 Romance › Re: Rules And Regulation For My Wife by frozen70(f): 8:13am On Jun 07, 2018 |
HRich:
1. My future wife is not allowed to have more than three
male friend in her contact; me,her dad and her brother(if u
have two brothers u better pick ur favourite one).
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2. My future wife is not allowed to pray silently,i wanna know
wat is really goin on between u and Jesus Christ.
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3. My future wife is not allowed to be in social media as far
as am concern;or if she will be,she must tell me before she
comment or like any post; that is me.
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4. My future wife is not allowed to work because being with
me is a full time job.
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5. My wife is not allowed to hide her phone from me,she
must let me know before she receive or make call,for the
phone is not iPhone its Wephone, simple.
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6. My wife is not allowed to laugh in her dream because if
she do, am gonna come in her dream to see what is really
funny there.
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AM I CARING ?? If you mean everyword you just typed, that means you want to develop hypertension for woman matter. |
| Romance › Re: Rules And Regulation For My Wife by frozen70(f): 8:11am On Jun 07, 2018 |
HRich:
1. My future wife is not allowed to have more than three
male friend in her contact; me,her dad and her brother(if u
have two brothers u better pick ur favourite one).
.
2. My future wife is not allowed to pray silently,i wanna know
wat is really goin on between u and Jesus Christ.
.
3. My future wife is not allowed to be in social media as far
as am concern;or if she will be,she must tell me before she
comment or like any post; that is me.
.
4. My future wife is not allowed to work because being with
me is a full time job.
.
5. My wife is not allowed to hide her phone from me,she
must let me know before she receive or make call,for the
phone is not iPhone its Wephone, simple.
.
6. My wife is not allowed to laugh in her dream because if
she do, am gonna come in her dream to see what is really
funny there.
.
AM I CARING?? If you mean everyword you just typed, that means you want to develop hypotension for woman matter. |
| Family › Re: My Wife Is Driving Me Crazy??? Getting Frustrated Here by frozen70(f): 12:36pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
How do couples with different spending patterns cope
my partner is driving me crazy, we have been fighting about everything that has to do with money, she is kinda of lavish and i am prudent. It is really frustrating, she sees me as a miser. She has this idea the higher the cost the more quality, but i know this is not necessary the case. at least from experience, i know how people inflate prices , i try to spend on actual value. I have sat her down and explained to her. How we should nt waste, she promises to change but next thing she is back to the basics.
I also think i may be partially responsible for this, during our courtship, i use to lavish her with very expensive gifts. which to me shd nt be a crime, I wasnt spending beyond my means and there is nothing wrong in giving your woman some exclusive treats once in a while what now bothers me is she expects the cinderella story will continue forever.
There was a day the argument got so intense, she began to say very uncool stuff, on hw she know i hate spending on her and always complain. i really felt hurt. She never looks at the big picture, it is always the most expensive stuff she wants, whenever we do anything.
Our counseling was rushed and proper attention wasnt given to finances and all, everyone just believes she is a well behaved girl. We just got married, I really dont know how i missed this earlier during courtship, but it really causing alot of whahala in our home. The funny part is most of this so called expenses are usually to be solely footed by me. My wife has not for one day called me to say she too will contribute this amount for this or that. I dont complain, or expect, where i have problem is when i decide to pay and she complains it is nt good enough. Am sure if her money was involved she would understand what i mean.
Currently i earn more than her, i found a temporary solution which is to keep her out of the financial decisions, Whenever. i want to buy stuff for the house I dont consult her anymore, i just go and buy the stuff and return home showing her i bought it, instead of the normal asking her which is better and she picks and we begin to fight and argue. This is temporal and actually not the best but what can i do? The fights are just getting to me.
When we started i used to expose her to how much I had and all and plans to maybe get a land and all and maybe start bulding. She knows how much i earn and all. but i dont think she is matured to handled some of these things. And i guess cos she knows of the money available (my saivngs) this is why she just goes for the most expensive and all and just acts lavish.
I had to lie to her that i was scammed of several of millions through MMM to make her forget about the available cash.
Just imagine the rubbish i have to go through.
See me see whahala , me and my own wife again.
