yemmit90: At 40, you must be more concern about humanity than being selfish and constituting nuisance in the society.
Anything aside that is a mere waste of energy because life has no manual or special procedure. As long as you are happy with your life, you have nothing to worry about.
Highly unmotivated and that is why u have nothing to contribute but quarrel which is also a product of where u reside.
Poor soul,everything shouldn't be fight.
Sorry,if I have just intimidated u.
You have just done the same thing you were trying to correct. May God help us all to see, not just the fault of others, but also OUR OWN FAULT. Thanks and God bless you. I love you.👍
9jahotblog: Indefatigable Senator Dino Melaye and Honourable Habibat was heavily received by the good people of Kaba LG in Kogi West Senatorial district. Check the pictures here. Senator Dino Melaye everywhere you go in Kogi State. November 11th governorship poll must Obey.
Tell Dino to network with other tribes in Kogi, as Kabba people only may not take him to the promise land.
It makes a lot of sense. We should go any legit length to overcome this period. This TOO shall pass. Don't give up. You don't know what will happen tomorrow. Hang in there! I see you give testimonies soon.
sukkot: So this is a very strange story which I think about till this day.
It was October 1st 2019 and I am coming to Nigeria with Lufthansa from Manchester and the stopover is Frankfurt. And so we get to Frankfurt and we had to ride this trolley tram bus thingy to our terminal.
That’s where I saw this character. He was sat in front of me clutching a small handbag. That’s all he had On him. His eyes looked cold and dead like someone who has seen everything there is to see in life and he had checked out of humanity. He had like a long Islam goatee. Young guy, maybe early thirties. He sat there and clutched his bag and stared with that dead empty look. He wasn’t being deported. He was on a voluntary journey of his own. I watched him for a little while but then we got to the terminal and alighted and I never saw him again.
I took the flight to naija. Got the cab at the airport and started the journey to the Airbnb I had booked in magodo. It was an evening and up in the sky were stork birds and eagles and the atmosphere was dusty looking as the sun was setting. So as I was in the car on the express about 3 miles away from the airport I saw someone climbing the dividers of the express way and trying to cross over to the other side to the bus stop to catch a bus , I adjusted my eyes very well and guess who it was? It was the strange guy who sat in front of me on the tram-bus in Frankfurt. He had absolutely no luggage with him. He had just the same small bag I saw him with and he was in the same clothes
Till today I always wonder what that guys story is . Did he actually walk out voluntarily on his own out of Frankfurt with a tiny bag and walk into the streets of ojota with nothing but the same bag and dangerously crossing the expressway ? Was he remote controlled into Nigeria ? It’s a very strange episode. I think of that guy to this day
You could have asked him what the matter was with him. A simple "Are you alright?" might have saved you all these nagging memories. Sometimes, a question, a smile, an hello, a greeting, a concern, a humanity is what we owe one another. Remember, the whole of the human race is flawed.
[quote author=sukkot post=124776232]So this is a very strange story which I think about till this day.
It was October 1st 2019 and I am coming to Nigeria with Lufthansa from Manchester and the stopover is Frankfurt. And so we get to Frankfurt and we had to ride this trolley tram bus thingy to our terminal.
That’s where I saw this character. He was sat in front of me clutching a small handbag. That’s all he had On him. His eyes looked cold and dead like someone who has seen everything there is to see in life and he had checked out of humanity. He had like a long Islam goatee. Young guy, maybe early thirties. He sat there and clutched his bag and stared with that dead empty look. He wasn’t being deported. He was on a voluntary journey of his own. I watched him for a little while but then we got to the terminal and alighted and I never saw him again.
