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Politics / Re: Ekweremadu: Ohanaeze Writes UK Embassy, Issues Warning To Blackmailers by GerogeI(m): 2:13pm On Jun 26, 2022
Oha what?
When did we Igbos authorize a Socio political organization to get involved in an individuals personal crime.

What if he is guilty? All of us Igbos become guilty.
For someone whom we have beaten before in Germany.

Please stop the rubbish. The law should follow its course. If he and his wife are innocent fine, if not still fine. Afterall the alleged victim is also Igbo.

People who could not speak when MNK was terrorized are here using our collective herritage to defend a dubious politician.
Celebrities / Re: Jackie Appiah’s Luxury Mansion Will Amaze You, Check Out The Interiors by GerogeI(m): 6:44pm On Jun 25, 2022
Na lie OP. Gullible people.
This is one of the popular luxurious house plans you will see online. That image was rendered by an architectural softwares like revit, or 3Dmax. The whole this is not even real, before some chick says she built it.

The house in the video is not upto 1 /10th the house in your picture. House in video na normal Nigerian Detached 2 floor house.

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Business / Re: Can Someone Please Explain? Just Received An FCMB Message by GerogeI(m): 11:47am On Jun 23, 2022
gaetano:
I just received an sms from FCMB, now the problem is i did not at any point in time open an account with the bank. Is this the hand work of fraudster and what should i do?

See below

Got this kind of message, Contacted the bank and all they did was to tell me not to give out the password. I have given up the phone number.
Useless bank has a porous platform being used by criminals.

OP there are two possibilities.
1. One someone has just opened an FCMB account with your phone number for fraud.
2. Someone just opened an FCMB account temporary with your phone number in order to get your BVN number. Which they can use to track your real bank accounts and get your bank balances. Beware and be security conscious cause such people are close to you.

FCMB is giving criminals free access to peoples BVN. So ensure your phone numbers are not linked to any bank or bank account. Also ensure your NIN is not linked to your BVN by not using NIN in any account identification. Always use drivers licence or international passport. NIN will automatically link your phone numbers tied to it to your BVN, with all the ongoing insecure mobile banking and sim card cloning or emulation , you can become a victim of these data miners.

From hindsight, I suggest you send FCMB a letter notifying them of the fraudulent account opening and indemnifying yourself against any criminal or fraudulent a outcome, and keep a copy of the letter for future reference. That's what I'll do next time I encounter this.
Politics / Re: Why Do Anambranians Come To Lagos If Peter Obi Was Good Leader by GerogeI(m): 11:16am On Jun 22, 2022
KGD10:


Destroy which port? Una dey ment..

You keep forgetting that the south western region is the only region that has the longest sea? The port in Lagos was developed before the amalgamation of Nigeria. Sink that into your skull.

The port in Calabar, Warri and Porthacourt are still functioning. Go there.

Who wants to sell which nnpc? Did nnpc develop the south western region? Una dey ment?

We know the people who love to shout "our oil" everywhere. it's the Igbos. That was why ojukwu wanted to change the names of the South South and wouldn't let them go until the federal government did.

Keep arguing like a fool.

It is on record Obasanjo destroyed warri Port, till today it is yet to recover.

Port in Lagos is a Federal port, not a regional port. The one your governors have been naking noise about in Lekki is still on paper. Your region has coastline, but only the Federal port in Lagos is working. What happened to the rest of your coastline line- Port Developer.

As usual, only target of Tinubu's is federal companies they can sell to themselves. NNPC is the only thing they have not sold to themselves. You carefully avoided the looting of Unipetrol Liberain war fuel funds debt through Oando.
Politics / Re: Why Do Anambranians Come To Lagos If Peter Obi Was Good Leader by GerogeI(m): 10:59am On Jun 22, 2022
KGD10:


First, the seaport was built before the amalgamation of Nigeria. It was built from the proceed of agricultural products from the south western region. So what are you saying exactly?

