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Papertrails:
Please nairalanders I need your advice on something that has been bothering me for sometime now.

I am a young graduate who graduated from the university almost two years ago and am done with my youth service too but am still trying to get a job or put up something maybe a business that will be fetching me money considering the situation of our country in terms of availability of jobs.

Then there's is this girl I have been dating for three years and everything has been going well but recently she has been really disturbing me to come and see her people or get her pregnant, am someone that will do everything within my power to make sure my kids don't pass through the hardship I have passed through being someone that wasn't born with a silver spoon, and another thing is that I really love this girl.
Am really confused and don't know what to do.

cassidy1996:
handsome men

where is funmi Adam's? Omolasho .......

fati2001:
love her more.

providencia:
You are even lucky you sent it to their account and not a random person. You just have to be patient to get your money back.

Just to let you know your bride price is +100 k already that's if they will give you wife

grossintel:
Really? What happened to integrity? A good name is better than riches? I understand the temptation was real but I'm highly disappointed. Even if you are going to use money you're not sure of the source, why not make some calls or wait a couple of days!

Lovethaa:
When they make it they come up with different hustling stories so that you can believe they struggle to get to where they are.. you grew up farming with this your fat shape... if u gree up on the farm from the body we will know
Imagine him farming in Ajegunle..abegwhere the farm dey abi where that land for farming dey for AJ??
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We4all:
You can find the most loyal and selfless persons amongst whites. By the way, stop castigating black women. Would you have done the same and stayed by your wife's side if the tables were turned?

benzene00:
Imbécile, always finding a way to degrade African women

U would have received a heavy beating if u were with me now... foolish imbécile

Kaymicheal852:
I'm very confused, please what should I do

I'm.soomeone who have decided that I'll never be a womanizer ,most of guys I grow up with or in my street womanize but I grow up seeing my dad not being able to provide for us and I make a vow that I'll always dedicate all my hard earned money to my wife and kids I have had two failed relationship in the past(they are both a single mother,the first cheated and I realise I can't marry a single mother and I dump the other , though we are friends from primary and secondary school,but lots of things attached to being single mother that I can't handle
So my next relationship is going to be a single girl that have never have child ,I don't judge and I don't really care about any girl past but I don't tolerate cheating,I met this girl on Facebook and she looks familiar,she later told me she knows me and tell me about my mom and brother and sister so that makes us to get along quickly,we are from the same street and I know girls and guys from my street are bad but not all of us though (I'm exposed but decide to be different because I have big dreams )
I have make my first million but I don't show off ,we had sex the second time of my new girl visiting and I always give her what she asked for ,I delay it sometimes and I giver her half sometimes and she knelt down and appreciate me ,she is almost perfect, beautiful,nice shape and curves ,and caring but not that respectful ,she have some ego , though nobody is perfect,I open up to her and she realised I have money and I have some landed properties as well ,I'm opening my new salon and I have promised to help her open here too (she is a hairdresser) I buy her clothes and phones as well and I move to a better expensive apartment because of her ,I also checked her phone and I realise lots of guys wants her (she flirts ) and she have some ex like 6
But after fee months,I started getting low of funds because I have invested more than I have thought and we stays at my place like four days a week but her behaviour start to change as I can't give her so much like before and we quarrel someone's and she became more less respectful and I know she is cheating,I look into her phone and I see conversation with a guy ,like a hook-up and have sex and she collected 3k ,I want to send her out but she begged me ,she is a poor girl,her mom is old her dad is dead,she is the one giving to her mom from what she gets from any money she gets and I stop her working at a bar when we meet ,I put myself in her shoes but she shouldn't still have sex for money since she is in serious relationship with me now and I have given her 50k twice in the past and 2k per week for food ,1k for bike anytime she comes over (3 to four times a week )and I always have foodstuf at home so we share the cooking between us and she always wash my clothes and plates ,I love her and I forgive her but recently I realise the same guy send money to her 4k after she nags on that guy ,I think the guy don't want to pay after the sex and you can only talk to someone like that after he refuses to pay you after your hard labour , although she promise she won't cheat again but I think she is still doing it ,she have a housewife vibes and she won't let me go anytime I tried to dump her but she is not loyal and she acts like a good digger ,I try to eliminate the fact that she cheats and I still her help I recently give her 50k to rent shop and I want to sell a plot of land and give her 100k out of the money so she can have a shop and start making money but I can't ignore the fact that she will always cheats for money anytime I'm low on funds even if we get married,I always pity her and I'm eager to help her although she doesn't ever denied me of having sex with her but she always tell me we are not married and use still have freedom to do as she pleases and she doesn't feel really guilty about the fact she cheats for money (like a olosho) i do have the gut to dump her but I don't want to overlook the many good qualities she posses but for money she can be very desperate

