₦airaland Forum

Pkgplanet:
These are unwarranted,the guy asked a simple question. You don't know him before but you've already judged him as a tribalist. What sort of human are you.
Most of you comment with already programmed mind to act a certain way to certain people. What makes it stupid is this forum is faceless,so you just read comment and assume that a person deserves your preprogrammed hatred.
Also buhari is no more the president,his son is in London right now with his wife and family,if you like let hypertension kill you.

I repeat, no Nigerian from any ethnic group has the moral right to complain about racism. You people are too poor to complain about discrimination when you lots do it very well in Nigeria.

I don't have any business with Buhari or his son. So, I don't know why you mentioned him.

SirBunky85:
senseless rant from a confused being

Cretinous fvcktard! Too much soot inhaled while living in Pitakwa has affected your Agbado brain.

Idiat!

Michaelspresh:
Thanks for the questions..
Like I said,I've been in Abuja for one month and I've already gotten a Job that pays 150k a month...I stay with a friend who will let me live with her till I'm tired...
Gwarinpa,the area I stay is in FCT.
Things are going on very well

Good. Since you have free accommodation, stay there for two years. Save like mad. Reduce costs. Contribute to food items consumed in the house. Accommodation is the major cost for new residents in Abuja.

Luckydude44:
Good Afternoon sir . Pls is it advisable for someone that has a program to run both at nasarawa state uni and uniabuja to rent house @ karu before nyanya

And if it's okay , is Karu affordable both in terms of
Accomodation ( a room and parlour) and security

Thanks

No idea. I have never stayed in Abuja beyond two weeks.

Nemesis0147:
calm down
She is currently in Abj ,that’s why she is complaining about the bolt fees.

My bad. I have modified it. Thanks.

RaptorX:
Maybe you should check her picture first before saying she wouldn't have any problems because she is a woman.

She is fairly OK. Big bros that like slim girls will be her major clients. Her type has no problem in Nigeria. There will be men who will do anything just to get in between her legs. Nigerian men can do anything for sex. ANYTHING!

If she is smart enough, she should bill them very high, save, save and pivot back to Uyo to marry and or start something for herself.

Michaelspresh:
Good morning y'all..
I've been in Abuja for a month now,and I love how calm and peaceful it is especially the area I stay which is Gwarinpa,second Avenue.

Now I'm thinking of relocating from Uyo To Abuja by September this year.
I know things are expensive but I love how everywhere is calm and nice compared to Lagos where everywhere is crowdy,noisy and stuffs I can't keep up with like heavy traffic and so on

Now,Abuja based nairalanders
Is there any challenge you have living in Abuja or any regrets?
Is there anything you would want me to know?
Abeg,share am with me make I no carry leg enter where I no fit commot..
Meanwhile..Bolt prices wan choke me😩

What happened to using minibus and taxis? Na the problem wey most Nigerians get; living a champagne lifestyle on a beer income. You never dey financially stable, you dey use Bolt steadily as if it is an affordable means of transportation. Now, you want to relocate to a major Bolt market where there is even greater usage and pressure to patronise the service.

Now, what are you doing in Uyo? How do you intend to replicate the same in Abuja? Why Abuja? Why now? The major cost for new migrants to a place is housing and housing in Abuja especially close to the business areas are expensive. Note: FCT is different from Abuja. You get place to stay for Abuja free of charge for the next six months? What is the distance between there and where you intend to make a living?

Honestly, some of the questions you lot ask make me question if you people actually attended secondary schools.

Theodanx:
They're only attracted because of money

Just like the men are attracted because of sex.

Trade by barter. Abi you wanted to collect free sex?

Abi1985:
I remember when I was single, and no girl will even dear flirt with me. To get a lady to even flirt then was like winning nairabet. It was me doing the chasing and toasting to get girls to even go out with me., no one even took me seriously when I was single. It was all good then.
Now I have been married for some years. Now they are all interested. I noticed the same for my married friends because they told me too.
Where were you when I was single? Lol Is being married now a thing to be attracted or not. I promise to stay faithful.

It goes both ways, and I dare say more from the men's side. It is married men that signed the dotted lines to keep fidelity. They have the power to say no, especially as it is men that spend, not the spinsters. But the lure of sex and varied sex styles no go gree them accept say na their fault. This is my problem with such men. Own it up, say I dey cheat because I love sex, different sex styles etc. Don't put the blame on single women whereas na una dey pay their house rent, school fees, open businesses for them, pay hotel rates and buy food.

Own it. It shows you are honest in your dealings.

Reference:
Someone who should have been serving the 9th year of a thirty year incarceration for gross corruption.

Nigeria, a nation that cannot administer even the slightest iota of justice.

Yet people dream, pray and posit prosperity. Ask them how it will come to the country and they have no idea whatsoever

So you believed she stole 90BN Pounds sterling?