Crude oil only started to be exported in large quantities in the late 80's. So what did you develop in Lagos exactly? Una dey ment?

Also, the proceeds of the seaport goes to the federal government.

Did you even realise that Obasanjo withheld Lagos revenues for several years while Tinubu was governor?

Shut up this idiot.
Obasanjo that destroyed Warri port just to favour Lagos.

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Politics / Re: Why Do Anambranians Come To Lagos If Peter Obi Was Good Leader by GerogeI(m): 10:54am On Jun 22, 2022
KGD10:


Ondo is a Niger Delta. So what are you saying? Na ment? Besides, workers can work anywhere as far as they're professional and equipped and it's not only Yoruba who works there. Every tribes, including Igbos.

It's not as if illiterates fled their region and came to roam in Niger Delta.

Yes and businesses can't operate anywhere. Only workers can work anywhere.
This guy is a first class fool.
Politics / Re: Why Do Anambranians Come To Lagos If Peter Obi Was Good Leader by GerogeI(m): 10:45am On Jun 22, 2022
Eniitankorede:



Wake up!!! There’s no federal support in Lagos since capital Was moved away over 20 years ago. Why do you keep trooping to Lagos?

Lol, Find somewhere to troop to instead of lazying around.
If you do not like other people being in Lagos, make your own seperate country or support others to do so. Till then One Nigeria, with Lagos federal roads, federal ports and even federal flower pots. Started by federal, eveything continues to be the output of federal investment. Even the monthly allocations comes from Niger Delta. The economy in Lagos is fired by Niger Delta oil Yet you open your mouth as if any of it is yours.

But we are happy to let you have it alone, but thats either you are a different country or we are a different country.
Politics / Re: Why Do Anambranians Come To Lagos If Peter Obi Was Good Leader by GerogeI(m): 10:01am On Jun 22, 2022
KGD10:


Why aren't you clowns going to Calabar? Una dey ment?

Wetin federal government do in Lagos apart from ikoyi? Even the seaport in Lagos was built before amalgamation of Nigeria. You people dey ment or what?

We are in Calabar, and every other city, not just Lagos. We are business people. We supply goods and services, so we go anywhere there are consumers. Has nothing to do with economy. Moreover, its still one Nigeria, with freedom of movement.
Politics / Re: Why Do Anambranians Come To Lagos If Peter Obi Was Good Leader by GerogeI(m): 9:58am On Jun 22, 2022
Eniitankorede:



What infrastructure are you talking about? We need to compare that to what you have in Anambra.

Everything in Lagos was started with federal money. From flower pots to roads to ports and airports. So Lagos was already a teaming industrial city built by hausa, yorubas, igbos, ibibios, fulanis, ijaws, kanuris, tiv, Urohbos, etc before the like of Tinubu started inventing ingenous ways to milk it with their criminal network of touts and and area fathers!
Thank you.

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Politics / Re: Why Do Anambranians Come To Lagos If Peter Obi Was Good Leader by GerogeI(m): 9:43am On Jun 22, 2022
Eniitankorede:
I have just been wondering why supporters of Peter Obi travel hundreds of kilometres from Anambra to Lagos to look for job and trading, if Peter Obi was a good leader and creator of jobs. Have you wondered why everyone wants to come to Lagos? And who created all the jobs and business opportunities in Lagos? Was it not Tinubu and his boys? Why support Peter Obi instead of Tinubu when you know that Peter Obi cannot deliver good leadership? If you talk integrity, Peter Obi has no integrity because he was involved in money laundry as Governor and was also using state money to fund his family business. And Buhari did not deliver on integrity ticket because we need a leader who has integrity and can deliver good governance.
Because Lagos once Nigeria's capital, built from federal funding, still hosts critical infrastructure that states cannot own. And we need them for business.