I took the flight to naija. Got the cab at the airport and started the journey to the Airbnb I had booked in magodo. It was an evening and up in the sky were stork birds and eagles and the atmosphere was dusty looking as the sun was setting. So as I was in the car on the express about 3 miles away from the airport I saw someone climbing the dividers of the express way and trying to cross over to the other side to the bus stop to catch a bus , I adjusted my eyes very well and guess who it was? It was the strange guy who sat in front of me on the tram-bus in Frankfurt. He had absolutely no luggage with him. He had just the same small bag I saw him with and he was in the same clothes
Till today I always wonder what that guys story is . Did he actually walk out voluntarily on his own out of Frankfurt with a tiny bag and walk into the streets of ojota with nothing but the same bag and dangerously crossing the expressway ? Was he remote controlled into Nigeria ? It’s a very strange episode. I think of that guy to this day [
You could have asked him what the matter was with him. A simple "Are you alright?" might have saved you all these nagging memories. Sometimes, a question, a smile, an hello, a greeting, a concern, a humanity is what we owe one another. Remember, the whole of the human race is flawed.
famousguy01: Don’t sleep bro just convert your interest or hobby into your calling, God don give you everything wey you need to make am work. If you no get any interest, look for something valuable and develop interest in it. The mind is a powerful tool use it and avoid distractions from social media
Vilgax: In recent years, the world has witnessed an unprecedented surge in technology, with innovative startups and tech giants captivating global markets and imaginations. This tech frenzy has sparked hope for many developing economies, like Nigeria, seeking solutions to their unemployment woes. However, beneath the façade of success, it becomes clear that the entire tech boom is more of a bubble than a long-term solution to unemployment in these areas.
Without question, technology has revolutionized sectors and created various job opportunities around the world. Yet, the notion that technology alone can sustainably solve unemployment in developing economies like Nigeria is fundamentally flawed. Several things contribute to this challenging situation
Limited Inclusivity The tech industry, particularly in Nigeria, favours a chosen few with specialized skills, leaving the majority of the workforce out. The demand for a highly educated and competent workforce creates a huge hurdle for people who lack access to decent education, aggravating inequality and unemployment rates.
Automation Threat Rapid advances in artificial intelligence and automation technology may streamline business operations while also displacing traditional jobs. In nations like Nigeria, where many people rely on labour-intensive jobs, the automation wave could result in massive job losses due to a lack of alternative employment opportunities.
Infrastructure Gaps While technology has enormous potential, it is primarily reliant on sturdy infrastructure and a consistent power supply, both of which are frequently missing in many emerging economies. Nigeria's IT sector confronts problems such as inconsistent internet connectivity, frequent power outages, and inadequate digital infrastructure, limiting its ability to have a long-term influence on unemployment.
Vulnerability to Market Fluctuations The tech industry is no stranger to market fluctuations, and developing economies like Nigeria may find themselves exposed to the volatility of the global tech market. Dependence on this industry as a primary solution to unemployment leaves these countries prone to economic shocks when the tech bubble inevitably bursts.
As a response to these factors, developing economies must adopt a more comprehensive and diverse approach to address unemployment sustainably. This includes investing in education and vocational training to equip the workforce with a broader set of skills and ensuring that these skills are relevant to the local job market. Additionally, governmental policies that nurture traditional industries and encourage entrepreneurship in non-tech sectors can provide much-needed stability and opportunities for job creation.
In conclusion, while the tech craze has indeed shown its potential to generate employment opportunities, it cannot be the sole solution to the deep-rooted unemployment challenges faced by developing economies like Nigeria. A more nuanced and multi-faceted approach is imperative to build a resilient and diverse economy, ensuring that the benefits of technological advancements are accessible to all and not just a select few. Only then can these nations safeguard themselves against the bursting bubble of the tech craze and build a more sustainable future for their citizens.
But let me know what you think, am I being pessimistic towards the possibilities of tech? Or do you have reasons to believe the tech industry can usher Nigeria into a new chapter of economic prosperity? Kindly drop your opinion in the thread below.
On point. Agriculture should be looked into. It's one of the never-failing sure-bets out of poverty.
beautifulsoul12: Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this. I can't even sleep at night lately.
I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help. Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.
Have you found out if it's not depression? It could be occasional relapse owing to not identifying and avoiding triggers of depression. Let him observe intermittent fasting everyday, starting with 14-hour window fasting and 10-hour eating window. He could increase the fasting window as he gets used to fasting. It could literally change his brain chemistry and attendant problems. He add meditation, exercise, deep breathing etc
I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first. We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later. Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married. after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him. Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs. Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again. The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent. I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.