Is anyone dating a partner with an opposite spending habit.
Can you share and let me learn how you overcame this problem. This is the time for you to prove to her that you want her to see your kind of person and you have stopped being stupid, you have to let her know that you worked her for your money and you spend it account how it comes. This time around be strict with financial matters and other things that need discipline to handle. Don't look up for her to contribute by the time she discovered that you are a changed man her head will come down. Hope ahead with your future plans and don't tell her most if your plans keep her in the dark until she begged you that she is ready to cooperate with you. Marriage is not friendship where you can do as you. Like. |
| Family › Re: A Frustrated Woman by frozen70(f): 12:28pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
Maaamaaa:
I will try my best not be biased about our story and if you have any questions to ask please do.
I met him last year December precisely and we both work in the same office, we became best of friends but he was in a relationship (distant) and I was single.
We were really close because we both were new in town with no family around and then I fell in love with him and opened up about my feelings to him but he said he was in a relationship.
I was hurt but I held my head up and moved on. I started mingling with other male colleagues and then he became jealous and so I confronted him about it (still loved him) and u also told him to choose between us and he said he wants me. His decision was based on the fact that the other lady was far away, he thought she was promiscuous and she is an OND holder etc (I got to find out about this later).
We moved in together because of financial stress and talked about getting married next year... Late June this year I found out he had not broken up with the other lady, confronted him about it and he settled the issue.
I got pregnant July and he asked for an abortion, I insisted on keeping the baby with or without marriage.. He finally accepted to marry me and proceeded to tell my parents(he later said I forced him to that). He accused me of so many things and called me different names.
He traveled to his hometown and informed his parents about it all and met with the lady. On his return, he said the lady gives him peace and if I lose this pregnancy he will go back with her and that he loves her but he is just getting married to me because he respects my family and do not want to bring shame to me at work.
I cried, prayed and endured it all. Two weeks ago his family came for the introduction and the wedding has been fixed for December but I'm not happy.
I'm a shadow of myself, he feels disgusted by my presence and I can't say anything without him getting angry. I used to nag and quarrel a lot but I've stopped, even when I'm angry I just walk away.
He does not care about me and this pregnancy and if I tell him I'm sick or tired or anything, he will just say that I'm not the first to get pregnant and that it's when I push the baby he will take responsibility.
I have tried my best and I'm confused, last night I called him peacefully to ask him what I'm doing wrong but he said I'm disturbing him. I used to call his parents and my parents to intervene but he said I should stop that and I have stopped.
Please what can I do to save our relationship, it's not easy for me . this is not the man I fell in love with help me and please I need your advice because I am ready to do anything.
I want my child to have a normal family. It has happened, you just have to create happiness for your self, relax and have your baby and if he keeps behaving nonchalant about you and your child, overlook him and consider your self a single parent and live with it. |
| Family › Re: ‘I Mistakenly Cheated On My Wife With Her Kid Sister’ by frozen70(f): 12:18pm On Jun 05, 2018 |
dre11:
http://thenationonlineng.net/mistakenly-cheated-wife-kid-sister/ Well she might not have slept with the driver and gate man. She told you that to hurt you because of what you did. She is not yet done with you ooh, try and be nice and be close to her when you are around. For the fact that you had it with her kid sister, it very possible she will cheat on you anytime she is ready. Women like taking revenge in situations like this. Just try your best it will be fine in due time. |
| Family › Re: My Pregnant Wife Now Hates Me! Please Help!!! by frozen70(f): 10:30pm On Jun 04, 2018 |
Edoigho:
Please dear Nairalanders, please help me, I didn't supposed to share my home story here, but It really borders me, my wife is six months pregnant now, since 3months now her character changed towards me, she always doesn't talk to me for the whole day,.
When we sleep on bed she just walks out of the bed without any reason, I don't know what is happening, some of my colleagues told me that, if some women are pregnant, they always act strange sometimes, because of the pain in them.