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Switchman:
Please I Need Your Candid And Long Term Advise, I Am Presently Depressed And Out

This will be a lengthy one but I promise to summarize it as much as I can.

I met a lady in her late 30s 18months ago through an online friend. I was working in Lagos while she was based and working in Abuja.

We chatted for a while before she volunteered to come to Lagos for a visit over the weekend which doesn't seem a bad idea to me cos I believed seeing in person is better than 1 million pictures.

Due to her age and desperation, we met and she liked what she saw in me and intensive talks began on how I can relocate to Abuja and get better job. I actually haven't been to Abuja so I was excited to take that move with the hope of becoming a better person and getting a better job.

I resigned from my job due to some issues as at that time which could had been managed but so I can have more time to visit and see how things are in Abuja before making my final preparation to relocate. She supports financially during those time while I use my car for ehailing business pending when I will finally relocate.

Covid 19 lock down came and all plans were halted due to restrictions on vehicular movements. Fast forward to November last year I made final plans and I agreed to finally relocate but on the conditions that we will need to get a new apartment cos I don't want to move in with her to her former apartment which was a one room self contain, we got a 1 bedroom apartment and I moved in with her. She owns 90% stake on the expenses incurred but in the spirit of hope for a better job, I will upgrade the apartment to have an equal stake in the home.

It's been 3 months now I have fully relocated and we have been cohabiting but it's been hell for me and I just need help on how to get out of this mess I put myself. No job was forth coming and due to the fact that I am home always, I have been reduced to a house help cos I am the one doing the chores, cleaning the dishes and even my laundry though she pays for her own, so many other insults and atimes it's with exchanges of words before I can take a walk just to acclimatize myself with the terrains of the area.

It's really a bad experience for a man not to have a steady source of income cos in a twinkle of an eye the love will vanish.

I love the lifestyle of Abuja cos it is less stressful than Lagos and I will really like to get a good source of income so I can get my own apartment and be free from the shackles I put myself in the name of love.

I really need help now cos I know my days are numbered and it's a matter of time before she sends me packing cos I really don't have the right to the apartment. Please house, I need your candid advise on what to do and as always constructive criticism is allowed.

Thanks
Switchman

Thurmieee:
It's so sad that the OP has been bullied into submission.

OlayemiAshraf:
Hmmmm..... What a perfect mother

mutantninja:
I advise everyone reading this thread to try to get a gun for your own protection... the feeling is priceless and you feel like after God you have powers to defend yourself... I was walking on an empty road with my gf to cross to a nearby ATM while our car was parked across early this January and some guys came, 4 of them ... haggard looking and stinking of weed smell.. saying: “oga find your guys something or e go bad this night for you and your fine babe”.. my girl was not scared one bit she was just looking at me smiling and waiting for my reaction... I was busy withdrawing from the ATM after I finished i turned back and noticed they surrounded our passage... I just pulled out my English pistol from my holster (image is attached below if you don’t know what’s it is) and I talked very calmly: “who wan test my bullet first?” Immediately they all took to their heels... young boys aged of 19-25 ... the oldest one of them was walk-in backwards saying, “boss calm down no be so... boss ... boss and walked the other way”.... my gf was just laughing and screaming at them “make una come na” .. i inserted my gun back to my holster and drove off.... of course I had a wonderful night with my gf later at home that night...

onthehill:
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https://twitter.com/enugudisco/status/1371844868792856584?s=20[/quote]This guy arm don go so..
The company he worked for will now abandon him or give him so called small change..
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