Hooy** Nairobi is really beautiful. Would love to visit someday Good thing to see African cities developing. I wish all round our countries would be this developed or at least something close in all African countriees. geee
vaxx: yes there is yoruba indigenious tribe in togo apart from main yoruba emigrant. they are called atapame. they speak yoruba like people from ondo state in nigeria. authough the yoruba may be complex along the line.. history say they emigrate from ondo kingdom.
iblawi: Yes we have Yorubas as indigenes in Togo. Adebayo is also 1(the football).
2 of these guys are somalis and 2 are Nigerians. Can you tell which are??
fanficgirl, you can also help out.
Holly most horn African and fulani men do look good facially, buh i just don't know, they usually appear very feminine to me at times ** ** ....typically unlike other African men who look very masculine.
Nowenuse: @9jakool, fulanis don't come in one look, they differ largely since they have intermixed a lot with other tribes.
Now, let me deal the final blow to all you guys fanficgirl & Taysermahiri
One is a Sudanese, one Nigerian, one Somali and another Ethiopian (Oromo). Tell them apart
holly, going back through this thread.
Seems like you guys have fought and settled at different times goodiiii. **** I have come across a sudanese family in Kaduna and yah those guys can easily pass for Hausas and fulanis. Those guys told me that there are many Sudanese of Nigerian (hausa) descent and i discovered it was true. I really can't speak for Somalis, buh Ethiopians i think, yah. A cousin of mine schooled with and befriended loads of them and looking at the photos, i think some of them can pass for fulanis.
obaaderemi: Indeed,the yorubas need to harmonize even beyond Africa.Togo's first prime minister,Grutzinsky was half yoruba and many Beninoise are of yoruba origin as well.And several brazilians too.
holly, are there yoruba indigenes in Togo? never heard of that, buh i know of yorubas in Benin. Had one as a friend back then
Holly, some Nigerians can be very ignorant. Been lmao Buh i think that elderly woman tried small sha Even me, it wasn't too long i memorized the Nigerian states n capitals perfectly .be sincere, can you perfectly?
We can't help but admit the fact that fulanis seem to be the smartest ethnic group among the large ethnic groups of west Africa. Fulanis have international cultural unity groups accross West Africa.
Hausas are the largest tribe in Niger republic and a majority in Nigeria, yet no international unity, Zarmas are even dominating the hausas politically in Niger republic.
Akans are the majority in Ghana and Ivory coast, yet no international ethnic unity, maybe Just30, lethalbeast or vaxx can explain this for us.
Yorubas are a strong force in Benin republic and even Togo, but no cultural solidarity btw the Nigerian and non-Nigerian yorubas @obaaderemi, 9jakool
But fulanis from over 10 different West and Central African nations have international unity groups.
Fulanis are united and smart, yes, but they are also at a disadvantage from what i see. So, no need to hype them. Most fulanis in Nigeria are loosing their language and culture to hausa (becoming hausanized). I also heard that in Mali, fulanis are loosing their language and culture to Bambara, likewise in Senegal where many fulanis have adopted wolof.
tetengi4life: On the (Saturday) 20th of May, i was called by a foundation (live-bridge foundation) to follow them to a Community that still kills twins and 3plets children in FCT. i thought it was a joke, until we got there.
The communities name is KIYI along Kuje-Gwagwalada road Abuja. When we reached there, we saw hose children that where saved from this cultural carnage. If the child grows upper teeth before the lower teeth, he/she will be smashed on a tree trunk as sacrificed to the Oracle. And if a breastfeeding mother dies, the child will be buried alive.
Also, they kill albinos children. Livebridge is working tirelessly to stop this cultural carnage. In addition to that, we did several medical examinations to treat those children, and took some to national hospital for emergency treatments and surgeries.
Vin Heritage homes where the children are saved is founded by a missionary pastor, who usually goes to the 'evil' forest to pick some of them that are still alive. Sometimes, some of the mothers that give birth to twins/3plets had to run discretely to the orphanage to donate one and present one to the community.
PrettyCrystal: An Imo youth, Ogandu Uzoma Nwachinaemere from Obi-Dim, Umudim, Ikeduru L.G.A, Imo State - has appealed to president Muhammadu Buhari to give him the Federal College of Education, Omoku, board appointment rejected by the Governor of Imo State, Owelle Rochas Okorocha, after such an important Federal position was offered to the Okorocha’s daughter, Mrs Uju Rochas Anwuka married to the son of Minister of Education State, Prof Anthony Anwuka.