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi's $12.24m Investment In Breweries Now Worth $5.38m - TheCable by GerogeI(m): 6:40am On Jun 22, 2022
SATANICALLY:


https://www.thecable.ng/revealed-peter-obi-administrations-12-24m-investment-in-international-breweries-now-worth-5-38m/


If this crap actually came from Soludo's team, then something is really wrong from them. This Ifeatu (if not fictitious) should not be involved in managing any sort of finance in Anambra State!


First in Naira terms the investment norminally went from 1.9 billion to 2.2 billion in less than a decade, and based on a local economy.

By Buhari's evil economic magic, courtsey of Asiwaju Tinubu, every asset in this country lost =(580-320)/580= 45% of there value from the day Buhari took over this country and Aso Rock became an Old Peoples home, dedicated to nursing dead people back to life. This 45% loss of value includes any thing you ever had before Buhari, not just Peter Obi's investment. Your car, you tv, house, private jet, etc.


Now to the valuation idioticity of so called Ifeatu Ona-something.
1. He failed to tell us how many people in Anambra Sab Miller Onitsha has employed directly.
2. How much they earned in the last 9 years, which went into circulation of the economy of Anambra State.

3. He failed to tell us how many people in Anambra Sab Miller Onitsha has employed indirectly, as cleaning contractors, trucking contractors, fuel supply contracts, cereal supply contracts, maintenance contracts, etc.
3. How much these people and their employees earned in the last 9 years, which went into circulation of the economy of Anambra State.

Not that any cost of labour is a full profit to the labourer.

4. How Much Anambra State government recieved as direct liquid tax payments from intefact Breweries, their direct employees and their indirect employees

5. He also failed to calculate the appreciation in the value of the land around Intefact Brewery Onitsha and the additional industrial establishment it has attracted, at least I am involved in one.

6. The local shareholders and Anambra State have been earning dividends from the Brewery, this is the only value among the gamut on the value chain represented by the share value of intefact brewery.

7. All of the above have been earned over 9years, he must also project their earnings in the remaining life of the plant, which if I take the usual 30 years, still has 21years to impact Anambra State before needing any major overhaul.

These are the real profits of an investment by a state or society, not just how much the shares are worth. Shares are a value only to a private or individual investor, Anambra State is a society.

For someone from Soludo's economic team to even be quoted on this kind of half baked asset valuation, without a rejoinder or a rebuttal, it puts a lot of Questions on Soludo's Credibility as a Prof. Of Economics, who could not find a knowledgable finance commissioner.
Politics / Re: Peter Obi A Pragmatic Investor In Beer Business? by GerogeI(m): 6:10am On Jun 22, 2022
dandollaz:

You are Late.Just be OBIdient

You are an idiot.
Do you know how many people are directly employed by Sab Miller in Onitsha for over a decade and many decades to come?

Have you calculated how many indirect contractors work for SabMiller Onitsha, from cleaning, to trucking, Gas Supplies, Cereal sourcing.

Your Ogbomosho economicst thinks the value of a states investment is measured in liquidity.

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Travel / Re: Finally I'm In America by GerogeI(m): 6:02am On Jun 22, 2022
ObamaMessi:
I finally arrived in America.

Can't believe Victor Divine is in yankee.

I live in Willowbrook, Houston, Texas.

It has always been a dream since I was 10, now 19 and my dream is reality.

I will soon work my way to NY to recide in Alabama.

My dream of becoming Governor of New York, U.S Secretary of State and subsequently becoming U.S President (after we amend the constitution to make naturalized citizens eligible to run for the Presidency) is materializing.

Just a week plus here, I know the difference between a first world country and a third world shithole.

I implore all of you to work your ass off to the U.S and live that shithole to your selfish politicians.

#GodBlessAmerica!!!

The fallacy we all project and teach to our children and future.
~That merely being in a first world country is enough
~Then its ok to live the life of hustle, servitude and menial labour, since you are in heaven
~Then comes the exchange on why the locals must treat us as equals.