"Educated people" believed this woman stole 90BN pounds!

That is why you people deserved Buhari and currently deserve Tinubu. Una never see anything yet.

udemzyudex:
What crime did he commit?

He should have stayed in Zimbabwe to ask that question. If no answer, he should travel to Guinea Conakry to ask the same question.

udemzyudex:
Rather Zimbabwe should tell us the crime he committed.

Zimbabwe was on her own, and David Hundeyin visited the country when he knew how MNK was bundled from Kenya to Nigeria. What was he going to find there? A part of me wanted him to be deported to Nigeria. When people play stoopid games, I really want them to win stoopid prizes.

pansophist:
ter the second world war.


But China who are master strategists, an over 5000 years old civilisation has seen all the tricks and dodged them all. They were patient until they grew really stronger, and said, ENOUGH.

I don tire to type. Just be vigilant. We are living in an interesting time. The disintegration of the hegemon. The question is, will the US accepts it defeat and go down peacefully? We shall see.

Sure, it will end in a decade or two. China just needs to maintain GDP growth of 4%, increase her diversity of import and export dependent countries, punish those who belittle her, seek to amend frosty relationships between warring sides, don't interfere in internal conflicts of countries etc. Basically, just keep doing what she has been doing.

Within two months, James Damon of JP Morgan, Anthony Blinken, Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Janet Yellen, John Kerry and now, Henry Kissenger have visited the Chinese. You know what it means when such people from one country visit their arch-rival, not the other way round. China should keep the support behind Putin, and contribute as usual towards the industrialisation of sub-Saharan African countries.

To illustrate what it means to align with the Chinese: Geely is investing $10BN in Malaysia to produce EVs. Meanwhile, Phillippines changed her president who now aligns with the US and gets a military base. Tell me, to a developing country and even a developed country, which would you rather prefer, a factory or a military base? Under the previous president, Phillippines increased bananas exports to China. Now, the Chinese are importing more bananas from Ecuador and Indonesia. I really hope African countries realise China is a force for good rather than bad.

Here: The Chinese tell Kissenger that China cannot be contained or encircle. https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2023/07/19/china-bejing-henry-kissenger-visit-us-diplomat/#comment

In China I trust.

He is very lucky! Next time, he would be wary about visiting any African country. Tinubu, apparently, is not interested in his case. Or luckily, a stronger force mediated his deportation to the UK rather than Nigeria.

Next, he should explain in simple terms what he went to find in Zimbabwe.

pansophist:
A perfect day is when I accomplished all the goals I set for the day and go to bed without carryover.

Caveadullam, and Gerrard59

A perfect day is when I achieve mu goals for that day and eat good food.

I tag Ednut1 and Tensazangetsu20

Delete A and D. I have never smoked and although I drink alcohol sparingly, I can do without it. However, to fvck is masculine. To ejaculate is divine. I love food and will pay any amount just to eat good food.

Apparently, The Cable copied my post without acknowledging it was originally published on Nairaland. Thieves! Ole!!! Inorrr!!!! Nevertheless, I am glad they were able to get some information I could not obtain:

Ilukwe Lottachukwu Geraldine of 2015 works at Bain and Company, London. Bachelor's degree from the London School of Economics. https://www.linkedin.com/in/lotta-i-a34a07102/

Akenbor Adesuwa Osarugue and Anonye Victory Emenike are both medical students. The former at UNIBEN and the latter at UNIJOS.
https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/where-are-they-now-doctor-lawyer-lecturer-how-utme-top-scorers-in-last-10-years-are-faring/

The Cable can never progress beyond her current level if the Olodo journalists there cannot cite where they got the information. Intellectual property arm robbers!

BigDawsNet:
😃Broda why u con dey vex.. I don't need to go to Sweden as I have been living in the U.S for over 4years now... I'm only asking OP the most common question prospective travellers been asking me... if I wanted to travel to sweden... I will definitely do that on visiting alone...

Sorry. It just pisses me when I see people complain that citizens in non-English speaking countries don't speak English.

And yes, no point for an American to relocate to Sweden.

Litmus:
So the new one now is that Nigerians are bank rubbers and rapists Abroad. Before, it was Nigerians are drug pushers and pimps. Before that Nigerians were prostitutes and competing with Italian mafias in Italy. Before this, Nigerians were fraudsters and outnumbered every other ethnic group in UK jails.

When will Nigerians wake up and realise that you're being attacked by organised media. Nigeria government need to find a way of finding out and identifying the members of the Troll Houses tarnishing Nigeria on social media. Even if its only one or two of these Troll House members every year, Nigeria should publicise and jail them.

The news about Seychelles and Kazakhstan banning Nigerians came from Nigerians living in Nigeria. Stop blaming an unknown foreign media.