In a short message shared on his Facebook page, Mr. Ogandu appealed to the Governor of Imo State, the minister of Education and President Muhammadu Buhari led Nigeria Federal government to reappoint him, a bonafide Imo son to replace her sister's, Mrs Anwuka (Nee Okorocha) appointment rejected by the Okorocha’s on the basis that the Governor's family was not consulted before such appointment.
The Imo youth, reasoned that instead of the FG appointment to be given to another state, those concerned should find him worthy and use him for a replacement.
Read his statement bellow:
"To Whom it may Concern;
Re : Declaration of Interest to take up the Rejected position.
Please to whom it may concern, I humbly request that I Uzoholland Nwachinaemere Ogandu be considered as a replacement of this believed position.
A consideration to my appeal will be most appreciated. Thanks."
Some people can really miscontrue scriptures to suit themselves and what they do. But let's even say the Bible does not support a woman divorcing an adulterous husband, times and seasons have changed and a lot of things that would be tolerated in the past, would not be today. Most modern Nigerian women will pass.
ianSweet: What do u mean by we ladies are the cause? I don't accept that. People should be responsible for their individual health
See what i mean. U made mention of married men ordering their wives to pound yam for them to eat at night ba? Which kind of woman will be serving her husband swallow food at night before bed? Pounded yam for that matter. Only an illiterate or ignorant wife who has no sense of proper nutrition and diet will do such. For me i think improper meals lead to pot belly stomachs more than beer or lack of going 2d gym (i may be wrong though)
LoL, Op abeg take it easy on these our lazy ass men o.
But seriously this thing is really annoying. I think we the ladies might share some blame in this because we do not encourage or chastise them on these things. We act like it doesn't matter and before you know it, your hubby has developed a 'pregnancy', a baby he will never deliver. Imagine u a pregnant wife hugging your own pregnant husband, The hands will not be able to reach each other due to the 'double pregancies obstacles'.
OILSOUP: My sons have my blessing to send her to join me in the grave if she dares.
I will marry the ingrate there.
Jesus Christ. Is this a human being or a demonic creature? How can a modern day human being say such barbaric things? God, no wonder murder cases are on the rise. Some people are supposed to be in cages, chains and wildlife parks. *spits*
alfarouq: I have always told people that the best form of inheritance is such that for every onething the female child inherits, the male child has double and for every one thing the male child inherits, the female child has half, that is justice. The male child has more responsibity than the female child whose responsibility has to be taken care of by her husband. The irony of it is that the people who have mostly accused of having cavemen mentality are Igbos. Thank God for technology, I never suspected that their system is worst. Imagine in 2016, they are still debating on whether a female child can inherit her parents
Don't mind these crude little igbo savages. They are the most uncivilised people but their mouths are so wide to insult hausas and yorubas as backward people.
These people are such annoying hypocrites.
Imagine a culture that so much victimizes widows. Imagine a case where a woman is widowed and she is forced to drink the water used to bathe her late husband corpse just to prove her inocency. What kind of madness could be more than that?
Seriously i am very ashamed of Igbo people. How can they allow this kind of ancient backward culture to survive till date in this modern 21st century?
Igbos are the greatest hypocrites i have come across in this life. These are the same igbos who will be quick to castigate the Hausas for their laws against women.
Shame on these people called Igbos and they claim to be the most educated and enlightened people in Nigeria. Useless loud-mouthed imbeciles.
humilitypays: @ genieluv you are right, so true, but the problem is: Nigerian women overdo everything they are into, they don't know how to balance work life, business, money chase, family, marriage and love....they must overdo one to the detriment of another.
For in stance, if u marry a lady and tell her not to work, out of love and care, she will become too lazy at home and turn to a horrible nagging wife barking and yelling at her maids, and even hubby sometimes.
Marry a working class Nigerian lady and supoort/encourage her to be the best in her career/business, and watch her become wild, disrespectful, prideful and pompous to even serve you food as her hubby becomes a big task for her.
Nigerian women need to learn how to balance things in life and not overdo things.
Most Nigerian men love independent ladies and will definitely support and even assist her grow in her chosen career or business but when u get close to most of the so-called independent Nigerian ladies, they are mostly not dateable or marriageable, why
1. Most of them are so prideful, pompous and always feel like because they managed to make or earn some money, therefore all men should bow and worship them. And of course no Nigerian man in his right senses with his financial situation in tact will dare marry such a pompous lady that lack humility!