Please have you experienced this before, & ladies did you act like this when you were pregnant It's a normal thing during pregnancy though every child with its own system. Very soon before she puts to bed she will be more friendly, it's the hormones that are responsible for all that, besides carrying pregnancy is quite inconveniences. |
| Romance › Re: I Contracted Herpes From Sex Party With My Friends - Lady Cries Out On Twitter by frozen70(f): 9:30pm On Jun 04, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: Help, An Older Lady Is Obsessed With Me by frozen70(f): 9:26pm On Jun 04, 2018 |
Troubledmind:
I'm 23, and this lady should be in her 40s, she has a daughter who is almost my age, but she's not married, from the look of things, she had her at a young age, she started pestering me when she bought a new phone and she invited me to set it up for her, including fb and whatsapp, i did, and she collected my number, thats how she started inviting me over every sunday, sometimes I'll come and meet her alone at home, and she'd be half naked, rubbing cream on her body, I'd offer to wait outside but She'll tell me its no biggy, sometimes she'd try to take a selfie with me and her wet nipples will be protruding out of her wrapper and pushing against my chest, I'll be so tensed and hot.
I once thought of unclothing her and doing the thing, but I'll always talk myself out of it, that maybe she's just jovial and what if thats not what she wants, what if i try and she accuse me of trying to rape her, what of my girlfriend? so i kept my distance by lying to her that i am out of town.
She kept checking me at home but will never find me because i told my siblings to alert me whenever she's spotted in the vicinity so i can hide or lock the gate.
This helped me get over the temptation and her, until yesterday, i was coming from a party and i ran into her, it was too late to hide because she already saw me, she approached and we got somewhere to sit and ordered drinks, we talked about life and she bluntly accused me of avoiding her, that guys my age easily take things for granted, she kept talking until is promised to make it up to her, i regret making that promise, today she sent me a message on whatsapp, calling me my love, i thought she's joking until she told me, she's alone and needs company tonight.
I have a girlfriend, i love her so much i don't want to hurt her, i don't want to have any form of intimacy with someone old enough to be my mum, but this woman is rich, i have benefitted from her and i wouldn't want to loose either of them, please advice me Be a man in this case, tell her to her face that your relationship with her is just a cordial one and you respect it that way. Stop receiving gift from her because the more you receive the more she feels both of you are heading somewhere. If you don't take time she will charm you and that's it, don't underestimate the power of a woman when it comes to love and emotions |
| Family › Re: How Do You Deal With Spouses That Have Different Opinion About Family And Life? by frozen70(f): 6:16am On Jun 03, 2018 |
liefdesverhaal:
I am a regular user of this forum. For the sake of privacy and objectivity... I have to start a new tread.
I need the opinion of mature and especially married people.
I am a man in my middle thirties, Married with 2 kids(One with another woman). I am in a dilemma. I am married to a Woman that have different view of life. We are from different culture and educational background. We see life differently. I am a quite, conservative, loyal, and kind but very principle Man whereas my wife is very open, extrovert, kind, and care free person but She is very very disrespectful and abusive. She abuses even in public without knowing the implication of her actions.
I believe in Family union and the sanctity of Marriage. I believe that a Man is the head of a family and the provider and protector of the family. My wife believe that a Man should be the provider of the family while she takes control of the family.
Perhaps it is too much to describe but how do i make my wife to see life the way I am seeing it? I want a simple, quite, private life that I will love, cherish my wife above any other thing.
I want to go back to school to obtain a degree perhaps Maters degree but my wife just want me to provide for the family without pursuing my dreams or career. She is not interested in anything I want to do as long as it does not affect the family income.
I have thought of leaving her but the idea that I have a child with before with another woman without marriage, then another child with her(Which I love so much) scare the living daylight out of me.
I have tried talking with her about my fears and worries but that seems not to help. I have contracted other people for advice but nothing is helping.
I am scared of starting a new family after 2 kids with two different women. How do I make this woman to see life from my angle(I am willing for concession)?
When I was a child, I planned for a wife that will love and adore me... Support my dreams and take care of the family... But it seems I am having opposite of this right now.