Just remember, someone built and died for the land you went to dwell in. While its ok for some of us to immigrate, its not ok to preach it as a Universal truth. For someone must build our own lands, irrespective of the name or geography imposed on it by colonial looters. The day this land ceases to be and be yours, is the day you loose an option, a respect and a potential.
Enjoy your new abode, but do not denigrate those who Fort for you at home, you will owe them so much that you cannot understand today.

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Car Talk / Re: How Often Does One Need To Change Gear Oil by GerogeI(m): 3:43pm On Jun 20, 2022
reel14:
Dear N/Landers,
i have been driving my Honda over a year now. I'm always tempted to change the gear oil even when the gear has never given me headache for once.

My former mechanic then told me to always change the oil every 3 months. This has got me confused and i dont know what to do
please your advice will go a long way, and i will appreciate if this can be pushed to front page.

Check your gear oil level annually, but change gear oil once in 3 years for a private car that is not in use daily. For commercial vehucles used for long dustances, its annually changed.
Career / Re: Just Fired. How Do I Cope With The Emotional Trauma? by GerogeI(m): 3:22pm On Jun 20, 2022
MsJackson:
Hello my uncles and aunts.

I'll make this as brief as possible. I teach in a school where the owner uses his father's compound, back flats. His family lives in front apartment.

Some months ago, last year precisely, i had an issue with his sister, last born, and i decided to avoid her totally to prevent future occurrence. I face my job and do it well.

We the teachers observe that the family always call their son to report any issue, especially if we faltered in some cases. It was getting too much.

So on that day, exactly two weeks ago, we were asked to oversee the students sporting activities, done in front of the school compound. I was walking out with my colleague and we were discussing something we both saw on social media, about gistlover. The sister overheard it and believed we were talking about her, calling her gistlover.

She walked up to me and confronted me in a harsh manner. I tried explaining to her that we weren't referring to her, but she wouldn't listen and before you know it, we were exchanging words. I said a lot because I was angry that she singled me out to confront, when we were two discussing the issue.

She was telling me to get out and i was sooo angry that I used the f word on her. Later, her parents came back and she reported me to them. Without calling to hear my side of the story, they both told their son to send me away. The mother even said that wherever she saw me, she would strip me naked. Their son my boss came, me and my colleague were called to say what happened,we did, then my boss told me to go home and stay put for a while.

After a week,he called and told me my services were no longer needed, that he made his own private investigation from the students and they confirmed I used the f word on his sister. I am not innocent. I admitted my fault, but he refused to temper justice with mercy. He promised to pay me for this month, but my reputation is stained. AGAIN.

Considering the fact that I had some issues with a previous school two years ago, very close to this one. There I resigned on my own. Now everybody is looking at me like I am a bad person. I AM NOT. I try to be sooooo nice and polite, but people always take advantage of that to look down on me. I am extremely humble to a fault, even hubby says I present myself as mumu to people too much.

Is it a crime to be of small stature? I am 39yrs of age and this girl I had an altercation with, she is in her early 20's. I felt so disrespected because of how she confronted me, even poking her fingers in my face in the presence of the students, so I lost my temper. I didn't mean to. Now people are looking at me somehow. I don't feel like waking up in the mornings because I wonder how I would face the day.

I NEED A JOB, that will help me heal from this trauma. Graduated 11 years ago, Chemical Engineering, University of Benin. But I still don't have a good job, I have been teaching to hold body, but I am fed up.

The salary is sooooo small, compared to the work load I was handling. I would love to work in a good company, but nobody, no one is willing to give me a chance. I am depressed daily. God should just use a good person to help me, wipe my tears. Sorry for the long write-up.

Hello,
Am not concerned with your sack and altercation as that comes with the territory of small businesses.

But did you just say that you studied Chemical Engineering, and you do not know what to do with it?

Like, are you for real? So if graduates of Philosopy and Mass Comm. are jostling for a Teaching job, you too are doing the same?

