are not a stranger "

" what is the condition of the blackmail? " Jacky asked lacadaisically arranging the loose end of his weed with his saliva.

" he wants me to be his b!tch"

" like a gay thing? " Jacky's voice rose a little as he looked at me with seriousness.

" yeah Bro "

To my surprise he exploded into an hysterical laughter. When he was done he took in smoke into his lungs, puffed it out and turned to me.

" bro! You got a guy after you plus the females! Where did you do the charm that is backfiring " he said grinning.

" come on! Be serious! I am in a deep sh!t"

" Something tells me you are hiding something from me. But what's my business. How do you want me to come in, since you consider me a guru". He adjusted himself comfortably.

I reasoned what he said, but chose to ignore it.

" i don't know what to do, am confused that's why I am seeking your help" . I said.
" kill him " he said abruptly.

I looked at him in dismay. He finished his smoke and dropped the leftover in the ashtray that was almost full.

" I don't know what you mean by kill him " I said gently.

" meant, take the life out of him, so that he will die and be buried, so that he's chapter will be closed same as your problems " he said changing the channel with a remote.

His eyes were bloodshot, he could barely open it properly only by half taking his head backwards could he see.

" are you capable of murder?! " I asked.

He turned to me and gave me questioning look then said.

" how can you consider killing a man who wants to forcefully disvirgin another man's anus murder? For me it's a way to rid the society of miscreants. If you kill him, you are doing the world a great good".

I knew this was the lamest advice ever. So I kept my plans to myself. I turned to him to ask of something but he was already snoring with his mouth open. So I called mum to inform her of where I was.

The next day I risked going to work from Jacky's place. It was eventually a success. Sandra's number wasn't going through so I couldn't tell her what was going on. Ruth on the other hand had been keeping in touch with me all through my sojourn.

Another day I went to work cautiously, always looking behind my shoulder. On my way back from work a text rang on my phone. It was from Thomas: YOU HAVE TWO DAYS LEFT. I read the message a second time, before I resolved to pay him an unfriendly visit.

I was in front Thomas's house the evening of that day. There was a church nearby having an alnight, and the sound from the church monopolized all others. My heartbeat almost exploded from my chest as I looked around me to ensure no one was coming. The gate was locked and the fence was very high with barbed wire. I went round the house looking for how to enter, but all to no avail. Then I saw a place where Thomas's fence met with a neighbors that was lower . I climed the neighbors fence which gave me access into Thomas's. I covered the barbed wire with my shirt before placing my hands on the pillar edge of the fence and pulled myself carefully to the top, then carefully crossed the barbed wire. The floor seemed far away to the ground. I first removed my shirt before I held the pillar edge of the other side and slowly freed myself using my legs to descend down still holding the edge, then I freed my hands and landed quietly into the compound.

I tiptoed round the house looking for an access in. The whole house was litted, I had to stay out of sight. Every part of the house had burgulary proof, no access in. That was when it was dawn to me that my plans was not properly drafted.

I sat on a cemented pavement at the back of the house thinking of plan B, when suddenly I looked up and it occurred to me the ceiling was accessible .

I went to the kitchen side of the house. Waited for the church to begin their loud singing before I climed the burgulary protector up till I could touch the ceiling, then gave it a blow, it broke open . I slowly began widen it to give me access in. When it was wide enough, I held the wood inside and pulled myself in.

It was dark inside, I didn't know which part of the house I was, but I was careful not to step on the ceiling as I maneuvered through the woods. I came to a spot . From the look of things I was in a bedroom. So held a wood and released myself with full force into the house. The ceiling made a loud noise and scattered everywhere and as I swung from the top, then realised my hand and landed in the sitting room.

It was dark in there and the whole floor was covered with broken ceiling. I hastily moved away from the spot to place my back on the wall beside the door that leads to the main house expecting someone to come in anytime soon.

After waiting for a while no one came out, I slowly opened the door, and moved into the house. First, I went to the room Thomas took me. I slowly turned the knob and the door opened, I peered into the room, the bed was empty. I went in and slowly opened the bathroom door as well, it was empty. So I left the room to another room, it was empty, then to the third room, still empty. I searched every part of the house, thomas was no where in the house. I went to check outside for his car, it was packed outside.

" where the hell is this guy? " I muttered to myself.