Nigeria government also need to send investigators as well as involve her embassies in getting to the root of all news such as the one about cult members attacking each other in Dubai and making facts public.

Those caught were shown to be Nigerians; names, passports and pictures. Why should Emirati authorities lie? What do they have to gain from lying that a certain group of Africans displayed brutish attitudes and robbed a jewellery store in broad daylight?

Fake news takes root and spreads in the dank, dark corners and spaces of government neglection. As things stand now, Nigeria cannot afford to simply ignore even the stupidest news of this type. Don't just let Seychelles, Afghanistan or Bunkumistan write or institute crap about Nigerians because it is easy to do so since we don't investigate and make results of investigations public in order to shame them and Nigeria's enemies. Bleep diplomacy, they're not diplomatic with us!

Why not admonish Nigerians to follow the rules in the country they migrate to? Are Nigerians the only ones travelling? Thank God you did not blame racism because Kazakhstan did not ban Ghanaians, South Africans, or Namibians. They banned Nigerians. Are we the only black people who like to travel? If you like irresponsible people and condone their activities, good for you. But not everyone does. Due to the high rate of transporting drugs to Singapore, we lost visa-free status before 2006/7. But a poorer Burkina Faso enjoys it to date. Was it fake news that stated Nigerians should transport drugs to Singapore?

Tell Nigerians to behave when in other countries. That way, there will be no reason to ban them. Why should any adult let alone foreigners have sex with underage girls?

Biola67:
Nothing concern these ones with Proof of fund wahala 😆😆

Actually, this is true. Singaporeans are not required to show proof of living expenses when applying to British universities.

JeffreyJunior:
Take Singapore's passport and near US or UK embassy for visa and shout say you get the world's most powerful passports, I wan check something.

Except for work visas, Singaporeans rarely apply for visas to enter major countries except China (due to Covid). Even for employment, Singaporeans can easily work in the US via the H1B1. They are treated differently from the rest of the world.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Singapore my niggar

Wanted to move down for my keyboard huzzling

But they requesting for my gadmnnn visa clearance certificate from Ndlea

A real niggar can't meet those requirements

We would have seen your face on Nairaland. Singapore is not Malaysia where internet fraudsters are allowed to thrive.

Your ass would be whooped!

tensazangetsu20:
And funny enough some Nigerians were complaining the other day about how hard life is in Sweden. Fucking ungrateful lots

Their major complaint was the language. Niggas migrated to where English is not spoken then began complaining that the natives don't speak English and everything is tied to the language. Did they return to Nigeria? Big Fat NO!

BigDawsNet:
Very nice

Can you survive and get job if you only speak English?
I hope people who feel UK and Canada is too expensive for studies can actually focus on sweden

That should be mainly in tech. But why survive when you can thrive by learning the language? Una go enter country where English is not spoken begin dey ask if one can survive with only English or complain say they don't know how to speak English. Una no read the country before una apply to am? Shey if the person learns Swedish, he or she can integrate fully and enjoy his/her stay?

BTW, Swedish universities are way more expensive than British or Candian counterparts. Similar to US levels. Scholarships are extremely competitive, and student visas are hard to come by. No be 90K Nigerians wey apply for one kind scholarship the other month?

They are even mulling laws to curtail migration because of wetin Arabs don cause for Stockholm. They are learning from their Danish brothers.

9japride:
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Don't let beautiful pictures and stories fool you. Sweden is not that nice to foreigners.

Well, no Swede has entered a Norwegian village to slaughter more than 500 farmers. Yen yen yen, they are not nice to foreigners. Una dey nice to una selves?

mrcrabs:
How is it for students who want to come over for studies, is it a good place to start life after studies , is the language barrier an issue and what about racism.

I really would appreciate your reply.

Thank you

Anytime I read the bold from Africans, esp Nigerians, I shake my head. People who trade in tribalism used it to flog other people who went to vote, exterminate communities because the indigenes are of a different ethnic group, and many more are suddenly worried about racism. Tribalism is way worse than racism because you both are of the same race aka share the same skin colour. The annoying thing about the tribalism is the privation bedevilling both people. People wey poverty don nack their head pass talking drum dey carry tribalism for head like gala. A South Korean and Japanese might have issues because of their histories, but both persons are citizens of rich countries. Somewhere in Africa, two people go get problem even if their ethnic groups never had one historically, but these people are both poor. Most of them inhale generator fumes for a living. Others don turn camel because of fuel at N700. Tomorrow, they want to japa and are bothered about racism.

Nansense!

