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bullabong:
sure she is intelligent. Why would i check my girls phone when i am neither holy nor a saint? But if her secrets ever blow open tru her own fault which they surely will,then i have to be a man and keep on walking. Not a hard feeling.

Goodluck with your love bro. I hope it leads to happy ever after marriage

When you guys locked eyes, that was your moment to shine, to go for the kiss, but you have let your moment to pass you by. You re just a loser like the rest of us.

bullabong:
Where do you peeps get these exaggerated figures?90%?

I bet u re part of pple that has a gf who is very intelligent and has so much to offer apart from her boobs right? Well as long as u do not check her msges or listen to her friends gossips, u will be doing just fine.

Thats like 90% of naija girls, but those re the type of girls i love to meet tho. Beatiful on d outside and empty on the inside but good in bed. Our relationship is always short but very intense, just like a beautiful flower that blosoms in the morning and withers at night.

Thats has been said to me countless of times, at first i was giving a shit, later i realised it was just sheer manipulation and stopped giving a shit. I even met of of them recently and shes even doing shakara for me. Like wtf? I tot u wud die without me...

I am still saying it, Bra is one of the greatest inventions till date

This post is right and wrong in so many ways

Kill yourself OP, nobody gives a shìt about your whining

femidejulius:
The economy is bad. Really bad. (Slay) girls therefore look up to rich men just as men look up to God.

Unfortunately, slay girls have nothing to offer but everything to take from men.

It is a matter of survival on behalf for slay girls.

I actually do not judge them for their actions. But then its like this girls do not actually want sth good for themselves

Jayslicky:
My friend later told me, she most likely acted that way because of the car she saw with me.

Usually just to weed out this leeches, when anything about work comes up, i tell them i am a trash collector working for a garbage company and it does the trick top notch. But this girl was looking so adorable and i didnt want to Bleep it up. But after that incident, no girl is spared. Before u get to me, u have to go tru trash collector test.

Yemaica:
Nothing you would say can be compared to the amount sadness i am feeling.

You actually do not know what sadness is until you get married to him. Thing is dis dude lacks purpose and he is very low self esteem guy. You on d other hand still has d fire of self esteem burning in you. You can either pay attention to it or ignore it. Whatever ur decision is, it has a lifetime consequence.

Recently i visited a long time friend, been long we saw and stuff. Went to his place but we were to hang out later in a cool place. Minutes later we were on our way to a barbing shop. Dude met a friend of his, they spoke in their native language so that means i cudnt understand what they were sayin nor was i paying any attention.

Minutes later, this lady greeted me, said sth like..bro so u dont want to greet me abi?... i just laffed it off. Next she asked of my name, i told her my name is buhari, and did d mister spell version of buhari for her. Immediately she was laghing uncontrollably.

She moved up close to me, very very close to me, and i pulled her in for a hug, we did some back and forth banter, told her i am 40yrs old, old enuf to get married and i am taking her to my pastor to get us married right away. She was really laughing and her smile was good. Oh my God this girl is fùcking gorgeous. 2mins later i kissed her and she kissed back.

I was already high, i actially thought my game was spot on, i was feel so fly, like the romancelander ubunja but just that i wasnt pulling some evolutionary bullshit. I was just present to the moment and watching things play out by itself.

Well long story short, we needed to go and lady said she would have come with us but she needed to do sths, she requested for my number but i told her to give me hers instead so that i wud call her later. Friend and i left. I was like O man wtf just happened, about to start feeling myself again. Dude told me that when she saw me, she had asked him if i was his friend and asked again if i am a rich guy (all this in their language). Ofcourse my nigga said yes and even put over jara again. So that was why this lady was all over me? Well i deleted her number and moved in with my life.

Randy100:
Like I said earlier, it wasn't a date and who told you that you can't discuss politics on date. Finally you are the idiat here.

If you have d intention of dating a girl and having any romantic relation with her, u talk about flowers, moon, love not world news, politics or schrodinger equation. Fùcking noob.

