₦airaland Forum

Don't people have work to do? On a working day in an economy that runs 8am to 6pm working hours? We seem a set of very lazy people.

I wonder how such a person wouldn't lose his sanity. They should unravel the full story.

biblograph:
yes man i also think that he should use custom bigger boxes

Are you trying to be sarcastic with the boxes? Boxes here refers to cartons incase you don't know.

I am surprised the baby is using 3 diapers daily at his age. He looks at most 6 months to me which means he should be using an average of 6 to 7 diapers daily except there are alternatives the mom is using.
Rather than buy in packs as this, he should buy the bigger boxes that way the unit price is cheaper.

charytea:
Where's GboyegaD?
Been a long while, hope all is well with him?

I have been around ooo. Just busy and forget to take pictures. Will try to repent.

Perhaps, they do not have people in Sokoto however, I would have thought they would work with the Nigerian Labor Congress. They can make amends.

He needs not bring things online. I am sure he should be able to find it.

I guess when forms allow for non - binary, the society created this platform for situations like this.

ZIMDRILL:
like i said you missed the point, the guy is not refusing responsibility

I am addressing your point on ladies deliberately getting pregnant.

ZIMDRILL:
you missed the point

1 women can lie to say she is on contractives

2 when i say common it doesnt mean it applies to every case

Even if she says she is on contraceptives, the only one that works 100% is hysterectomy where the entire uterus is removed otherwise, there is at least a 0.0001% of it failing. Thus, everyman not yet ready should abstain or ensure they protect themselves.

Tob456:
Hey guys, my ex girlfriend is 7 months pregnant. She doesn't want to have anything to do with me cos I didn't want to carry the responsibility of her four sisters.

She is 24 orphen and the oldest of seven children. She is a fruit seller and the pregnancy wasn't plan she took in 6 months into the relationship but I have accepted the responsibility and I wanted to make her my wife.

First of all I wanted us to discussed about her sisters living arrangements after the wedding and she said she wanted to bring all four who are under 18 to live with us after the wedding and I rejected.

I suggested that the youngest two can live with us while the other two can stay with the aunty but she refused.

She said the relationship was over and she doesn't need me in her life that she will take care of the baby alone.

I've told her even if she doesn't want me in her life anymore she should not stop me from helping her financially because I want our baby to be born in good condition but she refused.

Last week I sent 30k to her account for baby stuffs and she sent the money back to me saying she doesn't need a kobo from me she will take care of the baby alone.

I want to leave her alone but it is hard for me to do so cos she is carrying my child. It will not be easy for me to give up easily I just want to be a part of my daughter life. What do you guys think please?

The situation is tough. Do you know why she would want them to move in with you guys? I guess until you understand why, it may be difficult to advice on this.

ZIMDRILL:
Being an orphan doesnt mean all extended families are also dead unless they never knew other relatives

[b]Its a common thing for girls to deliberately fall pregnant and be married to escape poverty[\b]

Your statement is false. A girl can't get pregnant by herself. If he chose to dive raw, then he was looking forward to be a father and can be termed a deliberate act to impregnate a lady.

thebosstrevor1:
It is not a must for Tinubu to attend all these conferences organised by various interest groups and associations.

Tinubu is for the people not for some organization trying to capture the presidency through Interest groups

All the elite groups and associations in our society are busy calling all the contestants to speak in their gatherings. and most of you supporters are blind to see that all these various groups and associations are trying to capture the system

These groups are creating a system whereby the presidential candidates work for their own interests and not the citizen's interests.


The former Accountant general of the federation who stole 100M naira is a member of ICAN

Your response doesn't make you sound smarter and the cheeky sentences in bold makes you worse than a circus. The various elite groups and association are part of the people thus, calling them to speak in their gatherings will give people more insight into who they are and also, give the people to opportunity to express their expectations.

pocohantas:
Lmao. They rush you too?
They are not aware? I had to look again to be sure it was your moniker.

They don't rush me because I am taken however, the Nigerian girls rush the Nigerian guys and vice versa. That post was to calm her down.