Do you have any idea of the amount of chemical products used daily for various constructions and indiustrial projects. Can't you sit youself down and figure out how to produce just one, one single one in small quantities. I mean even if you were playing when others were studying, you can always sit down and brush yourself up.

Or are you one of those who must be spoon fed. Madame, go figure out how to produce just wood glue locally and you will be employing people.

Please Engineers of any kind should not be coming here to talk about looking for job.

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Politics / Re: Ekiti Election: These Are The Real Voters (Pictures) by GerogeI(m): 1:21pm On Jun 18, 2022
Hedonini:
If I had my way only people with a minimum of WAEC certificate would be allowed to vote.

All these illiterate rural dwellers are the source of our problem. They're the ones who foisted a disaster like Buhari on us and are set to repeat the same madness.

I could use a system of elite suffrage where the enlightened few should be allowed to decide for the hopelessly ignorant majority. Not the other way round.

How do you define enlightenment.
What you consider brightness is considered darkness by others, so who is right?

We African must learn to expunge the self focus and build societies where equality is most prarmount. I can just imagine you as a lawmaker. You think you are right and others wrong.

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Politics / Re: Soludo Inaugurates Construction Of Drug Market by GerogeI(m): 7:43am On Jun 18, 2022
Building shops for drugs in 2022?

I expected to read about a large complex with integral trade center or hall, an electronic quality control and verification register, and refrigerated or climate controlled warehouses, with plans for rail links to Onitsha port and Anambra Airport.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NERC Recruitment: Please Who Is Setting These Unrealistic Minimum Requirements? by GerogeI(m): 4:28pm On Jun 16, 2022
Thats how people put themselves off opportunities.
Go and apply if you can do the job.
Adverts list ideal qualities, nobody is ideal. Once you fit most of the requirements for a job apply and go sell yourself. Tell them why you are the best person instead of sitting and sulking over imaginary injustices done to you.
Business / Re: New CBN Policy Offload Risks And Liabilities Of Transaction On Customers by GerogeI(m): 8:36am On Jun 04, 2022
Lawyers in the house.
Please can those with some free time come together in Abuja, Lagos PH and Sue CBN and the banks.

I keep my money in the bank, the bank makes my account porous and unsecure, and fraudsters debit my account. The bank claims indemnity.

I stay in my house, they issue BVN. Fraudster use just BVN to open account in my name on a porous banking platform FCMB. Bank claims indemnity.


I use my cash, CBN say cashless banking. Am forced to do electronic transactions for everything. CBN and bank also want to claim indemnity on a medium they control and insist I must use.

Please, its time to put these idiots before a court. We form an online forum and take turns to catch up and represent the case.

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Politics / Re: Tinubu: I Intervened When Yar’adua Chased Ribadu With An Axe by GerogeI(m): 10:39am On Jun 03, 2022
Does Tinubu understand what he is saying.
He helped and saved all kind of currupt politicians at the detriment of the majority of Nigerians.

Nuhu Ribadu- EFCC corupt Head, who laid the foundation of EFCC as a political witch huanting tool

Atiku- From his stint in customs where we all know what goes on at the ports, to Intels onne conflict of interest, and then Obsanjos era of oil for friends

Gaduje- As in Gandollar. So Tinubu helped him stifle the Lagos Ibadan media.

Buhari- we all know how that one goes. Used Nigerians to extend his life as a retirement benefit. Naira went from N340 to USD to fucking N600 per USD.

These are Tinubus credentials. His media handlers should better stop him talkjng before he reveals all the attrocities in this country.
Foreign Affairs / Re: Meghan Markle, Prince Harry Absent As Royal Family Poses On Balcony (Photo) by GerogeI(m): 10:33pm On Jun 02, 2022
ogododo:


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/06/photo-meghan-markle-prince-harry-absent-as-royal-family-poses-on-balcony/

Yeah Right, aint it a convenient cover for the appeasement over a racist agenda.
Politics / Re: Samuel Uche: Army Queries Methodist Prelate Over Soldiers' Involvement In Kidnap by GerogeI(m): 8:13pm On Jun 01, 2022
Look at this kind of stupid bureaucratic response.