I'm trying hard but it's not enough. I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man. Pls, help us renew our house rent.
TheUnsure: I need sensible contributions please, no trolls.
I met a man recently who likes me a lot, maybe even love sef. He’s really serious and he wants to marry me but I’m not really feeling the whole thing for a few reasons.
He’s probably a dream come true for some women, rich, caring, generous and there is a possibility of him becoming a king in some years (which I'm not really a fan of, royal families, royal issues). But my issue is that he has a wife already but they don’t have kids (the issue is from the wife) and he wants to marry me as second wife because he does not want to continue waiting after 10 years of marriage. And I know he would give me the world if I have kids with him.
My main problem is attraction, it is not there. He has a small stature and I’m naturally drawn to tall guys. I’m taller than he is and I just can’t get over that. I know I would enjoy the relationship but I feel like I’m always going to be feeling like I settled. Please note, I’m a single mother of 2 in my early 30s and I’m not doing bad financially too. He’s been begging to be intimate and I’ve been responding with a firm No. I’m not interested in starting what I cannot finish. I know if I give in, I would grow to love him because he's actually a nice person but....
I told him No firmly last night that it can't work between us but this man has been relentless, I’m just wondering if I'm not making a mistake...
No insults please, sensible inputs. Thanks
Don't kill your fellow woman's joy. Would you be happy if you were the one in that woman's shoes. Have emphathy. Teach the man empathy too. Wait to get a single man. God will give you, if you believe.
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oxygeng: In as much as I love and appreciate cheerful givers, I am saying to any individuals, countries, organisations and every other donor entities to stop giving or rendering any form of donations to Africa; Especially food donations. This Idea of Africa retaining and maintaininthe begging status should be stopped immediately. These helps in food donations are not helpful to Africa in anyway, they are not different from Tinubu pretending to transfer 8k to vulnerable households. Africans are not handicapped, by whatever means, being it climatic or unrest caused by wars. People who are wise enough to know when they are hungry, and when to eat should be wise enough to provide for themselves what to eat. People who are wise enough to know they need medicines when sick should be wise enough to produce such, it cuts across other areas like military hardware, technology and the rest. The Europeans producing those Items don't have two heads each, rather they embrace themselves and take on every challenges together. Whatever it takes, Africans must hold whoever that chose to lead them to accountable with firm grips. Enough of worshipping Idiots. These donations will keep dwarfing the continent perpetually. Elective seats should be made hot as possible, the biggest hurdle shouldn't be just to grabbed the seats through shambolic process called ELECTIONS but the time spent on the seats, anyone short of expectations must be meant with stiff reprimand including capital punishment. Even the Abokis were able to recognise the danger of being a beggar, that was why they abolished the Almajiri system.
That's the question a young man asked many years ago.
The young man in question is the world renowned preacher, Oral Roberts.
He once asked in a prayer to God, "how do I know Jesus?"
God's answer to him was, "read Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, and The Book of Acts, three times in thirty days!"
"He did it on his knees. At the end of the thirty days, he testified that he now knew Jesus "better than he knew any man on the Face of The Earth!" - Kenneth Copeland.
Interestingly that was God's Own response to that question, but how many Christians would have given a similar response to that question when asked by those who sincerely want to know Jesus today?
Not many obviously but I'm glad to be one of the few ones that would.
God bless.
Hope you are not saying that to praise yourself! And don't condemn those who wouldn't.
bablon20: When some men of God predicted that Tinubu won't win d election which he eventually won through trickery, we all shaded and insulted the men of God forgetting that the corruption in Nigeria of today can upturn God's mandate to benefit their selfish ambition. What we r facing now is testimonial to the fact that Tinubu was never God's choice for Nigeria. May God have mercy on us who never believed in Nigeria politicians.
If the declaration of Tinubu is not of God, it can't stand.
LithiumSupplier: 1. I work in a project development company.
2. I am at the assistant manager level.
3. I do most of the work; from designing and maintaining company's websites, to clerical works such document preparation, oversee environmental consulting jobs, to troubleshooting company's systems and many more.