Blessedmercy8:
Na wa o. All nairaland men look the same.

Yet, na una dey rush us.

onatisi:
There is no way ayu willl resign at this critical period . So the best thing to do is to move on . Atiku and pdp can't stop their campaigns because wike wants ayu to go and ayu says no he isn't. That is madness ,the only thing is that atiku and pdp will keep on talking with them and try to reach a compromise before election day.

mbahdi:
Wike is very stupid to think he can be bigger Dan his party.hes becoming childish.with him or without him.pdp will win the next election

Wike and the other four requested what is right. If they will not honor a gentleman agreement and think the South matters, then the South is in for a long thing should Atiku win.

It is unfortunate they resorted to crime, they have justified their previous employer.

I remember a few kids going to Federal Government Colleges in the North in the early 90s all the way from Lagos. I am not sure parents are still crazy about Unity Schools these days to take such risks.

She is the only one who can decide what she wants to do with the foetus.
I am more concerned about the 3year old. She should go to human right and ensure the family gives custody of the son to her.

Richy4:
Just 21 and you can't see it getting better?

<< You are in Uni... Funded by someone, that is a plus
<<Do you need a friend? if yes, what is stopping you from opening your mouth and say hello to someone sitting next to you in class
<< If you don't know how to start, u can start by asking if he/she was in class the previous lecture, act like you were not there.. collect his/her note even if he/ she was writing nonsense... that's one way to start friendship..
<< Money, what do you need money for?... someone is funding your school tuition fees, the least you can do is just to pass so that the money will not go to waste...There's time for everything...
Money will come at the appropriate time ie if u study hard.. the study u are undergoing now is the foundation to your success.. try and take it serious ...

Hopefully he reads this and act on it. Many a times, many do not realize there is no manual to living their life and they keep comparing and permutating.

I do not think it is fair to label him evil because others turned out better. He might have been raised with some sense of entitlement been the first child and a male at that. There are many things that could have been responsible and many times, other siblings might not be able to see it and would rather cast him like you are doing right now.

That said, he needs psychotherapy. He might be feeling like a failure and might need good therapy to come out of the bondage he's put his mind in.

If she is truly repentant and values her home, she would be the one to block the guy in all forms. Ask her if she wants the marriage or the old friendship? Her response should guide you on the next thing to do. This is a choice question and do not accept any answer that suggests she is sitting on the fence.

That said, you shouldn't have given her such a suggestion. It doesn't portray your intentions to take back your home. Apparently, you have made it known you are willing to keep considering her no matter what happens for the sake of your girls.

If the fire service couldn't put out the fire to a State's House of Assembly, then I wonder what works truly in Nigeria.

loko50:
Yet no known family or group of friends have come out to confirm the deaths

Lagos has a population of at least 18million people representing hundreds of thousands of families. How many of the families do you know?

To make your case more appalling, Sanwoolu visited a few people in the hospitals who suffered gunshot injuries yet, your brain couldn't process that. Was that staged as well?

Rozross:
Stop misinterpreting my comments to make me feel bad, what will i gain from people's pain?

I will help you quote your words again and would appreciate you think deep instead of playing some victim card here.

It's true because i have not seen any family come out to mourn their casualities from the fake end sars

What is the crime in establishments paying the salaries of its workers? Isn't that more efficient?

Rozross:
It's true because i have not seen any family come out to mourn their casualities from the fake end sars

Wouldn't it be better you keep quiet than saying this. I don't know what is in it for you however, it is sometimes good to remain silent than trying to make caricatures of people's pains.

Trying to understand why everyone isn't supporting Wike on Ayu's strong down. Sometimes, I feel the South does too much to please the North.

Hopefully things work for him the way he wants it to.

May his soul rest in perfect peace and may God sustain all he left behind.

frowland:
Your question was “What is the government putting in place to forestall a reoccurence?”.
NEMA and relief agencies are not a preventive organization. If you are looking at ways to prevent disaster, maybe you talk to scientist and climate change experts.

Like I said, those are part of what the government could do and your suggestion is another.