Is the prelate a member of the Nigerian Army, to be giving you information and taking you into confidence. His responsibility is to save his own life first. Now he is telling you kidnapping is being aided by your offices and you are responding with insinuations as usual.
The Nigerian Army is a war instrument not a civil law enforcement organisation, so why are your troops deployed outside your base?

The information making it round the south east is that the group of kidnappers operating in the region are working from military bases to escape ESN. And their attrocitcities are being brought online by the likes of Oyiboupdate and cast as ESN. The prelate has just given this open secret flesh. May our lives be saved.

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Politics / Re: Gas Discovery: Nike People Wants To Break Away From Enugu State And For Nike Sta by GerogeI(m): 3:31pm On May 31, 2022
This people.
Well fires are not new to the oil and gas industry now.

You just need to set up a rig and pure in heavy drilling mud, once you determine the pressure, the mud is replace by appropriate cement mix, with the right curing time.

This is most likely a coal bed methane gas pocket, not gas from oil reservoir. Also if the state gov. is involved, quickly shoot 2 to 4 lines of seismic over the areas to determine the size of the pocket. If its large, it might be a good investment for industrialization in Enugu.

There are companies in Emene that currently buy LNG, LPG and even diesel from Port Harcout. This will be a cheaper alternative, hence should not be wasted.
Abeg, if you guys do not know what to do, you should invite me.

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Politics / Re: Can Southwest Ever Trust North Anymore? by GerogeI(m): 9:50am On May 28, 2022
badoh:
With the recent event, rumour and body language of president buhari on the possibility of adopting Jonathan as the consensus candidate of APC, I consider it as an act of trackery and ungrateful situation. Only God destine a man for greatness but you will still need the support of people to attain specific position.
Buhari had earlier contested presidential elections three times and lost. Some eminent personalities in opposition parties(ACN, ANPP, nPDP and APGA) came to your rescue, stood by you, drafted resources and ensure you became the president. Why will you forget how they helped you to defeat a sitting president? Can you just look back and think over it again. Why not extend the same support to these people instead of rubbing Jonathan on their faces? Are you trying to play smart by foisting Jonathan on Nigeria so that he can do a single term and return power to the north or you are looking for a weak candidate that Atiku can defeat easily so that power remains in the North.
The treatment given to MKO still linger in the memory of the southwesterners and recent event suggest you want to also play Tinubu despite the effort he played in APC primaries against Atiku and your eventual emergence as president. People should note that Tinubu was an opposition leader then and bringing down Jonathan govt is without apology but for APC to be considering Jonathan as APC candidate is one of the wonders of the 21st century. Why allow aspirants to be touring various states canvassing for delegates when you already know they are going nowhere? Why not allow for primaries so that the best candidate will emerge? Why trying to foist an unpopular candidate on your party and expect unity in the party? Even if you have a preferred candidate, why not pick your deputy, or Amaechi or Umahi? These are tested politicians that can bring a rapid turnaround in Nigeria. These set of leaders are decisive, brave, sound, and good thinker who also have human feelings. People are watching what the north is working towards but if the north thinks they are smart by using divide and rule against the south, they should not forget that future alliance is been threatened and the south will never trust them again.
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When was the last Time Tinubu allowed a free primary anywhere in ACN or APC Lagos, but he wants one.

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Politics / Re: Enugu State Emergency Agency Says No Cause For Alarm Over Gas Leak by GerogeI(m): 7:11pm On May 27, 2022
This is a stupid response.
First do a seismic to determine the size of the reservoir, that tells you whether to leave it to burn out or to plug it, eliminate oxygen and put out the fire.