2. Most Nigerian independent ladies are flirty and wayward with rich men!
Most of them combine their flourishing career, business or trade with discrete high-class prostitution whereby they target only the super-rich men and politicians in corridor of power, and u know, Nigerian men know about this because one way or the other, most Nigerian men also know one or two men that patronize these career women that combine high-class love peddling with their career...and this makes them distasteful to honorable single men looking for committed relationship or marriage, and no man (single or married) in his right senses would want his wife, the mother of his kids to be living such wayward lifestyle.
You talked about most Nigerian men preferring light skinned ladies...u are right no doubt, it's not just about Nigerian men...its about black men, even black/African American men prefer white or light skin ladies.
So once a black man becomes rich, his most preferable type of woman is a fair skin lady with big buttocks and nice bo0bs. Blame nature...and don't listen to any black guy telling u otherwise, sadly.
So my suggestion to Nigerian ladies, if u can't stand the heat of being dark skin, and if u can bear the consequences of bleaching your skin, pls do so or tone it to become a bit brighter.
Stop overdoing things...try and learn to balance things in life: don't allow your job, business or career to make u overlook your marriage or abandon your home/family.
Don't allow your quest to become an independent lady turn you to a prideful, pompous, arrogant, distasteful woman!
Balance everything and everybody will adore u!
True, some Nigerian men are hypocrist but unfortunately, Nigerian women prefer running around with them than with real, sensible Nigerian men!
Wow, 1 million likes for your comment. U nailed it. I agree sha, some of the fault also comes from we the women, but more fault goes to the men.
Thank God for sincere guys like you who will always tell the truth cos most black men are just very insincere, they say one thing with their mouths and another thing is in their minds.
And pls, no normal Nigerian woman will prefer to roll with a hypocrite over a normal guy, just that one may never be able to tell the difference. Most of them all appear as normal guys until they start displaying their true colours after they pay your bride price and you enter their house and start bearing their children. Then it seems like you the woman whom he was willing to do everything for before now looses value in their eyes and they now talk to you the way they like. Most African Women are not like that, women may be hard headed while they are still dating you, but once u put a ring on their finger, they automatically loose desire for every other man, they act more responsibly and are more conscious of themselves, they are more willing to be obedient and make their marriage work.
Hardly will u see a succesful African man who does not keep extra marital affairs and is completely faithful to his wife, but i can show u countless numbers of African women who reached the peak of their career but are still very much faithful, loyal and comitted to their husbands. Somebody here said it on this forum that he visited Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala's home and observed that this woman still kneels down to serve food for her husband. Checkout the most influential Nigerian and African women and see that about 50% of them are still very much faithful and loyal to their spouses. So you can agree with me that it is only a smaller percentage of African women who are power drunk when they are as succesful or more succesful than their husbands but for the men it is 99.9%.
Godgay: look at Jonathan election winning map and come back to me,sis northeners are overrated,if sw,ss,se vote one person na who be the person wen one defeat am
U people are 17 states while the north is 19 states + FCT. According to the constitution of Nigeria, a president can only be declared winner if he can secure 25% votes in at least 5 states outside his region, that means a southern presidential candidate must be able to win at least 25% votes in about 5 northern states b4 he is declared president, irrespective of the volume of his votes, likewise a northerner too must secure at least 25% votes in at least 5 southern states. I did not write the constitution.
Do u know that in this last election, some northern states like Plateau and Kaduna gave GEJ more votes than up to half of the states in the south? In 2011 election where GEJ won, only 8 states gave GEJ over 1 million votes and PLATEAU and KADUNA were among these 8 states. So dont talk like an ignorant mofo!
Godgay: this is why our economy is suffering na,illetrates everywhere,do even watch ur movies how many people know how to speak English there?because you have a northern president who is appointing his fellow northern fools in intelligent position you think you are ruling who?,am happy for buhari failure and by 2019 we will send u deluded bunch parking,this is democracy and it was foolish of the south that landed buhari there with the hardship I think it won't again for the 5 decades
See Mr, in Nigeria we all need each other. Do u think the 17 states of the south can elect a president alone by themselves? No, they also need the votes of the north or middlebelt. In 2011 GEJ won 7 states of the North Central and North east before he could be president. Likewise Buhari won 5 states in the south-west to become president. We all need each other!