I swept the spot the ceiling scattered. Packed it into a nylon and left it behind the kitchen door. I went to the fridge, took out a caned drink and frozen rice and chicken. Went to the microwave put it in while I sipped my caned beer. I Went to the sitting room, put on the TV and was watching a documentary. Few minutes later I went to check on my food, it was ready. I took it to the sitting room, ate, drank as I continued my documentary .

I called Phila to inform her that I won't be coming to work the next day.i begged her to cover up for me. After that i relaxed and continued to consume the drinks in the fridge before I dozed off on the couch.

Mums call woke me up. She wanted to know about my where about. And after she was convinced by my lies of doing great, she hung up.

I looked outside it was already so bright. I stood up, went to the fridge, got myself a jog of milk and cookies. Went to the dinning, poured a full cup of milk and poured some of the cookies in a plate. Carried them to the sitting room, put on the TV, and tuned to kiddies channel. I drank and ate my cookies while giggling at the funny cartoon movie.

It was evening, I was already tired of staying at a place, so I went to Thomas's bedroom, used his shower and came back to his waderope, out of curiosity I went through his stuff. I came across gay porn, a lot of it. I tossed them aside and continued checking. Then I found a gun. " who is this guy?" I thought to myself. I continued searching but found nothing else.

The gun was a loaded stainless 9mm automatic Beretta. I kept the gun aside and sat thinking of how to deal with thomas when he returns now I had a gun. I was in my brainstorming when I heard a sound at the gate. I rushed to check, it was Thomas and some two gay looking guys.

" wow! Things just got complicated". I said whispered to myself.

Oh what a pity Mike
Sandra pls come and rescue your baby.

From frying pan to fire

Oh what a pity Mike
Sandra pls come and rescue your baby.

From frying pan to fire

Mike what kind of book of trouble are you in.

From fighting at Amaka shop

To murdering your friend by those holligans

To meeting Thomas who is a gay

To killing of commissioner's son

To police station and police wahala

To car accident

To near death and a visit to the spirit world

Now to the mercy of Thomas .

Haba every chapter in that book is problems upon problems.

lilyheaven:
OP, that man second son, has he been able to find the money on wardrobe floor, I hope he will find something for Mike?

Mike had delivered his message and that end's the matter

EmpresFIDEL:
it is very difficult.. I have been addicted to him for 5years. so the only thing that want to separate us on this earth is genotype. it's very painfull

I agree that it's painful, but let me ask you a question,
was he the one that dis Virgin you, if no then bear the loose of him in this relationship than to be the loose of the children that you will subject to turture, at the end he will still brake your heart and marry someone else.

So tell me which is more hurtful emotionally
Loosing him due to ss,
or loosing your child due to ss

EmpresFIDEL:
please friends i really need your advice. I have been dating him for 5yrs now, we love each other so much . but our genotype is giving us serious issue, we are both As and we don't consider brake up as an option. the pressure on my boyfriend from family and friends is making him want to dissolve the relationship when he still love me deep down and I love him too.. we are just too confuse. I don't want to lose him.

You don't consider brake up, OK you will accept sickles cell children when they come.

Pls.get separated and start life afresh, it's not going to be easy but you guy's have to try hard to avoid future regrets

HEseesall:
I had to open this account for anonymity
I'm in a dilemma, let me start like this, when i and my husband first got married we did a joint business that fetched us a huge amount of money, the aim was to build a house, when we got the money, he decided to use his' for his parents (i had no problem with that) then mine for what we wanted to use it for

Two weeks ago we had a major misunderstanding, it was soo intense to the extent that he told me to park out of the house, in the heat of things i told him that cannot be possible that the house is in my name, he was shocked, saying it is impossible we built it together that it's in his name, i had to remind him what happened then, he was furious saying it was wrong of me to use my name, that he cant believe he has been staying in a house that does not belong to him, he told his family what i did claming victim, then he packed out saying he wont come home till i change the name to his full name, i begged him to no avail, i dont even know how to tell my people, imagine if it was in his name, i and the kids would have been out of the house by now, he has requested for transfer from his office to another state cos of this, who does that?? He cant expect me to change it to his name.

Pls i need other advise to go about this, he is a good man but he feels his ego has been bruised, i need other options.


MODIFIED For those viewing this, i have made some clarifications down to page (1),

Be courageous and bold in this issue.
Since you pleaded with him and he refused forget it and move on.
Inform your whole family about everything the way it happened.
If he wants to relocate let him do so, life goes on.
Don't be subber or disturbed about it.
Start seeing yourself as a single parent.

Let nobody on earth advice you or convince you to change it to his name, never.