This is a true life story... Please help a brother... A man's happiness is his paramount desire. No matter the number of children you have gotten, keep searching for a woman that will match up with you, if you finally gotten one then combine those kids and give them equal love and care. It's a difficult task oooh |
| Family › Re: How To End A Marriage In Nigeria by frozen70(f): 6:05am On Jun 03, 2018 |
aonom:
Hello Naira Landers,
I was just curious to know exactly how a man and woman who have gone through the two stages of marriage in Nigeria, Traditional and Church. But would like to mutually end the marriage without any issues coming up, such as custody of the children or child as the case maybe. I was having a discussion with a friend of mine and we were both curious to know exactly how this might end up in this present day and age in the Nigerian context. Also we would like to know who would gain the custody of their issue (child or children) especially if they are both financially stable. Please note that we are both not married yet and do not have any intension to divorce when we eventually do, IJN.
Kindly throw more light on this issue.
Thanks. You guys are not married yet and you are thinking if how to end marriage without raising dust and who will have the custody of the children. That's a bad thinking for a deal you haven't gone into. Marry then if it happens you sort your way out. |
| Family › Re: My Wife's Family Has Ruined My Home And My Life by frozen70(f): 5:49am On Jun 03, 2018 |
3free2:
Looking back, I think I have been worst than an introvert. Iwas so eager to impress my stupid in-laws.
I've given up so much for the sake of the happy home of my dreams. I'm too ashamed to narrate the whole story. What is shameful about the story, you are not the only one in a mess in the world of marriage. If you don't mention the issues you are having, then the advice you are looking for won't come up because the advice would have been based on your complain. Open up |
| Romance › Re: What Should I Give My Girlfriend For Her Birthday? by frozen70(f): 10:03pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: Visiting My Fiancee's Parents For The First Time, What Should I Buy For Them? by frozen70(f): 9:36pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.
 I suggest you buy foodstuffs for them, it doesn't mean that they don't have food at home, it means that everyone that are in that house will eat out if it You can dash both parents 5000 in an envelope each of you have upto that. |
| Romance › Re: Visiting My Fiancee's Parents For The First Time, What Should I Buy For Them? by frozen70(f): 9:34pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
Orubebe01:
Both of us are from the eastern part of the country. I want to visit her parents next week and that is going to be my first meeting with them, am confused on what to buy for them. Please kindly help your brother suggest the best thing to get for them. thanks.
I suggest you buy foodstuffs for them, it doesn't mean that they don't have food at home, it means that everyone that are in that house will eat out if it
You can dash both parents 5000 in an envelope each of you have upto that.
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| Health › Re: 17-Year-Old Girl Dies In The Process Of Abortion In Jos by frozen70(f): 9:24pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
kullozone:
I don't feel any form of pity for her You are clueless |
| Family › Re: My Wife's Elder Sister Has Finally Settled In My Home & I Don't Know What To Do by frozen70(f): 12:05pm On Jun 02, 2018 |
alimaa:
I know i am supposed to post this in the family section but i always get better response from the Romance section. I don't know whether any of you has been in a situation where an in-law comes for a short visit and finally settles in your home without any sign of leaving anytime soon.
My wife's elder sister who is single came to visit us in January but up till now she has not made any move to go and it's not as if we live in a big apartment so there is no much privacy. We got married in 2015 so our union is still young.
This kind of situation puts one in a dilemma because you just don't know what to say and you will be termed "a bad person". She lies on our matrimonial bed even in my presence.
Before now i never knew someone would feel comfortable staying with a younger sister in her matrimonial home. If it is as a result of accommodation problem or maybe you went to a distant location to do one or two things and you now spend sometime in your younger sister's home, that is understandable.
Please what advice do you have for me? Talk to your wife and advise her to ask her sister to give you guy's a breathing space, tell her not to quote you, if she is reluctant to say such don't bother her again once a while go else to sleep not just a night but some days, if she asks you why you slept out or where you went to tell her you needed a space to reflect on your life. But if you can't do that, pretend over it and when the food in the house is finished behave as if you don't know and don't bring out food money anytime you are coming home eat outside before entering home and go straight to bed. Don't ask her sister to go from your house leave her their use the opportunity to save some money and start behaving funny to your wife. With all this she will do the needful. And apologies for you for everything. |
| Crime › Re: Father Brutalizes His Daughter In Oyo For Not Understanding Studies.Graphic Pic by frozen70(f): 8:40pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
NwaAmaikpe:
That is a father who wants the best for his daughter,
A father who knows that education is the only key to a successful life.