She tot she was too good for me, but for me i never gave a shìt, cuz we already had sèx.

Randy100:
I wasn't dating her, I just wanted a one night stuff. I tried discussing with her, to my chagrin she doesn't know anything despite her having a very big phone. I tried politics, sports, world news and still I couldn't find any common ground for us to discuss. After some few minute of awkward silence I just asked her to come to my place that I just got season 7 of Game of thrones and she replied that the movie is overrated. I asked her to tell me why she think the movie is overrated and she couldn't say anything. I deleted her number and walked away. People shouldn't be joking with my best movie.

Idiat..who discusses world politics on a date?

Good observation there, dude was tired of marriage and d scum was looking for an excuse to cheat.

XhosaNostra:
If he reacts to your refusal to have another baby by cheating & shutting you out, I'll be very careful if I were you. Four children is already too many children & there's no guarantee that the next one will be a boy either. With your marriage deteriorating by the sound of it, will you be able to cope with a 5th child all on your own, in case he rejects you & shuts you out once again if he gets disappointed? Because let's be realistic here for a second, 5th time may not be "lucky", what then? Will he again take refugee in the arms of other women, while you're left at home trying to raise your 5 children as a semi-married woman? If I'm to be frank, it sounds like he's making an excuse so he can mistreat you without remorse. Don't be surprised if he impregnates someone else outside when he doesn't get what he wants. Also don't be surprised if he still carries on with his affairs after you've given birth to a son, he most probably will say you don't have enough time for him etc. It's a never-ending string of excuses once some of these guys start going down a wayward path. It'll be emotional torture. Another woman ended up bludgeoning her husband with a hammer because kept pushing & pushing. They were blessed with a son & a daughter, but he wanted more just to be a jerk. Well, he ended up getting someone else pregnant. To add insult to injury, he started bringing the other lady to their house, all while also being cold towards his wife in private- no intimacy etc. In the end it became too much for her. Some guys just never know when to stop in their selfishness & careless disregard of another person's emotions.

khingTony:
imagine what you've done to yourself, you're now begging for something as common as friendship, you feel inferior to this girl and that's your problem

You cant be feeling superior everytime, sometimes you just need to take a break

Charliiee:
"Literally on fire" You do know what 'Literally' means, right?

Have you ever falling in love before? Prolly nope.

Cholls:
my brother eiyah

Bro na so i dey see am oo

Valerie47:
She is even giving you attention sef, if its me, na snubbing things.

So you cant give sn you once cared about a second chance?

marvin906:
hahahahahaha..
dude just close that chapter.. it's going be hard to get back with her..
you just made me remember a friend of mine I don't know how he does it buh he always knows when a chick is a late bloomer even if they are ugly or straight like play wood he knows and majority Time he's correct..

Then she was lil bit chubby, but now she has drastically reduced in size but her boobs and àss managed to stay thesame.

troublemakea:
Lol enjoy it while it's served hot bro

jokes apart what assurance hv u got u guys would hv still been together if you had dated

Thats another perspective, but bro right now i just want her to be more receptive, become friends and see wia it leads us to, and not acting all mean and replyin my msges with d shortest alphabets possible. Like k or 5n

2013 this girl was literally begging me for a relationship but i objected, cuz well i was stupid or whatever, i ran into her recently, O boy this girl is literally on fire. I've been trying to form familiarity but shes been acting mean. Wtf karma?

If i say u shld go spiritual now, you will start yelling about how Nigerians re backward in thinking.
Was in this shìt yrs ago, i was (and i still am) a stubborn hustler, but nothing to show for it until i went to a church. Prior to that, i was a stark atheist.

Lol, this was me 8yrs ago Op, so as sn in ur future,(thats assuming u want to get better/worse with girls) i will say you havent learnt anything, Life is in cycle bro.
Friendzone da bess OP, try getting a gf or getting married (wic u shld never do) and u will understand what i mean.