If this is a large methane reservoir, it could sustain that fire for the next 5 years. Which will be a major waste of resources for Enugu State.

Further, the fire is burning at one point so, it's easier to put out, than when it has multiple points.

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Family / Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by GerogeI(m): 4:44pm On May 26, 2022
Mccullum:
Stop this rubbish of postpartum disorder,

If it's postpartum problem, she'll lost her senses immediately after given birth to that baby,

she'll be eccentric to every one around her, not to you specifically, she's suffering from indecision problem,

she is in a state of confusion on concluding her life with you, her mind may not be with you,

I suggest, you may leave her for a while, may be she can retrace her self back to you,

the baby still small to be collected from her mother, leave the child with her and your mother in-law,

distance your self from her, don't call her, just be sending money for the wellbeing of the baby,

try to get one or two persons that will be honest to assist you monitor her, this will enhance you to gather information on her next mission,

that will picture her real reasons for changing toward you, it'll also enhance your final decision on her.

This one is Doctor Stupid@!
Family / Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by GerogeI(m): 4:38pm On May 26, 2022
Traplord09:


Let me tell you do I want to push her to place there she we regret it

No tomorrow she we run away and leave de child behind....

Did he forced her to marry you, .
Or did he pregnant her just to marry her

Don't say what u don't no.....

Person say she doesn't want and you are pushing it ..

2 this we Tak place if that is done..
Dat man go regret that marriage ..
Oga move on

With you child you can't push a car that can't work

Which part of hormones and medical condition did you not hear, or are you just daft?
Family / Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by GerogeI(m): 4:29pm On May 26, 2022
Traplord09:



De girl no love am stop all this long story it won't help that alll

All do u want to kill ursf before you understand.....

I have just make my point here


Please keep quiet if you do not know what you are talking about. If you have not seen a woman that runs from her child after giving birth then you should not be advising people and ruining their lives with your ignorance.

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Family / Re: My Wife Of Less Than Two Years Says It's Over Between Us by GerogeI(m): 4:22pm On May 26, 2022
InsideLife2022:
I have been an active member on this forum for the past eight years. I just created this account to bring this issue to limelight. Good evening gentlemen and ladies. I got married in late 2020. God being merciful, we are blessed with a baby of 5 months. My wife has been giving me attitudes of recent. I have tried to find out what the problem has been, she is not saying anything tangible. I am being confused and depressed. I have been begging her to come back to join me after delivery. She keeps traumazing me emotionally. She just told me our marriage is over. She couldn't say what the problem is.

She has not been taking care of the baby. She was medically advised to stop breastfeeding our baby permanently. Is not that she breastfeeds our baby. My mother in-law and sisters in-law have been complaining about her lack of motherly treats.

They told me she doesn't even know how to take care of the baby. They cannot allow my child to be in her custody because she can't take care of the baby as a mother. She has fought her mother for asking her to leave her house to join her husband. Every member of her family has been asking her what the problem is. She keeps telling them to come and marry me that it's over between us.

I haven't told any of my family members or my friends of what is going on in my marriage. I am a kind of person that do not like involving a third party in my new marriage of lest than two years.

Her family has never supported her actions. Her mom and her siblings have been asking me to come take my wife and baby. But, my wife is not ready to join me. It has been a serious issues in her family house each time they push her to go meet her husband.

Her family has ask me to come with some soldiers or the police to come carry my baby and leave her since she claims she is no longer interested in any marriage. I have been trying my best to make sure my wife never lacked anything during her pregnancy and even after delivery.

My in-laws have been very supportive and good to me. I know they have never and will not support her for her wrong actions and behaviors. My challenge is, my baby is just 5 months and I don't want to take the baby to my parents because of the questions people around will be asking. I don't want to be seen as someone who is separated from his wife. I hate divorce with passion. My wife does not have any concrete reason why she decides to stay off our marriage.