4. The problem is that the company does not appreciate all my efforts. They push every blame on me.
The owner and his son are just so inconsiderate. For example, I was working on a project that required attachment of some sensitive documents.
Once it was time, I requested for the documents from the owner, instead he provided me with different documents entirely. Many times, he will shout at me for asking questions. So I assumed that he didn't want the documents out in the public.
While reviewing my work, the owner was okay with the attached documents until he decided to make presentation with the work to prospects.
As soon as the prospects registered dissatisfaction with the out of place documents (So to say), he called and started blasting me on the phone, calling me stup!d and stuff. He would always let me take the fall for his own mistakes all the time.
His son on the other hand is just too empty and overbearing. His father would always ask him to supervise any project I'm working on. He would okay many things and I can't say otherwise.
When we present the project to his father and the father decides to query any part of the things which he okayed earlier, he will push all the blames on me and the father will call to nag and lambast me for things I know nothing about.
This has been going on for like 3 years now.
My regret was that I turned down an offer from a small oil company in Lagos last year and early this year too.
My current pay is 300,000 NGN without accommodation, while the Lagos' was 350,000 NGN with accommodation.
I'm currently in Abuja. I was scared of the traffic in Lagos.
I really don't know what to do anymore...
This issue is affecting my mental health.
This guy talks down on me anyhow without respect.
This is a guy that can't properly put together a common letter.
As plan B, I have set up two blogs and Google just approved Adsense application on one, while I'm working on the other one. I have also set up Facebook pages and have grown to over 232,000 active followers.
I am also an environmental consultant with over 15 years experience, I also major in GIS and I design websites too.
I am married with 2 kids. What should I do?
Please, lay these same complaints to them, but in an edited non-judgemental way. Try to appeal to their conscience, reason and emotions, saying how their actions are affecting you.
Also, check yourself if you had in anyway behaved in ways that caused this treatment.
But, first pray about it. Please, examine yourself and ensure you are not projecting yourself in a way that warrants this treatment. I hope this helps.
Do you guys hate your house that much? After paying hundred of thousands to a million naira on rental, why allow public sentiments mess with your psyche so much that you begin to run away from the house you paid for like say dem dey pursue you?
Your house ought to be that place you always want to be. If there's room to WFH, why not? That's an opportunity to make some money and bond with your children. It's also an opportunity to enjoy the comfort you paid for. You're paying electricity bill, Netflix/Amazon prime/dstv, WiFi, etc. every damn month, but in order to prove your manliness, you would rather hang out from 6am to 10pm daily even on weekends. There is no better definition for mental illness.
Skyview01: I have seen situations where the wife is very wealthy and there are kids in the family. My question is, can you as a man, leave your job to become a full time house-husband, taking care of the kids and the home while your wife works at her very lucrative job?
Yes, if I make my money from home. Or if for any reason, I'm incapable of being the the breadwinner anymore. But it can only happen IN A REAL CHRISTIAN HOME.
His wife got a job in the UK which pays her about £30,000/ annum. Husband will be going with the wife along with thier 3months old baby as a dependent. How do you think this man can cope nursing thier baby for God knows how long before he gets something doing. On a second thought he will rather lgo while he stays back with the baby in Nigeria managing his business. He's not doing do bad in Nigeria.
My people what's the best option he should take that would favour him and his family?.
Money vs human life. Please, let the mother forgo money and take care of the baby.
Zigzagman: With the ongoing subsidy removal, most families are having to find ways to make ends meet.
In this viral video, the speakers analyze how an increase in the woman's earnings places extra stress on the men. The boss babe disagreed and got destroyed with hard facts. DO you agree? What has been your experience? Are you placed under stress if your wife out-earns you? Does your husband feel stressed because you out-earn him? How do you manage the stresses that money imbalance brings?
Please watch the video and let us know your thoughts.
Wife and husband didn't have a godly foundation, if not, that shouldn't be a problem. My wife has been earning more than me for a long time now, without issue in the family. People should have a godly foundation before going into marriage.
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