God bless fathers. Ask your self if your statement makes any sense, when you have your own children do same to them. You think using iron hand to train a child is the best, it can only make that child hard and harder |
| Family › Re: Help !! My Wife Removes Her Ring Anytime We Have A Quarrel by frozen70(f): 8:33pm On Jun 01, 2018 |
obidevine:
You're right about her being hot tempered , but I love her so much. That's the weapon she is using against you. No matter how you love a woman, if she wants to misbehave she will do it without regret. Anytime you have issues and she removes the ring don't ask her why over look it and move on. You can't keep getting worried about such act, she has her reasons and life is too short for you to get worried about such things. |
| Romance › Re: Married Man With 7 Wives Gets 22-Year-Old Side Chick Pregnant With Twins. by frozen70(f): 10:23pm On May 31, 2018 |
CastedDude:
A 22-year-old lady has revealed what she passed through before and after she got pregnant for a married man with seven wives. According to the lady, she started dating the man when she was 19 years old (while the man was 40 years) after he allegedly lied and deceived her before she fell in love with him during her industrial training, I.T.
After getting pregnant, she gave birth to a set of twins prematurely before one later passed away after tha man allegedly abandoned her while he was getting married to another lady whom he impregnated.
The lady also accused the man of beating her four times as she said her parents are forcing her to marry him due to what he gives their daughter.
Read the woman's story as shared by human rights activist, Emeka Ugwuonye on Facebook.
Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2018/05/married-man-with-7-wives-gets-22-yeair-old-side-chick-pregnant-with-twins.html
The mistake have been done, don't allow it to detere you from planning your future.
You are no longer a kid so don't allow your parents to force you into that marriage.
Get something doing and move on with your life.
You are stii young and chances are that you will get a guy that will appreciate you. |
| Romance › Re: When I Was 15 , I Had An Abortion , 14 Years Later .... (Read My Shocking Story) by frozen70(f): 5:43pm On May 30, 2018 |
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| Romance › Re: I Dont Want To Hurt My Jobless Boyfriend again for My Bestie by frozen70(f): 3:31pm On May 30, 2018 |
Cynie42:
Fellow nairalanders. I am confused please, i own a supermarket and v been in a relationship with my current bf whoz not yet working after his Nysc, we v been dating for 3 years now and it has been going well even though I v cheated on him twice, but he forgave me, hez nice. My problem now is that I v a customer, we are extremely close to the extent that we do discuss everything together. am even now closer to him than my bf, hez like a bestie.
But hez now asking me out and pple are telling me to answer him saying its advisable to date ur best friend than anyone else and I don't want to hurt my bf anymore and I don't want to hurt this guy too, he has bin nice to me...pls what's ur take on this, what do you advice i should do?
No insult plz I think the issue with you is that you are yet to make up your mind to be faithful with your bf, keep fucking around as you wish because no man has payed bride price on you. But bear in mind that you have the tendencies of being unfaithful with your partner whenever you get married and who ever you get married too.earn to practice self discipline in a relationship. |
| Romance › Re: Why Is It That Most Women Or Wife Don't Have Respect For Their Husband Any More? by frozen70(f): 9:46pm On May 28, 2018 |
Ivorianaija:
Your woman is not a dog that you give orders and they must obey. You are in an equal partnership where you both show respect for each other. Respect her and she will respect you. Remember, you are a choice in her life, not a necessity. Exactly, they wqntbto turn the women to robots whom they will turn around. Respect yourself as a man and your wife will honour you. You don't expect women to teach men their duties at home but when you shy away from it or becomes clueless about the home front then you have rubbed your self in the mod. Respect is reciprocal you can't keep a woman at home, starve her,subject her to domestic turture and expect her to respect you, kole work. |
| Romance › Re: I Found This When I Checked My Girlfriend's Inbox! I'm Heartbroken! by frozen70(f): 7:48pm On May 28, 2018 |
Mrcapability7:
I'm Heartbroken. What Should I Do
I met a girl I thought meant the world to me, recently we were together on a date, I took her phone to check on as her boyfriend, she was enviously monitoring what I was checking on it.