Her family is fully in support of my next actions of going to take my baby. Now, the question is this; is it advisable to keep the baby with me while I employ a nanny to raise the baby with me?

Please and please I need mature and sensible advise.

Cc: RoyalRoy

I want this thread to be moved to the right and appropriate section. Thank you!

Oga, pregnancy and child birth in a woman bring a cocktail of emotion mordifying homornes. Different women handle it differently. But for those like your wife whom it affects massively, what she needs is family and professional support. The fact she is having problems taking care of the child and this is her first child should have told you this. She needs a lot of time, love and support to return to her normal self.

First tell her family members to back off pressuring her,
If you can afford to, arrange for a nanny, that might help her agree to come back home.

Let her know you understand and are willing to give her time.

Also seek professional consultation if you can afford it, but I do not think its good to take pills fir this.

Also understand that your wife is going through emotions of being averred to her child, which in turn makes her feel guilty and confused. As she cannot explain this to herself, she is even more afraid to explain it to you. Hence, she is resorting to the easiest thing she can do, which is to walk away from you. If you try to take the child she will freely let you, but mind you once she is over it, she will fight you tooth and nail for that child. By then you have messed up your relationship by taking the child.

Just let her know she is having a medical condition and you are there to support her till she feels better.

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Politics / Re: Stella Oduah Reacts To Claim Of Not Completing Her NYSC, Shares Evidence by GerogeI(m): 12:54pm On May 26, 2022
All these idiots on this thread who cannot read simple English.

The Senator already claims she lost her certificate.
This issue has already been decided by a competent court, and she worn, having provided evidence from her place of Primary assignment among others.

For an NYSC DG to come up with such a sweeping conclusion on an issue that has already been decided in court, is contempt of court integrity.

If the DG is sure of his claims, NYSC should have sued her or sued for the court to review the case.
This is a pure case of political Libel by a sitting government official. How much was the DG paid for this hack job, and why stoop so low to denigrate NYSC as a partisan institution?
Politics / Re: Blasphemy: Arrest Pastor Akintaro Joshua Ojo Now – MURIC by GerogeI(m): 2:34pm On May 22, 2022
Abdulqareem:
Fictitious? I laugh in swahili. I believe you can do better than this. His case would be treated using the common law & not even the shariah law. I pity you in advance. Can you post your number, pics, contact address & perhaps forward your name to MURIC as co-respondent to the blashemous pastor. No muslim would insult Jesus(peace Be Upon Him) cos it invalidate his/her religion. it is rather suprising that christians now take pride in insulting other people's religion with baseless and toxic fallacies just to feel gud. it's a shame. Abeg Post this nonsense on facebook, twitter or whatsapp. to suffer dey hungry u abi?

What do you you expect, it is very surprising that Muslims now take pride in killing other people with faceless mob just to fell good based on a fictitious religion concerning a marauding criminal character that is also a paedophile. Can you post your picture, phone number and contact as one of those who killed Deborah Samuel, let's see what common law has to say about you.

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Politics / Re: Blasphemy: Arrest Pastor Akintaro Joshua Ojo Now – MURIC by GerogeI(m): 11:37am On May 22, 2022
Abdulqareem:
so we should clap for the pastor and perhaps introduce him to putin and biden for raining insults and blasphemy on islam and muslim. Christianity's new found love is mortification abi? It shows the poor state of that pastor's upbringing and how low he is. Thank God he has provided clues for the security operatives and I commend the civility of MURIC in handling this volatile case. Our love for Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) is uncompromising and anybody who wants to see the limit of our endurance should mortify him. Enjoy your christianity in peace fa

Insulting a fictitious character that supposedly lived hundreds of years ago can't be a crime. Even if you go to court, the so called Koran shows many places where the character killed and maimed, and even sexed a 9 year old. That is enough proof that he is a criminal if he ever existed. MURIC had better not go to court as they will be ridiculed.

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