Worst case senerio you change it to your children name, but I repeat don't change anything leave it the way it is.

He is having ego and complex problems with himself because he sees himself as Lord, let the ego and frustration hit himself not you.

Face the children and focus on training them for good tomorrow.

Assuming he is the one that built the house that means you will be a slave in your husband house and he can as well chase you out and marry another woman, no way.

If he wants to remarry leave him to go ahead na him go tire.
Nonsense.

Mike Mike, you are such a good guy judging from the way you have been helping people,
your goodness will see you through just that you have to calm down and settle yourself to have a good family.

Tension wants to kill me, Mike pls continues your story from the land of the dead.
Am sure they also have Internet facilities

It's quite unfortunate, his late brother seems to be very very stubborn.
If he has succeded, he would have killed his brother because he was out to take a soul but fortunately for him, he paid the price.
John should be allowed to you free life is better with the mother having John than his late brother.
The family has the right to inform the court that its there affairs and wishes to withdraw the case, simple

Ahhhh.
Mike tell me you are dreaming oooh.
How do you want your mother to cope with out you?

Oooh poor Ruth.
Wonderful Sandra
Horrible Amaka
Phila where do I place you?

Mike pls wake up from that night mere

Ahhhh.
Mike tell me you are dreaming oooh.
How do you want your mother to cope with out you?
Oooh poor Ruth.
Wonderful Sandra
Horrible Amaka
Phyla where do I place you?

Mike pls wake up from that night mere

daviesblaze:
your english ehnn..... where are you from ? Mike Or Mick

Observation noted

This thing called love suppose to have an alternative, to avoid all this embarrassment.
I feel for both of them.

Benblaq:
"I felt pity for her because I can never
find her attractive, she's so not my
spec and not even close to manage."


We die here oh, see savaging.

topherchris819 I want to see Amaka and Sandra clashing for once jare, let power face money, wit for wit.

Must it be the innocent dumb Ruth everytime?

Mick is too smart for Sandra and Amaka to clash.
As for. Ruth, destiny have made her to be the one to suffer and be at the receiving end of this drama.

This mick of a guy why is your life. Revolved around women.

The only person that can tame you is Sandra, she has the prowees to do so.

Amaka can only be used for financial benefits if only she will drop

Ruth, unfortunately she might loose mick to Sandra, she would have been a good wife for mick but mick will keep braking her heart unintentionally.

Phila is lucky mick has been spending for her bills even without bleeping her yet, he must been hatching something for doing that.

Definitely that curse most be broken for mick to be a free man.

Mick's mum have suffered so much that the pains mick is giving her is worse than the labour pains she had giving birth to him, yet he still loves him dearly.

Mick what's the problem, for 48hrs now no update.
The suspense is affecting the follow up of the story.
Plsssss, give us double updates to make up for the delay, abeggg.

Raskasal:
This post is directed to the matured minds in the house.

I've dated this lady for close to a year now and I have the intention of having her as my wife because of my love for her. She's got good qualities, cooks well, supportive in a little way but temperamental and easily provoked.

But there is this challenge I'm having with her, she puts up surly attitude and would always keep to herself whenever I correct her, and she won't talk to me for as long as we stay together, call or try to get in touch while away. This might last for as many days not until I come out to calm her down. Over times shes been doing this and the only way I've had to let things be normal is for me to talk to her again and beg her not to be angry. But I'm feeling I'm loosing my worth. This is someone that never admits she's at fault, talk less of apologizing. On several note I have had to take blame for her errors even when I'm not at fault just to make sure we're fine.

A recent development was that she came for holiday and was using the rest room within my apartment, I was passing by and asked her to close the door, she murmured, closed the door and she hasn't been talking to me since then and even when I do she'll answer reluctantly for like five days now. I am tired of living under same roof with someone that never feel anything keeping malice and I want her to realize her mistakes and apologize, but she won't, she'll rather stay back in the room, and whenever I go to the room, she be making avoiding moves.

I watched her closely to observe if she's into someone else but I haven't got any traces of that.

I have decided not to call her to terms again not minding if it costs a break up, but then am thinking I might be taking things way far.

Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.

Thank you all

Take a break from the relationship and review it if it Worth's it. Left for me leave her and cool down your self, she doesn't know the importance of your relationship and marriage.
Probably she is too proud of her self if she is from a rich family the don't blame her, if she is financially buoyant don't blame her and if you have given her hope that she is the only one on earth don't blame her.
Be serious this time marriage is like a raw egg � be sure of who to handle it with.