I decided to check her inbox and found out she deleted every message we exchange together, to my greatest shock I show a text messages she sent to someone she stored his name in alphabet, where she's confessed feelings to the guy and did talk about marriage whilst the guy barely sent her up to two messages.
I confronted her about the messages and the guy, she told me her neighbour used her phone to send those messages to boyfriend, at that moment I believed because my brain wasn't working. I’m simply saying my feelings for her overclouded my senses.
It was when I got home and ponder about it that I realized she has made fool of my feelings.
I'm heartbroken. What should I do; confront her again and break up or continue playing along? I love her so much.
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Source: https://amp.pulse.ng/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/i-think-my-girlfriend-is-cheating-should-i-confront-her-id8424609.html If you love her play along and keep watching on her movements and activities. Watch her emotions and her attitudes towards you. Don't cinclydr yet till you get hold in her to the extent that she will fall into trap. |
| Romance › Re: I Want To Break Up With My Fiancee But I Don't Know How To Do It by frozen70(f): 7:08pm On May 28, 2018 |
Mrbehave:
me too dey pity her no b small. thanx sir. Ask God to look into this issue and direct you better. Suspend the dowry and inform her and the family ,take a break and evaluate what the future have for both of you. If you excuse is because you are 2yrs older than her then that's not an excuse. Love comes from the heart and not fro the brain. Remember karma. |
| Family › Re: My Father-in-law Is Making My Wife To Disrespect Me! by frozen70(f): 6:23pm On May 28, 2018 |
winningwinner:
Thanks a lot, but how much money will I be able to make now that will bring back the usual love my wife had for me? Will I be able to satisfy her in anything again? I actually need to dislodge her father and start marrying her as my wife or else I take a far journey away from home. Out of love you took a decision that wasn't going to help you, but love conquer all. Have a heart to heart talk with your father in-law, when you are with him,let him know that you want to be a man but you need him to help you to stand well and have a source of income for your self and your wife. That you want him to give you net to learn how to catch fish instead of giving you fish. By the tie you get something doing you will regain your respect in the family. As for your wife overlook the one you can overlook and the one that you can't tolorate stand firm and don't move your ground. With time both of you will understand better how to run your home with out your inlaws interference. But bear in mind ,fathers don't joke with their daughter's expecialy first daughter's. |
| Christianity Etc › Re: How Do I Restart My Battle Over The Use Of Prostitutes After Series Of Relapse? by frozen70(f): 9:30am On May 27, 2018 |
courage2702:
marriage is something I know that will help me at the long run,but not until I get my life back on track. I can't afford to put someone's daughter through this.Thanks for pointing it out . The problems Lye's with you and the solutions are with you. Get a girl friend that may lead to marriage, the moment you get a good one keep constant communication with her. If you have a big urge for sex try and work on your self and your mind set. Make live to her when its ok for both of you especially her. As you are doing that bear in mind that she might get pregnant and don't deny it if it happens, by the time you know you have responsibilities your dick won't be getting up any how. Lastly pray to God to direct your part are remove things that might mislead your way of life. If you don't do anything fast to save this your attitude, you might be misserable although. Goodluck. |
| Romance › Re: Why Are Women Cheating More Than Men Lately? by frozen70(f): 6:43pm On May 24, 2018 |
dermmy:
A lady that cheats does not have the fear of God simple Keep deceiving yourselfself, a man that cheats is doing so because he is mightier than God abi? If you have a woman with you and you don't know how to keep a woman someone else will do that girl you. You think say na before when women dey die for silent, now they have options. |
| Family › Re: I'm Experiencing Emotional Blackmail From My Family! by frozen70(f): 6:17am On May 22, 2018 |
Ezkid:
Hello house, though some people have accused me of being an ungrateful child by calling out my mother's unbecoming attitude, I wish to state categorically that I do not belong in the group of people that can be tagged as such. But the burdens that rested on my shoulders is very much for a young guy like me and it has taken its toll on my mental and physical health.
I'm a guy that work 6 to 7 hours everyday and I make little amount I can consider enough to sustain the life someone like me should be living as a young simple guy, but because I've made a terrible mistake of relocating from where I was living alone to live with my family, now it has become obvious that my family have considered me as their sole savior and the first button to press whenever they're in need, they've lost total faith in my father and theyve stop disturbing him like before.
