₦airaland Forum

ahnie:
GboyegaD pls com and tempt my tastebud.

Madam, I no be devil na

ersonleads:
Please can someone help me on how I can go about traveling with my soon to be wedded wife Abroad. One of us will be schooling & working. The other will be working. Presently working on the funds.

How can it be possible & what country will be easier to on my intentions. Please I need your help because dis country done tire me

The funds you have will determine so many things. For example, if you are borrowing funds to show proof of funds, then the UK might be a better suggestion and the one with the bigger hustling spirit should be the dependent so that the person can help raise enough funds to ensure the family stays afloat.

JOACHINpedro:
Omo! Wetin happen? Are you allergic to food?

I need my food to have been broken down to a great extent before I sleep.

Alapogentle:
Happy birthday Mr Gboyega God bless your new age

Amen. Thanks for the prayer.

Felabrity:
All these old men sef, suffer no dey tire them

I think this question should be directed at the younger ones.

tauhedsuleiman:
sir I don't have girlfriend o, my neighbors have been sustaining me sha. Begging is not something am use to nor proud of ever since I lost my grandma when I was in jss3 I have been sponsoring myself doing manual work, now am in my final year things have not been difficult for me the frustration is getting to me Abeg reason the boy matter God bless you

Your stories are not consistent.

tauhedsuleiman:
good evening sir I requested for ur help about two weeks now I don't know if you get to see it cuz the mods somehow deleted all my post cuz I was criticizing them. However I know things are difficult I can testify to that as I sold my phone to pay my school fees, I have to beg my neighbors phone to see if you can help me Abeg I have nothing at home only God knows how I have been surviving. Sir even its #1000 it will go along way as nothing is too small God bless you sir

Your girlfriend should be able to sustain you na.

faithfull18:
Spot on. You married the person you married for a reason (s) you couldn't get elsewhere, same as the person who married you.

You can get it elsewhere it is just that you are satisfied with/in the person and you are committing to love the person �.

Trying to understand your post. Whatever reason anyone chooses to marry for is still transactionary. There's no one size fit all in marriage.

Fahvvy:
This are very valid questions you're asking here sir...

In my opinion the reason why she choose to open up is probably because the real father of the child has come knocking...

I mean, she has successfully hid this for 16years, so why should she open up now, if not that there's a huge chance her hubby would find out? She prolly just wants to soften things up by confessing...

If I were in his shoes, I would stay only because I don't want history to repeat itself (he came from a broken home), but I would NEVER trust or be committed to her ...

On a side note: Paternity fraud will only be reduced drastically if there is a prison sentence attached to the perpetuators of this wicked act...

How the ladies live with the secret is what I still cannot understand.

No one can advice him. He should make a decision/advice himself based on:
Can he still love the child in question as he has always?
Does Shade know the real father and has there been communication during the marriage?
Why did Shade choose to open up now?

Axmondthuglife:
Just what I need this morning

Just do it.

Dinner:

Poubded yam and bitter leaf and okra soups.

If agreements cannot be honored before election then it is an indicator of post election acts.

Will give this a shot. Thanks for sharing.

If you didn't do this as a senator, you cannot do it as a first lady.

Be courteous, bold, sincere, simple yet firm.

Be true to yourself and do not strive to impress anyone. There's many more meetings after this and you don't want to start what you cannot sustain.

It could be spotting/early signs of pregnancy. You could go for a test.

Romanoff:
Well, I've seen it happen before. If the man still has any sense left, this is an option.

He would be the one to make the move and not the wife.

aestake:
Not really that. They would hardly give them any sufficient fair-hearing. This is Nigeria!

For them to announce the sale in public, I will expect due procedure is followed.

Romanoff:
If it's the wife that has this kind of addiction, will you be asking him to keep on praying for his wife?

Unless that man hits rock bottom, he won't change.

If she can have an arrangement with the office so a percentage of his salary can be paid to her, it's an option. So at least, basic needs can be met in the house with the addition of her own earnings.


One time, one of my mum's tennant was owing her over a year's rent, she went to his office to report him, they put a direct debit on his salary account till my mum's money was complete.

What kind of company does this? No court injunction, just someone coming to complain about a staff and ham, direct debit.

No reasonable company will remit the man's wage into his wife's account except he gives the order by updating his account information form.

Good of him/ the country to honor her.

Zoharariel:
Fair hearing? Who sent them to break traffic laws?

Nonetheless, they deserve one.

How is this their business? You choose not to treat them well and they migrate to a place they are comfortable with yet, you complain. Does the government care about the welfare of workers in Nigeria?

aestake:
given fair hearing ki....

Thanks. Na auto swipe error, I go correct am.

Isn't this the same who claimed the power issue in Nigeria isn't rocket science and can be fixed in 6 months by any serious government?

This is a pure case of the pot calling the kettle black.

Hopefully, the owners have been given fair hearing and reasonable fines in line with their offense they failed to meet up with.

deavicky:
look, let me tell u, anytime u decide to pay ur worker peanut, just have it in mind that some must dey lost for ur office. U check out 40k for 30 days.
The runs sometime is not to steal from the hotel but u might have some free rooms to resale.like one guy man weh leave his house carry baby to hotel and must go back home to avoid the wrought of madam. Such rooms can be given out and u keep the money.

And this isn't stealing, right?

MALIGNANTGuest:
My present opinion is a digression from the index Topic, however it's something that has eaten deep into the fabrics of many families.
It's almost everywhere.
Only a woman can severe the mutual relationship shared by identical male twins.

How women come into families and severe age long family relationships can not be overemphasized. However, these same women immediately sustain theirs by inviting their siblings into their matrimonial homes.

Some come in the name of assisting to carry babies. Some come in the name of seeking for special centers for JAMB. Thereafter these siblings become permanent residents in your house ready to fight you the moment you scold their sister, your wife.

Better look well before you marry!
Most times marriage is not what it is presumed to be. People have been lied to for years!

Don't blame the woman, blame the men who thinks it's about fostering peace in the home.

Why is your wife adding you, your friend, and the woman's husband into the mix? Oga, if she can't give you a good reason beyond this her fight with the woman, tell her not to involve you guys.

I understand the need for peace in your home however, marriage isn't a prison and it isn't about just one party. You deserve your peace and happiness as she deserves hers.

What you could do for her is to restrict the gossip from coming to your house.

Dinner:

Mashed potatoes, coleslaw, with chicken and beef.

Axmondthuglife:
White beans.. mistakenly added excess salt

Next time, add Irish potatoes to reduce the salt content greatly.