As always, better to reside with racists in a prosperous land than live with tribalists in the world's poverty capital. If you must discriminate against others, ensure you're prosperous at global levels.

cococandy:
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The reason I blame the men is that instead of understanding that they are in it together with their women,

Obviously, the men are to be blamed. It is men who chart the course of a society/racial group/ethnic group.

they hate the women for things that are entirely not their fault and think going to white women will solve the issue.

What are these things which are not the fault of black women? How do white women come across as a group of people who can solve these issues?

Then of course it doesn’t. So they bounce and circle the block. Only to do it again. all over again. They often don’t take the opportunity for self reflection and re-strategizing.

If there is one thing I have noted about black people, at least online, it is never taking responsibility for one's actions. God! When compared to East Asians, there is a stark difference. So, I am not surprised.

This is not say BW are blameless but statistically when things go sideways, they are the ones who often stay to “hold down” the forte. BM don’t give them the same grace when things go sideways

What are these issues? Let's remember that in the US which is our focal point, blacks marry themselves more than they marry other races. This cuts across both genders. One question, though, does your post apply to black African men and women?

I read every post.

The UK should be fair enough for a black African woman. Has she tried places like South Korea, Singapore, Malaysia, China or Japan?

I do agree that loneliness is a real thing when you relocate from an African country to a developed one. Due to how the system is structured, people are focused on work and other aspects of life that might not resonate with you as a first-generation immigrant. The complaints differ from the second generation. Before relocating, I thought I was an introvert, but na here I con say where my introvertness stop, na there their own start. You could be in a place, no one is saying Hi and to prevent stories that touch, you don't make the first move. Worse is the language, so one keeps to him/herself. However, having learnt the language pretty well and accepted invites to a few occasions, I gradually assimilated what I will term "work-in-progress".

As for relationships, that one no concern me. Three reasons: I never had one while in Nigeria; I am laser focused on making money, and I am not too fazed about marriage. I don't see myself getting married before 40; I am not yet 30. I deprived myself of many pleasures while in Nigeria to make a good grade, getting into marriage will stifle the freedom and peace of mind I desire. While the story might be false or embellished, there are many ways to handle loneliness in the abroad.

- Join associations: Meet people. The doc stated she is not too friendly. Well, she won't be able even to make acquaintances let alone friends.

- Have a hobby: This is extremely important as it gives your life meaning beyond work and study. It could be anything that you love doing. Two hobbies I have are: reading newspapers and doing research into issues I have a deep interest in. I could read different newspapers on the same issue for an hour. In fact, I rather read an edition of The Economist Magazine rather than watch a live football match. For instance, I really relished the time I spent doing research to compile the stats and commentary on this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7763389/top-jamb-scorers-where-today. A hobby I recently developed is learning Kanji. Although it is an integral part of knowing the language, I find it fun as the total number of Kanjis goes beyond the necessary ones to be certified as a bilingual speaker. The end game is to learn new ones including the Chinese variants and write the Kanji test. Now, tell me, how can I be bored?

- Travel: OP has a strong passport, most likely and she is in Europe. Find time to travel. Join groups and explore. Being in Nigeria would have made it harder due to costs and strength of the Nigerian passport. As she dey Europe, visit places you ordinarily would not have. Learn new cultures and languages. I see Nigerians on Instagram doing the same even as new immigrant nurses. So, how much an established doctor?

- Know what took you there and adjust: Are you going there for the money? Desire to live in a place where things work? To have an international working experience? Secure another nationality? Also understand that you can't have it have it all. You win some and lose some. I wrote everything here: https://www.nairaland.com/7650379/points-consider-before-after-japa

This life no suppose hard.

Lewisjohnson:
Na una still de chase after black women abroad,,
If I mistakenly comot dis country, nothing concern me with black women again

I have read your posts. Your type no dey stay long before we read your news for Instablog for sexual abuse or harassment. E no dey tey. Yen yen yen I can't be with a black woman.

Raalsalghul:
It's not being responsible or ambitious that will settle the bills or give them soft life Oga Gerr.ard59.

Then, what do they want?

I have seen the benefits of playing the long game and delayed gratification. So, why not do the same as first generation immigrants? Na one of the reasons I no dey interested in marriage. Soft life when the foundation is not balanced does not make sense.

cococandy:
They don’t wanna talk about it.

The pipeline from being the preference of a black man to baby mama is a straight line.
Or at least here in America. Yet they don’t see how they are the common denominator

In your opinion and observations, why is that so? I don't fancy a baby mama situation. I rather remain single. Having children in a two-parent household remains the best.

TheBillyonaire:
Highly intelligent systems are independent and isolated. It is a choice, and I do not see why she complains.

She chose loneliness in UK over social engagement in Nigeria. Some of us prefer Nigeria because it is home instead of being disconnected, isolated and lonely in some ready-made countries.

Agreed. If Nigeria becomes as developed as South Korea, the country will lose some of its social engagement. Lagos is an example.