Like I told u guys before, Mum is no longer working since she became born again and Dad is out of town, he only come around whenever he got the alerts, but before my relocation he used to send some tokens even before the end of the month, now it seems to me my Dad have capitalized on the fact that I'm working, and I should be responsible for the whole family's upkeep until his arrival
Jeez! Since I got to this house I've not being able to save a penny, my expenses is twice as much as my earnings. Whenever I go to work, I'll come back to meet my mom waiting for me at the balcony with a story of how she's been praying for someone to buy her favorite dish for her since morning, the funniest thing is no one has ever asked me for one naira since I got there but there's a way they'll start talking about food, money and other things that ll make me dip my hand in my pocket and hand over what I have, also there's these old look on everyone's face whenever they need something from me which will make me to give them what they want without being asked.
I've practically become a slave to them, always waiting for me to come before they'll start talking about what to cook and eat, right now I'm at the edge, I just want out immediately! All my earnings are being used on food for the whole family, every time I give them money I always refuse to eat out of what they cook thinking they'll get the message but its always the same, I always pity my younger ones cos they've got a real battle ahead of the.
Pls house should I leave or remain with them for the time being? Right now I'm thinking of running away from them. You have started the journey of a full fledged man, it's not an easy journey but God will see you through. Have you ever asked your mum why she chooses to stop supporting the family. If her response are not making senses to you then don't give her all she required of. Start making plans to relocate by getting an accommodation for your self. I only feel for your junior siblings and let them know that situations have changed and put them to the reality of life. As for your dad's change of behaviour since you started working, he needs a relief talk to him that both of you have to move the family forward. |
| Family › Re: Family House by frozen70(f): 8:27pm On May 19, 2018 |
dgagar:
Hi guys. need your advice please. this thing is baffling my mind badly.
everyone know how bad and poor Nigeria economy it is. saying no money here and there . am living in family house, face me and slap you . my dad is late but my mum struggle to build the house and she also live there too. the problem now is that my gf is threatening me to go and rent room and parlour outside Cos she wants to settle down soon but I got no money with me now. infact am on sick bed for the past two months and I can't work for now. am just a hustler, trying to make life good and comfortable for myself. and I love this girl like die. she's house materials but this house issues is the only problem am having with her, meanwhile am using room and parlour in this my mum house o. (even is not my happiness to be living in family house too )but no money for now. she's also disturbing me for engagement too inwhich I will be responsible for all the expenses because she's still learning handwork. though age is not on her side but I love her so very much that I can't afford to loose her to another man.
the question now is........... IS IT TOTALLY WRONG FOR MEN TO BE LIVING IN FAMILY HOUSE WITH HIS WIFE.
am really fed up. come to my rescue guys pls. am fed up . Think like a man and don't let any one play gamble with your head. You are struggling to stand as a man ad one lady is trying to put load in your head and you are here seeking for advice. No matter how you love her take your time and get your self sorted out, if time is not on your side leave her to go after all you are not the one that set the time for her. Keep listing to her on till you fall inside lagoon. Use your brain andsenses that's why its in your head. |
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| Celebrities › Re: Linda Ikeji And The Cars In Her Life (see Photos) by frozen70(f): 7:47pm On May 14, 2018 |
vizkiz:
Dear God, when will I start driving my own Range rover 2016 model? When will a pretty woman present Benz to me as birthday gift?
When will I meet a rich woman in my life?
I mean a very rich woman with nice shape instead of these recharge card Magodo/Ikeja girls?
Speak to me lord...Where on the island should I look for these women? You have limited yourself and reduced your self to a low thinking man. You folded your hands and waiting for a woman that will place you, be ready to be a puppet, a slave and a robot when your wishes come through. |
| Health › Re: Colon Cancer Is Dangerous, Know Causes And Prevention by frozen70(f): 7:25pm On May 14, 2018 |
KrystosCJ:
You are exhibiting signs of clown cancer. Grow up and behave well, that was an expensive statement /joke. Do you wish yourself such? |
and i'm really curious about what to give her.
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